{"id":31164,"date":"2024-07-09T07:00:06","date_gmt":"2024-07-09T07:00:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/?p=31164"},"modified":"2025-10-17T15:12:15","modified_gmt":"2025-10-17T15:12:15","slug":"124-comment-seduire-et-aborder-un-mec","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/124-comment-seduire-et-aborder-un-mec\/","title":{"rendered":"124. Comment s\u00e9duire et aborder un mec?"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"31164\" class=\"elementor elementor-31164\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-425c4126 elementor-section-content-top elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-min-height elementor-section-items-bottom elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"425c4126\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-78efbdf6\" data-id=\"78efbdf6\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4a0604d8 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"4a0604d8\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-xl\">Comment s\u00e9duire un homme et l'aborder?<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-3121797e elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"3121797e\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-7360bdfb\" data-id=\"7360bdfb\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-779e9c38 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"779e9c38\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div><style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;<br \/>font-size: 34px;}<br \/>    h3 {color: #7A7A7A;<br \/>font-size: 34px;}<br \/>  <\/style><\/div><p>Tu te sens gauche dans ton approche de drague.<\/p><p>Tu aimerais apprendre \u00e0 s\u00e9duire un homme, d\u00e9passer ta timidit\u00e9 et avoir le courage de l&rsquo;aborder.<\/p><p>Tu as entendu beaucoup de conseils s\u00e9ductions par d&rsquo;autres coachs en amour et tu as l&rsquo;impression qu&rsquo;il faut conna\u00eetre les codes de s\u00e9duction pour que cela marche.<\/p><p>Tu te demandes si c&rsquo;est mieux de te laisser aborder par les hommes en tant que femmes?<\/p><p>Je te donne ici quelques conseils pour t&rsquo;inviter \u00e0 relativiser.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8ad7fa4 elementor-hidden-desktop elementor-hidden-tablet elementor-hidden-mobile elementor-widget elementor-widget-html\" data-id=\"8ad7fa4\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"html.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<iframe name=\"Ausha Podcast Player\" frameborder=\"0\" loading=\"lazy\" id=\"ausha-cnoq\" height=\"220\" style=\"border: none; width:100%; height:220px\" src=\"https:\/\/player.ausha.co\/?showId=bjPkYiPMPlqo&color=%23d13523&podcastId=B1O8PflMMJlA&v=3&playerId=ausha-cnoq\"><\/iframe><script src=\"https:\/\/player.ausha.co\/ausha-player.js\"><\/script>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6f6f0a7 elementor-widget elementor-widget-video\" data-id=\"6f6f0a7\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;youtube_url&quot;:&quot;https:\\\/\\\/youtu.be\\\/_5Z5IVQlwHw&quot;,&quot;video_type&quot;:&quot;youtube&quot;,&quot;controls&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"video.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-wrapper elementor-open-inline\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-video\"><\/div>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-425e003 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"425e003\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div><p><span style=\"color: #d13523; font-size: 34px; font-weight: 600;\"><span style=\"color: #d13523; font-size: 34px; font-weight: 600;\">Pourquoi il ne faut jouer un r\u00f4le dans la s\u00e9duction<\/span><\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-family: 'Noto Sans', Arial; font-size: 30px; font-style: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-weight: 400;\">Quand je lis les recommandations de certains coachs en amour qui conseillent \u00e0 leurs clientes pour s\u00e9duire leurs partenaires potentiels de montrer \u00e0 combien leur vie est stimulante, atypique, qu\u2019ils les incitent \u00e0 surprendre leur homme \u00e0 chaque nouveau rendez-vous, j\u2019ai juste envie d\u2019exploser.<\/span><\/p><p>De un, <b>pourquoi est-ce \u00e0 la femme de prouver \u00e0 l\u2019homme qu\u2019elle est digne de son attention, digne de son amour en jouant un r\u00f4le qu\u2019elle n\u2019est pas?<br \/>Pourquoi cette pression de devoir faire un effort pour \u00eatre aim\u00e9e?<br \/>Pourquoi ce sous-entendu que finalement juste \u00eatre soi-m\u00eame en Amour ne suffit pas?<\/b><br \/>Est-ce que tu suivrais ces conseils pour te faire des amis?<\/p><p>Non, n\u2019est-ce pas?<\/p><p>Eh bien, c\u2019est la m\u00eame chose en amour.