{"id":9407,"date":"2024-12-09T12:00:53","date_gmt":"2024-12-09T12:00:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/?p=9407"},"modified":"2025-10-14T12:39:08","modified_gmt":"2025-10-14T12:39:08","slug":"144-le-celibat-nest-pas-un-etat-de-manque","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/144-le-celibat-nest-pas-un-etat-de-manque\/","title":{"rendered":"144. Le c\u00e9libat n&rsquo;est pas un \u00e9tat de manque"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"9407\" class=\"elementor elementor-9407\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-525528d6 elementor-section-content-top elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-min-height elementor-section-items-bottom elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"525528d6\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-3dd73755\" data-id=\"3dd73755\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2cf677de elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"2cf677de\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-xl\">Le c\u00e9libat n'est pas un \u00e9tat de manque<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-35bdebd7 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"35bdebd7\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-29baab3d\" data-id=\"29baab3d\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-094106a elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"094106a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div><style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;<br \/>font-size: 34px;}<br \/>    h3 {color: #7A7A7A;<br \/>font-size: 34px;}<br \/>  <\/style><\/div><p>Tu as l&rsquo;impression que <b>la soci\u00e9t\u00e9 classifie le c\u00e9libat comme un \u00e9tat temporaire\u00a0 \u00ab\u00a0incomplet\u00a0\u00bb<\/b> en attendant de te mettre en couple et cela te p\u00e8se.<\/p><p><span style=\"font-size: 30px;\">Ou bien <b>tu souffres d&rsquo;\u00eatre c\u00e9libataire<\/b> et tu <b>aimerais mieux vivre ton c\u00e9libat<\/b>.<\/span><\/p><p>Ou enfin tu aimes ton c\u00e9libat et en m\u00eame temps \u00eatre en relation te manque.<\/p><p>Cet \u00e9pisode a pu but de <b>d\u00e9cortiquer cette sensation de manque que tu peux ressentir dans ton c\u00e9libat<\/b> et comment tu peux mieux le vivre.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3c77aeb elementor-hidden-desktop elementor-hidden-tablet elementor-hidden-mobile elementor-widget elementor-widget-shortcode\" data-id=\"3c77aeb\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"shortcode.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-shortcode\"><iframe name=\"Ausha Podcast Player\" frameborder=\"0\" loading=\"lazy\" id=\"ausha-frDl\" height=\"220\" style=\"border: none; width:100%; height:220px\" src=\"https:\/\/player.ausha.co\/?showId=bjPkYiPMPlqo&color=%23d13523&podcastId=y84lzhGrY7Zm&v=3&playerId=ausha-frDl\"><\/iframe><script src=\"https:\/\/player.ausha.co\/ausha-player.js\"><\/script>\n<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-632a95c elementor-widget elementor-widget-video\" data-id=\"632a95c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;youtube_url&quot;:&quot;https:\\\/\\\/youtu.be\\\/66WsMJj30B0&quot;,&quot;video_type&quot;:&quot;youtube&quot;,&quot;controls&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"video.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-wrapper elementor-open-inline\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-video\"><\/div>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-35eb504d elementor-widget__width-initial elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"35eb504d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Libere-toi_de_linjonction_detre_en_couple\"><\/span>Lib\u00e8re-toi de l&rsquo;injonction d&rsquo;\u00eatre en couple<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><p style=\"font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-family: 'Noto Sans', Arial; font-size: 30px; font-style: normal; color: #7a7a7a;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">La premi\u00e8re source du manque que tu peux ressentir peut venir de <\/span><b>l&rsquo;influence soci\u00e9tale qui ne met pas encore sur un pied d&rsquo;\u00e9galit\u00e9 le couple et le c\u00e9libat.<\/b>\u00a0 C&rsquo;est comme si le fait d&rsquo;\u00eatre c\u00e9libataire n&rsquo;\u00e9tait pas un \u00e9tat choisi mais un \u00e9tat subi et temporaire en attendant de te mettre en couple.