{"id":36347,"date":"2023-09-11T07:30:11","date_gmt":"2023-09-11T07:30:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/?p=36347"},"modified":"2026-03-17T20:41:29","modified_gmt":"2026-03-17T20:41:29","slug":"82-communication-dans-le-couple-est-ce-un-probleme-de-fond-ou-de-forme","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/82-communication-dans-le-couple-est-ce-un-probleme-de-fond-ou-de-forme\/","title":{"rendered":"82. Communication dans le couple: Est-ce un probl\u00e8me de fond ou de forme?"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"36347\" class=\"elementor elementor-36347\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-7ed86594 elementor-section-content-top elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-min-height elementor-section-items-bottom elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"7ed86594\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-6ea7bd98\" data-id=\"6ea7bd98\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3d639127 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"3d639127\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-xl\">Communication dans le couple :Est-ce un probl\u00e8me de forme ou de fond?<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-62d37295 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"62d37295\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-4e162bd6\" data-id=\"4e162bd6\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-376509b elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"376509b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div><style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;<br \/>font-size: 34px;}<br \/>    h3 {color: #7A7A7A;<br \/>font-size: 34px;}<br \/>  <\/style><\/div>\nAs-tu l&rsquo;impression d&rsquo;avoir une demande justifi\u00e9e et que <b>ton partenaire te reproche d&rsquo;exag\u00e9rer<\/b>?\n\nOu bien as-tu l&rsquo;impression de <b>ne pas \u00eatre entendue par ton partenaire<\/b>?\n\nOu enfin tes mots d\u00e9passent ta pens\u00e9e \u00e0 chaque fois que tu parles d\u2019un sujet sensible, comme par exemple le <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/desir-denfant-quand-en-parler\/\">d\u00e9sir d\u2019enfant<\/a>\u00a0(EP 65) avec ton partenaire?\n\nAlors tu as peut-\u00eatre un probl\u00e8me de forme et non pas de fond.\n\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">L\u2019\u00e9pisode 82 de S\u2019ouvrir \u00e0 l\u2019Amour a pour but de te donner des pistes pour travailler sur la forme dont tu communiques.<\/span>\n<p class=\"has-background\" style=\"background-color: #eeeeee;\">\u2764\ufe0f Regarde <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/inscriptionblessurepasse\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">mon w\u00e9binaire <\/a><\/strong>sur comment \u00eatre enfin heureux\/se en Amour!<\/p>\n \n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b5b34f9 elementor-hidden-desktop elementor-hidden-tablet elementor-hidden-mobile elementor-widget elementor-widget-html\" data-id=\"b5b34f9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"html.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<iframe name=\"Ausha Podcast Player\" frameborder=\"0\" loading=\"lazy\" id=\"ausha-XBGw\" height=\"220\" style=\"border: none; width:100%; height:220px\" src=\"https:\/\/player.ausha.co\/index.html?showId=bjPkYiPMPlqo&color=%23d13523&podcastId=yA4qGhp1NVen&v=3&playerId=ausha-XBGw\"><\/iframe><script src=\"https:\/\/player.ausha.co\/ausha-player.js\"><\/script>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e2689d6 elementor-widget elementor-widget-video\" data-id=\"e2689d6\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;youtube_url&quot;:&quot;https:\\\/\\\/youtu.be\\\/fFyTh1FL3p0?si=zKy-apCNEQD6aj5X&quot;,&quot;video_type&quot;:&quot;youtube&quot;,&quot;controls&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"video.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-wrapper elementor-open-inline\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-video\"><\/div>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-751a1b2b elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"751a1b2b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div><style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;<br \/>font-size: 34px;}<br \/>  <\/style><\/div><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"i\"><\/span>\u00a0<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Probleme_de_forme\"><\/span><strong>Probl\u00e8me de forme<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><p>Si tu as l&rsquo;habitude d&rsquo;attendre longtemps avant de parler d&rsquo;un probl\u00e8me, <b>tu accumules naturellement de la frustration<\/b> et cette frustration peut:<\/p><ul><li>Te faire <b>exploser de mani\u00e8re d\u00e9mesur\u00e9e<\/b> et d\u00e8s que le probl\u00e8me se reproduit. (Voir l&rsquo;\u00e9pisode 12 sur la <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/responsabilite-emotionnelle\/\">responsabilit\u00e9 \u00e9motionnelle<\/a>.)<\/li><li>Te faire <b>agir s\u00e8chement<\/b> quand rien de sp\u00e9cial ne se passe. (Voir mon article sur les <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/comment-arreter-de-castrer-un-homme\/\">diff\u00e9rentes formes de castration.<\/a>)<\/li><li>Te faire prendre une forme de <b>revanche<\/b> quand l&rsquo;autre exprime un besoin envers toi<\/li><li>Faire <b>escalader le conflit<\/b>, par exemple en impliquant des tierces personnes dans le conflit.<\/li><\/ul><p>Cette mani\u00e8re de fonctionner a non seulement pour effet d\u2019envenimer la relation, mais en plus elle est contre-productive pour le probl\u00e8me de fond que tu veux adresser.