{"id":7562,"date":"2023-09-04T07:30:46","date_gmt":"2023-09-04T07:30:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/?p=7562"},"modified":"2026-03-17T20:44:42","modified_gmt":"2026-03-17T20:44:42","slug":"81-depasser-l-infidelite","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/81-depasser-l-infidelite\/","title":{"rendered":"81. D\u00e9passer l&rsquo;infid\u00e9lit\u00e9"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"7562\" class=\"elementor elementor-7562\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-2c12ad31 elementor-section-content-top elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-min-height elementor-section-items-bottom elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"2c12ad31\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-24555a78\" data-id=\"24555a78\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-27c7f8f4 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"27c7f8f4\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-xl\">D\u00e9passer l'infid\u00e9lit\u00e9<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-5c6744c0 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"5c6744c0\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-1ac6959c\" data-id=\"1ac6959c\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b3a359f elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"b3a359f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div><style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;<br \/>font-size: 34px;}<br \/>  <\/style><\/div>\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ton partenaire t\u2019a tromp\u00e9e et tu ne sais pas si tu veux ou peux lui pardonner un jour. Tu as l\u2019impression que la confiance au sein du couple est bris\u00e9e et qu\u2019il\/elle a d\u00e9truit tout ce que vous avez construit par cette infid\u00e9lit\u00e9.<\/span>\n\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ou bien tu viens de tromper ton partenaire et tu regrettes ce que tu as fait et tu voudrais d\u00e9passer cela dans ton couple.<\/span>\n\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dans cet \u00e9pisode, je te donne <\/span><b>les \u00e9tapes qui me semblent indispensables pour d\u00e9passer<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> cette \u00e9preuve pas facile qu\u2019est <\/span><b>l\u2019infid\u00e9lit\u00e9<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> dans ton couple.<\/span>\n<p class=\"has-background\" style=\"background-color: #eeeeee;\">\u2764\ufe0f Regarde <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/inscriptionblessurepasse\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">mon w\u00e9binaire <\/a><\/strong>sur comment \u00eatre enfin heureux\/se en Amour!<\/p>\n \n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ecaeca0 elementor-widget elementor-widget-video\" data-id=\"ecaeca0\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;youtube_url&quot;:&quot;https:\\\/\\\/youtu.be\\\/Pw5FgXlYEWQ&quot;,&quot;video_type&quot;:&quot;youtube&quot;,&quot;controls&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"video.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-wrapper elementor-open-inline\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-video\"><\/div>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-312a506 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"312a506\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div><style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;<br \/>font-size: 34px;}<br \/>  <\/style><\/div><div>\u00a0<\/div><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Definition_de_linfidelite\"><\/span><b>D\u00e9finition de l\u2019infid\u00e9lit\u00e9<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Est-ce que c\u2019est une histoire d\u2019un soir, une relation secr\u00e8te, regarder des pornos, rester inscrit sur des applis de rencontre en secret.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Je vais reprendre la d\u00e9finition d\u2019<strong>Esther Perel<\/strong> dans son ted Talk, elle explique qu\u2019une infid\u00e9lit\u00e9 remplit <strong>ces 3 crit\u00e8res<\/strong>\u00a0:<\/span><\/p><ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Une relation secr\u00e8te<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Une connection \u00e9motionnelle<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Une alchimie sexuelle pas forc\u00e9ment r\u00e9alis\u00e9e\u00a0<\/span><\/li><\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d17bfec elementor-widget elementor-widget-html\" data-id=\"d17bfec\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"html.