{"id":3921,"date":"2019-10-03T05:54:14","date_gmt":"2019-10-03T05:54:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/?p=3921"},"modified":"2022-01-18T12:43:48","modified_gmt":"2022-01-18T12:43:48","slug":"comment-refaire-confiance-aux-hommes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/comment-refaire-confiance-aux-hommes\/","title":{"rendered":"Comment (re)faire confiance aux hommes ?"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"3921\" class=\"elementor elementor-3921\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-e51e1a9 elementor-section-content-top elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-min-height elementor-section-items-bottom elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"e51e1a9\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-7f99a06c\" data-id=\"7f99a06c\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2786677d elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"2786677d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-xl\">Comment (re)faire <br>confiance aux hommes?<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-536a4092 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"536a4092\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-2560d3be\" data-id=\"2560d3be\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-23dbecbe elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"23dbecbe\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div><style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;\nfont-size: 34px;}\n    h3 {color: #7A7A7A;\nfont-size: 34px;}\n  <\/style><\/div>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>Apr\u00e8s plusieurs <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/pourquoi-homme-prend-distance\/\">d\u00e9ceptions amoureuses<\/a> o\u00f9 notre partenaire nous a trahi ou tromp\u00e9, il peut \u00eatre difficile de refaire confiance aux hommes, par peur de r\u00e9p\u00e9ter son histoire.<\/p>\n<p>Pour refaire confiance aux hommes, tu as besoin de savoir que ton nouveau partenaire va se comporter diff\u00e9remment ou est diff\u00e9rent de tes anciens partenaires.<\/p>\n<p>Et c\u2019est justement l\u00e0 le truc :<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b027417 elementor-widget elementor-widget-video\" data-id=\"b027417\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;youtube_url&quot;:&quot;https:\\\/\\\/youtu.be\\\/0OLLFlvn1bM&quot;,&quot;video_type&quot;:&quot;youtube&quot;,&quot;controls&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"video.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-wrapper elementor-open-inline\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-video\"><\/div>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5560178 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"5560178\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"La_confiance_nest_pas_donnee_demblee_elle_se_gagne\"><\/span>La confiance n\u2019est pas donn\u00e9e d\u2019embl\u00e9e, elle se gagne<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>C\u2019est en observant les actions de ton nouveau partenaire (et non pas ce qu\u2019il dit) que tu vas savoir si tu peux lui faire confiance ou pas et si <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/5-signes-quun-homme-ne-sinteresse-pas-a-toi\/\">il est int\u00e9ress\u00e9<\/a> : est-ce qu&rsquo;il <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/il-ne-repond-pas-a-mon-sms\/\">r\u00e9pond \u00e0 tes sms<\/a> rapidement? est-ce qu\u2019il fait ce \u00e0 quoi il s\u2019engage ? T\u2019int\u00e8gre-t\u2019il dans sa vie ? Est-il transparent avec toi sur ses intentions avec toi ? Connais-tu les personnes qu\u2019il fr\u00e9quente ?\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>C\u2019est la r\u00e9p\u00e9tition d\u2019actions positives et s\u00e9curisantes de sa part qui va t\u2019aider \u00e0 avoir confiance en lui.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Tu_peux_meme_en_parler_ouvertement_a_ton_partenaire\"><\/span>Tu peux m\u00eame en parler ouvertement \u00e0 ton partenaire.<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Sans m\u00eame passer pour une <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/pourquoi-les-hommes-preferent-les-chiantes\/\">chiante<\/a>.\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Car le but des hommes est de rendre leur femme heureuse.<\/p>\n<p>Je prends mon exemple personnel :<\/p>\n<p>Apr\u00e8s 7 ans de d\u00e9boires amoureux o\u00f9 mes partenaires finissaient par me tromper, j\u2019ai expliqu\u00e9 ma difficult\u00e9 \u00e0 faire confiance aux hommes \u00e0 mon nouveau partenaire (qui est devenu par la suite mon mari) et je lui ai exprim\u00e9 que j\u2019avais besoin de son aide pour me sentir rassur\u00e9e.<\/p>\n<p>Il a sans probl\u00e8me accept\u00e9 que j\u2019acc\u00e8de \u00e0 son t\u00e9l\u00e9phone ou son ordinateur librement et aussi souvent que je le voulais. J\u2019avais m\u00eame ses mots de passe.<\/p>\n<p>Sa totale transparence et le fait de voir qu\u2019il s\u2019engage pour notre relation ont compl\u00e8tement fait dispara\u00eetre mon manque de confiance.<\/p>\n<p>Et maintenant je n\u2019\u00e9prouve plus le besoin de fouiller et je ne suis plus <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/comment-arreter-detre-jalouse\/\">jalouse<\/a> s\u2019il voit des coll\u00e8gues femmes sans moi.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Mais_cela_ne_suffit_pas\"><\/span>Mais cela ne suffit pas<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Si tu attires des hommes qui trahissent notre confiance, c\u2019est qu\u2019\u00e0 un moment donn\u00e9 de ta vie tu t\u2019es sentie trahie par ton p\u00e8re ou ta m\u00e8re et que depuis tu as pens\u00e9 que c\u2019est la seule mani\u00e8re que tu m\u00e9rites pour \u00eatre aim\u00e9e.<\/p>\n<p>Pas besoin d\u2019avoir v\u00e9cu une enfance difficile pour enregistrer ce genre de sch\u00e9ma dans notre inconscient.<\/p>\n<p>Comment un sch\u00e9ma se cr\u00e9e dans ton inconscient ?<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-3a068c3 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"3a068c3\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-5fa569a\" data-id=\"5fa569a\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-fc1ec34 elementor-widget elementor-widget-video\" data-id=\"fc1ec34\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;youtube_url&quot;:&quot;https:\\\/\\\/youtu.be\\\/vZLWMGFfLZ0&quot;,&quot;video_type&quot;:&quot;youtube&quot;,&quot;controls&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"video.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-wrapper elementor-open-inline\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-video\"><\/div>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-dddc1b5 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"dddc1b5\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-400f044\" data-id=\"400f044\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-392ef7c elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"392ef7c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"i\"><\/span>\u00a0<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Un_travail_de_Sherlock_Holmes_est_necessaire_pour_trouver_le_bon_partenaire\"><\/span>Un travail de Sherlock Holmes est n\u00e9cessaire pour trouver le bon partenaire<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><p>Pour identifier ce qui a pu cr\u00e9er ce manque de confiance envers les hommes, il est essentiel de faire un bilan de tes relations pass\u00e9es et regarder quels <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/quest-ce-quun-schema-amoureux\/\">blocages<\/a> peuvent venir de l\u2019enfance.Cela passe aussi par savoir si tu as fait quelque chose de faux en accordant par exemple ta confiance sans signe concret que l\u2019autre pouvait m\u00e9riter ta confiance<span style=\"font-size: 18px; caret-color: #000000; color: #000000;\">\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 30px;\">.<\/span><\/p><p>C\u2019est seulement ainsi que tu seras pr\u00eate \u00e0 te risquer \u00e0 nouveau \u00e0 l\u2019Amour, car tu sauras clairement ce qu\u2019il faut faire pour changer ton avenir amoureux.\u00a0<\/p><p>C&rsquo;est ce que je propose dans mon programme en ligne de 4 semaines <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/souvrir-a-lamour\/\">S\u2019ouvrir \u00e0 l\u2019Amour<\/a>.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section 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