<\/p><p>Non seulement ce comportement est intenable dans la dur\u00e9e, mais c\u2019est le meilleur moyen pour entrer dans une relation avec quelqu\u2019un qui ne te correspond pas, pour \u00e0 terme se s\u00e9parer et souffrir.<\/p><p><b>Car oui, cet homme peut \u00eatre charm\u00e9 par ces attentions atypiques, ces surprises, mais il n\u2019aura aucune id\u00e9e de qui tu es vraiment.\u00a0<\/b><\/p><h2 style=\"font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-family: 'Noto Sans', Arial; font-style: normal;\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Defais-toi_de_tes_aprioris_sur_la_seduction\"><\/span><span style=\"font-family: 'Noto Sans', Arial; font-size: 34px; font-style: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-weight: 600;\">D\u00e9fais-toi de tes aprioris sur la s\u00e9duction<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><h2 style=\"font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-family: 'Noto Sans', Arial; font-style: normal;\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"On_a_tous_une_image_pre-concue_de_ce_que_doit_faire_une_femme_pour_seduire\"><\/span><span style=\"color: #7a7a7a; font-family: 'Noto Sans', Arial; font-size: 30px; font-style: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-weight: 400;\">On a tous une image pr\u00e9-con\u00e7ue de ce que doit faire une femme pour s\u00e9duire :<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><ul><li>Est-ce que c&rsquo;est <b>transactionnel<\/b> : si l&rsquo;homme me montre son int\u00e9r\u00eat, est-ce que je dois lui donner quelquechose en retour?<\/li><li>As-tu peur de <b>passer pour une allumeuse<\/b>?<\/li><li>Est-ce que tu penses qu&rsquo;<b>il faut une certaine attitude,<\/b> une certaine mani\u00e8re de s&rsquo;habiller, un certain physique?<\/li><li>Est-ce que c&rsquo;est <b>le fait d&rsquo;\u00eatre \u00e9ventuellement rejet\u00e9e<\/b> qui te bloque?<\/li><li><b>Quelles sont tes exp\u00e9riences n\u00e9gatives en mati\u00e8re de s\u00e9duction<\/b> : par exemple j&rsquo;ai vu ma m\u00e8re qui savait s\u00e9duire mais qui tombait sur des hommes qui ne la respectait pas donc je ne voulais pas s\u00e9duire \u00e0 cause de cela. Une coach\u00e9e a toujours entendu ses fr\u00e8res avoir des crit\u00e8res purement physiques pour trouver les femmes s\u00e9duisantes alors elle pensait inconsciemment qu&rsquo;elle devait jouer ses codes.<\/li><\/ul><div><p><b>En prenant conscience de ces aprioris tu vas pouvoir \u00eatre en paix avec ta propre version de la s\u00e9ductrice<\/b>.<\/p><\/div><p><span style=\"color: #d13523; font-family: 'Noto Sans', Arial; font-size: 34px; font-style: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-weight: 600;\">Sois\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"color: #d13523; font-family: 'Noto Sans', Arial; font-size: 34px; font-style: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-weight: 600;\">toi-m\u00eame en s\u00e9duction:<\/span><span style=\"color: #d13523; font-family: 'Noto Sans', Arial; font-size: 34px; font-style: normal; font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-weight: 600;\">\u00a0tu as TOUT pour plaire<\/span><\/p><p style=\"font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-family: 'Noto Sans', Arial; font-size: 30px; font-style: normal;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pas besoin de te changer, pas besoin d\u2019imaginer des situations atypiques et \u00e9tonnantes, <\/span><b>il n\u2019y a rien de plus s\u00e9duisant qu\u2019une femme qui s\u2019assume \u00e0 100%, quitte \u00e0 avoir une opinion, un avis diff\u00e9rent de son partenaire potentiel.<\/b><\/p><p style=\"font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-family: 'Noto Sans', Arial; font-size: 30px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400;\">Les erreurs que l\u2019on fait souvent, c\u2019est que quand on vient de rencontrer quelqu\u2019un, on cherche souvent \u00e0 se mettre dans un moule, \u00e0 se montrer sous un jour en devenant la personne que l\u2019on pense que l\u2019autre appr\u00e9ciera.<\/p><p style=\"font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-family: 'Noto Sans', Arial; font-size: 30px; font-style: normal;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Car \u00eatre soi-m\u00eame c\u2019est ton meilleur atout de s\u00e9duction, avec tes qualit\u00e9s et surtout avec tes d\u00e9fauts, car avouons-le, <\/span><b>quelqu\u2019un de parfait est aussi ennuyeux \u00e0 mourir.