{"id":8968,"date":"2021-11-13T08:32:11","date_gmt":"2021-11-13T08:32:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/quest-ce-quun-schema-amoureux\/"},"modified":"2025-10-15T04:29:47","modified_gmt":"2025-10-15T04:29:47","slug":"3-quest-ce-quun-schema-amoureux","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/3-quest-ce-quun-schema-amoureux\/","title":{"rendered":"3. Qu\u2019est-ce qu\u2019un sch\u00e9ma amoureux?"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"8968\" class=\"elementor elementor-8968 elementor-8918\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-525528d6 elementor-section-content-top elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-min-height elementor-section-items-bottom elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"525528d6\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-3dd73755\" data-id=\"3dd73755\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2cf677de elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"2cf677de\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-xl\">Qu'est-ce qu'un sch\u00e9ma amoureux?<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-35bdebd7 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"35bdebd7\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-29baab3d\" data-id=\"29baab3d\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-35eb504d elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"35eb504d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div><style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;<br \/>\nfont-size: 34px;}<br \/>\n  <\/style><\/div>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>Tu te demandes peut-\u00eatre pourquoi tu n&rsquo;arrives pas \u00e0 \u00eatre heureuse en amour et tu ne sais pas vraiment d&rsquo;o\u00f9 cela vient.<\/p>\n<p>Tu as l\u2019impression de r\u00e9p\u00e9ter les m\u00eames sc\u00e9narios en amour ou tu aimerais comprendre pourquoi tes relations ne durent pas.<\/p>\n<p>Tu voudrais sortir pour de bon de l\u2019\u00e9chec amoureux.<\/p>\n<p>Tu voudrais savoir comment arr\u00eater de tomber toujours sur le m\u00eame genre de personnes.<\/p>\n<p>Tu as d\u00e9j\u00e0 entendu parler de sch\u00e9ma amoureux mais cette notion te para\u00eet floue.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-bfbd32e elementor-widget elementor-widget-video\" data-id=\"bfbd32e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;youtube_url&quot;:&quot;https:\\\/\\\/youtu.be\\\/RCxM8NWgQqI?si=Fhp0-JqXP6u3kDdS&quot;,&quot;video_type&quot;:&quot;youtube&quot;,&quot;controls&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"video.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-wrapper elementor-open-inline\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-video\"><\/div>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-400b900 elementor-hidden-desktop elementor-hidden-tablet elementor-hidden-mobile elementor-widget elementor-widget-html\" data-id=\"400b900\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"html.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<iframe frameborder=\"0\" loading=\"lazy\" id=\"ausha-frlm\" height=\"220\" style=\"border: none; width:100%; height:220px\" src=\"https:\/\/player.ausha.co\/index.html?podcastId=Bq5X9I4PYDVm&playlist=false&color=%23f6dcda&v=3&playerId=ausha-frlm\"><\/iframe><script src=\"https:\/\/player.ausha.co\/ausha-player.js\"><\/script>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a771026 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"a771026\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div><\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Quest-ce_quun_schema_amoureux\"><\/span>Qu&rsquo;est-ce qu&rsquo;un sch\u00e9ma amoureux ?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\nUn sch\u00e9ma amoureux (un synonyme est aussi une croyance limitante sur l&rsquo;amour) est une th\u00e8se que tu tiens inconsciemment \u201cpour vrai\u201d en amour. Cette th\u00e8se est tant \u201cint\u00e9gr\u00e9e\u201d en toi, que tu ne la remets m\u00eame plus en cause\u00a0ou tu n\u2019en as m\u00eame pas conscience.