{"id":38262,"date":"2021-11-13T08:34:39","date_gmt":"2021-11-13T08:34:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/?p=38262"},"modified":"2025-10-15T04:29:14","modified_gmt":"2025-10-15T04:29:14","slug":"4-pourquoi-autant-davis-differents-chez-les-coachs-en-amour","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/4-pourquoi-autant-davis-differents-chez-les-coachs-en-amour\/","title":{"rendered":"4. Pourquoi autant d\u2019avis diff\u00e9rents chez les coachs en amour?"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"38262\" class=\"elementor elementor-38262\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-7ed86594 elementor-section-content-top elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-min-height elementor-section-items-bottom elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"7ed86594\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-6ea7bd98\" data-id=\"6ea7bd98\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3d639127 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"3d639127\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-xl\">Pourquoi autant d'avis diff\u00e9rents chez les coachs en amour? <\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-90a081b elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"90a081b\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-a496e9e\" data-id=\"a496e9e\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-62d37295 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"62d37295\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-4e162bd6\" data-id=\"4e162bd6\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-376509b elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"376509b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div><style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;<br \/>font-size: 34px;}<br \/>    h3 {color: #7A7A7A;<br \/>font-size: 34px;}<br \/>  <\/style><\/div><p>C\u2019est souvent une remarque que j&rsquo;ai re\u00e7ue de beaucoup de personnes qui commencent l&rsquo;accompagnement avec moi et me disent:<\/p><p>\u00ab\u00a0Sandy c&rsquo;est quoi le juste ? J&rsquo;ai vu beaucoup de coachs en amour, leur contenu sur Instagram, Facebook, leurs vid\u00e9os. Chacun d\u2019entre eux a des avis diff\u00e9rents. J\u2019ai un peu \u00e0 du mal \u00e0 savoir ce qui est juste. C\u2019est quoi la chose qu&rsquo;il faut faire en amour ? \u00ab\u00a0<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-fcb8d3e elementor-widget elementor-widget-video\" data-id=\"fcb8d3e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;youtube_url&quot;:&quot;https:\\\/\\\/youtu.be\\\/l6Q4yHSc_ec?si=J4usL6EpIEj0KQNi&quot;,&quot;video_type&quot;:&quot;youtube&quot;,&quot;controls&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"video.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-wrapper elementor-open-inline\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-video\"><\/div>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-13a2ead elementor-hidden-desktop elementor-hidden-tablet elementor-hidden-mobile elementor-widget elementor-widget-html\" data-id=\"13a2ead\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"html.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<iframe frameborder=\"0\" loading=\"lazy\" id=\"ausha-9rXB\" height=\"220\" style=\"border: none; width:100%; height:220px\" src=\"https:\/\/player.ausha.co\/index.html?podcastId=BxjV5S9akNl3&playlist=false&color=%23f6dcda&v=3&playerId=ausha-9rXB\"><\/iframe><script src=\"https:\/\/player.ausha.co\/ausha-player.js\"><\/script>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a613764 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"a613764\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tJ&rsquo;ai essay\u00e9 de lister un peu les principales contradictions que j&rsquo;ai pu voir des coachs que je connais. Bien s\u00fbr, cette liste n&rsquo;est pas exhaustive\u00a0:\n<ul>\n \t<li>Il y a d\u2019abord les approches qui sont plus orient\u00e9es sur les sympt\u00f4mes\u00a0: \u00ab\u00a0Comment aborder quelqu\u2019un ? Qu&rsquo;est-ce qu&rsquo;il faut faire pour r\u00e9ussir \u00e0 rencontrer quelqu&rsquo;un en ligne ?\u00a0\u00bb\u00a0 Et l&rsquo;autre approche qui est plus orient\u00e9e sur les causes\u00a0: \u00ab\u00a0Quels sont les mod\u00e8les d&rsquo;amour que tu as pu apprendre dans ta vie et qui influencent bien s\u00fbr les r\u00e9sultats que tu as en amour aujourd\u2019hui ?\u00a0\u00bb<\/li>\n \t<li>Il y a la question des besoins et des attentes o\u00f9 on peut entendre d\u2019un c\u00f4t\u00e9 que l\u2019autre n\u2019est pas responsable de r\u00e9pondre \u00e0 tes besoins et le conseil oppos\u00e9 o\u00f9 tu as le droit d&rsquo;avoir des attentes et des besoins dans ta relation.<\/li>\n \t<li>La question de l&rsquo;amour inconditionnel\u00a0: d&rsquo;un c\u00f4t\u00e9 il faut arriver \u00e0 aimer inconditionnellement l&rsquo;autre et l&rsquo;autre tendance dit que l&rsquo;amour inconditionnel dans une relation, c&rsquo;est impossible.<\/li>\n \t<li>L&rsquo;approche genr\u00e9e ou pas, est ce que les hommes et les femmes sont diff\u00e9rents ou est-ce qu&rsquo;au contraire, c&rsquo;est archa\u00efque et d\u00e9pass\u00e9 ?<\/li>\n \t<li>L\u2019influence de l&rsquo;amour de soi dans les relations. La premi\u00e8re tendance, c&rsquo;est de dire qu\u2019il faut s\u2019aimer soi-m\u00eame d\u2019abord pour arriver \u00e0 \u00eatre heureuse dans tes relations. Et la tendance inverse qui dit que tu n&rsquo;as pas besoin de totalement t&rsquo;aimer toi-m\u00eame pour arriver \u00e0 \u00eatre en relation.