<\/p><p>En faisant cela, l&rsquo;autre se sent agress\u00e9 et tu perds de la l\u00e9gitimit\u00e9 sur ton probl\u00e8me de fond.<\/p><p>Pour arriver \u00e0 mettre en place une communication qui v\u00e9hicule ton message efficacement, il est important de prendre la responsabilit\u00e9 de tes \u00e9motions en travaillant sur ton ind\u00e9pendance \u00e9motionnelle (\u00e9pisode 12). Ces qualit\u00e9s sont essentielles pour une <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/le-secret-des-couples-qui-durent\/\">vie de couple \u00e9panouie<\/a> et c\u2019est la raison pour laquelle j&rsquo;y consacre un module entier dans mon programme <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/souvriralamour\/\">S\u2019ouvrir \u00e0 l\u2019Amour<\/a>.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-5b961bfa elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"5b961bfa\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-60917045\" data-id=\"60917045\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-39be4ac8 elementor-align-center elementor-mobile-align-center elementor-widget elementor-widget-button\" data-id=\"39be4ac8\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"button.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-button-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-button elementor-button-link elementor-size-md\" href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/souvriralamour\/\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-content-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-text\">S'ouvrir \u00e0 l'amour<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-a36d6db elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"a36d6db\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-8822784\" data-id=\"8822784\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-eed5178 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"eed5178\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div><style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;<br \/>font-size: 34px;}<br \/>    h3 {color: #7A7A7A;<br \/>font-size: 34px;}<br \/>  <\/style><\/div><p>Un premier r\u00e9flexe que tu peux mettre en place d\u00e8s maintenant est d\u2019<b>accueillir ta col\u00e8re\/frustration AVANT de parler<\/b> \u00e0 ton partenaire en faisant cet exercice de Kundalini Yoga:<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ac753fd elementor-widget elementor-widget-video\" data-id=\"ac753fd\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;youtube_url&quot;:&quot;https:\\\/\\\/youtu.be\\\/JuEjnvrW7sg&quot;,&quot;video_type&quot;:&quot;youtube&quot;,&quot;controls&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"video.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-wrapper elementor-open-inline\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-video\"><\/div>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-b0f216f elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"b0f216f\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-29e6d57\" data-id=\"29e6d57\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9764a42 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"9764a42\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div><span style=\"font-size: 30px;\">Un deuxi\u00e8me r\u00e9flexe est de <b>comprendre votre dynamique dans le conflit (propre \u00e0 chaque conflit et syst\u00e8me)<\/b> et de voir l&rsquo;effet de tes actions\/inactions dans la dynamique ou sur l&rsquo;autre par exemple:<\/span><\/div><div><ul style=\"font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-family: 'Noto Sans', Arial; font-size: 30px; font-style: normal;\"><li style=\"font-size: 30px;\"><b>Verbal<\/b>. Comment est le ton de ta voix? Est-ce que tu utilises le tu qui tue ? Est-ce que tu formules ce que tu veux ou des reproches sans solution? Est-ce que tu communiques ton ressenti ou ta part de torts?<\/li><li style=\"font-size: 30px;\"><b>Non-Verbal<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Quel est ta position corporelle ? Quelle est l&rsquo;expression de ton visage? Cherches tu le contact ou \u00e9vites tu le contact de l&rsquo;autre ? Quel est l&rsquo;effet de ta posture chez l&rsquo;autre?\u00a0<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-size: 30px;\"><b>Structurel<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Est-ce que vous \u00eates tous les deux pr\u00eats \u00e0 discuter du conflit ou est-ce que tu lui coures apr\u00e8s? Est-ce que tu as besoin de partir quand le conflit arrive?<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-size: 30px;\"><b>Social<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Est-ce que tu parles de ton conflit \u00e0 d&rsquo;autres personnes que la personne impliqu\u00e9e? Comment l&rsquo;autre personne se sent-elle vis \u00e0 vis de cela? Ou au contraire \u00e9vites-tu de parler du sujet en \u00e9vitant de se retrouver avec l&rsquo;autre par exemple en faisant plus d&rsquo;activit\u00e9s avec des amis&#8230;<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-size: 30px;\"><b>Dynamique<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Es-tu dans une dynamique chaud bouillante (le probl\u00e8me doit \u00eatre r\u00e9solu maintenant) , ti\u00e8de ( \u00e7a m&#8217;emb\u00eate mais je donne tu temps) ou froide ( je ne vois pas le probl\u00e8me, c&rsquo;est l&rsquo;autre le probl\u00e8me).<\/span><\/li><\/ul><div>L&rsquo;id\u00e9e c&rsquo;est qu&rsquo;il n&rsquo;y a pas forc\u00e9ment une bonne ou une mauvaise mani\u00e8re de faire mais plus une mani\u00e8re qui sert ou dessert \u00e0 la r\u00e9solution du conflit.