{"id":15220,"date":"2023-06-12T07:30:54","date_gmt":"2023-06-12T07:30:54","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/?p=15220"},"modified":"2026-03-17T20:52:00","modified_gmt":"2026-03-17T20:52:00","slug":"71-le-secret-des-couples-qui-durent","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/71-le-secret-des-couples-qui-durent\/","title":{"rendered":"71. Le secret des couples qui durent"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"15220\" class=\"elementor elementor-15220\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-525528d6 elementor-section-content-top elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-min-height elementor-section-items-bottom elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"525528d6\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-3dd73755\" data-id=\"3dd73755\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2cf677de elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"2cf677de\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-xl\">Le secret des couples qui durent<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-35bdebd7 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"35bdebd7\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-29baab3d\" data-id=\"29baab3d\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-35eb504d elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"35eb504d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div><style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;<br \/>\nfont-size: 34px;}<br \/>\n  <\/style><\/div><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Le_secret_des_couples_qui_durent\"><\/span>Le secret des couples qui durent<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><p>Qu&rsquo;est-ce qui fait que certains couples durent et que les partenaires restent complices et continuent de s&rsquo;\u00e9panouir ensemble?<\/p><p>Y a-t-il un secret qui fait que ces couples durent?<\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">La r\u00e9ponse \u00e0 cette question n\u2019est pas si \u00e9vidente, car \u00e0 mon avis chaque couple construit son secret qui fait que cela marche bien entre eux. La suite dans l\u2019\u00e9pisode 71 de S\u2019ouvrir \u00e0 l\u2019amour.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-ed73939 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"ed73939\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-99c6580\" data-id=\"99c6580\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-503e20a elementor-widget elementor-widget-video\" data-id=\"503e20a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;youtube_url&quot;:&quot;https:\\\/\\\/youtu.be\\\/9wexQ3bisr8?si=c8UEY0SG0QfDL-No&quot;,&quot;video_type&quot;:&quot;youtube&quot;,&quot;controls&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"video.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-wrapper elementor-open-inline\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-video\"><\/div>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-fbe07bc elementor-hidden-desktop elementor-hidden-tablet elementor-hidden-mobile elementor-widget elementor-widget-html\" data-id=\"fbe07bc\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"html.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<iframe name=\"Ausha Podcast Player\" frameborder=\"0\" loading=\"lazy\" id=\"ausha-UxnP\" height=\"220\" style=\"border: none; width:100%; height:220px\" src=\"https:\/\/player.ausha.co\/index.html?showId=bjPkYiPMPlqo&color=%23d13523&podcastId=oma5EcAL942Z&v=3&playerId=ausha-UxnP\"><\/iframe><script src=\"https:\/\/player.ausha.co\/ausha-player.js\"><\/script>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-8df0783 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"8df0783\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-3da4968\" data-id=\"3da4968\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6e07664 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"6e07664\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div><style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;<br \/>\nfont-size: 34px;}<br \/>\n  <\/style><\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Le_secret_des_couples_qui_durent-2\"><\/span>Le secret des couples qui durent<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\nQu&rsquo;est-ce qui fait que certains couples durent et que les partenaires restent complices et continuent de s&rsquo;\u00e9panouir ensemble?\n\nY a-t-il un secret qui fait que ces couples durent?\n\nLa r\u00e9ponse \u00e0 cette question n&rsquo;est pas si \u00e9vidente, car \u00e0 mon avis chaque couple construit son secret qui fait que cela marche bien entre eux. Et cela va m\u00eame changer au cours de leur relation.(regarde <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/les-stades-dune-relation-amoureuse\/\">cet article<\/a> si tu veux en savoir plus sur les stades d&rsquo;une relation.)\n\nMoi-m\u00eame apr\u00e8s 9 ans de relation en couple et mon m\u00e9tier de coach en amour, je n&rsquo;ai pas cette certitude \u00e0 100%, car c&rsquo;est un \u00e9quilibre qui, selon moi, se red\u00e9finit sans cesse, au fur et \u00e0 mesure des \u00e9volutions de chacun des partenaires et du couple.