{"id":9415,"date":"2020-06-15T21:08:14","date_gmt":"2020-06-15T21:08:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/?p=9415"},"modified":"2025-10-15T06:02:02","modified_gmt":"2025-10-15T06:02:02","slug":"debut-relation-amoureuse-difficile","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/debut-relation-amoureuse-difficile\/","title":{"rendered":"Quand les d\u00e9buts sont compliqu\u00e9s avec un homme faut-il insister?"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"9415\" class=\"elementor elementor-9415\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-525528d6 elementor-section-content-top elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-min-height elementor-section-items-bottom elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"525528d6\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-3dd73755\" data-id=\"3dd73755\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2cf677de elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"2cf677de\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-xl\">Quand les d\u00e9buts sont compliqu\u00e9s avec un homme faut-il insister?<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-35bdebd7 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"35bdebd7\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-29baab3d\" data-id=\"29baab3d\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-35eb504d elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"35eb504d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div><style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;\nfont-size: 34px;}\n    h3 {color: #7A7A7A;\nfont-size: 34px;}\n  <\/style><\/div>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>Tu as rencontr\u00e9 quelqu&rsquo;un depuis peu et tout n&rsquo;est pas rose: malentendus, disputes, incompr\u00e9hensions.<\/p>\n<p>Bref, le d\u00e9but de ta relation amoureuse est difficile et tu te demandes peut-\u00eatre si cela vaut la peine d&rsquo;insister?<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Debuts_compliques_avec_un_homme_faut-il_insister\"><\/span>D\u00e9buts compliqu\u00e9s avec un homme, faut-il insister ?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Tu voudrais savoir comment bien g\u00e9rer les principaux obstacles d\u2019un d\u00e9but d\u2019histoire d\u2019amour et \u00e9viter de laisser tomber trop t\u00f4t.<\/p>\n<p>Alors cet article est pour toi.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5313633 elementor-widget elementor-widget-video\" data-id=\"5313633\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;youtube_url&quot;:&quot;https:\\\/\\\/youtu.be\\\/VGHJybxCpyI&quot;,&quot;video_type&quot;:&quot;youtube&quot;,&quot;controls&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"video.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-wrapper elementor-open-inline\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-video\"><\/div>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e89ece9 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"e89ece9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div><style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;\nfont-size: 34px;}\n    h3 {color: #7A7A7A;\nfont-size: 34px;}\n  <\/style><\/div>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Fais_la_part_entre_ton_passe_et_ce_qui_ne_marche_pas_vraiment_dans_cette_relation\"><\/span>Fais la part entre ton pass\u00e9 et ce qui ne marche pas vraiment dans cette relation<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>La premi\u00e8re \u00e9tape consiste \u00e0 lister tout ce qui est difficile dans cette relation: la communication, l&rsquo;\u00e9coute de tes besoins, l&rsquo;engagement r\u00e9ciproque, les sujets de malentendus, de disputes et d\u2019incompr\u00e9hension\u2026<\/p>\n<p>Et pour chaque chose qui est difficile de te poser la question si tu as d\u00e9j\u00e0 eu ce probl\u00e8me dans ton pass\u00e9 ou pas.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-58a7eca0 elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"58a7eca0\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-no\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-4550ab99\" data-id=\"4550ab99\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-64212316 elementor-section-content-bottom elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"64212316\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-5094e454\" data-id=\"5094e454\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ce493d2 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"ce493d2\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-145b9cac elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"145b9cac\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-2a1d2c67\" data-id=\"2a1d2c67\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-71424d9a elementor-invisible elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"71424d9a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;_animation&quot;:&quot;fadeInLeft&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\">Pour toi<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-34dd7099 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"34dd7099\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"LE_WEBINAIRE_gratuit\"><\/span><span>LE W\u00c9BINAIRE gratuit<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-63c8676 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"63c8676\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"%22Comment_se_liberer_des_schemas_qui_nous_empechent_detre_heureuses_en_amour_%22\"><\/span><span><strong><em>\"Comment se lib\u00e9rer des sch\u00e9mas qui nous emp\u00eachent d'\u00eatre heureuses en amour ?