<\/li>\n \t<li>L\u2019impact de tes exp\u00e9riences pass\u00e9es sur ta vie amoureuse maintenant. L\u00e0, il y a vraiment des avis oppos\u00e9s\u00a0: il y a ceux qui disent que c&rsquo;est important de gu\u00e9rir les blessures de ton pass\u00e9 pour arriver \u00e0 \u00eatre en relation. Et l&rsquo;autre extr\u00eame qui dit non tu n&rsquo;as pas besoin de faire une analyse de ton pass\u00e9 pour arriver \u00e0 changer ta vie amoureuse.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\nPourquoi les personnes qui deviennent coachs peuvent donner des avis aussi diff\u00e9rents ? Et comment toi tu peux faire pour d\u00e9m\u00ealer le vrai du faux et savoir ce qui est bon pour ta situation personnelle ?\n\n\n<p class=\"has-background\" style=\"background-color: #eeeeee;\">\u2764\ufe0f Regarde <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/inscriptionblessurepasse\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">mon w\u00e9binaire <\/a><\/strong>sur comment \u00eatre enfin heureux\/se en Amour!<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-751a1b2b elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"751a1b2b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div><style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;<br \/>font-size: 34px;}<br \/>  <\/style><\/div><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"i\"><\/span>\u00a0<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Il_ny_a_pas_de_blanc_ou_de_noir\"><\/span><strong>Il n&rsquo;y a pas de blanc ou de noir<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><p>Il n&rsquo;y a pas de juste ou de faux, de blanc ou de noir en relations il y a beaucoup de gris tout simplement parce que la r\u00e9ussite d&rsquo;une relation d\u00e9pend pour moi de trois grands facteurs\u00a0:<\/p><ul><li>Toi<\/li><li>L\u2019autre<\/li><li>La relation<\/li><\/ul><p>Les conseils que tu re\u00e7ois sont biais\u00e9es par les propres exp\u00e9riences que cette personne a faite ou sur la base des exp\u00e9riences que ce coach ou cette th\u00e9rapeute a fait avec ses clients, ou bien encore sur la base des formations que cette personne a suivie et qui lui ont parl\u00e9, qui avec laquelle elle a eu une certaine r\u00e9sonance. Moi aussi, j&rsquo;ai mon approche que je propose, qui est biais\u00e9e par mon exp\u00e9rience personnelle, qui est biais\u00e9e par l&rsquo;exp\u00e9rience et les r\u00e9sultats que je vois chez mes clients.<\/p><p>Donne-toi donc le droit de prendre une certaine distance par rapport \u00e0 ce que tu re\u00e7ois comme conseil parce qu&rsquo;il est forc\u00e9ment biais\u00e9.<\/p><p>J\u2019avais envie d&rsquo;aborder un peu ces sujets de diff\u00e9rences et de t&rsquo;inviter \u00e0 te poser des questions en fonction de ton cas particulier.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4386a95 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4386a95\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div><style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;<br \/>font-size: 34px;}<br \/>  <\/style><\/div><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"i-2\"><\/span>\u00a0<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Approche_orientee_sur_les_symptomes_ou_sur_les_causes\"><\/span><strong>Approche orient\u00e9e sur les sympt\u00f4mes ou sur les causes<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><p>La premi\u00e8re diff\u00e9rence que je voulais parler, c&rsquo;est l&rsquo;approche des sympt\u00f4mes, donc les techniques de drague, les conseils pour rencontrer en ligne, le fameux \u00ab\u00a0Je fuis, tu me suis\u00a0\u00bb ou \u00ab\u00a0silence radio\u00a0\u00bb.<\/p><p>Ce sont plut\u00f4t des conseils qui cherchent \u00e0 r\u00e9soudre le fait de rencontrer quelqu&rsquo;un et sans contexte personnel, je trouve que c&rsquo;est difficile de savoir si ces conseils-l\u00e0 y sont vraiment pour toi ou pas.<\/p><p>Voici quelques exemples pour que tu vois un peu ce que je veux dire par l\u00e0.<\/p><p>Si je te donne l&rsquo;exemple du je fuis, tu me suis (Pour ceux qui ne savent pas ce que c\u2019est c\u2019est quand tu arr\u00eates de donner des nouvelles pour que les autres personnes viennent te courir apr\u00e8s). Alors peut \u00eatre que dans certains cas, \u00e7a marche. Mais si tu es une personne qui a d\u00e9j\u00e0 tendance \u00e0 fuir dans une relation, je ne suis pas vraiment s\u00fbre que ce soit un conseil qui va pouvoir t&rsquo;aider \u00e0 avancer dans ta vie amoureuse.<\/p><p>Le c\u00f4t\u00e9 est ce je dois faire le premier pas ? Est-ce que je dois aborder quelqu&rsquo;un en premier ? Bien s\u00fbr qu\u2019en soi, ce n&rsquo;est pas un mauvais conseil. Mais est-ce que c&rsquo;est appropri\u00e9 pour toi ? Si tu as toujours cette tendance de courir apr\u00e8s tes partenaires ce n\u2019est peut-\u00eatre pas la bonne approche. Si tu abordes d\u00e9j\u00e0 facilement sans succ\u00e8s un essai plus int\u00e9ressant serait aussi d&rsquo;apprendre \u00e0 te laisser aborder, d&rsquo;apprendre \u00e0 recevoir dans ta vie amoureuse.<\/p><p>L\u2019invitation est de te poser la question si ce conseil va t&rsquo;aider finalement \u00e0 inverser ta tendance naturelle ou pas et te permettre ainsi d\u2019exp\u00e9rimenter de nouveaux r\u00e9sultats.