{"id":3093,"date":"2019-07-02T13:19:22","date_gmt":"2019-07-02T13:19:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/?p=3093"},"modified":"2025-10-15T05:11:08","modified_gmt":"2025-10-15T05:11:08","slug":"pourquoi-il-est-plus-difficile-de-reussir-sa-vie-perso-que-sa-vie-professionnelle","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/pourquoi-il-est-plus-difficile-de-reussir-sa-vie-perso-que-sa-vie-professionnelle\/","title":{"rendered":"Pourquoi il est plus difficile de r\u00e9ussir sa vie perso que sa vie professionnelle?"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"3093\" class=\"elementor elementor-3093\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-4b1ba113 elementor-section-content-top elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-min-height elementor-section-items-bottom elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"4b1ba113\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-3ddbfc10\" data-id=\"3ddbfc10\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5f891e41 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"5f891e41\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-xl\">Pourquoi il est plus difficile de r\u00e9ussir sa vie perso que sa vie professionnelle?<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-3327236c elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"3327236c\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-578fdf4d\" data-id=\"578fdf4d\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-13fa48e7 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"13fa48e7\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div><style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;\nfont-size: 34px;}\n    h3 {color: #7A7A7A;\nfont-size: 34px;}\n  <\/style><\/div>\n<p><\/p>\n<div class=\"vc_row wpb_row vc_row-fluid\" data-vc-full-width=\"true\" data-vc-full-width-init=\"true\">\n<div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container vc_col-sm-12\">\n<div class=\"vc_column-inner\">\n<div class=\"wpb_wrapper\">\n<div class=\"wpb_text_column wpb_content_element holistiatext\">\n<div class=\"wpb_wrapper\">\n<p>Vous avez fait de bonnes \u00e9tudes, trouv\u00e9 un premier job prometteur et vos \u00e9valuations vous laissent penser que votre chef est content de votre travail.<br \/>Sur le plan personnel la situation est autre : <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/comment-trouver-le-bon-partenaire\/\">vous ne rencontrez pas le bon mec<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/pourquoi-les-hommes-ont-peur-de-sengager\/\">votre mec ne veut pas se caser apr\u00e8s XX ann\u00e9es de vie commune<\/a> ou <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/il-ne-repond-pas-a-mon-sms\/\">votre m\u00e9t\u00e9o int\u00e9rieure est tr\u00e8s d\u00e9pendante des autres<\/a> : l\u2019\u00e9mail d\u00e9sobligeant de votre coll\u00e8gue, le faux plan de votre copine, votre ch\u00e9ri qui ne r\u00e9pond pas illico \u00e0 votre sms.<br \/>\u00c0 chaque fois le sc\u00e9nario est le m\u00eame : votre <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/apprendre-a-gerer-ses-emotions\/\">petit v\u00e9lo int\u00e9rieur<\/a> d\u00e9marre et imagine toutes les raisons et sc\u00e9narios possibles pourquoi cette personne a agis ainsi envers vous. Vous vous laissez envahir par des pens\u00e9es toxiques qui g\u00e9n\u00e8rent en vous des crises d\u2019angoisse, de la tristesse, voire de la col\u00e8re, un sentiment de ne pas \u00eatre comprise ou entendue, d\u2019\u00eatre impuissante face \u00e0 la situation.<br \/>Bref, vous aimeriez \u00eatre moins sensible \u00e0 votre environnement.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9a9eddd elementor-widget elementor-widget-video\" data-id=\"9a9eddd\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;youtube_url&quot;:&quot;https:\\\/\\\/youtu.be\\\/2j1EJJjc31Q&quot;,&quot;video_type&quot;:&quot;youtube&quot;,&quot;controls&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"video.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-wrapper elementor-open-inline\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-video\"><\/div>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8247837 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"8247837\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div><style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;<br \/>\nfont-size: 34px;}<br \/>\n    h3 {color: #7A7A7A;<br \/>\nfont-size: 34px;}<br \/>\n  <\/style><\/div>\n<p><\/p>\n<div class=\"vc_row wpb_row vc_row-fluid\" data-vc-full-width=\"true\" data-vc-full-width-init=\"true\">\n<div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container vc_col-sm-12\">\n<div class=\"vc_column-inner\">\n<div class=\"wpb_wrapper\">\n<div class=\"wpb_text_column wpb_content_element holistiatext\">\n<div class=\"wpb_wrapper\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<h2 class=\"vc_row-full-width vc_clearfix\">Pourquoi alors c\u2019est plus difficile de r\u00e9ussir sa vie perso que sa vie pro ?