\"<\/em><\/strong><span> <\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-63a99c26 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"63a99c26\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"color: #000000; font-size: 18px; letter-spacing: 1.1px;\">Enregistre-toi d\u00e8s maintenant \u00e0 ma newsletter et re\u00e7ois le replay du w\u00e9binaire.<span lang=\"FR-CH\">\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-1ec37cb9\" data-id=\"1ec37cb9\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-6ab3fe90 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"6ab3fe90\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-4e963285\" data-id=\"4e963285\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7824ee55 elementor-widget elementor-widget-shortcode\" data-id=\"7824ee55\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"shortcode.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-shortcode\"><script src=https:\/\/sandy-kaufmann.mykajabi.com\/forms\/2149274795\/embed.js><\/script><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1f1815e1 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"1f1815e1\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>* Champs obligatoires<\/p><p>Si tu t&rsquo;abonnes \u00e0 ma newsletter, tu recevras \u00e9galement des offres. Tu peux te d\u00e9sabonner \u00e0 tout moment. Merci de lire ma <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/politique-de-confidentialite\/\"> Politique de confidentialit\u00e9 <\/a> pour voir comment je traite les donn\u00e9es.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-408522b2 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"408522b2\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-1aa2f525\" data-id=\"1aa2f525\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a4a2873 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"a4a2873\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Si les \u00e9l\u00e9ments de d\u00e9saccord sont des sch\u00e9mas du pass\u00e9 que tu r\u00e9p\u00e8tes, il est n\u00e9cessaire de gu\u00e9rir des blessures de ton pass\u00e9 qui peuvent saboter ta relation amoureuse actuelle.<\/p>\n<p>Si tu veux savoir comment ton pass\u00e9 influence tes amours, mon w\u00e9binaire gratuit peut t&rsquo;aider.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-ce0cca0 elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"ce0cca0\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-no\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-6f33720\" data-id=\"6f33720\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-c2c6a2c elementor-section-content-bottom elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"c2c6a2c\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-5d20d7e\" data-id=\"5d20d7e\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-11354b1 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"11354b1\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-c8c58f0 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"c8c58f0\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-98602a8\" data-id=\"98602a8\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1f74409 elementor-invisible elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"1f74409\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;_animation&quot;:&quot;fadeInLeft&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\">Pour toi<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f17c0ae elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"f17c0ae\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"LE_WEBINAIRE_comment_se_cree-t-on_une_blessure_du_passe\"><\/span><span>LE W\u00c9BINAIRE comment se cr\u00e9e-t-on une blessure du pass\u00e9? <\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8d20c0c elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"8d20c0c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"color: #000000; font-size: 18px; letter-spacing: 1.1px;\">Enregistre-toi d\u00e8s maintenant \u00e0 ma newsletter et re\u00e7ois le replay du w\u00e9binaire <span lang=\"FR-CH\">comment se cr\u00e9e-t-on une blessure du pass\u00e9\u00a0?\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-edefbb2\" data-id=\"edefbb2\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-663f377a elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"663f377a\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column 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t&rsquo;abonnes \u00e0 ma newsletter, tu recevras \u00e9galement des offres. Tu peux te d\u00e9sabonner \u00e0 tout moment. Merci de lire ma <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/politique-de-confidentialite\/\"> Politique de confidentialit\u00e9 <\/a> pour voir comment je traite les donn\u00e9es.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-59c6b1a1 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"59c6b1a1\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-7a3ae49\" data-id=\"7a3ae49\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-220e8b90 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"220e8b90\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div><style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;<br \/>\nfont-size: 34px;}<br \/>\n    h3 {color: #7A7A7A;<br \/>\nfont-size: 34px;}<br \/>\n  <\/style><\/div><p>Si le sch\u00e9ma que tu r\u00e9p\u00e8tes n&rsquo;est pas nuisible \u00e0 ton bien-\u00eatre personnel (par exemple tu voudrais qu&rsquo;il s&rsquo;engage plus ou tu es jalouse dans certaines situations, mais tu n&rsquo;es pas en relation avec un pervers narcissique), cela peut valoir la peine d&rsquo;insister dans la relation pour que tu apprennes \u00e0 agir diff\u00e9remment de ce que te dicte ton pass\u00e9.