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1fbc259 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"1fbc259\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div><style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;<br \/>font-size: 34px;}<br \/>  <\/style><\/div><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"i-3\"><\/span>\u00a0<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Quid_des_attentes_en_couple\"><\/span><strong>Quid des attentes en couple<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><p>Sur les attentes en couple, je pense qu&rsquo;il y a autant d&rsquo;avis diff\u00e9rents que de coachs.<\/p><p>Mon invitation aussi, c&rsquo;est de r\u00e9fl\u00e9chir sur tes propres exp\u00e9riences et puis de voir si l&rsquo;approche que tu as eu en relation t\u2019a servi ou pas pour toi.<\/p><p>Par exemple si tu as eu cette tendance de t&rsquo;oublier en relation et de te sur-adapter alors peut \u00eatre d&rsquo;avoir des attentes et des limites et d&rsquo;arriver \u00e0 les exprimer sera un conseil utile pour toi.<\/p><p>Si, au contraire, tu as vraiment eu le sentiment que dans tes relations pass\u00e9es, tu avais tendance \u00e0 fonctionner avec un compteur par rapport \u00e0 ce que tu donnais \u00e0 l&rsquo;autre versus ce que tu recevais. \u00c0 ce moment-l\u00e0 cultiver moins d&rsquo;attentes et plus d&rsquo;amour inconditionnel sera plus aidant dans ton parcours personnel.<\/p><p>Si tu es plut\u00f4t dans le cas de la d\u00e9pendance affective o\u00f9 tu attendais beaucoup de l&rsquo;autre pour toi te sentir bien. Dans ton cas prendre la responsabilit\u00e9 de tes besoins t\u2019aidera plus<\/p><p>Enfin \u00a0si tu sens que tu manques profond\u00e9ment d&rsquo;amour envers toi tu peux te donner aussi le droit d&rsquo;essayer les deux versions, c&rsquo;est \u00e0 dire d\u00e9j\u00e0 de t&rsquo;apporter l&rsquo;amour qui te manque par toi-m\u00eame et exp\u00e9rimenter avec ton partenaire que tu es aimable.<\/p><p>En r\u00e9sum\u00e9 mon conseil c&rsquo;est d&rsquo;observer tes comportements d&rsquo;abord avant de d\u00e9cider si ce conseil est bon ou pas pour toi<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c5dd149 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c5dd149\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div><style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;<br \/>font-size: 34px;}<br \/>  <\/style><\/div><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"i-4\"><\/span>\u00a0<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Lapproche_genree_ou_pas\"><\/span><strong>L&rsquo;approche genr\u00e9e ou pas<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><p>Je pense qu\u2019ici c&rsquo;est le sujet qui g\u00e9n\u00e8re le plus de r\u00e9actions<\/p><ul><li>Parce que l&rsquo;\u00e9galit\u00e9 homme-femme n&rsquo;est pas encore acquise<\/li><li>Parce que le conditionnement culturel a encore un grand impact sur les diff\u00e9rences de comportements entre les hommes et les femmes<\/li><li>Parce qu&rsquo;il y a un amalgame populaire sur ces diff\u00e9rences et pas tout le monde se retrouve dans ces cases qu&rsquo;on veut attribuer aux hommes et aux femmes.<\/li><\/ul><p>Pourtant il y a des diff\u00e9rences physiologiques entre les hommes et les femmes et chaque individu (homme ou femme) a une polarit\u00e9 f\u00e9minine et masculine.<\/p><p>Mon invitation est ici encore l&rsquo;observation de ton cas particulier\u00a0et essayer une nouvelle mani\u00e8re de faire pour voir ce que cela t\u2019apporte:<\/p><ul><li>Est-ce que tu as l&rsquo;impression de ne pas comprendre l&rsquo;autre genre\u00a0? alors peut-\u00eatre que comprendre les diff\u00e9rences physiologiques et les impacts sur les comportements peut t\u2019aider.<\/li><li>Est-ce que tu te sens plus dans la polarit\u00e9 oppos\u00e9e \u00e0 ton genre (par exemple tu es une femme \u00e0 forte polarit\u00e9 masculine)\u00a0? \u00c0 ce moment-l\u00e0 l&rsquo;\u00e9tude des polarit\u00e9s f\u00e9minine et masculine serait une bonne piste\u00a0:<\/li><li>Est-ce que tu as envie plus de faire le premier pas et d&rsquo;oser aborder\u00a0? \u00c0 ce moment-l\u00e0 essaieune approche non-genr\u00e9e.<\/li><\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a790189 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"a790189\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div><style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;<br \/>font-size: 34px;}<br \/>  <\/style><\/div><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"i-5\"><\/span>\u00a0<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Limpact_du_passe_sur_ta_vie_amoureuse\"><\/span><strong>L&rsquo;impact du pass\u00e9 sur ta vie amoureuse<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><p>J\u2019ai identifi\u00e9 4 principales tendances\u00a0:<\/p><ol><li>Les approches plus psy qui te font parler de ton pass\u00e9, qui te font prendre conscience de comment tu as fonctionn\u00e9 dans le pass\u00e9 et qui gr\u00e2ce \u00e0 la relation th\u00e9rapeutique t\u2019aide \u00e0 exp\u00e9rimenter d\u2019autres formes d\u2019attachement plus s\u00e9curis\u00e9es.<\/li><li>L\u2019approche \u00ab\u00a0d\u00e9programmation\u00a0\u00bb par exemple l\u2019hypnose ou ma m\u00e9thode qui cherchent l\u2019\u00e9v\u00e9nement \u00e0 l\u2019origine de ton comportement et change ta mani\u00e8re de r\u00e9agir en te\u00ab\u00a0reprogrammant\u00a0\u00bb.