<\/h2>\n<div class=\"vc_row-full-width vc_clearfix\">Les femmes qui rencontrent ce probl\u00e8me utilise souvent la mani\u00e8re masculine pour g\u00e9rer leur vie, qui est souvent ce qui marche pour r\u00e9ussir sa vie professionnelle : je peux contr\u00f4ler mon r\u00e9sultat par mes actions par exemple je travaille dur au travail et je re\u00e7ois des louanges de mon chef. Le sch\u00e9ma est simple, presque pr\u00e9visible si vous vous donnez \u00e0 200% vous avez en g\u00e9n\u00e9ral des retours positifs du moins sur le court terme (sur le long terme ce sera le th\u00e8me d\u2019un autre article).<\/div>\n<div class=\"vc_row wpb_row vc_row-fluid\">\n<div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container vc_col-sm-12\">\n<div class=\"vc_column-inner\">\n<div class=\"wpb_wrapper\">\n<div class=\"vc_row wpb_row vc_inner vc_row-fluid\">\n<div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container vc_col-sm-12\">\n<div class=\"vc_column-inner\">\n<div class=\"wpb_wrapper\">\n<div class=\"wpb_text_column wpb_content_element holistiatext\">\n<div class=\"wpb_wrapper\">\n<p>Le probl\u00e8me c\u2019est que dans la vie personnelle les r\u00e9sultats sont moins \u00ab contr\u00f4lables \u00bb c\u2019est-\u00e0-dire que vous pouvez faire tout ce qui est en votre pouvoir pour attirer le bon mec (corps de r\u00eave, sportive ou avec un autre hobbie sympa, sens de l\u2019humour, avoir une bonne situation professionnelle, \u00eatre sociale, sortir souvent..), les r\u00e9sultats d\u00e9pendent bien souvent de l\u2019autre, de son int\u00e9r\u00eat pour vous et qu\u2019il ait la <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/pourquoi-homme-prend-distance\/\">m\u00eame envie de s\u2019engager que vous<\/a>.<br \/>Et la vie personnelle comporte beaucoup de situations relationnelles o\u00f9 il nous est (malheureusement ou heureusement) impossible de contr\u00f4ler la r\u00e9action de l\u2019autre.<br \/>L\u00e2cher-prise dans ses relations est une t\u00e2che particuli\u00e8rement difficile si on a utilis\u00e9 l\u2019approche masculine pour g\u00e9rer sa vie.\u00a0<strong>Il est encore plus difficile de renouer avec son f\u00e9minin qui est notre pouvoir d\u2019attirer les bonnes personnes \u00e0 nous sans rien faire.<\/strong>\u00a0(oui vous allez enfin comprendre pourquoi votre voisine pas tr\u00e8s jolie avec une vie plut\u00f4t banale est heureuse en couple et pas vous).<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"vc_row wpb_row vc_inner vc_row-fluid\">\n<div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container vc_col-sm-12\">\n<div class=\"vc_column-inner\">\n<div class=\"wpb_wrapper\">\n<div class=\"wpb_text_column wpb_content_element \">\n<div class=\"wpb_wrapper\">\n<p><em>\u00ab\u00a0Il n\u2019est pas possible de g\u00e9rer ses amours comme sa carri\u00e8re\u00a0\u00bb<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"vc_row wpb_row vc_inner vc_row-fluid\">\n<div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container vc_col-sm-12\">\n<div class=\"vc_column-inner\">\n<div class=\"wpb_wrapper\">\n<div class=\"wpb_text_column wpb_content_element \">\n<div class=\"wpb_wrapper\">\n<p><strong>Je te rassure : il est possible de \u00ab contr\u00f4ler \u00bb la r\u00e9ussite de vos relations personnelles<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpb_text_column wpb_content_element holistiatext\">\n<div class=\"wpb_wrapper\">\n<p>Oui il existe bel et bien une baguette magique qui vous permet de maitriser les r\u00e9sultats de votre vie personnelle.<\/p>\n<p><strong>C\u2019est tr\u00e8s simple : votre relation aux autres est le miroir de votre inconscient.<\/strong><br \/>Tout ce que vous font vivre les autres n\u2019est que le reflet de vos pens\u00e9es profondes vis-\u00e0-vis de vous-m\u00eames.<br \/>C\u2019est une pilule qui n\u2019est certes pas facile \u00e0 avaler mais c\u2019est \u00e0 la fois tr\u00e8s lib\u00e9rateur car influencer ses propres pens\u00e9es est quelquechose de maitrisable.<br \/>Donc<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Si votre mec ne veut pas s\u2019engager avec vous, posez-vous la question si vous vous engagez vraiment avec vous-m\u00eame : avez-vous vraiment communiquer vos besoins et limites (et agis en cons\u00e9quence si ils n\u2019\u00e9taient pas respect\u00e9s) d\u00e8s le d\u00e9but de la relation ou est-ce que vous vous \u00eates \u00ab adapt\u00e9e \u00bb pour faire marcher la relation ?