<\/p><p style=\"font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-family: 'Noto Sans', Arial; font-size: 30px; font-style: normal; color: #7a7a7a;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'Noto Sans', Arial; font-size: 30px; font-style: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal;\"><b>Si tu es c\u00e9libataire et que tu souhaites \u00eatre en relation, il y a en plus toute une s\u00e9rie d&rsquo;injonctions qui te font sentir que le probl\u00e8me vient de toi <\/b><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-family: 'Noto Sans', Arial; font-size: 30px; font-style: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal;\">car tu es trop exigeante, trop compliqu\u00e9e, trop ceci trop cela&#8230;. J&rsquo;en parle plus en d\u00e9tail <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/43-la-celibataire-la-vraie-les-injonctions-faites-aux-celibataires\/\">avec la c\u00e9libataire la vraie dans l&rsquo;\u00e9pisode 43<\/a>. Ici rappelle-toi que ta remise en question ne concerne que du 50% que tu apportes dans une relation et que l&rsquo;autre est toujours co-responsable du succ\u00e8s ou de l&rsquo;\u00e9chec d&rsquo;une relation.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p style=\"font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-family: 'Noto Sans', Arial; font-size: 30px; font-style: normal; color: #7a7a7a;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-family: 'Noto Sans', Arial; font-size: 30px; font-style: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal;\">Et enfin il y a la <\/span><span style=\"font-family: 'Noto Sans', Arial; font-size: 30px; font-style: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal;\"><b>pression familiale<\/b><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400; font-family: 'Noto Sans', Arial; font-size: 30px; font-style: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal;\"> ou de ton entourage proche pour te caser et te mettre en couple alors que tu souffres d\u00e9j\u00e0 de ton c\u00e9libat. <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/46-bien-gerer-la-pression-des-fetes-en-tant-que-celibataire\/\">Je te donne mes conseils pour g\u00e9rer cette pression dans l&rsquo;\u00e9pisode 46<\/a>.<\/span><\/p><p style=\"font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-family: 'Noto Sans', Arial; font-size: 30px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; color: #7a7a7a;\">Le point commun de tout cela c&rsquo;est que ce sont des injonctions, c&rsquo;est-\u00e0-dire des \u00e9tiquettes qui te dictent sur ce que tu dois \u00eatre ou faire pour te conformer aux attentes des autres.<\/p><p style=\"font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-family: 'Noto Sans', Arial; font-size: 30px; font-style: normal; color: #7a7a7a;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ici le probl\u00e8me n&rsquo;est pas que tu souhaites \u00eatre c\u00e9libataire ou en couple mais l<\/span>&lsquo;<b>effet de ces injonctions sur ton bien-\u00eatre et le sentiment qu&rsquo;il te \u00ab\u00a0manque\u00a0\u00bb quelquechose.\u00a0<\/b><\/p><p style=\"font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-family: 'Noto Sans', Arial; font-size: 30px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400; color: #7a7a7a;\"><span style=\"font-family: 'Noto Sans', Arial; font-size: 30px; font-style: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-weight: 400;\">Pour prendre conscience de cette influence, tu peux noter les moments o\u00f9 tu souffres de ton c\u00e9libat et te demander ce qui s&rsquo;est pass\u00e9 juste avant: qu&rsquo;est-ce que tu as lu, qu&rsquo;est-ce que tu as vu, qu&rsquo;est-ce qu&rsquo;on t&rsquo;a dit. Tu serais surpris(e) \u00e0 quel point tu es une \u00e9ponge de ce \u00e0 quoi tu t&rsquo;exposes!<\/span><\/p><p style=\"font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-family: 'Noto Sans', Arial; font-size: 30px; font-style: normal; color: #7a7a7a;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mon conseil dans ce cas : <\/span><b>limite ton temps d&rsquo;exposition \u00e0 ces injonctions<\/b> ; cela peut vouloir dire de choisir consciemment les comptes que tu lis et suis sur les r\u00e9seaux sociaux, \u00e9viter les magazines f\u00e9minins pour un temps, les amis que tu choisis, les discussions que tu acceptes de tol\u00e9rer ou pas sur le sujet.