<\/li><li>L\u2019approche plus coaching qui te proposent de changer en conscience les comportements qui te desservent maintenant sans parler du pass\u00e9.<\/li><li>Les approches plus \u00e9nerg\u00e9tiques qui te font changer ta vibration \u00e9nerg\u00e9tique pour que tu attires d\u2019autres personnes, d\u2019autres situations dans ta vie.<\/li><\/ol><p>Ici je te recommande de choisir la voie du courage plut\u00f4t que la \u00ab\u00a0caresse th\u00e9rapeutique\u00a0\u00bb\u00a0:<\/p><ul><li>Est-ce que c\u2019est facile pour toi de ressasser ton pass\u00e9 mais difficile de changer tes comportements\u00a0? Alors choisis l\u2019approche de coaching.<\/li><li>Est-ce que tu as du mal \u00e0 mettre des mots sur ton pass\u00e9 ou d\u2019en parler\u00a0? Alors une approche psy pourrait t\u2019aider.<\/li><li>Est-ce que tu as d\u00e9j\u00e0 conscience des blessures de ton pass\u00e9 mais tu n\u2019arrives pas \u00e0 changer ton comportement pour autant\u00a0? Alors l\u2019approche de d\u00e9programmation serait une bonne option<\/li><\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-71ab9338 elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"71ab9338\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-no\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-58a30a39\" data-id=\"58a30a39\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-170b2556 elementor-section-content-bottom elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"170b2556\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-7ccd4136\" data-id=\"7ccd4136\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1aa2f0f2 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"1aa2f0f2\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-3678c1db elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"3678c1db\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-5cac10\" data-id=\"5cac10\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-608fd915 elementor-invisible elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"608fd915\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;_animation&quot;:&quot;fadeInLeft&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\">Pour toi<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7c0e5183 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"7c0e5183\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"LE_WEBINAIRE_gratuit\"><\/span><span>LE W\u00c9BINAIRE gratuit<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-402ca481 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"402ca481\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"%22Comment_se_liberer_des_schemas_qui_nous_empechent_detre_heureuses_en_amour_%22\"><\/span><span><strong><em>\"Comment se lib\u00e9rer des sch\u00e9mas qui nous emp\u00eachent d'\u00eatre heureuses en amour ?\"<\/em><\/strong><span> <\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6aefc8a6 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"6aefc8a6\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"color: #000000; font-size: 18px; letter-spacing: 1.1px;\">Enregistre-toi d\u00e8s maintenant \u00e0 ma newsletter et re\u00e7ois le replay du w\u00e9binaire.<span lang=\"FR-CH\">\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-69d1288b\" data-id=\"69d1288b\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-789ccf49 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"789ccf49\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-5e231979\" data-id=\"5e231979\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-16dc6166 elementor-widget elementor-widget-shortcode\" data-id=\"16dc6166\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"shortcode.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-shortcode\"><script src=https:\/\/sandy-kaufmann.mykajabi.com\/forms\/2149274795\/embed.js><\/script><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6bebaeb elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"6bebaeb\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>* Champs obligatoires<\/p><p>Si tu t&rsquo;abonnes \u00e0 ma newsletter, tu recevras \u00e9galement des offres. Tu peux te d\u00e9sabonner \u00e0 tout moment. Merci de lire ma <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/politique-de-confidentialite\/\"> Politique de confidentialit\u00e9 <\/a> pour voir comment je traite les donn\u00e9es.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-b0f216f elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"b0f216f\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-29e6d57\" data-id=\"29e6d57\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4674a92 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4674a92\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div>\n<style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;<br \/>font-size: 34px;}<br \/>  <\/style>\n<\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"i-6\"><\/span>&nbsp;<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Mon_manifesto\"><\/span><strong>Mon manifesto<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Cest_a_dire_mon_positionnement_par_rapport_a_toutes_ces_approches\"><\/span><strong> <br>C&rsquo;est \u00e0 dire mon positionnement par rapport \u00e0 toutes ces approches<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li>Le pass\u00e9 a son importance mais pas que ton comportement aussi. C\u2019est pour cela que je combine le coaching avec l\u2019approche psycho-corporelle.