<\/div><\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-749e97a elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"749e97a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div><style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;<br \/>font-size: 34px;}<br \/>  <\/style><\/div><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"i-2\"><\/span>\u00a0<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Noublie_pas_dadresser_le_fond\"><\/span><strong>N&rsquo;oublie pas d&rsquo;adresser le fond<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><p>Car c&rsquo;est finalement le fond qui g\u00e9n\u00e8re cette frustration permanente.<\/p><p>C&rsquo;est pour cela que c&rsquo;est important d&rsquo;adresser le fond en ayant une conversation difficile.<\/p><p>Pour mener cette discussion \u00e0 bien, <b>pense \u00e0 te pr\u00e9parer<\/b>: fais une liste des faits plus que de ton opinion personnelle, liste les arguments que tu as, en imaginant les possibles contre-arguments de l&rsquo;autre et comment tu souhaites y r\u00e9pondre. Enfin, dis clairement ce qui est non n\u00e9gociable pour toi et ce qui est discutable. Tu peux \u00e9galement faire cette discussion face \u00e0 un miroir pour trouver les bons mots et calmer ton anxi\u00e9t\u00e9 face \u00e0 cette discussion. Tu verras, ce sera ensuite plus facile devant la personne en face.<\/p><p>Savoir faire tes demandes et bien g\u00e9rer le conflit de mani\u00e8re bienveillante, ce sont d\u2019autres qualit\u00e9s essentielles pour \u00eatre heureuse en couple sans s\u2019oublier et sont parties int\u00e9grantes du programme <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/souvriralamour\/\">S\u2019ouvrir \u00e0 l\u2019Amour<\/a>.<\/p><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"i-3\"><\/span>\u00a0<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Si_tu_restes_bloquee\"><\/span><strong>Si tu restes bloqu\u00e9e<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><p>Si tu sens que la communication reste un sujet difficile pour toi, il serait int\u00e9ressant de voir quels <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/cultiver-amour-couple\/\">mod\u00e8les de communication<\/a> ou de gestion du conflit tu as appris dans ton enfance, notamment avec tes parents.<\/p><p>Regarde mon w\u00e9binaire gratuit pour savoir comment tu peux changer cela pour \u00eatre enfin \u00e0 l&rsquo;aise dans ta communication en couple.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-838fd1b elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"838fd1b\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-no\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-73904c0d\" data-id=\"73904c0d\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-4f31481c elementor-section-content-bottom elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"4f31481c\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-47d99569\" data-id=\"47d99569\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-456429ea elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"456429ea\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-3ee0cb2c elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"3ee0cb2c\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-338295ce\" data-id=\"338295ce\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div 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class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-41cf6bad elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"41cf6bad\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"%22Comment_se_liberer_des_schemas_qui_nous_empechent_detre_heureuses_en_amour_%22\"><\/span><span><strong><em>\"Comment se lib\u00e9rer des sch\u00e9mas qui nous emp\u00eachent d'\u00eatre heureuses en amour ?\"<\/em><\/strong><span> <\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-744aaf12 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"744aaf12\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"color: #000000; font-size: 18px; letter-spacing: 1.1px;\">Enregistre-toi d\u00e8s maintenant \u00e0 ma newsletter et re\u00e7ois le replay du w\u00e9binaire.<span lang=\"FR-CH\">\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-66938432\" data-id=\"66938432\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-2db4eee6 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"2db4eee6\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-3329d6e9\" data-id=\"3329d6e9\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3cb91f8a elementor-widget elementor-widget-shortcode\" data-id=\"3cb91f8a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"shortcode.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-shortcode\"><script src=https:\/\/sandy-kaufmann.mykajabi.com\/forms\/2149274795\/embed.js><\/script><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7c3fecda elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"7c3fecda\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>* Champs obligatoires<\/p><p>Si tu t&rsquo;abonnes \u00e0 ma newsletter, tu recevras \u00e9galement des offres. Tu peux te d\u00e9sabonner \u00e0 tout moment. Merci de lire ma <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/politique-de-confidentialite\/\"> Politique de confidentialit\u00e9 <\/a> pour voir comment je traite les donn\u00e9es.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-4c581baf elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"4c581baf\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-7cc2e579\" data-id=\"7cc2e579\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3ab43cf8 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"3ab43cf8\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Pour_aller_plus_loin\"><\/span>Pour aller plus loin<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5893c663 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"5893c663\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Votre couple demande du soin.