{"id":30126,"date":"2020-09-22T19:32:36","date_gmt":"2020-09-22T19:32:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/?p=30126"},"modified":"2025-10-15T04:46:19","modified_gmt":"2025-10-15T04:46:19","slug":"forcerlamour","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/forcerlamour\/","title":{"rendered":"Forces-tu l&rsquo;amour?"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"30126\" class=\"elementor elementor-30126\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-62cff332 elementor-section-content-top elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-min-height elementor-section-items-bottom elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"62cff332\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-a3502b1\" data-id=\"a3502b1\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-31c4d2e elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"31c4d2e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-xl\">Forces-tu l'amour?<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-187268ea elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"187268ea\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-10b0708\" data-id=\"10b0708\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-73ad0b43 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"73ad0b43\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div><style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;<br \/>\nfont-size: 34px;}<br \/>\n    h3 {color: #7A7A7A;<br \/>\nfont-size: 34px;}<br \/>\n  <\/style><\/div><p><\/p><p>Es-tu la personne qui fait le plus de concessions sur tes disponibilit\u00e9s afin que les rendez-vous se passent?<\/p><p>Rassures-tu toujours ton partenaire s&rsquo;il doute que la relation va marcher ou <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/pourquoi-les-hommes-ont-peur-de-sengager\/\">s&rsquo;il doute d&rsquo;\u00eatre pr\u00eat ou capable d&rsquo;\u00eatre en relation<\/a>?<\/p><p>Apr\u00e8s une dispute, es-tu la personne qui cherche \u00e0 se r\u00e9concilier et fait souvent le premier pas?<\/p><p>Alors tu forces peut-\u00eatre l&rsquo;amour.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-95459e2 elementor-widget elementor-widget-video\" data-id=\"95459e2\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;youtube_url&quot;:&quot;https:\\\/\\\/youtu.be\\\/qJPXfap_CYk&quot;,&quot;video_type&quot;:&quot;youtube&quot;,&quot;controls&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"video.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-wrapper elementor-open-inline\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-video\"><\/div>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-16b41d21 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"16b41d21\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div><style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;\nfont-size: 34px;}\n  <\/style><\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"i\"><\/span>\u00a0<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"La_difference_entre_cultiver_lamour_et_forcer_lamour\"><\/span>La diff\u00e9rence entre cultiver l&rsquo;amour et forcer l&rsquo;amour<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Si cultiver l&rsquo;amour et la bienveillance dans son couple est une qualit\u00e9 \u00e0 d\u00e9velopper, il faut veiller au dosage:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Cultiver l&rsquo;amour<\/strong> c&rsquo;est accepter l&rsquo;autre o\u00f9 il en est dans son d\u00e9veloppement personnel, dans son timing et le rassurer sur nos intentions. Cela ne demande aucun sacrifice personnel.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Forcer l&rsquo;amour<\/strong> c\u2019est cr\u00e9er des circonstances qui font que l&rsquo;autre reste. Cela demande de sacrifier ses attentes, ses besoins, d\u00e9passer ses limites au profit de l&rsquo;autre.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Pour savoir si tu cultives l&rsquo;amour ou si tu forces l&rsquo;amour dans ta relation actuelle, pose-toi simplement la question si tu dois abandonner tes besoins, tes attentes, tes limites pour t&rsquo;adapter aux besoins de l&rsquo;autre et si tu fais cela en majorit\u00e9?<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Quand_forcer_lamour_devient_la_nouvelle_norme\"><\/span>Quand forcer l&rsquo;amour devient la nouvelle norme<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Le probl\u00e8me quand tu forces l&rsquo;amour et te sur-adaptes \u00e0 l&rsquo;autre c&rsquo;est que tu d\u00e9finis une nouvelle norme dans tes \u00e9changes avec lui.<\/p>\n<p>Tu as par toi-m\u00eame choisi de donner plus que de recevoir<br \/>L&rsquo;autre ne l&rsquo;a peut-\u00eatre m\u00eame pas express\u00e9ment demand\u00e9<br \/>Il va donc penser que c&rsquo;est ta nature d&rsquo;\u00eatre comme cela<br \/>Et avec le temps il va s&rsquo;habituer \u00e0 moins devoir donner<\/p>\n<p>Ce qui fait qu\u2019\u00e0 chaque fois que tu essaieras de changer cet \u00e9quilibre, l&rsquo;autre verra ce changement comme n\u00e9gatif (\u201cTu es exigeante d&rsquo;un coup, qu&rsquo;est-ce qui t&rsquo;arrive?!\u201d)<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Sobstiner_en_amour_fait_souffrir\"><\/span>S\u2019obstiner en amour fait souffrir<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Oui, il y a un prix \u00e0 payer quand tu forces l&rsquo;amour<\/p>\n<p>C&rsquo;est le prix de s&rsquo;oublier<\/p>\n<p>C&rsquo;est le prix de ne pas \u00eatre align\u00e9e avec tes besoins et tes attentes<\/p>\n<p>Et ce prix se manifeste par tes \u00e9motions:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>C&rsquo;est cette angoisse ou cette anxi\u00e9t\u00e9 que tu ressens quand tu as trop donn\u00e9 et que tu ne sais pas si l&rsquo;autre va rester.<\/li>\n<li>C&rsquo;est cette col\u00e8re quand tu vois que m\u00eame tes efforts ne le font pas changer de comportement dans votre couple.<\/li>\n<li>C&rsquo;est cette amertume quand il te dit qu&rsquo;il n&rsquo;est pas s\u00fbr de la relation ou qu&rsquo;il ne se sent pas pr\u00eat malgr\u00e9 tous tes sacrifices.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Ces \u00e9motions-l\u00e0 tu ne les ressens pas \u00e0 cause de lui, mais plut\u00f4t \u00e0 cause de toi qui ne t&rsquo;es pas respect\u00e9e.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Comprendre_dou_cela_vient\"><\/span>Comprendre d&rsquo;o\u00f9 cela vient<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Cette forme de d\u00e9pendance affective n&rsquo;est pas l\u00e0 sans raison. Cela veut dire qu&rsquo;\u00e0 un moment donn\u00e9 de ta vie tu as appris qu&rsquo;il fallait se battre, se sacrifier pour garder et recevoir l&rsquo;amour. Dans mon programme <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/souvriralamour\/\">s\u2019ouvrir \u00e0 l\u2019amour<\/a> on fait notamment le bilan de toutes tes croyances sur l\u2019amour. Si tu veux comprendre en quoi le pass\u00e9 peut te cr\u00e9er un tel sch\u00e9ma amoureux, regarde mon w\u00e9binaire gratuit en t\u2019inscrivant ci-dessous.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-7b14467 elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"7b14467\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-no\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-74ddd91\" data-id=\"74ddd91\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-317f147 elementor-section-content-bottom elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"317f147\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-66c7f64\" data-id=\"66c7f64\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8f1fddb elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"8f1fddb\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-7c6ea72 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"7c6ea72\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-863834e\" data-id=\"863834e\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-53b7555 elementor-invisible elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"53b7555\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;_animation&quot;:&quot;fadeInLeft&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\">Pour toi<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5577b70 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"5577b70\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"LE_WEBINAIRE_comment_se_cree-t-on_une_blessure_du_passe\"><\/span><span>LE W\u00c9BINAIRE comment se cr\u00e9e-t-on une blessure du pass\u00e9? 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