<\/li>\n<li>Prendre conscience de ses sch\u00e9mas amoureux ne suffit , une d\u00e9programmation est n\u00e9cessaire et elle passe par le corps.<\/li>\n<li>Le corps influence ta t\u00eate et vice-versa ce qui fait que dans mon coaching je propose des outils pour la t\u00eate ou le corps.<\/li>\n<li>Les hommes et les femmes sont \u00e9gaux et physiologiquement diff\u00e9rents. Comprendre ces diff\u00e9rences t\u2019aide \u00e0 mieux comprendre ton partenaire et \u00e0 voir sa compl\u00e9mentarit\u00e9.<\/li>\n<li>Il n\u2019y a pas de blanc ou de noir mais pleins de nuances de gris qui font que ta solution est unique. Mon but est que tu reprennes confiance en ton jugement pour que tu d\u00e9cides par toi-m\u00eame<\/li>\n<li>Il y a un temps pour l\u2019accueil de ta difficult\u00e9, la compassion et un temps pour passer \u00e0 l\u2019action et te donner un coup de pied aux fesses.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-62ac436 elementor-widget elementor-widget-video\" data-id=\"62ac436\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;youtube_url&quot;:&quot;https:\\\/\\\/youtu.be\\\/jbP9H7XbKdU&quot;,&quot;video_type&quot;:&quot;youtube&quot;,&quot;controls&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"video.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-wrapper elementor-open-inline\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-video\"><\/div>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-218b9fb0 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"218b9fb0\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-1ef5f104\" data-id=\"1ef5f104\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-47fb8712 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"47fb8712\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Pour_aller_plus_loin\"><\/span>Pour aller plus loin<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2a24b22e elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"2a24b22e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Si tu as envie d\u2019approfondir le sujet et d\u2019identifier tes propres sch\u00e9mas amoureux tu as <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/livre-souvrir-a-lamour-et-si-la-solution-se-trouvait-du-cote-du-nerf-vague\/\">mon livre <\/a><\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/livre-souvrir-a-lamour-et-si-la-solution-se-trouvait-du-cote-du-nerf-vague\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">S\u2019ouvrir \u00e0 l\u2019amour<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> disponible dans toutes les librairies.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-f817bba elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"f817bba\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-d30ea2d\" data-id=\"d30ea2d\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-61cffad elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"61cffad\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div><style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;<br \/>font-size: 34px;}<br \/>  <\/style><\/div><p><span style=\"font-size: 30px;\">Et enfin si tu es pr\u00eate \u00e0 t\u2019ouvrir \u00e0 l\u2019amour et \u00e0 transformer ta vie amoureuse je t\u2019invite \u00e0 rejoindre mon programme de coaching <\/span><a style=\"font-size: 30px; background-color: #ffffff;\" href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/souvrir-a-lamour\/\">S\u2019ouvrir \u00e0 l\u2019amour<\/a><span style=\"font-size: 30px;\">.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-14f53ad elementor-align-center elementor-mobile-align-center elementor-widget elementor-widget-global elementor-global-38034 elementor-widget-button\" data-id=\"14f53ad\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"button.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-button-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-button elementor-button-link elementor-size-md\" href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/souvrir-a-lamour\/\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-content-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-text\">S'ouvrir \u00e0 l'amour<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-1efee2fa elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"1efee2fa\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-11565105\" data-id=\"11565105\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4fb9dba1 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4fb9dba1\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>\n<div id=\"sb_instagram\"  class=\"sbi sbi_mob_col_1 sbi_tab_col_2 sbi_col_6\" style=\"padding-bottom: 10px; background-color: rgb(255,255,255); width: 100%;\"\t data-feedid=\"sbi_17841411036917986#6\"  data-res=\"thumb\" data-cols=\"6\" data-colsmobile=\"1\" data-colstablet=\"2\" data-num=\"6\" data-nummobile=\"\" data-item-padding=\"5\"\t data-shortcode-atts=\"{}\"  data-postid=\"38262\" data-locatornonce=\"fd7a04102b\" data-imageaspectratio=\"1:1\" data-sbi-flags=\"favorLocal,ajaxPostLoad,gdpr\">\n\t\n\t<div id=\"sbi_images\"  style=\"gap: 10px;\">\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\n\t<div id=\"sbi_load\" >\n\n\t\n\t\n<\/div>\n\t\t<span class=\"sbi_resized_image_data\" data-feed-id=\"sbi_17841411036917986#6\"\n\t\t  