<\/p><p style=\"font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-family: 'Noto Sans', Arial; font-size: 30px; font-style: normal; color: #7a7a7a;\">M\u00eame si tu travailles sur ton mindset et tu apprends \u00e0 te d\u00e9tacher de l&rsquo;opinion des autres, il n&rsquo;y a une limite au d\u00e9tachement que tu peux obtenir au regard de ton degr\u00e9 d&rsquo;exposition \u00e0 ces injonctions.<\/p><p class=\"has-background\" style=\"background-color: #eeeeee;\">\u2764\ufe0f Regarde <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/inscriptionblessurepasse\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">mon w\u00e9binaire <\/a><\/strong>sur comment \u00eatre enfin heureux\/se en Amour!<\/p><h2 style=\"font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-family: 'Noto Sans', Arial; font-style: normal;\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Tu_peux_aimer_ton_celibat_et_avoir_besoin_daffection\"><\/span>Tu peux aimer ton c\u00e9libat et avoir besoin d&rsquo;affection<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><div>La deuxi\u00e8me source de ce manque est <b>le besoin naturel de recevoir de l&rsquo;affection et de relationner.<\/b> Tu es un animal social et se sentir aim\u00e9 est un besoin essentiel \u00e0 la survie de tout \u00eatre humain.<br \/>Le manque se cr\u00e9e souvent <b>quand tu penses que le SEUL moyen de combler ce besoin passe par une relation amoureuse<\/b> alors que ce besoin peut aussi se combler en prenant le temps d&rsquo;approfondir tes relations existantes.<\/div><p>Cela ne veut pas dire que c&rsquo;est \u00ab\u00a0mal\u00a0\u00bb de vouloir \u00eatre en couple ou que tes autres relations peuvent combler compl\u00e8tement ce besoin, simplement que tu as d&rsquo;autres options pour combler ce manque afin qu&rsquo;il te p\u00e8se moins.<\/p><p>Enfin je t&rsquo;invite \u00e0 voir<b> \u00ab\u00a0le manque qui restera\u00a0\u00bb comme une \u00e9motion qui te transmet le message de ce qui est important pour toi dans la vie<\/b>.<\/p><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Le_couple_ne_te_rendra_pas_plus_heureuse\"><\/span>Le couple ne te rendra pas plus heureuse<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><div><span style=\"font-family: 'Noto Sans', Arial; font-size: 30px; font-style: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-weight: 400;\">La derni\u00e8re source de manque vient souvent du fait que tu as <\/span><span style=\"font-family: 'Noto Sans', Arial; font-size: 30px; font-style: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal;\"><b>l&rsquo;impression que ton bonheur d\u00e9marrera seulement au but c&rsquo;est \u00e0 dire que tu seras en couple.<\/b><\/span><span style=\"font-family: 'Noto Sans', Arial; font-size: 30px; font-style: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-weight: 400;\"><br \/><\/span><\/div><p>\u00ab\u00a0Si j&rsquo;\u00e9tais en couple je pourrais enfin fonder une famille ou acheter l&rsquo;appartement de mes r\u00eaves ou voyager \u00e0 travers le monde\u00a0\u00bb.\u00a0 Cette phrase je l&rsquo;entends malheureusement trop souvent.<\/p><p>Ce n&rsquo;est pas parce que tu ne trouves pas ta \u00ab\u00a0moiti\u00e9 \u00ab\u00a0que tu es incompl\u00e8te ou que tu dois mettre ta vie en pause.<\/p><p>Il est dangereux de penser qu&rsquo;une fois que tu auras rencontr\u00e9 l&rsquo;homme de ta vie, ta vie sera compl\u00e8te.<\/p><p>Pourquoi?<\/p><ul><li>Parce que tu d\u00e9l\u00e8gues ton bonheur \u00e0 l&rsquo;ext\u00e9rieur de toi, c&rsquo;est-\u00e0-dire dans la relation, au lieu d&rsquo;essayer d&rsquo;\u00eatre heureuse avec toi-m\u00eame et dans ta vie.<\/li><li>Parce que si tu ne sais pas ce qui te rend heureuse en dehors de la relation, tu auras tendance \u00e0 l\u2019oublier dans la relation, ce qui t&rsquo;assure l&rsquo;\u00e9chec de cette relation sur le long terme.<\/li><li>Parce que <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/la-dette-relationnelle-ou-comment-avoir-des-relations-equilibrees-avec-les-autres\/\">cela met inconsciemment une certaine pression \u00e0 ta future rencontre<\/a>.<\/li><\/ul><p>Pour moi un couple heureux, ce sont deux individus ind\u00e9pendants et heureux dans leur vie, qu&rsquo;ils ont d\u00e9cid\u00e9 de b\u00e9n\u00e9ficier d&rsquo;une cerise sur le g\u00e2teau qu\u2019est la vie de couple. La vie de couple n&rsquo;est pas le g\u00e2teau,\u00a0 juste la cerise.<\/p><p><b>Alors comment savourer plus ton c\u00e9libat ?