{"id":36898,"date":"2022-03-28T07:15:01","date_gmt":"2022-03-28T07:15:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/?p=36898"},"modified":"2025-10-14T15:45:53","modified_gmt":"2025-10-14T15:45:53","slug":"13-catherine-la-psy-suis-je-dans-une-relation-toxique-ou-avec-un-pervers-narcissique","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/13-catherine-la-psy-suis-je-dans-une-relation-toxique-ou-avec-un-pervers-narcissique\/","title":{"rendered":"13. Catherine la psy: Suis-je dans une relation toxique ou avec un pervers narcissique?"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"36898\" class=\"elementor elementor-36898\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-7ed86594 elementor-section-content-top elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-min-height elementor-section-items-bottom elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"7ed86594\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-6ea7bd98\" data-id=\"6ea7bd98\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3d639127 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"3d639127\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-xl\">Es-tu dans une relation ou avec une personne toxique?<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-62d37295 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"62d37295\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-4e162bd6\" data-id=\"4e162bd6\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-376509b elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"376509b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div><style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;<br \/>font-size: 34px;}<br \/>    h3 {color: #7A7A7A;<br \/>font-size: 34px;}<br \/>  <\/style><\/div><p>As-tu l&rsquo;impression d&rsquo;\u00eatre manipul\u00e9e ou rabaiss\u00e9e constamment dans ta relation amoureuse?<\/p><p>Souffres-tu dans la relation ou as-tu l&rsquo;impression de toujours faire faux, d\u2019apr\u00e8s les dires de ton partenaire?<\/p><p>Quand tu lis les descriptions des pervers narcissiques sur internet, tu as l&rsquo;impression de lire la description de ton conjoint?\u00a0<\/p><p>S&rsquo;il est important de prendre une relation toxique au s\u00e9rieux, il me semble que le mot pervers narcissique est aussi devenu tr\u00e8s \u00e0 la mode dans le coaching amoureux.<\/p><p>Le but de cet interview avec <a href=\"https:\/\/catherinelapsy.com\/ateliers\/sortir-des-relations-toxiques\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Catherine La Psy<\/a> est de t&rsquo;aider \u00e0 identifier si tu es dans une relation toxique et\/ou avec une personne toxique et comment t\u2019en sortir.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p>Ci-dessous tu trouveras mon point de vue personnel sur comment sortir de relations toxiques ainsi les limites du coaching selon moi.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d62ad66 elementor-widget elementor-widget-video\" data-id=\"d62ad66\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;youtube_url&quot;:&quot;https:\\\/\\\/youtu.be\\\/AE-aOgMiflg?si=CP7jFY_F7P-eWR4K&quot;,&quot;video_type&quot;:&quot;youtube&quot;,&quot;controls&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"video.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-wrapper elementor-open-inline\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-video\"><\/div>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3606735 elementor-hidden-desktop elementor-hidden-tablet elementor-widget elementor-widget-html\" data-id=\"3606735\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"html.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<iframe frameborder=\"0\" loading=\"lazy\" id=\"ausha-2nNG\" height=\"220\" style=\"border: none; width:100%; height:220px\" src=\"https:\/\/player.ausha.co\/index.html?showId=bjPkYiPMPlqo&color=%23d13523&podcastId=ow9mEhP2xdkz&v=3&playerId=ausha-2nNG\"><\/iframe><script src=\"https:\/\/player.ausha.co\/ausha-player.js\"><\/script>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-751a1b2b elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"751a1b2b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div><style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;<br \/>font-size: 34px;}<br \/>  <\/style><\/div>\n<h2><\/h2>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Ton_barometre_ton_degre_de_souffrance\"><\/span><strong>Ton barom\u00e8tre: ton degr\u00e9 de souffrance<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\nLe premier indicateur est ton degr\u00e9 de souffrance psychologique ou physique:\n<ul>\n \t<li>Arrives-tu \u00e0 \u00eatre toi dans la relation?<\/li>\n \t<li>Es-tu respect\u00e9e par ton partenaire?<\/li>\n \t<li>As-tu constamment le sentiment d\u2019\u00eatre d\u00e9prim\u00e9e\/manipul\u00e9e par le comportement de ton partenaire?<\/li>\n \t<li>Est-ce que tu t\u2019isoles des autres depuis que tu es avec lui?<\/li>\n \t<li>As-tu perdu totalement confiance en toi et culpabilises-tu sur tes moindres faits et gestes en appr\u00e9hendant la r\u00e9action de ton partenaire?