He sees you in an erratic manner

At first he wants to see you almost every day and suddenly he gives you less news, and wants to see you less, giving you the excuse that he’s very busy.

This is usually THE sign that he is not attached, because physiologically a man is dependent of a woman and the more attached he gets, the more he’ll need your presence.

He plans your meet-ups at the last minute

He says he’s spontaneous, doesn’t like to plan anything in advance and calls you at 7 or 10 p.m. to see you.

If this is the case, it often means that you’re a fallback when all other options haven’t worked out (his friends, his sport, his hobbies or meet-ups with other girls) or simply that he’s bored.

He doesn’t introduce you to his friends

Between you all is going well, but you don’t know his circle of friends. He finds many valid excuses: they have children, I’d rather see you alone, they are busy, you’ll get bored with them….

He wants to stay home as much as possible

Every time you propose an outing, he’d rather stay home with you and that you’re better off as lovers. A man may be more or less homely, but he must also be willing to go out “in public” with you.

He will leave if he doesn’t get what he wants from you.

If one night you don’t feel like having sex or you feel like doing something he doesn’t particularly like, he gets angry or finally decides to go home early.

He doesn’t adapt to your needs or desires.

You feel you are not listened to much in your desires and most of the time you end up doing what he wants or just stay home.

You can turn things around by learning how a man falls in love. In my seduction guide I talk about the differences in the way of men and women get attached.