\n\nAu cours de ta vie tu as enregistr\u00e9, en fonction de tes exp\u00e9riences pass\u00e9es, un certain nombre de th\u00e8ses ou de concepts au niveau de l&rsquo;amour:\n<ul>\n \t<li style=\"list-style-type: none;\">\n<ul>\n \t<li style=\"list-style-type: none;\">\n<ul>\n \t<li>Ces th\u00e8ses peuvent \u00eatre aidantes si elles te donnent une vision positive de l&rsquo;amour.<\/li>\n \t<li>Elles peuvent \u00eatre limitantes si tu as une vision n\u00e9gative de l&rsquo;amour.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\nPour savoir si tu as un sch\u00e9ma limitant en amour, il te suffit de savoir si tu es heureuse ou malheureuse en amour.\n\nSi tu es malheureuse, cela veut dire que tu as forc\u00e9ment des sch\u00e9mas amoureux limitants en amour.\u00a0En r\u00e9sum\u00e9, on a tous des sch\u00e9mas limitants en amour,\u00a0certaines personnes pourront se mettre en couple et devront \u00e0 ce moment-l\u00e0 g\u00e9rer des conflits de couple, pour d&rsquo;autres les sch\u00e9mas sont tellement limitants qu&rsquo;elles n&rsquo;arrivent m\u00eame pas \u00e0 se mettre en couple de longue dur\u00e9e.\n\nUn sch\u00e9ma amoureux peut prendre 3 directions:\n<ul>\n \t<li style=\"list-style-type: none;\">\n<ul>\n \t<li style=\"list-style-type: none;\">\n<ol>\n \t<li>Il peut \u00eatre li\u00e9 \u00e0 ta personne<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 120px;\">je ne m\u00e9rite pas l&rsquo;amour<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 120px;\">je suis d\u00e9pendante en amour<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 120px;\">je suis grosse donc je ne peux pas \u00eatre aim\u00e9e<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 120px;\">je dois \u00eatre parfaite pour \u00eatre aim\u00e9e<\/p>\n\n<ul>\n \t<li style=\"list-style-type: none;\">\n<ul>\n \t<li style=\"list-style-type: none;\">\n<ol start=\"2\">\n \t<li>Il peut \u00eatre li\u00e9 \u00e0 ta vision de la gente masculine<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 120px;\">on ne peut pas compter sur les hommes<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 120px;\">les hommes trompent toujours leurs femmes<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 120px;\">les mecs sont tous des salauds<\/p>\n\n<ul>\n \t<li style=\"list-style-type: none;\">\n<ul>\n \t<li style=\"list-style-type: none;\">\n<ol start=\"3\">\n \t<li>Il peut pr\u00e9dire l&rsquo;avenir de ta relation. Cela comprend notamment les fameuses 5 blessures de Lise Bourbeau et bien d\u2019autres sch\u00e9mas relationnels.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 120px;\">je serai toujours rejet\u00e9e<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 120px;\">je serai toujours abandonn\u00e9e<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 120px;\">je serai toujours trahie<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 120px;\">je serai toujours humili\u00e9e<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 120px;\">je serai toujours victime d&rsquo;injustice<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 120px;\">je serai toujours malheureuse en amour<\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 120px;\">je devrai toujours me sacrifier pour \u00eatre aim\u00e9e<\/p>\nIl d\u00e9termine par qui tu es attir\u00e9e,\u00a0car tu vas inconsciemment choisir la personne qui va te confirmer que ton sch\u00e9ma amoureux est juste, m\u00eame si celui-ci est n\u00e9gatif.\n\n<p class=\"has-background\" style=\"background-color: #eeeeee;\">\u2764\ufe0f Regarde <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/inscriptionblessurepasse\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">mon w\u00e9binaire <\/a><\/strong>sur comment \u00eatre enfin heureux\/se en Amour!<\/p>\n\n<h2 style=\"font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-family: 'Noto Sans', Arial; font-size: 30px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400;\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Quest-ce_qui_fait_quon_repete_les_schemas_amoureux\"><\/span><span style=\"font-size: 30px; font-weight: 600;\">Qu&rsquo;est-ce qui fait qu&rsquo;on r\u00e9p\u00e8te les sch\u00e9mas amoureux?