<\/li>\n<li>Si vous recevez une critique au travail est ce que vous croyez \u00e0 100% en vos capacit\u00e9s ou est-ce que le coll\u00e8gue a justement appuy\u00e9 l\u00e0 o\u00f9 vous vous sentez faible ?<\/li>\n<li>Si une copine vous pose un lapin, posez-vous la question si vous vous respectez vous-m\u00eames ou si vous dites toujours oui aux copines m\u00eame si vous \u00eates fatigu\u00e9e ou vous n\u2019avez pas envie de sortir ?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"vc_empty_space\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"vc_row wpb_row vc_inner vc_row-fluid\">\n<div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container vc_col-sm-12\">\n<div class=\"vc_column-inner\">\n<div class=\"wpb_wrapper\">\n<div class=\"wpb_text_column wpb_content_element \">\n<div class=\"wpb_wrapper\">\n<p><strong>C\u2019est l\u00e0 qu\u2019un travail de gu\u00e9rison est n\u00e9cessaire<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpb_text_column wpb_content_element holistiatext\">\n<div class=\"wpb_wrapper\">\n<p><strong>Car toutes ces pens\u00e9es n\u00e9gatives qui se refl\u00e8tent dans votre relation aux autres sont souvent des blessures du pass\u00e9 qui n\u2019ont pas \u00e9t\u00e9 gu\u00e9ries.<\/strong><br \/>Pas besoin d\u2019avoir v\u00e9cu une enfance difficile pour avoir des traumatismes du pass\u00e9. Dans notre enfance, on peut \u00eatre choqu\u00e9 par des choses qui paraissent insignifiantes pour les adultes.<br \/>\u00c0 chaque fois qu\u2019une situation de vie \u00ab r\u00e9-appuiera \u00bb sur cette blessure du pass\u00e9, vous aurez des r\u00e9actions \u00e9motionnelles disproportionn\u00e9es: stress, anxi\u00e9t\u00e9, angoisse, id\u00e9es noires, blocage, peur, crise de col\u00e8re\u2026 et vous attirerez de mani\u00e8re r\u00e9p\u00e9titive les m\u00eames situations qui prouveront que cette blessure a raison de vous.<br \/>C\u2019est ce qui explique que le yoga ou la m\u00e9ditation ne vous ont pas permis d\u2019obtenir des r\u00e9sultats durables pour votre s\u00e9r\u00e9nit\u00e9 int\u00e9rieure.<br \/>Pour que cela change vraiment il faut travailler la cause et non pas seulement sur les sympt\u00f4mes (votre d\u00e9tresse \u00e9motionnelle).<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"vc_empty_space\">\u00a0<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"vc_row wpb_row vc_inner vc_row-fluid\">\n<div class=\"wpb_column vc_column_container vc_col-sm-12\">\n<div class=\"vc_column-inner\">\n<div class=\"wpb_wrapper\">\n<div class=\"wpb_text_column wpb_content_element \">\n<div class=\"wpb_wrapper\">\n<h2>Comment travailler sur son <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/quest-ce-quun-schema-amoureux\/\">pass\u00e9<\/a> ?<\/h2>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"wpb_text_column wpb_content_element holistiatext\">\n<div class=\"wpb_wrapper\">\n<p>Il existe de nombreuses m\u00e9thodes th\u00e9rapeutiques ou de coaching qui peuvent t\u2019aider dans ce processus: l\u2019Etiopsychologie, la Kin\u00e9siologie, l\u2019Hypnose, l\u2019EMDR, l\u2019EFT, la Psychoth\u00e9rapie ou des approches plus corporelles telles que la M\u00e9decine Traditionnelle Chinoise MTC, le Shiatsu, le massage par les bols tib\u00e9tains, le Reiki ou le Rebalancing.<br \/>Souvent plusieurs blessures du pass\u00e9 jouent un r\u00f4le. C\u2019est pour cela qu\u2019il est important de faire un bilan avec un expert\/th\u00e9rapeute pour identifier quelles sont les blessures du pass\u00e9 qui sont au c\u0153ur du probl\u00e8me.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/webinaire\/\">Regarde mon w\u00e9binaire gratuit pour comprendre comment se cr\u00e9ent tes sch\u00e9mas amoureux<\/a>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-8743281 elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"8743281\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-no\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-80cdf46\" data-id=\"80cdf46\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-9c8e333 elementor-section-content-bottom elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"9c8e333\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-33e8405\" data-id=\"33e8405\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c54e3cd elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"c54e3cd\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-61466b2 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"61466b2\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-7f5945b\" data-id=\"7f5945b\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ee8587e elementor-invisible elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"ee8587e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;_animation&quot;:&quot;fadeInLeft&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\">Pour toi<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-fc33fcd elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"fc33fcd\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><span>LE W\u00c9BINAIRE comment se cr\u00e9e-t-on une blessure du pass\u00e9? <\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3374ca4 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"3374ca4\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"color: #000000; font-size: 18px; letter-spacing: 1.1px;\">Enregistre-toi d\u00e8s maintenant \u00e0 ma newsletter et re\u00e7ois le replay du w\u00e9binaire <span lang=\"FR-CH\">comment se cr\u00e9e-t-on une blessure du pass\u00e9\u00a0?\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-37558bf\" data-id=\"37558bf\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-2c78c290 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"2c78c290\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-7138aa7a\" data-id=\"7138aa7a\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7a7a658 elementor-widget elementor-widget-shortcode\" data-id=\"7a7a658\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"shortcode.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-shortcode\"><script src=https:\/\/sandy-kaufmann.mykajabi.com\/forms\/2149274795\/embed.js><\/script><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-365a286e elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"365a286e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>* Champs obligatoires<\/p><p>Si tu t&rsquo;abonnes \u00e0 ma newsletter, tu recevras \u00e9galement des offres. Tu peux te d\u00e9sabonner \u00e0 tout moment. Merci de lire ma <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/politique-de-confidentialite\/\"> Politique de confidentialit\u00e9 <\/a> pour voir comment je traite les donn\u00e9es.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-29f367af elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"29f367af\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-522d1dfc\" data-id=\"522d1dfc\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-259d7a17 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"259d7a17\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>\n<div id=\"sb_instagram\"  class=\"sbi sbi_mob_col_1 sbi_tab_col_2 sbi_col_6\" style=\"padding-bottom: 10px; background-color: rgb(255,255,255); width: 100%;\"\t data-feedid=\"sbi_17841411036917986#6\"  data-res=\"thumb\" data-cols=\"6\" data-colsmobile=\"1\" data-colstablet=\"2\" data-num=\"6\" data-nummobile=\"\" data-item-padding=\"5\"\t data-shortcode-atts=\"{}\"  data-postid=\"3093\" data-locatornonce=\"d764717033\" data-imageaspectratio=\"1:1\" data-sbi-flags=\"favorLocal,ajaxPostLoad,gdpr\">\n\t\n\t<div id=\"sbi_images\"  style=\"gap: 10px;\">\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\n\t<div id=\"sbi_load\" >\n\n\t\n\t\n<\/div>\n\t\t<span class=\"sbi_resized_image_data\" data-feed-id=\"sbi_17841411036917986#6\"\n\t\t  data-resized=\"[]\">\n\t<\/span>\n\t<\/div>\n\n<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-388290f elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-min-height elementor-section-items-stretch elementor-section-content-middle elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"388290f\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-fd55e84\" data-id=\"fd55e84\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-a30576c elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"a30576c\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-20 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-6e65866 elementor-sm-33\" data-id=\"6e65866\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-cb687c0 elementor-view-default elementor-widget elementor-widget-icon\" data-id=\"cb687c0\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"icon.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-icon-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-icon\" href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sandykaufmanncoaching\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\n\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fab fa-facebook-f\"><\/i>\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f3324ca elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"f3324ca\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sandykaufmanncoaching\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Facebook<\/a><\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-20 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-a3dec73 elementor-sm-33\" data-id=\"a3dec73\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-822605a elementor-view-default elementor-widget elementor-widget-icon\" data-id=\"822605a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"icon.