<\/b><\/p><p style=\"font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-family: 'Noto Sans', Arial; font-size: 30px; font-style: normal;\"><b>Si tu te montres comme tu es<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, si tu montres \u00e0 ton futur partenaire ton univers et tes passions, <\/span><b>tu lui fais d\u00e9couvrir un monde qui est totalement nouveau pour lui<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, vu que c\u2019est le tien, et ce ne sera pas difficile pour toi de lui proposer cela dans la dur\u00e9e, parce que ce sont tes passions personnelles, tu ne joues pas de r\u00f4le.<\/span><\/p><p style=\"font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-family: 'Noto Sans', Arial; font-size: 30px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400;\">Cela veut dire aussi oser avoir une opinion diff\u00e9rente, oser le contredire, le challenger et oser lui d\u00e9plaire. Et encore moins de\u00a0<a style=\"font-size: 30px;\" href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/pourquoi-les-jeux-de-pouvoir-en-couple-tel-que-le-je-fuis-tu-me-suis-ne-marchent-pas-dans-la-duree\/\">fuir pour qu\u2019il te suive<\/a>. Je t\u2019assure que les hommes adorent une femme qui a sa propre opinion, c\u2019est tr\u00e8s sexy.<\/p><p style=\"font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-family: 'Noto Sans', Arial; font-size: 30px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400;\">Je te donne mon exemple personnel:<\/p><p style=\"font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-family: 'Noto Sans', Arial; font-size: 30px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400;\">Quand j\u2019ai rencontr\u00e9 mon mari, je lui ai parl\u00e9 de ma passion pour les m\u00e9decines compl\u00e9mentaires et le d\u00e9veloppement personnel. Je lui ai donn\u00e9 des conseils Feng Shui et parl\u00e9 \u00e9nergie et spiritualit\u00e9. Lui il a \u00e9tudi\u00e9 m\u00e9decine pendant 2 ans, puis est devenu physioth\u00e9rapeute et il est totalement \u00e0 l\u2019oppos\u00e9 de tout cela, pour te dire il est m\u00eame ath\u00e9iste, donc la spiritualit\u00e9 c\u2019est pas du tout son truc. M\u2019entendre parler de cet univers le fait rire et le charme encore maintenant, car c\u2019est \u00e0 l\u2019oppos\u00e9 de son monde \u00e0 lui.<\/p><p style=\"font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-family: 'Noto Sans', Arial; font-size: 30px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400;\">Donc si tu es girlie, fan de Disney et que tu adores les peluches, montre-lui ton monde.<\/p><p style=\"font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-family: 'Noto Sans', Arial; font-size: 30px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400;\">Si tu es fan de sport, de musique, de voyage, montre-lui ton monde.<\/p><p style=\"font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-family: 'Noto Sans', Arial; font-size: 30px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400;\">Parce qu\u2019apr\u00e8s tout s\u2019il n\u2019aime pas ton monde, il n\u2019est simplement pas fait pour toi.<\/p><p style=\"font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-family: 'Noto Sans', Arial; font-size: 30px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400;\">Donc par exemple si l&rsquo;humour fait partie de tes qualit\u00e9s, utilise-le mais si ce n&rsquo;est pas ton fort, n\u2019essaie pas de faire une blague pour te rendre int\u00e9ressante, parce que de un, \u00e7a risque de ne pas marcher et de deux, \u00e7a va se ressentir.<\/p><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Incite-le_a_taborder\"><\/span><span style=\"font-size: 34px; font-weight: 600;\">Incite-le <\/span><strong style=\"font-size: 34px;\">\u00e0 t&rsquo;aborder<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><p>Le moyen le plus simple est d&rsquo;inciter l&rsquo;homme \u00e0 venir t&rsquo;aborder plus t\u00f4t que toi tu l\u2019abordes.\u00a0 Et c&rsquo;est encore mieux pour le faire tomber amoureux (je t\u2019explique pourquoi dans l<a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/29-le-processus-de-tomber-amoureux\/\">&lsquo;\u00e9pisode 29 Le processus de tomber amoureux<\/a>).<\/p><p>Et pour qu\u2019il ose t\u2019aborder, il a besoin de savoir que tu ne vas pas le rejeter et donc il a besoin d&rsquo;un feu vert tr\u00e8s clair qui montre que tu veux qu&rsquo;il vienne, par exemple en le regardant en souriant pendant suffisamment longtemps.