<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p style=\"font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-family: 'Noto Sans', Arial; font-size: 30px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400;\">D\u00e8s que tu te retrouves en situation de stress en Amour (c\u2019est-\u00e0-dire que pour une raison ou une autre tu ne re\u00e7ois pas l\u2019Amour que tu souhaites), le cerveau reptilien ira chercher dans sa base de donn\u00e9es quelle a \u00e9t\u00e9 dans ton pass\u00e9 la r\u00e9action qui t\u2019a permis de survivre \u00e0 ce manque d\u2019amour et il enverra des neurotransmetteurs au corps pour que tu r\u00e9p\u00e8tes l\u2019action (tu bloques, tu fuis, tu combats) et les \u00e9motions qui t\u2019avaient permis \u00e0 l\u2019\u00e9poque de \u00absurvivre\u00bb.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-fd4bd51 elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"fd4bd51\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-no\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column 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Tu peux te d\u00e9sabonner \u00e0 tout moment. Merci de lire ma <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/politique-de-confidentialite\/\"> Politique de confidentialit\u00e9 <\/a> pour voir comment je traite les donn\u00e9es.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-59c6b1a1 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"59c6b1a1\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-7a3ae49\" data-id=\"7a3ae49\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-220e8b90 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"220e8b90\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div><style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;<br \/>\nfont-size: 34px;}<br \/>\n  <\/style><\/div><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Comment_changer_ses_schemas_amoureux\"><\/span>Comment changer ses sch\u00e9mas amoureux ?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><p>Ici les points de vue divergent.<\/p><p>Beaucoup de coachs, th\u00e9rapeutes, psychoth\u00e9rapeute ou conseillers sentimentaux pensent qu&rsquo;il suffit de conscientiser son sch\u00e9ma amoureux, puis d&rsquo;agir comme si ce sch\u00e9ma n&rsquo;existait pas pour changer le sch\u00e9ma.<\/p><p>Je pense personnellement que cela ne suffit pas toujours.<\/p><p>Pourquoi?<\/p><p>Parce que pour moi les sch\u00e9mas de r\u00e9action sont enregistr\u00e9s au niveau du cerveau reptilien et non au niveau du cerveau rationnel, celui qui nous aide \u00e0 prendre conscience de ces sch\u00e9mas.<\/p><p>En situation de stress en amour, le cerveau rationnel est comme \u00ab\u00a0\u00e9teint\u00a0\u00bb et c&rsquo;est le cerveau reptilien qui prend le contr\u00f4le de nos actions, r\u00e9actions et \u00e9motions.<\/p><p>Avec le temps et la r\u00e9p\u00e9tition, le cerveau reptilien d\u00e9l\u00e8gue sa programmation au niveau du corps, plus particuli\u00e8rement au niveau des organes. C&rsquo;est ce qui explique que plus on r\u00e9p\u00e8te un sch\u00e9ma, plus cette programmation est ancr\u00e9e, plus cela devient un automatisme et plus tu ressens de la difficult\u00e9 \u00e0 le changer.\u00a0C&rsquo;est aussi ce qui explique pourquoi tu ne comprends toujours pas ce qui te fait agir ainsi, car rationnellement tu veux agir autrement.<\/p><p>Si tu veux en apprendre plus \u00e0 ce sujet, je te conseille le livre de Dr <a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/H1a64qQRFtE\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Catherine Guegen<\/a>, qui explique dans son livre pour une enfance heureuse en d\u00e9tail l\u2019influence de notre pass\u00e9 sur le cerveau reptilien et sur le d\u00e9veloppement du cerveau rationnel.<\/p><p>Le cerveau reptilien gouverne aussi par qui tu es attir\u00e9e (<a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/eyq2Wo4eUDg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Dawn Maslar<\/a> l\u2019a prouv\u00e9 scientifiquement, voir mon article sur <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/comment-un-homme-tombe-amoureux\/\">la chimie de l&rsquo;attraction<\/a>).