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Evalue_ce_qui_nest_pas_du_a_ton_passe\"><\/span>\u00c9value ce qui n&rsquo;est pas d\u00fb \u00e0 ton pass\u00e9<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><p>Jusqu&rsquo;\u00e0 ce que le couple d\u00e9cide d&rsquo;habiter ensemble, chaque partenaire se trouve dans une phase de choix o\u00f9 il doit d\u00e9cider si le timing pour cette relation est bon, s&rsquo;il a envie de s&rsquo;engager dans une relation et si la personne lui convient.<\/p><p>Il y a souvent des tensions, des d\u00e9saccords ou des incompr\u00e9hensions quand les partenaires n&rsquo;ont pas fait les m\u00eames choix.<\/p><p>Dans ce cas il convient de te poser la question si tu as un souci sur le comportement de la personne, sur sa mani\u00e8re d&rsquo;interagir avec toi et si ce comportement est changeable ou bien si cela concerne des aspects inchangeables de son caract\u00e8re, de ton caract\u00e8re ou de vos choix, comme par exemple:<\/p><ul><li>Il ne veut pas de relation \u00e0 long terme et toi si<\/li><li>Tu aimes \u00eatre tranquille, il est super actif<\/li><li>Il n&rsquo;aime pas voir ses amis et toi si<\/li><\/ul><p>Il est illusoire de penser que l&rsquo;autre va changer son caract\u00e8re, ses envies ou son timing juste pour toi. Donc si votre zone de d\u00e9saccord repose sur des diff\u00e9rences fondamentales de choix, de timing ou de caract\u00e8res, cela ne vaut pas la peine d&rsquo;insister.<\/p><p>L\u2019erreur qui est souvent commise est de se mettre en couple sans avoir d\u00e9fini clairement ce que tu veux AVANT m\u00eame de rencontrer cette personne.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p><p>Car ainsi tu choisiras plus en conscience ton partenaire, au lieu de seulement \u00e9couter tes papillons dans le ventre. Et d\u00e9finir ce que tu veux en amour c&rsquo;est bien plus que simplement d\u00e9finir ce que tu ne veux pas. Cela demande d&rsquo;\u00eatre pr\u00e9cis et c&rsquo;est d&rsquo;ailleurs un module entier dans mon programme S&rsquo;ouvrir \u00e0 l&rsquo;amour.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-aef4469 elementor-align-center elementor-mobile-align-center elementor-widget elementor-widget-button\" data-id=\"aef4469\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"button.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-button-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-button elementor-button-link elementor-size-md\" href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/souvriralamour\/\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-content-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-text\">s'ouvrir \u00e0 l'amour<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b346968 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"b346968\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div><style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;<br \/>font-size: 34px;}<br \/>    h3 {color: #7A7A7A;<br \/>font-size: 34px;}<br \/>  <\/style><\/div><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Et_si_cest_juste_un_probleme_dinteraction\"><\/span>Et si c&rsquo;est juste un probl\u00e8me d&rsquo;interaction\u00a0<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><p>Ton partenaire devrait aussi faire la m\u00eame \u00e9valuation que tu viens de faire pour r\u00e9aliser s&rsquo;il a, lui aussi, des sch\u00e9mas amoureux de son pass\u00e9 qui refont surface dans votre relation actuelle.<\/p><p>Une fois que chaque partenaire a isol\u00e9 ce qui venait de son pass\u00e9, il s&rsquo;agit de retrouver un dialogue qui permet de mettre \u00e0 plat la vision de chacun et de trouver une solution.<\/p><p>\u00a0\u00c0 cet effet, tu peux essayer par exemple le principe de la m\u00e9thode <a href=\"https:\/\/www.imago-suisse.ch\/fr\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">imago<\/a> qui conseille de donner un temps de parole \u00e9gal \u00e0 chacun des partenaires sans que l&rsquo;autre l&rsquo;interrompt.\u00a0<\/p><p>Dans mon programme <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/souvriralamour\/\">S\u2019ouvrir \u00e0 l\u2019Amour<\/a>, tu apprends les outils de communication qui vont t&rsquo;aider \u00e0 <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/le-secret-des-couples-qui-durent\/\">surmonter les crises<\/a>, exprimer tes limites \u00a0sans lui mettre la pression ou le <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/comment-arreter-de-castrer-un-homme\/\">castrer<\/a> et comprendre les diff\u00e9rences physiologiques entre les hommes et les femmes qui font que tu ne peux pas communiquer \u00e0 un homme comme \u00e0 une 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data-widget_type=\"button.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-button-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-button elementor-button-link elementor-size-md\" href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/souvriralamour\/\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-content-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-text\">S'ouvrir \u00e0 l'amour<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-36979aa8 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"36979aa8\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div 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