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-icon-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-icon\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/sandykaufmann_lovecoach\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\n\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fab fa-instagram\"><\/i>\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-60640c8 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"60640c8\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/sandykaufmann_lovecoach\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Instagram<\/a><\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-20 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-820ac6c elementor-sm-33\" data-id=\"820ac6c\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a389968 elementor-view-default elementor-widget elementor-widget-icon\" data-id=\"a389968\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"icon.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-icon-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-icon\" href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/channel\/UCK-hi3HapAMgqRQ268Ode-A?\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\n\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fab fa-youtube\"><\/i>\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-db434bf elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"db434bf\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/channel\/UCK-hi3HapAMgqRQ268Ode-A?\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Youtube<\/a><\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-20 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-acb627a elementor-sm-33\" data-id=\"acb627a\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-bdbafd9 elementor-view-default elementor-widget elementor-widget-icon\" data-id=\"bdbafd9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"icon.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-icon-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-icon\" href=\"http:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/fr\/podcast\/souvrir-%C3%A0-lamour\/id1594692189?l=en\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\n\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fas fa-podcast\"><\/i>\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-646b84e elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"646b84e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><a href=\"http:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/fr\/podcast\/souvrir-%C3%A0-lamour\/id1594692189?l=en\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Apple<\/a><\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-20 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-9b417a8 elementor-sm-33\" data-id=\"9b417a8\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8c38e0e elementor-view-default elementor-widget elementor-widget-icon\" data-id=\"8c38e0e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"icon.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-icon-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-icon\" href=\"http:\/\/open.spotify.com\/show\/5Wz6EFR37F8Yqmzhmy0RMP\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\n\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fab fa-spotify\"><\/i>\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-677c7ce elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"677c7ce\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><a href=\"http:\/\/open.spotify.com\/show\/5Wz6EFR37F8Yqmzhmy0RMP\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Spotify<\/a><\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-5854856\" data-id=\"5854856\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-017ef67 elementor-icon-list--layout-traditional elementor-list-item-link-full_width elementor-widget elementor-widget-icon-list\" data-id=\"017ef67\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"icon-list.