<\/p><p>Si tu as par malchance enregistr\u00e9 des sch\u00e9mas amoureux tr\u00e8s n\u00e9gatifs, tu vas souvent \u00eatre attir\u00e9e par des hommes qui vont te faire souffrir.<\/p><p>Il est donc important de d\u00e9programmer ce cerveau reptilien en trois \u00e9tapes:<\/p><p><u>\u00c9tape 1\u00a0 prendre conscience des sch\u00e9mas amoureux que tu r\u00e9p\u00e8tes<\/u><\/p><p>L&rsquo;\u00e9tape 1 consiste \u00e0 prendre conscience de tes sch\u00e9mas amoureux. Cela passe par faire un bilan complet de ta vie amoureuse, de ton enfance, de ton h\u00e9ritage trans-g\u00e9n\u00e9rationnel depuis ta naissance pour comprendre tes m\u00e9canismes de r\u00e9action dans tes relations et en amour.<\/p><p>C&rsquo;est ce que je propose dans mon programme en ligne S&rsquo;ouvrir \u00e0 l&rsquo;Amour.\u00a0Ce programme comprend un bilan individuel fait par moi, car cela requiert une certaine exp\u00e9rience de rep\u00e9rer quels sont les sch\u00e9mas.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-aef4469 elementor-align-center elementor-mobile-align-center elementor-widget elementor-widget-button\" data-id=\"aef4469\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"button.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-button-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-button elementor-button-link elementor-size-md\" href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/souvriralamour\/\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-content-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-text\">s'ouvrir \u00e0 l'amour<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b346968 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"b346968\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><u>Etape 2 d\u00e9programmer les sch\u00e9mas amoureux au niveau du cerveau reptilien et des organes<\/u><\/p><p>Dans l&rsquo;approche psycho-corporelle que je pratique, appel\u00e9e \u00e9tiopsychologie, on va d&rsquo;abord rechercher quel \u00e9v\u00e9nement du pass\u00e9 est \u00e0 l&rsquo;origine du sch\u00e9ma pour comprendre quels organes ont enregistr\u00e9 ce sch\u00e9ma.<\/p><p>Ensuite on va d\u00e9programmer par le biais d&rsquo;un massage de type \u00ab\u00a0ost\u00e9opathie visc\u00e9rale\u00a0\u00bb en emp\u00eachant les organes de r\u00e9agir (c&rsquo;est-\u00e0-dire de se comprimer ou de fuir) face \u00e0 l&rsquo;\u00e9v\u00e9nement qui a cr\u00e9\u00e9 ce sch\u00e9ma.<\/p><p>En faisant ceci, la m\u00e9moire au niveau des organes est effac\u00e9e.<\/p><p><u>Etape 3\u00a0 reprogrammer le sch\u00e9ma de r\u00e9action qu&rsquo;on souhaite<\/u><\/p><p>Pour \u00e9viter que le cerveau reptilien enregistre un nouveau sch\u00e9ma qui ne te soit pas b\u00e9n\u00e9fique, on va directement reprogrammer le sch\u00e9ma de r\u00e9action que tu souhaites en amour (de la m\u00eame mani\u00e8re qu&rsquo;\u00e0 l\u2019\u00e9tape 2, sauf que l\u00e0 c&rsquo;est positif).<\/p><p>Ainsi le cerveau reptilien t&rsquo;aidera en amour dans le sens o\u00f9 tu seras attir\u00e9e par des personnes qui te seront plus b\u00e9n\u00e9fiques\u00a0ou que tu retrouveras une croyance positive en amour (l\u2019amour rend heureux), sur les hommes (les hommes veulent rendre leurs femmes heureuses) ou sur toi (je suis digne d&rsquo;\u00eatre aim\u00e9e telle que je suis).<\/p><p>Pour changer d\u00e9finitivement tes sch\u00e9mas amoureux, il suffit de venir une journ\u00e9e en individuel au cabinet. Une fois que les sch\u00e9mas sont chang\u00e9s, il n&rsquo;est plus n\u00e9cessaire de revenir. Cette journ\u00e9e pass\u00e9e ensemble fait partie int\u00e9grante de mon programme de groupe <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/souvriralamour\/\">S\u2019ouvrir \u00e0 l\u2019Amour<\/a>.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-7b547121 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"7b547121\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-3af648c5\" data-id=\"3af648c5\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element 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