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div style=\"max-width:854px\"><div style=\"position:relative;height:0;padding-bottom:56.25%\"><iframe src=\"https:\/\/embed.ted.com\/talks\/lang\/en\/esther_perel_rethinking_infidelity_a_talk_for_anyone_who_has_ever_loved\" width=\"854\" height=\"480\" style=\"position:absolute;left:0;top:0;width:100%;height:100%\" frameborder=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/div><\/div>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d9006dd elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"d9006dd\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div><style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;<br \/>font-size: 34px;}<br \/>  <\/style><\/div><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Pourquoi_est-on_infidele\"><\/span><b>Pourquoi est-on infid\u00e8le ?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sans valider l\u2019infid\u00e9lit\u00e9, l\u2019infid\u00e9lit\u00e9 est souvent <strong>la cons\u00e9quence d\u2019un probl\u00e8me dans le couple<\/strong>.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Les causes de l\u2019infid\u00e9lit\u00e9 sont, selon moi, diff\u00e9rentes si tu es au d\u00e9but d\u2019une relation ou si l\u2019infid\u00e9lit\u00e9 se produit apr\u00e8s plusieurs ann\u00e9es de relation :<\/span><\/p><ul><li aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Au d\u00e9but d\u2019une relation<\/strong> (par exemple avant d\u2019habiter ensemble). Quand l\u2019infid\u00e9lit\u00e9 se produit \u00e0 <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/6-les-6-stades-dune-relation-amoureuse\/\">cette \u00e9tape de la relation<\/a>, c\u2019est tout simplement que <\/span><b>la personne a chang\u00e9 d\u2019avis sur la relation<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> ou n\u2019a juste pas envie de s\u2019engager et qu&rsquo; elle n\u2019a pas pris le temps d\u2019\u00ab informer correctement \u00bb l\u2019autre partenaire de sa d\u00e9cision.\u00a0Si tu es la personne qui est tromp\u00e9e (et je te comprends, car c\u2019est le sch\u00e9ma amoureux que j\u2019ai personnellement r\u00e9p\u00e9t\u00e9 pendant 7 ans), il est important de comprendre pourquoi tu attires ce sch\u00e9ma de tromperie. Regarde mon w\u00e9binaire gratuit <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/inscriptionblessurepasse\/\">Comprendre comment se cr\u00e9e-t-on un sch\u00e9ma amoureux<\/a>, pour en savoir plus.\u00a0<\/span><\/li><li aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Si la tromperie intervient <strong>apr\u00e8s plusieurs ann\u00e9es de relation<\/strong>, <\/span><b>l\u2019infid\u00e9lit\u00e9 est un moyen qu\u2019un partenaire a trouv\u00e9 pour surmonter une crise dans le couple<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> par exemple par peur d\u2019affronter le probl\u00e8me de fond ou les cons\u00e9quences d\u2019une s\u00e9paration ou une crise personnelle pour fuir la personne qu\u2019il est devenu dans son couple ou sa vie. Ici il est important de comprendre la crise sous-jacente et la volont\u00e9 de chaque partenaire \u00e0 surmonter cette crise en \u00e9tant pr\u00eat \u00e0 se remettre en question. <\/span><\/li><\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-0170cd5 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"0170cd5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div><style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;<br \/>font-size: 34px;}<br \/>  <\/style><\/div><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Accueille_dabord_les_vagues_emotionnelles\"><\/span><b>Accueille d\u2019abord les vagues \u00e9motionnelles<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">D\u00e9couvrir l\u2019infid\u00e9lit\u00e9 de son partenaire n\u2019est pas facile. C\u2019est une esp\u00e8ce de <\/span><b>\u00ab\u00a0mini-deuil\u00a0\u00bb de la relation<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> car tu d\u00e9couvres une nouvelle r\u00e9alit\u00e9 de ta relation. Tu passes pour ainsi dire par les m\u00eames phases du deuil d\u2019une relation que j\u2019explique dans <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/42-comment-faire-le-deuil-de-ma-relation-amoureuse\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">l\u2019\u00e9pisode 42<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">C\u2019est donc tout \u00e0 fait normal de passer par une phase de choc, de d\u00e9ni de col\u00e8re et de tristesse.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p class=\"has-background\" style=\"background-color: #eeeeee;\">\u2764\ufe0f Regarde <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/inscriptionblessurepasse\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">mon w\u00e9binaire <\/a><\/strong>sur comment \u00eatre enfin heureux\/se en Amour!