<\/b><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-1e6628e elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"1e6628e\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-beec5a6\" data-id=\"beec5a6\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-dd793ef elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"dd793ef\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div><style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;<br \/>font-size: 34px;}<br \/>    h3 {color: #7A7A7A;<br \/>font-size: 34px;}<br \/>  <\/style><\/div><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Construis_des_maintenant_la_vie_de_tes_reves\"><\/span><span class=\"\" lang=\"FR-CH\">Construis d\u00e8s maintenant la vie de tes r\u00eaves<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><p>Pas besoin d&rsquo;attendre THE One pour construire la vie de tes r\u00eaves, au contraire, construis la vie de tes r\u00eaves et l&rsquo;homme\/la femme de tes r\u00eaves viendra s\u2019y greffer:<\/p><ul><li>Si tu attendais d&rsquo;\u00eatre en couple pour visiter certains pays, vas-y et tu le rencontreras peut-\u00eatre l\u00e0-bas.<\/li><li>Si tu veux devenir propri\u00e9taire, ach\u00e8te quelque chose \u00e0 ton budget, tu pourras toujours le revendre par la suite.<\/li><li>\u00a0Si tu veux avoir des enfants, c&rsquo;est ton droit d&rsquo;attendre la bonne personne pour en faire mais tu peux d\u00e9j\u00e0 exercer tes talents de maman en babysittant des enfants de tes copines, en devenant marraine ou en soutenant des enfants par le biais d&rsquo;un parrainage.<\/li><\/ul><div>\u00c0 cet effet tu peux te demander si tu rencontrerais l&rsquo;homme ou la femme de ta vie dans 3 ans seulement, que changerais-tu dans ta vie?<\/div><div>\u00a0<\/div><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Deviens_lhomme_ou_la_femme_de_ta_vie\"><\/span><span class=\"\" lang=\"FR-CH\">Deviens l&rsquo;homme ou la femme de ta vie<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><p>Comme le dit si bien <a href=\"https:\/\/www.cestdecidejemepouse.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Nathalie Lefebvre<\/a> dans son livre C&rsquo;est d\u00e9cid\u00e9 je m&rsquo;\u00e9pouse, profite de ce c\u00e9libat pour apprendre \u00e0 te conna\u00eetre \u00e0 s&rsquo;appr\u00e9cier et partir \u00e0 la d\u00e9couverte de toi-m\u00eame.<\/p><p>On a souvent une d\u00e9finition de soi qui est bas\u00e9e sur ce que pensent les autres de nous, plus particuli\u00e8rement ce que pense notre famille et nos parents de nous. Le c\u00e9libat est le meilleur moment pour te d\u00e9couvrir et partir \u00e0 la d\u00e9couverte de ce qui te passionne en exp\u00e9rimentant ce qui te pla\u00eet ou pas, car tu es totalement sans contrainte.<\/p><p>C&rsquo;est un moyen de montrer que tu t&rsquo;engages pour toi, pour ton bonheur.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Vois_le_bon_cote_du_celibat\"><\/span><span class=\"\" lang=\"FR-CH\">Vois le bon c\u00f4t\u00e9 du c\u00e9libat<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><p>Il y a plein de bons c\u00f4t\u00e9s au c\u00e9libat. Je suis m\u00e8re, mais personnellement heureuse d&rsquo;avoir fond\u00e9 ma famille a 37 ans seulement, car j&rsquo;ai pu vivre avant plein de choses qu&rsquo;il m&rsquo;aurait \u00e9t\u00e9 difficile de vivre maintenant, comme par exemple voyager pendant longtemps, vivre dans un <a href=\"https:\/\/fr.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Mata_Amritanandamayi\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">ashram<\/a>, se pr\u00e9parer pour une <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sierre-zinal.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">course de montagne<\/a>, partir vivre \u00e0 l&rsquo;\u00e9tranger, reprendre certaines \u00e9tudes. Si tu doutes du bon c\u00f4t\u00e9 d&rsquo;\u00eatre c\u00e9libataire, demande l&rsquo;avis \u00e0 tes amis qui sont depuis longtemps en couple et je suis s\u00fbre qu&rsquo;elles te trouveront plein d&rsquo;avantages au c\u00e9libat.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Le_celibat_est_letape_qui_te_permettra_detre_heureuse_en_couple\"><\/span><span class=\"\" lang=\"FR-CH\">Le c\u00e9libat est l\u2019\u00e9tape qui te permettra d&rsquo;\u00eatre heureuse en couple<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><p>Voici quelques raisons pour lesquelles vivre bien le c\u00e9libat est si important pour \u00eatre heureuse dans son couple apr\u00e8s:<\/p><p>Plus tu appr\u00e9cieras ta vie de c\u00e9libataire plus tu seras au clair avec ce que tu aimes, ce que tu n&rsquo;aimes pas, ce que tu veux, ce que tu ne veux pas.