<\/li>\n \t<li>Est-ce que ton corps devient de plus en plus souvent malade ou te sens-tu de plus en plus souvent stress\u00e9e?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\nLe centre <a href=\"https:\/\/www.centre-hubertine-auclert.fr\/outil\/brochure-violentometre\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Hubertine Auclert<\/a> met \u00e0 disposition cet outil simple appel\u00e9 le violentom\u00e8tre qui mesure le degr\u00e9 de toxicit\u00e9 de ta relation.\n\n<p class=\"has-background\" style=\"background-color: #eeeeee;\">\u2764\ufe0f Regarde <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/inscriptionblessurepasse\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">mon w\u00e9binaire <\/a><\/strong>sur comment \u00eatre enfin heureux\/se en Amour!<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-0409f88 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"0409f88\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div><style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;<br \/>font-size: 34px;}<br \/>    h3 {color: #7A7A7A;<br \/>font-size: 34px;}<br \/>  <\/style><\/div><p>Les clientes que j&rsquo;ai pu accompagner dans ce domaine ont souvent une difficult\u00e9 \u00e0 percevoir par elles-m\u00eames la toxicit\u00e9 de la relation dans laquelle elles se trouvent. Ton entourage peut \u00eatre une aide pour faire ce genre d&rsquo;\u00e9valuation:\u00a0est-ce que tu as re\u00e7u des avertissements au sujet de ta relation ou de ton partenaire par des amis proches ou de la famille proche? Ou bien as-tu des remarques sur le fait que tu as chang\u00e9 n\u00e9gativement depuis que tu es en couple, de la part d&rsquo;amis ou de ta famille? La multiplication de ce genre de remarques venant de sources diff\u00e9rentes peut-\u00eatre un bon indicateur pour toi que ta relation est toxique.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4386a95 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4386a95\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div><style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;<br \/>font-size: 34px;}<br \/>  <\/style><\/div><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"i\"><\/span>\u00a0<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Difference_entre_une_personne_toxique_notamment_pervers_narcissique_et_une_relation_toxique\"><\/span><strong>Diff\u00e9rence entre une personne toxique (notamment pervers narcissique) et une relation toxique<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><p>Une personne toxique est toxique avec TOUT son entourage, ne se remet pas en question, poss\u00e8de un trouble de la personnalit\u00e9 et nuit \u00e0 son entourage en harcelant, en manipulant, en rabaissant ou en ayant un comportement impulsif\/agressif envers l&rsquo;autre.<\/p><p>Un des profils de personnes toxiques est le pervers narcissique qui se d\u00e9marque par une survalorisation de soi-m\u00eame aux d\u00e9pens d&rsquo;autrui, notamment en utilisant la manipulation mentale \u00e0 ses propres fins de valorisation et en manquant d\u2019empathie par rapport aux besoins ou aux sentiments d&rsquo;autrui.<\/p><p>Le <a href=\"https:\/\/www.msdmanuals.com\/fr\/professional\/troubles-psychiatriques\/%EF%BB%BFtroubles-de-la-personnalit%C3%A9\/trouble-de-la-personnalit%C3%A9-narcissique\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">MSD<\/a> mentionne que pour diagnostiquer un trouble de la personnalit\u00e9 narcissique, la personne doit avoir un sch\u00e9ma persistant de grandiosit\u00e9, de besoin d&rsquo;admiration et de manque d&#8217;empathie et correspondre \u00e0 \u2265 5 des \u00e9l\u00e9ments suivants:<\/p><ul><li>Un sens exag\u00e9r\u00e9 et infond\u00e9 de son importance et de ses talents (m\u00e9galomanie)<\/li><li>Une obsession de fantasmes de succ\u00e8s, d&rsquo;influence, de pouvoir, d&rsquo;intelligence, de beaut\u00e9, ou d&rsquo;amour parfait illimit\u00e9s<\/li><li>La conviction qu&rsquo;elle est sp\u00e9ciale et unique et qu&rsquo;elle ne doit s&rsquo;associer qu&rsquo;avec des personnes hors normes<\/li><li>Un besoin d&rsquo;\u00eatre admir\u00e9e de fa\u00e7on inconditionnelle<\/li><li>La conviction de disposer d&rsquo;un droit<\/li><li>L&rsquo;exploitation des autres pour atteindre ses propres objectifs<\/li><li>Un manque d&#8217;empathie<\/li><li>La convoitise suscit\u00e9e par les autres et le sentiment que les autres l\u2019envient<\/li><li>L&rsquo;arrogance et la fiert\u00e9<\/li><\/ul><p>Ce diagnostic doit \u00eatre pos\u00e9 par une personne form\u00e9e. Ces \u00e9l\u00e9ments sont justes une indication.<\/p><p>Une relation toxique est une relation entretenue par des jeux psychologiques qui font souffrir \u00e0 terme toutes les personnes de la relation est o\u00f9 chaque personne prend alternativement un des r\u00f4les suivants, que Karpman a identifi\u00e9 comme \u00e9tant le triangle dramatique:<\/p><ul><li>Le Pers\u00e9cuteur ou Bourreau qui fait souffrir autrui pour canaliser ses propres peurs. Il domine en s&rsquo;imposant (\u201cJe sais mieux, j\u2019ai raison\u201d).