\n\nImagine comme tu as pu changer en 10 ann\u00e9es de vie. Cela ne va pas changer quand tu te mets en couple.\n\nAu lieu d&rsquo;une recette miracle valable pour tous, il y a, selon moi, 3 aspects \u00e0 consid\u00e9rer pour aider chaque couple \u00e0 trouver son secret:\n<ol>\n \t<li>Comprendre l&rsquo;\u00e9volution physiologique du sentiment amoureux apr\u00e8s plusieurs ann\u00e9es de vivre ensemble<\/li>\n \t<li>\u00catre clair sur le r\u00f4le et les attentes envers le couple<\/li>\n \t<li>Cultiver les ingr\u00e9dients n\u00e9cessaires pour une vie \u00e0 deux r\u00e9ussie<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p class=\"has-background\" style=\"background-color: #eeeeee;\">\u2764\ufe0f Regarde <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/inscriptionblessurepasse\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">mon w\u00e9binaire <\/a><\/strong>sur comment \u00eatre enfin heureux\/se en Amour!<\/p>\n \n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-59c6b1a1 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"59c6b1a1\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-7a3ae49\" data-id=\"7a3ae49\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-220e8b90 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"220e8b90\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div><style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;<br \/>font-size: 34px;}<br \/>  <\/style><\/div><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Comprendre_levolution_du_sentiment_amoureux_apres_plusieurs_annees_ensemble\"><\/span>Comprendre l\u2019\u00e9volution du sentiment amoureux apr\u00e8s plusieurs ann\u00e9es ensemble<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><p>Cette partie fait suite \u00e0 l&rsquo;<a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/comment-un-homme-tombe-amoureux\/\">article sur comment un homme tombe amoureux<\/a> o\u00f9 je fais un r\u00e9sum\u00e9 des travaux de recherche de Dawn Maslar sur les m\u00e9canismes physiologiques qui se passent quand on tombe amoureux et \u00e0 quel point ceux-ci sont diff\u00e9rents entre un homme et une femme.<\/p><p>Dans ces m\u00eames travaux de recherche Dawn Maslar constate qu\u2019apr\u00e8s \u00eatre tomb\u00e9 amoureux, les hormones retournent grosso modo \u00e0 leur niveau originel, c&rsquo;est-\u00e0-dire au niveau d&rsquo;avant la rencontre et que les couples qui continuent de rester ensemble le font par choix conscient.<\/p><p>\u00c0 ce moment-l\u00e0 de la relation, ce n&rsquo;est plus le cerveau reptilien qui est le moteur de la relation, mais bien le cerveau rationnel, plus particuli\u00e8rement le cortex la m\u00eame zone du cerveau qui nous connecte \u00e0 nos valeurs, \u00e0 notre envie d&rsquo;\u00eatre la meilleure version de nous-m\u00eames en d\u00e9veloppant des qualit\u00e9s comme la compassion, l&rsquo;amour inconditionnel. C&rsquo;est typiquement la zone du cerveau qui est activ\u00e9e quand tu fais du d\u00e9veloppement personnel.<\/p><p>En d&rsquo;autres termes <strong>l&rsquo;amour commence par un sentiment et finit par \u00eatre un choix.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p><p>C\u2019est donc normal de voir un changement dans la passion de couple apr\u00e8s plusieurs ann\u00e9es ensemble, car il y a ce retour \u00e0 la normale des hormones.<\/p><p><a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/eyq2Wo4eUDg\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Dawn Maslar<\/a> d\u00e9crit n\u00e9anmoins deux ph\u00e9nom\u00e8nes qui se produisent en parall\u00e8le \u00e0 ce changement de cerveau:<\/p><ul><li>L&rsquo;utilisation du cortex pr\u00e9frontal va diminuer notre sentiment d&rsquo;attraction envers d&rsquo;autres personnes.<\/li><li>Les neurones miroirs nous permettent de b\u00e9n\u00e9ficier encore plus rapidement de l&rsquo;exp\u00e9rience de notre conjoint, dans le sens o\u00f9 nous apprenons plus vite ce qu&rsquo;il sait faire, car il a d\u00e9j\u00e0 acquis cette comp\u00e9tence et que nous sommes souvent \u00e0 son contact.\u00a0<\/li><\/ul><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Etre_clair_sur_le_role_du_couple\"><\/span>\u00catre clair sur le r\u00f4le du couple<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><p>J&rsquo;esp\u00e8re que la description de l&rsquo;\u00e9volution physiologique du sentiment amoureux te donnera une attente plus r\u00e9aliste sur le r\u00f4le du couple dans ta vie.<\/p><p>Pour moi le couple reste et restera qu&rsquo;une partie de ta vie, dans le sens o\u00f9 le couple est pour moi deux individus ind\u00e9pendants et \u00e9panouis dans leurs vies respectives, qui d\u00e9cident de partager le bonus du couple, c&rsquo;est-\u00e0-dire cette cerise sur le g\u00e2teau (partager sa vie avec quelqu\u2019un qu\u2019on aime) et non pas le g\u00e2teau en entier.\u00a0<\/p><p>Et donc cela veut dire deux choses: que de un la premi\u00e8re de tes missions est de continuer \u00e0 t\u2019\u00e9panouir personnellement ind\u00e9pendamment de ta vie de couple.<\/p><p>Et que de deux tu peux profiter de cette cerise sur le g\u00e2teau, qui est le couple, pour ton propre d\u00e9veloppement personnel.