data-resized=\"{&quot;18005828987727758&quot;:{&quot;id&quot;:&quot;688044806_1315919127130635_1494595142759832051_n&quot;,&quot;ratio&quot;:&quot;0.56&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:{&quot;full&quot;:640,&quot;low&quot;:320,&quot;thumb&quot;:150},&quot;extension&quot;:&quot;.jpg&quot;},&quot;17953185168129373&quot;:{&quot;id&quot;:&quot;683097459_1499218588319630_8710910897611064073_n&quot;,&quot;ratio&quot;:&quot;0.56&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:{&quot;full&quot;:640,&quot;low&quot;:320,&quot;thumb&quot;:150},&quot;extension&quot;:&quot;.jpg&quot;},&quot;17887063248508818&quot;:{&quot;id&quot;:&quot;689976665_1334000738578504_6617110963860896542_n&quot;,&quot;ratio&quot;:&quot;0.56&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:{&quot;full&quot;:640,&quot;low&quot;:320,&quot;thumb&quot;:150},&quot;extension&quot;:&quot;.jpg&quot;},&quot;18062486510428438&quot;:{&quot;id&quot;:&quot;688729033_1459164595429028_7482691900602151230_n&quot;,&quot;ratio&quot;:&quot;0.56&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:{&quot;full&quot;:640,&quot;low&quot;:320,&quot;thumb&quot;:150},&quot;extension&quot;:&quot;.jpg&quot;},&quot;18080555207551853&quot;:{&quot;id&quot;:&quot;692544221_2253178741754835_8744962106820333392_n&quot;,&quot;ratio&quot;:&quot;0.56&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:{&quot;full&quot;:640,&quot;low&quot;:320,&quot;thumb&quot;:150},&quot;extension&quot;:&quot;.jpg&quot;},&quot;17943844788192534&quot;:{&quot;id&quot;:&quot;694217759_969976992410557_8249873142562850775_n&quot;,&quot;ratio&quot;:&quot;0.56&quot;,&quot;sizes&quot;:{&quot;full&quot;:640,&quot;low&quot;:320,&quot;thumb&quot;:150},&quot;extension&quot;:&quot;.jpg&quot;}}\">\n\t<\/span>\n\t<\/div>\n\n<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-2b0c4aa2 elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-min-height elementor-section-items-stretch elementor-section-content-middle elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"2b0c4aa2\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-4777e6d3\" data-id=\"4777e6d3\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-5bccdb0c elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"5bccdb0c\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-20 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-102cf14 elementor-sm-33\" data-id=\"102cf14\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1cc36f72 elementor-view-default elementor-widget elementor-widget-icon\" data-id=\"1cc36f72\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"icon.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-icon-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-icon\" href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sandykaufmanncoaching\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\n\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fab fa-facebook-f\"><\/i>\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-377566b6 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"377566b6\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sandykaufmanncoaching\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Facebook<\/a><\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-20 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-73f1e100 elementor-sm-33\" data-id=\"73f1e100\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7152f8aa elementor-view-default elementor-widget elementor-widget-icon\" data-id=\"7152f8aa\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"icon.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-icon-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-icon\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/sandykaufmann_lovecoach\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\n\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fab fa-instagram\"><\/i>\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2bf3ec34 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"2bf3ec34\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/sandykaufmann_lovecoach\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Instagram<\/a><\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-20 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-76071aa1 elementor-sm-33\" data-id=\"76071aa1\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-666d090c elementor-view-default elementor-widget elementor-widget-icon\" data-id=\"666d090c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"icon.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-icon-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-icon\" href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/channel\/UCK-hi3HapAMgqRQ268Ode-A?\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\n\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fab fa-youtube\"><\/i>\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-50f9829 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"50f9829\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/channel\/UCK-hi3HapAMgqRQ268Ode-A?\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Youtube<\/a><\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-20 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-72c20e7 elementor-sm-33\" data-id=\"72c20e7\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5326f6e elementor-view-default elementor-widget elementor-widget-icon\" data-id=\"5326f6e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"icon.