<\/li><li>La Victime qui pense que les autres sont responsables de son bonheur\/malheur et se sent impuissante. Elle domine les autres en s&rsquo;apitoyant (\u201cJe suis faible, on doit m\u2019aider\u201d).<\/li><li>Le Sauveur qui vole au secours d&rsquo;autrui, m\u00eame quand l&rsquo;autre n&rsquo;a rien demand\u00e9. Il domine les autres en se rendant indispensable (\u201cLes autres sont faibles, je dois les aider\u201d).<\/li><\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-53b62f0 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"53b62f0\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/2021.09.10_Triangledramatiquekarpman-1024x1024.png\" class=\"attachment-large size-large wp-image-36942\" alt=\"Triangledramatiquekarpman\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/2021.09.10_Triangledramatiquekarpman-1024x1024.png 1024w, https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/2021.09.10_Triangledramatiquekarpman-300x300.png 300w, https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/2021.09.10_Triangledramatiquekarpman-150x150.png 150w, https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/2021.09.10_Triangledramatiquekarpman-768x767.png 768w, https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/2021.09.10_Triangledramatiquekarpman-600x600.png 600w, https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/2021.09.10_Triangledramatiquekarpman-100x100.png 100w, https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/09\/2021.09.10_Triangledramatiquekarpman.png 1242w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-795a8e0 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"795a8e0\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div><style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;<br \/>font-size: 34px;}<br \/>    h3 {color: #7A7A7A;<br \/>font-size: 34px;}<br \/>  <\/style><\/div><p>Les personnes ne sont pas toxiques en soi, ce sont leurs interactions qui sont toxiques.\u00a0Ces jeux psychologiques sont bien trop souvent pratiqu\u00e9s inconsciemment et fonctionnent sous le mode du perdant-perdant, c&rsquo;est-\u00e0-dire o\u00f9 finalement chaque individu alimente le jeu psychologique et en souffre \u00e0 la fois. Il est courant de changer de r\u00f4le dans une m\u00eame relation, en fonction de la situation.<\/p><p>Si tu veux en savoir plus, je te recommande aussi d&rsquo;\u00e9couter les \u00e9pisodes du podcast de Jennifer Picci Only up to you qui a fait une interview plus longue de la psychoth\u00e9rapeute Catherine La Psy \u00e0 ce sujet\u00a0 (Aka <a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/catherine_la_psy\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">@Catherine_lapsy<\/a>) dans les \u00e9pisodes <a href=\"https:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/fr\/podcast\/les-relations-toxiques\/id1445390805?i=1000505076105\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">97<\/a> et <a href=\"https:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/fr\/podcast\/les-relations-toxiques-part-2\/id1445390805?i=1000505757998\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">98<\/a>.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1fbc259 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"1fbc259\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div><style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;<br \/>font-size: 34px;}<br \/>  <\/style><\/div><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"i-2\"><\/span>\u00a0<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Comment_sortir_dune_relation_avec_une_personne_toxique\"><\/span><strong>Comment sortir d&rsquo;une relation avec une personne toxique?<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><p>Une personne toxique n&rsquo;a pas conscience qu&rsquo;elle est toxique. Si tu es en relation avec une personne toxique, tu ne peux pas sauver la relation. Il est important de te d\u00e9faire de son emprise et arr\u00eater la relation.<\/p><p>Pour t&rsquo;aider dans ce processus, cela ressort du domaine du coaching et je t\u2019invite \u00e0 faire appel \u00e0 un psychoth\u00e9rapeute (en Suisse tu as une liste sur le site <a href=\"https:\/\/www.psychologie.ch\/fr\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">FSP<\/a>) et \u00e0 tes proches pour te soutenir dans cette \u00e9tape.<\/p><p>Une personne victime de personnes toxiques peut se sentir fragile dans son identit\u00e9 et coupable de faire ce pas et donc avoir du mal \u00e0 passer \u00e0 l&rsquo;action seule.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c5dd149 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c5dd149\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div><style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;<br \/>font-size: 34px;}<br \/>  <\/style><\/div><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"i-3\"><\/span>\u00a0<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Comment_sortir_dune_relation_toxique\"><\/span><strong>Comment sortir d&rsquo;une relation toxique?<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><p>Pour jouer aux jeux psychologiques il faut \u00eatre au moins 2. D\u00e8s lors, quand tu per\u00e7ois l&rsquo;autre dans le r\u00f4le de Bourreau, de Victime ou de Sauveur, cela veut dire que forc\u00e9ment tu as embrass\u00e9 un des autres r\u00f4les.