<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c9f725c elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c9f725c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div><style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;<br \/>font-size: 34px;}<br \/>  <\/style><\/div><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Comment_depasser_linfidelite\"><\/span><b>Comment d\u00e9passer l\u2019infid\u00e9lit\u00e9\u00a0?<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Il y a <strong>4 \u00e9tapes<\/strong> \u00e0 mon avis\u00a0:<\/span><\/p><ol><li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Travailler sur la cause<\/strong><\/span><\/li><\/ol><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Comme je le disais, l\u2019infid\u00e9lit\u00e9 est souvent une cons\u00e9quence pas une cause. ll est important de <strong>comprendre la crise sous-jacente<\/strong> <strong>et que chaque partenaire ait la volont\u00e9 de surmonter cette crise en \u00e9tant pr\u00eat \u00e0 se remettre en question<\/strong>. Je t\u2019explique les 3 \u00e9tapes pour d\u00e9passer une crise de couple dans <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/47-les-3-etapes-pour-depasser-une-crise-de-couple\/\">l\u2019\u00e9pisode 47<\/a>. Aussi difficile qu\u2019une infid\u00e9lit\u00e9 soit \u00e0 vivre, elle permet aussi de soulever des conversations qui ont \u00e9t\u00e9 mises sous le tapis trop longtemps dans le couple.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quand ce travail de fond est fait, il est plus facile de pardonner et de recommencer une relation avec les m\u00eames partenaires MAIS sur de nouvelles bases.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cette capacit\u00e9 \u00e0 comprendre et \u00e0 surmonter les crises de couple n\u2019est pas naturelle. C\u2019est la raison pour laquelle j\u2019y consacre un module en entier dans mon programme <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/souvrir-a-lamour\/\">S\u2019ouvrir \u00e0 l\u2019Amour<\/a>.<\/span><\/p><ol start=\"2\"><li><strong> Regagner la confiance de l\u2019autre<\/strong><\/li><\/ol><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">M\u00eame si l\u2019infid\u00e9lit\u00e9 est une <strong>cons\u00e9quence<\/strong>, c\u2019est aussi un <strong>choix<\/strong> c\u2019est-\u00e0-dire que le partenaire a choisi cet acte plut\u00f4t qu\u2019un autre. <strong>Regagner la confiance de l\u2019autre<\/strong> est important pour que la s\u00e9curit\u00e9 du couple soit r\u00e9tablie.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><ol start=\"3\"><li><strong> Arriver \u00e0 pardonner<\/strong><\/li><\/ol><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Celui qui a \u00e9t\u00e9 tromp\u00e9 a besoin de faire un bilan honn\u00eate sur ce qui a pu pousser l\u2019autre \u00e0 l\u2019infid\u00e9lit\u00e9 pour pardonner l\u2019autre de son infid\u00e9lit\u00e9. Un moyen d\u2019y arriver est de <strong>comprendre quels ont \u00e9t\u00e9 les motifs de l\u2019autre<\/strong>.<\/span><\/p><ol start=\"4\"><li><strong> Renouer avec ses d\u00e9sirs<\/strong><\/li><\/ol><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Selon <strong>Esther Perel,<\/strong> l\u2019infid\u00e9lit\u00e9 a moins avoir avec un simple besoin sexuel mais plus <strong>un besoin de se reconnecter avec ses d\u00e9sirs que l\u2019on a perdu en cour de route<\/strong>. L\u2019ins\u00e9curit\u00e9 qu\u2019a cr\u00e9\u00e9 l\u2019infid\u00e9lit\u00e9 cr\u00e9e des turbulences dans le couple mais cela peut-\u00eatre une opportunit\u00e9 de renouer avec ses d\u00e9sirs personnels et ceux du couple et ca vaut autant pour le partenaire qui est tromp\u00e9 ou a tromp\u00e9. <strong>Prendre le temps de communiquer\/d\u2019\u00e9changer sur ses d\u00e9sirs<\/strong> permet au couple de repartir sur de nouvelles bases plus solides.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-b3db1c0 elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"b3db1c0\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-no\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-54b6d17\" data-id=\"54b6d17\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-35ddbaf2 elementor-section-content-bottom elementor-hidden-mobile elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"35ddbaf2\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-40e905ee\" data-id=\"40e905ee\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4bdeef8 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"4bdeef8\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-cbff3eb elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"cbff3eb\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-4737ae17\" data-id=\"4737ae17\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2d47be6d elementor-invisible elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"2d47be6d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;_animation&quot;:&quot;fadeInLeft&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\">Pour toi<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-725069fb elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"725069fb\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"quizz_offert\"><\/span><span>quizz offert<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7c9a7719 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"7c9a7719\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Couple_Partir_ou_rester\"><\/span><span><strong><em>Couple: Partir ou rester ? <\/em><\/strong><span> <\/span><\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-70432fa5 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"70432fa5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"color: #000000; font-size: 18px; letter-spacing: 1.1px;\">Enregistre-toi d\u00e8s maintenant \u00e0 ma newsletter et re\u00e7ois mon questionnaire gratuit.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-7d3c7446\" data-id=\"7d3c7446\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-6fcc138a elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"6fcc138a\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-19133e93\" data-id=\"19133e93\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-44f9b52f elementor-widget elementor-widget-shortcode\" data-id=\"44f9b52f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"shortcode.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-shortcode\"><script src=https:\/\/sandy-kaufmann.mykajabi.com\/forms\/2149274863\/embed.js><\/script><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2f182a60 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"2f182a60\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>* Champs obligatoires<\/p><p>Si tu t&rsquo;abonnes \u00e0 ma newsletter, tu recevras \u00e9galement des offres. Tu peux te d\u00e9sabonner \u00e0 tout moment. Merci de lire ma <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/politique-de-confidentialite\/\"> Politique de confidentialit\u00e9 <\/a> pour voir comment je traite les donn\u00e9es.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-43cd95d5 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"43cd95d5\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-7954319f\" data-id=\"7954319f\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-567caf1 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elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-6f403ce7 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"6f403ce7\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-4fdea7a3\" data-id=\"4fdea7a3\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-126d6b53 elementor-align-center elementor-mobile-align-center elementor-widget elementor-widget-button\" data-id=\"126d6b53\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"button.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-button-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-button elementor-button-link elementor-size-md\" href=\"https:\/\/www.payot.ch\/Detail\/les_couples_heureux_osent_aborder_les_sujets_qui_fachent-sandy_kaufmann_-9782416025259\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-content-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-text\">j'ach\u00e8te le livre depuis la suisse<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-513f4af8 elementor-align-center elementor-mobile-align-center elementor-widget elementor-widget-button\" data-id=\"513f4af8\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"button.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-button-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-button elementor-button-link elementor-size-md\" 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ensemble<\/strong> au quotidien.<\/p><p>Il inclut des modules \u00e0 faire \u00e0 votre rythme en duo ou en solo, la possibilit\u00e9 de te faire coacher par \u00e9mail en toute confidentialit\u00e9, la possibilit\u00e9 d&rsquo;ajouter des s\u00e9ances de coaching individuel ainsi que l\u2019option <em>Journ\u00e9e Pass\u00e9 <\/em>pour d\u00e9programmer les sch\u00e9mas amoureux par le corps si vous sentez que vos enfants bless\u00e9s prennent beaucoup de place dans vos conflits<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6cca2b1a elementor-align-center elementor-mobile-align-center elementor-widget elementor-widget-button\" data-id=\"6cca2b1a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"button.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-button-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-button elementor-button-link elementor-size-md\" 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