<\/p><p>Dans mon guide de s\u00e9duction je donne encore plus de conseils, tu peux le t\u00e9l\u00e9charger gratuitement ici :<\/p><\/div>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-4bfc04da elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"4bfc04da\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-no\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-12c9172c\" data-id=\"12c9172c\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-31cbac16 elementor-section-content-bottom elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"31cbac16\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-1c792fa2\" data-id=\"1c792fa2\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-32beda65 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"32beda65\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-7707451d elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"7707451d\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-5517cb60\" data-id=\"5517cb60\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a0aa606 elementor-invisible elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"a0aa606\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;_animation&quot;:&quot;fadeInLeft&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\">Pour toi<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-46c18fe1 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"46c18fe1\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"LE_WEBINAIRE_gratuit\"><\/span><span data-elementor-setting-key=\"title\" data-pen-placeholder=\"\u00c9crivez ici...\" style=\"font-variant-caps: normal; font-style: normal;\">LE W\u00c9BINAIRE gratuit<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-56853b59 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"56853b59\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"%22Comment_se_liberer_des_schemas_qui_nous_empechent_detre_heureuses_en_amour_%22\"><\/span><span data-elementor-setting-key=\"title\" data-pen-placeholder=\"\u00c9crivez ici...\" style=\"font-variant-caps: normal; font-style: normal;\"><strong><em>\"Comment se lib\u00e9rer des sch\u00e9mas qui nous emp\u00eachent d'\u00eatre heureuses en amour ?\"<\/em><\/strong><span data-elementor-setting-key=\"title\" data-pen-placeholder=\"\u00c9crivez ici...\" style=\"font-variant-caps: normal; font-style: normal;\"> <\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1f19b36c elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"1f19b36c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"color: #000000; font-size: 18px; letter-spacing: 1.1px;\">Enregistre-toi d\u00e8s maintenant \u00e0 ma newsletter et re\u00e7ois le replay du w\u00e9binaire.<span lang=\"FR-CH\">\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-4ec44025\" data-id=\"4ec44025\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-cca9d0 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"cca9d0\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-4fc4ced5\" data-id=\"4fc4ced5\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4494a037 elementor-widget elementor-widget-shortcode\" data-id=\"4494a037\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"shortcode.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-shortcode\"><script src=https:\/\/sandy-kaufmann.mykajabi.com\/forms\/2149274795\/embed.js><\/script><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7cf7ccb1 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"7cf7ccb1\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>* Champs obligatoires<\/p><p>Si tu t&rsquo;abonnes \u00e0 ma newsletter, tu recevras \u00e9galement des offres. Tu peux te d\u00e9sabonner \u00e0 tout moment. Merci de lire ma <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/politique-de-confidentialite\/\"> Politique de confidentialit\u00e9 <\/a> pour voir comment je traite les donn\u00e9es.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-ef2b81e elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"ef2b81e\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-1f26480\" data-id=\"1f26480\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4ebf817 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4ebf817\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div><style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;<br \/>font-size: 34px;}<br \/>    h3 {color: #7A7A7A;<br \/>font-size: 34px;}<br \/>  <\/style><\/div><p style=\"font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-family: 'Noto Sans', Arial; font-size: 30px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-size: 34px; font-weight: 600; color: #d13523;\">Remplace\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-size: 34px; font-weight: 600; color: #d13523;\">le mot s\u00e9duire par partager<\/span><\/p><p style=\"font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-family: 'Noto Sans', Arial; font-size: 30px; font-style: normal;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Aborder un mec, cela revient concr\u00e8tement \u00e0 <\/span><b>avoir une discussion avec un homme.<\/b><\/p><p style=\"font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-family: 'Noto Sans', Arial; font-size: 30px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400;\">Si tu remplaces le mot s\u00e9duire par partager tu te rends compte qu&rsquo;il te suffit d&rsquo;engager la conversation sur une banalit\u00e9 et de laisser la conversation \u00e9voluer naturellement.