<\/p><p>La premi\u00e8re \u00e9tape consiste \u00e0 lister toutes les fois o\u00f9 la relation est toxique, en essayant de comprendre le r\u00f4le que tu as jou\u00e9.<\/p><p>Cela va te permettre de voir si tu te positionnes majoritairement dans un r\u00f4le de Victime ou Sauveur ou Bourreau dans cette relation ainsi que de rep\u00e9rer ce qui d\u00e9clenche ce jeu (une \u201cphrase\u201d, une \u00e9motion, les dires ou actions de l\u2019autre, tes propres dires ou actions\u2026).<\/p><p>Tu peux ensuite consciemment d\u00e9cider de ne pas jouer ton r\u00f4le et ainsi tu d\u00e9samorces le \u201cjeu\u201d:<\/p><ul><li><p>Si tu prends souvent le r\u00f4le de Victime, tu peux te demander comment tu peux reprendre ton pouvoir personnel et reprendre les r\u00eanes de ton bonheur dans cette situation.<\/p><\/li><li><p>Si tu avais le r\u00f4le de Sauveur, tu peux reprendre confiance en la capacit\u00e9 des autres \u00e0 s\u2019aider eux-m\u00eames \u00e0 leur propre rythme et apprendre \u00e0 \u00eatre en relation sans aider ou donner.<\/p><\/li><li><p>Si tu prends le r\u00f4le du Bourreau, tu peux apprendre \u00e0 valoriser l\u2019avis de l&rsquo;autre et \u00e0 le respecter. Aussi, tu peux respecter le souhait de l\u2019autre de changer, ou pas, et \u00e0 quel rythme. Tu peux apprendre \u00e0 communiquer ton d\u00e9saccord en partageant tes \u00e9motions sans imposer ou critiquer.<\/p><\/li><\/ul><p>Selon l\u2019ancrage des jeux psychologiques dans une relation, il est possible que cela ne suffise pas et qu\u2019une s\u00e9paration soit n\u00e9cessaire.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a790189 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"a790189\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div><style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;<br \/>font-size: 34px;}<br \/>  <\/style><\/div><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"i-4\"><\/span>\u00a0<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Trouver_lorigine_de_ce_comportement_toxique_dans_ton_passe\"><\/span><strong>Trouver l&rsquo;origine de ce comportement toxique dans ton pass\u00e9<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><p>En observant ta mani\u00e8re d&rsquo;agir dans la relation, tu as peut-\u00eatre remarqu\u00e9 que tu es en train d&rsquo;imiter un comportement pass\u00e9 que tu avais (par exemple dans\u00a0ta mani\u00e8re d&rsquo;agir avec tes parents dans ton enfance) ou que tu reprends le m\u00eame r\u00f4le d&rsquo;un de tes parents ou d&rsquo;un membre de ta fratrie.<\/p><p>Tu r\u00e9p\u00e8tes pour ainsi dire le mod\u00e8le d\u2019interactions que tu as appris. Regarde mon w\u00e9binaire gratuit pour comprendre comment tu as enregistr\u00e9 ce mod\u00e8le d\u2019interaction.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-503f792 elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"503f792\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-no\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-4b3d6b9\" data-id=\"4b3d6b9\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-0c776a2 elementor-section-content-bottom elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"0c776a2\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-2f1fc2d\" data-id=\"2f1fc2d\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-761b44a elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"761b44a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-4333e63 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"4333e63\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-8536336\" data-id=\"8536336\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e6a92a4 elementor-invisible elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"e6a92a4\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;_animation&quot;:&quot;fadeInLeft&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\">Pour toi<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e13a2f0 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"e13a2f0\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"%22COMMENT_SE_LIBERER_DES_SCHEMAS_QUI_NOUS_EMPECHENT_DETRE_HEUREUSES_EN_AMOUR_%22\"><\/span><span>\"COMMENT SE LIB\u00c9RER DES SCH\u00c9MAS QUI NOUS EMP\u00caCHENT D'\u00caTRE HEUREUSES EN AMOUR ?\"<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e4b235c elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"e4b235c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"color: #000000; 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Merci de lire ma <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/politique-de-confidentialite\/\"> Politique de confidentialit\u00e9 <\/a> pour voir comment je traite les donn\u00e9es.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-b0f216f elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"b0f216f\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-29e6d57\" data-id=\"29e6d57\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-749e97a 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