<\/p><p>Plus tu appr\u00e9cieras ta vie de c\u00e9libataire, moins tu seras pr\u00eate \u00e0 accepter n&rsquo;importe qui, sous n&rsquo;importe quelles conditions pour \u00eatre en couple.<\/p><p>Plus tu appr\u00e9cieras ta vie de c\u00e9libataire, plus tu arriveras \u00e0 \u00eatre en couple sans t&rsquo;oublier.<\/p><p>Plus tu appr\u00e9cieras ta vie de c\u00e9libataire, plus tu augmenteras les chances de rencontrer quelqu&rsquo;un, car il n&rsquo;y a rien de plus sexy que quelqu&rsquo;un d&rsquo;\u00e9panoui dans sa vie.<\/p><p>Plus tu appr\u00e9cieras ta vie de c\u00e9libataire, moins tu donneras la responsabilit\u00e9 de ton bonheur \u00e0 la relation.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Ce_qui_ne_veut_pas_non_plus_dire_que_tu_fais_rien_pour_ton_futur_couple\"><\/span><span class=\"\" lang=\"FR-CH\">Ce qui ne veut pas non plus dire que tu fais rien pour ton futur couple<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><p>Tu peux appr\u00e9cier ta vie de c\u00e9libataire et en m\u00eame temps investir pour ton futur couple.<\/p><p>Si tu ne vis pas le c\u00e9libat comme un \u00e9tat de manque, tu seras simplement relax sur le temps que cela prendra.\u00a0<\/p><p>Cela ne veut pas dire que tu ne dois rien faire pour:<\/p><ul><li>Tu peux commencer un coaching amoureux pour identifier, comprendre et changer les <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/quest-ce-quun-schema-amoureux\/\">sch\u00e9mas amoureux<\/a> qui font que tu ne rencontres pas la bonne personne\u00a0<\/li><li>Tu peux prendre le temps de conna\u00eetre les gens sans te mettre la pression\u00a0<\/li><li>Tu peux d\u00e9dier suffisamment de temps pour rencontrer quelqu&rsquo;un, car ton partenaire ne va pas venir te chercher chez toi.<\/li><\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-325cabfe elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"325cabfe\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-no\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-4a5a72a1\" data-id=\"4a5a72a1\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-3cc6d23c elementor-section-content-bottom elementor-hidden-mobile elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"3cc6d23c\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-2465886b\" data-id=\"2465886b\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-65fe94e0 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"65fe94e0\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-77835aa4 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"77835aa4\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-35427d07\" data-id=\"35427d07\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1861a0d9 elementor-invisible elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"1861a0d9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;_animation&quot;:&quot;fadeInLeft&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\">Pour toi<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a252f2 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"a252f2\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"quiz_offert\"><\/span><span>quiz offert<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7d7d470f elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"7d7d470f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"%22Celibataires_Pourquoi_tu_ne_trouves_pas_lamour\"><\/span><span><strong><em>\"C\u00e9libataires : Pourquoi tu ne trouves pas l'amour?<\/em><\/strong><span> <\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-72626157 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"72626157\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"color: #000000; font-size: 18px; letter-spacing: 1.1px;\">Enregistre-toi et re\u00e7ois mon questionnaire gratuit pour comprendre pourquoi c&rsquo;est difficile.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-7485f062\" data-id=\"7485f062\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-22c6bbc9 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"22c6bbc9\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-3313a090\" data-id=\"3313a090\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-26115414 elementor-widget elementor-widget-shortcode\" data-id=\"26115414\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"shortcode.