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-icon-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-icon\" href=\"http:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/fr\/podcast\/souvrir-%C3%A0-lamour\/id1594692189?l=en\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\n\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fas fa-podcast\"><\/i>\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-13e4706 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"13e4706\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><a href=\"http:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/fr\/podcast\/souvrir-%C3%A0-lamour\/id1594692189?l=en\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Apple<\/a><\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-20 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-0c38067 elementor-sm-33\" data-id=\"0c38067\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b8eec46 elementor-view-default elementor-widget elementor-widget-icon\" data-id=\"b8eec46\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"icon.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-icon-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-icon\" href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/show\/5Wz6EFR37F8Yqmzhmy0RMP\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\n\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fab fa-spotify\"><\/i>\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-72b5d38 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"72b5d38\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/show\/5Wz6EFR37F8Yqmzhmy0RMP\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Spotify<\/a><\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-4962630b\" data-id=\"4962630b\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-409b0965 elementor-icon-list--layout-traditional elementor-list-item-link-full_width elementor-widget elementor-widget-icon-list\" data-id=\"409b0965\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"icon-list.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul class=\"elementor-icon-list-items\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<li class=\"elementor-icon-list-item\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"mailto:info@sandykaufmann.ch\">\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"far fa-envelope\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-text\">info@sandykaufmann.ch<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/ul>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_82_2 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Table des mati\u00e8res<\/p>\n<label for=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a033a8836142\" class=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-label\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/label><input type=\"checkbox\"  id=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a033a8836142\" checked aria-label=\"Toggle\" \/><nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/4-pourquoi-autant-davis-differents-chez-les-coachs-en-amour\/#i\" >\u00a0<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/4-pourquoi-autant-davis-differents-chez-les-coachs-en-amour\/#Il_ny_a_pas_de_blanc_ou_de_noir\" >Il n&rsquo;y a pas de blanc ou de noir<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/4-pourquoi-autant-davis-differents-chez-les-coachs-en-amour\/#i-2\" >\u00a0<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/4-pourquoi-autant-davis-differents-chez-les-coachs-en-amour\/#Approche_orientee_sur_les_symptomes_ou_sur_les_causes\" >Approche orient\u00e9e sur les sympt\u00f4mes ou sur les causes<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/4-pourquoi-autant-davis-differents-chez-les-coachs-en-amour\/#i-3\" >\u00a0<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/4-pourquoi-autant-davis-differents-chez-les-coachs-en-amour\/#Quid_des_attentes_en_couple\" >Quid des attentes en couple<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/4-pourquoi-autant-davis-differents-chez-les-coachs-en-amour\/#i-4\" >\u00a0<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-8\" href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/4-pourquoi-autant-davis-differents-chez-les-coachs-en-amour\/#Lapproche_genree_ou_pas\" >L&rsquo;approche genr\u00e9e ou pas<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-9\" href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/4-pourquoi-autant-davis-differents-chez-les-coachs-en-amour\/#i-5\" >\u00a0<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-10\" href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/4-pourquoi-autant-davis-differents-chez-les-coachs-en-amour\/#Limpact_du_passe_sur_ta_vie_amoureuse\" >L&rsquo;impact du pass\u00e9 sur ta vie amoureuse<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-11\" href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/4-pourquoi-autant-davis-differents-chez-les-coachs-en-amour\/#LE_WEBINAIRE_gratuit\" >LE W\u00c9BINAIRE gratuit<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-12\" href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/4-pourquoi-autant-davis-differents-chez-les-coachs-en-amour\/#%22Comment_se_liberer_des_schemas_qui_nous_empechent_detre_heureuses_en_amour_%22\" >\"Comment se lib\u00e9rer des sch\u00e9mas qui nous emp\u00eachent d'\u00eatre heureuses en amour ?