<\/p><p style=\"font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-family: 'Noto Sans', Arial; font-size: 30px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400;\">Voici quelques id\u00e9es pour entamer la conversation qui sont une alternative \u00e0 \u201ctu viens souvent ici\u201d:<\/p><ul style=\"font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-family: 'Noto Sans', Arial; font-size: 30px; font-style: normal; font-weight: 400;\"><li style=\"font-size: 30px;\">Tu bois\/manges quoi? J&rsquo;ai besoin d&rsquo;inspiration<\/li><li style=\"font-size: 30px;\">Tu peux me passer le\/un \u2026. (sel\/stylo\/serviette\/mouchoir\u2026)?<\/li><li style=\"font-size: 30px;\">Tu sais \u00e0 quelle heure cet endroit ferme?<\/li><li style=\"font-size: 30px;\">Qu&rsquo;est-ce que tu aimes dans cet endroit?<\/li><li style=\"font-size: 30px;\">Faire un commentaire sur quelque chose de bizarre\/diff\u00e9rent et lui demander son avis: tu penses quoi de cette d\u00e9co un peu old school?<\/li><li style=\"font-size: 30px;\">Je n&rsquo;arrive pas \u00e0 faire \u00e7a, tu peux m&rsquo;aider?<\/li><li style=\"font-size: 30px;\">Qu&rsquo;est-ce que tu recommandes de faire ici (par exemple si tu es en rando\/au ski ou en voyage)?<\/li><\/ul><p style=\"font-variant-ligatures: normal; font-variant-caps: normal; font-family: 'Noto Sans', Arial; font-size: 30px; font-style: normal;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Et quand tu le fais, <\/span><b>ne le fais pas dans le but de s\u00e9duire mais simplement dans le but d\u2019avoir la r\u00e9ponse \u00e0 ta question et d\u2019engager la conversation<\/b>. Tu n\u2019as rien \u00e0 perdre.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-a156198 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"a156198\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-d8353e2\" data-id=\"d8353e2\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c316e37 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c316e37\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div><style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;<br \/>font-size: 34px;}<br \/>  <\/style><\/div><p><span style=\"color: #d13523;\"><span style=\"font-size: 34px;\"><b>Si tu sens que le blocage en s\u00e9duction est plus grand<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p><p>Dans mon coaching de groupe\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/souvrir-a-lamour\/\">S\u2019ouvrir \u00e0 l\u2019Amour <\/a>tu abordes tes difficult\u00e9s dans le processus de rencontres et aussi les causes sous-jacentes qui te bloquent en s\u00e9duction : l&rsquo;estime de soi, l&rsquo;acceptation de ton corps (<a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/77-esther-taillifet-aimer-son-corps\/\">EP 77<\/a>), l&rsquo;image de la s\u00e9ductrice, les abus pass\u00e9s (<a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/101-limpact-dun-viol-ou-dattouchements-sur-les-relations-amoureuses\/\">EP 101<\/a>)&#8230;.\u00a0<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-5e52cf24 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"5e52cf24\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-2fd88db\" data-id=\"2fd88db\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3933c37f elementor-align-center elementor-mobile-align-center elementor-widget elementor-widget-button\" data-id=\"3933c37f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"button.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-button-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-button elementor-button-link elementor-size-md\" href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/souvrir-a-lamour\/\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-content-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-text\">S'ouvrir \u00e0 l'amour<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-1a4204c1 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"1a4204c1\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-4784e5cd\" data-id=\"4784e5cd\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6c78f21d elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"6c78f21d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>\n<div id=\"sb_instagram\"  class=\"sbi sbi_mob_col_1 sbi_tab_col_2 sbi_col_6\" style=\"padding-bottom: 10px; background-color: rgb(255,255,255); width: 100%;\"\t data-feedid=\"sbi_17841411036917986#6\"  data-res=\"thumb\" data-cols=\"6\" data-colsmobile=\"1\" data-colstablet=\"2\" data-num=\"6\" data-nummobile=\"\" data-item-padding=\"5\"\t data-shortcode-atts=\"{}\"  data-postid=\"31164\" data-locatornonce=\"efd182a4d3\" 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