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-shortcode\"><script src=https:\/\/sandy-kaufmann.mykajabi.com\/forms\/2149274806\/embed.js><\/script><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5e91f92d elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"5e91f92d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>* Champs obligatoires<\/p><p>Si tu t&rsquo;abonnes \u00e0 ma newsletter, tu recevras \u00e9galement des offres. Tu peux te d\u00e9sabonner \u00e0 tout moment. Merci de lire ma <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/politique-de-confidentialite\/\"> Politique de confidentialit\u00e9 <\/a> pour voir comment je traite les donn\u00e9es.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-44c67b08 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"44c67b08\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-1a4a948\" data-id=\"1a4a948\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-bff33ac elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"bff33ac\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Pour_aller_plus_loin\"><\/span>Pour aller plus loin<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5a49ecd9 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"5a49ecd9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Si tu as envie d\u2019approfondir le sujet et d\u2019identifier tes propres sch\u00e9mas amoureux tu as <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/livre-souvrir-a-lamour-et-si-la-solution-se-trouvait-du-cote-du-nerf-vague\/\">mon livre <\/a><\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/livre-souvrir-a-lamour-et-si-la-solution-se-trouvait-du-cote-du-nerf-vague\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">S\u2019ouvrir \u00e0 l\u2019amour<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> disponible dans toutes les librairies.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-2d794656 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"2d794656\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-715011e3\" data-id=\"715011e3\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-358cb8f elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"358cb8f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Et si tu souhaites faire le travail de tes sch\u00e9mas amoureux par le corps et transformer ta vie amoureuse tu as le programme <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/souvrir-a-lamour\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">S\u2019ouvrir \u00e0 l\u2019amour.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-66229d1a elementor-align-center elementor-mobile-align-center elementor-widget elementor-widget-global elementor-global-38034 elementor-widget-button\" data-id=\"66229d1a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"button.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-button-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-button elementor-button-link elementor-size-md\" href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/souvrir-a-lamour\/\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-content-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-text\">S'ouvrir \u00e0 l'amour<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6b3dc432 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"6b3dc432\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-5fb96296 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"5fb96296\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-72b69d6\" data-id=\"72b69d6\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4328b38b elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4328b38b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>\n<div id=\"sb_instagram\"  class=\"sbi sbi_mob_col_1 sbi_tab_col_2 sbi_col_6\" style=\"padding-bottom: 10px; background-color: rgb(255,255,255); width: 100%;\"\t data-feedid=\"sbi_17841411036917986#6\"  data-res=\"thumb\" data-cols=\"6\" data-colsmobile=\"1\" data-colstablet=\"2\" data-num=\"6\" data-nummobile=\"\" data-item-padding=\"5\"\t data-shortcode-atts=\"{}\"  data-postid=\"9407\" data-locatornonce=\"61e3be7a71\" data-imageaspectratio=\"1:1\" data-sbi-flags=\"favorLocal,ajaxPostLoad,gdpr\">\n\t\n\t<div id=\"sbi_images\"  style=\"gap: 10px;\">\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\n\t<div id=\"sbi_load\" >\n\n\t\n\t\n<\/div>\n\t\t<span class=\"sbi_resized_image_data\" data-feed-id=\"sbi_17841411036917986#6\"\n\t\t  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