\"<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-13\" href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/4-pourquoi-autant-davis-differents-chez-les-coachs-en-amour\/#i-6\" >&nbsp;<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-14\" href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/4-pourquoi-autant-davis-differents-chez-les-coachs-en-amour\/#Mon_manifesto\" >Mon manifesto<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-15\" href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/4-pourquoi-autant-davis-differents-chez-les-coachs-en-amour\/#Cest_a_dire_mon_positionnement_par_rapport_a_toutes_ces_approches\" >C&rsquo;est \u00e0 dire mon positionnement par rapport \u00e0 toutes ces approches<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-16\" href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/4-pourquoi-autant-davis-differents-chez-les-coachs-en-amour\/#Pour_aller_plus_loin\" >Pour aller plus loin<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Pourquoi autant d&rsquo;avis diff\u00e9rents chez les coachs en amour? C\u2019est souvent une remarque que j&rsquo;ai re\u00e7ue de beaucoup de personnes qui commencent l&rsquo;accompagnement avec moi et me disent: \u00ab\u00a0Sandy c&rsquo;est quoi le juste ? J&rsquo;ai vu beaucoup de coachs en amour, leur contenu sur Instagram, Facebook, leurs vid\u00e9os. Chacun d\u2019entre eux a des avis diff\u00e9rents. [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ocean_post_layout":"full-screen","ocean_both_sidebars_style":"","ocean_both_sidebars_content_width":0,"ocean_both_sidebars_sidebars_width":0,"ocean_sidebar":"0","ocean_second_sidebar":"0","ocean_disable_margins":"enable","ocean_add_body_class":"","ocean_shortcode_before_top_bar":"","ocean_shortcode_after_top_bar":"","ocean_shortcode_before_header":"","ocean_shortcode_after_header":"","ocean_has_shortcode":"","ocean_shortcode_after_title":"","ocean_shortcode_before_footer_widgets":"","ocean_shortcode_after_footer_widgets":"","ocean_shortcode_before_footer_bottom":"","ocean_shortcode_after_footer_bottom":"","ocean_display_top_bar":"default","ocean_display_header":"default","ocean_header_style":"","ocean_center_header_left_menu":"0","ocean_custom_header_template":"0","ocean_custom_logo":0,"ocean_custom_retina_logo":0,"ocean_custom_logo_max_width":0,"ocean_custom_logo_tablet_max_width":0,"ocean_custom_logo_mobile_max_width":0,"ocean_custom_logo_max_height":0,"ocean_custom_logo_tablet_max_height":0,"ocean_custom_logo_mobile_max_height":0,"ocean_header_custom_menu":"0","ocean_menu_typo_font_family":"0","ocean_menu_typo_font_subset":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_size":0,"ocean_menu_typo_font_size_tablet":0,"ocean_menu_typo_font_size_mobile":0,"ocean_menu_typo_font_size_unit":"px","ocean_menu_typo_font_weight":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_weight_tablet":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_weight_mobile":"","ocean_menu_typo_transform":"","ocean_menu_typo_transform_tablet":"","ocean_menu_typo_transform_mobile":"","ocean_menu_typo_line_height":0,"ocean_menu_typo_line_height_tablet":0,"ocean_menu_typo_line_height_mobile":0,"ocean_menu_typo_line_height_unit":"","ocean_menu_typo_spacing":0,"ocean_menu_typo_spacing_tablet":0,"ocean_menu_typo_spacing_mobile":0,"ocean_menu_typo_spacing_unit":"","ocean_menu_link_color":"","ocean_menu_link_color_hover":"","ocean_menu_link_color_active":"","ocean_menu_link_background":"","ocean_menu_link_hover_background":"","ocean_menu_link_active_background":"","ocean_menu_social_links_bg":"","ocean_menu_social_hover_links_bg":"","ocean_menu_social_links_color":"","ocean_menu_social_hover_links_color":"","ocean_disable_title":"default","ocean_disable_heading":"default","ocean_post_title":"","ocean_post_subheading":"","ocean_post_title_style":"","ocean_post_title_background_color":"","ocean_post_title_background":0,"ocean_post_title_bg_image_position":"","ocean_post_title_bg_image_attachment":"","ocean_post_title_bg_image_repeat":"","ocean_post_title_bg_image_size":"","ocean_post_title_height":0,"ocean_post_title_bg_overlay":0.5,"ocean_post_title_bg_overlay_color":"","ocean_disable_breadcrumbs":"default","ocean_breadcrumbs_color":"","ocean_breadcrumbs_separator_color":"","ocean_breadcrumbs_links_color":"","ocean_breadcrumbs_links_hover_color":"","ocean_display_footer_widgets":"default","ocean_display_footer_bottom":"default","ocean_custom_footer_template":"0","ocean_post_oembed":"","ocean_post_self_hosted_media":"","ocean_post_video_embed":"","ocean_link_format":"","ocean_link_format_target":"self","ocean_quote_format":"","ocean_quote_format_link":"post","ocean_gallery_link_images":"off","ocean_gallery_id":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[65],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-38262","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-couple","entry","owp-thumbs-layout-horizontal","owp-btn-normal","owp-tabs-layout-horizontal","has-no-thumbnails"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38262","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=38262"}],"version-history":[{"count":92,"href":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38262\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1080209,"href":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/38262\/revisions\/1080209"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=38262"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=38262"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=38262"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}