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pour maintenir la connexion, passer de bons moments ensemble ne suffit pas. Il est important de r\u00e9gler les conflits sous-jacents pour \u00e9viter d\u2019accumuler trop de poussi\u00e8re sous le tapis qui fait que le couple se d\u00e9connecte et que chaque partenaire se sent incompris de l\u2019autre.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">C\u2019est ce que tu apprends dans mon programme <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/cultiver-lamour\/\">Cultiver l&rsquo;amour<\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6f4b871e elementor-align-center elementor-mobile-align-center elementor-widget elementor-widget-button\" data-id=\"6f4b871e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"button.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-button-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-button elementor-button-link elementor-size-md\" href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/cultiver-lamour\/\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-content-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-text\">cultiver l'amour<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-208ef9bd elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"208ef9bd\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-5f910f11\" data-id=\"5f910f11\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-51519e76 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"51519e76\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Une_premiere_etape_mon_livre\"><\/span>Une premi\u00e8re \u00e9tape : mon livre<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-21b9777c elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"21b9777c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Si tu veux apprendre \u00e0 transformer vos tensions en connexion, tu as mon livre <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/livre-les-couples-heureux-osent-aborder-les-sujets-qui-fachent\/\">Les couples heureux&#8230;osent aborder les sujets qui f\u00e2chent<\/a> disponible dans toutes les librairies.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-3ee2bac9 elementor-section-height-min-height elementor-section-content-middle elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-items-middle\" data-id=\"3ee2bac9\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-no\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-35773b99\" data-id=\"35773b99\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-dda341e elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"dda341e\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-77f075d5\" data-id=\"77f075d5\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-11b5a445 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"11b5a445\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1771\" height=\"1535\" src=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Mockup_livre-1.png\" class=\"attachment-2048x2048 size-2048x2048 wp-image-1081511\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Mockup_livre-1.png 1771w, https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Mockup_livre-1-300x260.png 300w, https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Mockup_livre-1-1024x888.png 1024w, https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Mockup_livre-1-768x666.png 768w, https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Mockup_livre-1-1536x1331.png 1536w, https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Mockup_livre-1-600x520.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1771px) 100vw, 1771px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-5f715106\" data-id=\"5f715106\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-12736faa elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"12736faa\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\">Contrairement aux id\u00e9es re\u00e7ues, les couples qui durent ne sont pas ceux qui \u00e9vitent les conflits mais qui savent les traverser.\nLe livre <i><b>Les couples heureux..osent aborder les sujets qui f\u00e2chent<\/b><\/i> t'explique comment transformer vos tensions en connexion en 5 \u00e9tapes!<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-1efee2fa elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"1efee2fa\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-11565105\" data-id=\"11565105\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4fb9dba1 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4fb9dba1\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>\n<div id=\"sb_instagram\"  class=\"sbi sbi_mob_col_1 sbi_tab_col_2 sbi_col_6\" style=\"padding-bottom: 10px; background-color: rgb(255,255,255); width: 100%;\"\t data-feedid=\"sbi_17841411036917986#6\"  data-res=\"thumb\" data-cols=\"6\" data-colsmobile=\"1\" data-colstablet=\"2\" data-num=\"6\" data-nummobile=\"\" data-item-padding=\"5\"\t data-shortcode-atts=\"{}\"  data-postid=\"36347\" data-locatornonce=\"ac0596e315\" data-imageaspectratio=\"1:1\" data-sbi-flags=\"favorLocal,ajaxPostLoad,gdpr\">\n\t\n\t<div id=\"sbi_images\"  style=\"gap: 10px;\">\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\n\t<div id=\"sbi_load\" >\n\n\t\n\t\n<\/div>\n\t\t<span class=\"sbi_resized_image_data\" data-feed-id=\"sbi_17841411036917986#6\"\n\t\t  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