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul class=\"elementor-icon-list-items\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<li class=\"elementor-icon-list-item\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<a href=\"mailto:info@sandykaufmann.ch\">\n\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-icon\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"far fa-envelope\"><\/i>\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-icon-list-text\">info@sandykaufmann.ch<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/li>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/ul>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Pourquoi il est plus difficile de r\u00e9ussir sa vie perso que sa vie professionnelle? Vous avez fait de bonnes \u00e9tudes, trouv\u00e9 un premier job prometteur et vos \u00e9valuations vous laissent penser que votre chef est content de votre travail.Sur le plan personnel la situation est autre : vous ne rencontrez pas le bon mec, votre [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"ocean_post_layout":"full-screen","ocean_both_sidebars_style":"","ocean_both_sidebars_content_width":0,"ocean_both_sidebars_sidebars_width":0,"ocean_sidebar":"0","ocean_second_sidebar":"0","ocean_disable_margins":"enable","ocean_add_body_class":"","ocean_shortcode_before_top_bar":"","ocean_shortcode_after_top_bar":"","ocean_shortcode_before_header":"","ocean_shortcode_after_header":"","ocean_has_shortcode":"","ocean_shortcode_after_title":"","ocean_shortcode_before_footer_widgets":"","ocean_shortcode_after_footer_widgets":"","ocean_shortcode_before_footer_bottom":"","ocean_shortcode_after_footer_bottom":"","ocean_display_top_bar":"default","ocean_display_header":"default","ocean_header_style":"","ocean_center_header_left_menu":"0","ocean_custom_header_template":"0","ocean_custom_logo":0,"ocean_custom_retina_logo":0,"ocean_custom_logo_max_width":0,"ocean_custom_logo_tablet_max_width":0,"ocean_custom_logo_mobile_max_width":0,"ocean_custom_logo_max_height":0,"ocean_custom_logo_tablet_max_height":0,"ocean_custom_logo_mobile_max_height":0,"ocean_header_custom_menu":"0","ocean_menu_typo_font_family":"0","ocean_menu_typo_font_subset":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_size":0,"ocean_menu_typo_font_size_tablet":0,"ocean_menu_typo_font_size_mobile":0,"ocean_menu_typo_font_size_unit":"px","ocean_menu_typo_font_weight":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_weight_tablet":"","ocean_menu_typo_font_weight_mobile":"","ocean_menu_typo_transform":"","ocean_menu_typo_transform_tablet":"","ocean_menu_typo_transform_mobile":"","ocean_menu_typo_line_height":0,"ocean_menu_typo_line_height_tablet":0,"ocean_menu_typo_line_height_mobile":0,"ocean_menu_typo_line_height_unit":"","ocean_menu_typo_spacing":0,"ocean_menu_typo_spacing_tablet":0,"ocean_menu_typo_spacing_mobile":0,"ocean_menu_typo_spacing_unit":"","ocean_menu_link_color":"","ocean_menu_link_color_hover":"","ocean_menu_link_color_active":"","ocean_menu_link_background":"","ocean_menu_link_hover_background":"","ocean_menu_link_active_background":"","ocean_menu_social_links_bg":"","ocean_menu_social_hover_links_bg":"","ocean_menu_social_links_color":"","ocean_menu_social_hover_links_color":"","ocean_disable_title":"on","ocean_disable_heading":"default","ocean_post_title":"","ocean_post_subheading":"","ocean_post_title_style":"","ocean_post_title_background_color":"","ocean_post_title_background":0,"ocean_post_title_bg_image_position":"","ocean_post_title_bg_image_attachment":"","ocean_post_title_bg_image_repeat":"","ocean_post_title_bg_image_size":"","ocean_post_title_height":0,"ocean_post_title_bg_overlay":0.5,"ocean_post_title_bg_overlay_color":"","ocean_disable_breadcrumbs":"default","ocean_breadcrumbs_color":"","ocean_breadcrumbs_separator_color":"","ocean_breadcrumbs_links_color":"","ocean_breadcrumbs_links_hover_color":"","ocean_display_footer_widgets":"default","ocean_display_footer_bottom":"default","ocean_custom_footer_template":"0","ocean_post_oembed":"","ocean_post_self_hosted_media":"","ocean_post_video_embed":"","ocean_link_format":"","ocean_link_format_target":"self","ocean_quote_format":"","ocean_quote_format_link":"post","ocean_gallery_link_images":"off","ocean_gallery_id":[],"footnotes":""},"categories":[63],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3093","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-comportement","entry","owp-thumbs-layout-horizontal","owp-btn-normal","owp-tabs-layout-horizontal","has-no-thumbnails"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3093","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3093"}],"version-history":[{"count":24,"href":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3093\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1080354,"href":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3093\/revisions\/1080354"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3093"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3093"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3093"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}