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p><p>Une fois que le couple s&rsquo;engage dans la dur\u00e9e, il devient pour moi un outil de d\u00e9veloppement personnel dans le sens que c&rsquo;est au sein du couple, dans cette zone de s\u00e9curit\u00e9 et d&rsquo;amour, que vont ressurgir des blessures du pass\u00e9 de chacun des partenaires. Le couple devient l\u2019opportunit\u00e9 unique de r\u00e9gler ce qui n\u2019a pas \u00e9t\u00e9 r\u00e9solu dans le premier foyer o\u00f9 nous avons connu cette s\u00e9curit\u00e9 (ou pas), nos parents.<\/p><p>Les crises interviennent souvent quand il y a un changement du degr\u00e9 de d\u00e9pendance envers l&rsquo;autre partenaire au niveau structurel (par exemple avec l&rsquo;arriv\u00e9e des enfants), au niveau financier (par exemple quand le conjoint perd son travail), au niveau \u00e9motionnel (par exemple si un des conjoints perd un \u00eatre cher), au niveau physique (par exemple si un des conjoints tombe malade).<\/p><p>Et donc rester en couple devient finalement un choix d&rsquo;aller au bout de ton d\u00e9veloppement personnel, car finalement changer de partenaire ne t&rsquo;aidera pas \u00e0 r\u00e9soudre forc\u00e9ment le probl\u00e8me, tu vivras le m\u00eame probl\u00e8me simplement avec une autre personne.<\/p><p>Bien s\u00fbr jusqu&rsquo;\u00e0 un certain point. Pour certains couples se s\u00e9parer sera la meilleure solution.<\/p><p>Dans mon programme <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/cultiver-lamour\/\">Cultiver l&rsquo;amour<\/a> je propose diff\u00e9rents outils de r\u00e9flexion pour comprendre ce qui se cache derri\u00e8re une crise de couple, c&rsquo;est-\u00e0-dire quelles sont les blessures qui ressurgissent pour chaque partenaire, ce que peut faire le couple pour tamiser et g\u00e9rer le conflit, comment chaque partenaire peut aider l&rsquo;autre dans sa d\u00e9marche et quelles questions sont \u00e0 consid\u00e9rer pour d\u00e9cider si cela vaut la peine de continuer ou pas.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1f39630 elementor-align-center elementor-mobile-align-center elementor-widget elementor-widget-button\" data-id=\"1f39630\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"button.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-button-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-button elementor-button-link elementor-size-md\" href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/cultiver-lamour\/\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-content-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-text\">cultiver l'amour<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b346968 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"b346968\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Les_ingredients_pour_reussir_sa_vie_a_deux\"><\/span>Les ingr\u00e9dients pour r\u00e9ussir sa vie \u00e0 deux\u00a0<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>J&rsquo;esp\u00e8re qu&rsquo;\u00e0 ce stade de l&rsquo;article tu es au clair que <strong>rester \u00e9panouie en couple est un travail.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ce qui veut dire que tu dois y consacrer:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Du temps et surtout du temps de qualit\u00e9<\/strong>. Ici la qualit\u00e9 pr\u00e9vaut \u00e0 la quantit\u00e9. Combien de temps d\u00e9dies-tu \u00e0 ton partenaire pour passer un moment agr\u00e9able de qualit\u00e9 et pas seulement vous r\u00e9partir les t\u00e2ches?<\/li>\n<li><strong>Donner une priorit\u00e9 \u00e0 ton couple<\/strong>. Quand le couple va mal, c&rsquo;est une r\u00e9action naturelle de s&rsquo;occuper autrement, avec d&rsquo;autres activit\u00e9s (sorties, sport, voir des amies) pour s&rsquo;\u00e9chapper la crise. Mais quand on veut traverser cette crise, il faut aussi y investir du temps et parfois diminuer son investissement dans certaines activit\u00e9s personnelles pour d\u00e9dier plus de temps \u00e0 son couple.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Nourrir la relation<\/strong> avec des gestes d&rsquo;attention et d&rsquo;amour.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Accepter que l&rsquo;autre ait un rythme d&rsquo;\u00e9volution<\/strong> diff\u00e9rent du sien, ce qui peut avoir comme cons\u00e9quence que la crise dure plus longtemps et qu\u2019il faille donc trouver un moyen de \u00ab\u00a0patienter\u00a0\u00bb jusqu\u2019\u00e0 ce que l\u2019autre personne fasse sa partie de d\u00e9veloppement personnel.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Rester positive<\/strong> sur la relation<\/li>\n<li><strong>Continuer \u00e0 avoir des projets ensemble<\/strong><\/li>\n<li><strong>D\u00e9cider consciemment d\u2019admirer ton partenaire<\/strong> en se focalisant sur ce qu&rsquo;il fait de bien. Pas facile quand on est au c\u0153ur d\u2019une crise.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Continuer \u00e0 te r\u00e9aliser en dehors de ta relation<\/strong><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>\u00c0 ce niveau de relation, chaque partenaire devient l\u2019expert de son couple, car vous \u00eates les mieux \u00e0 m\u00eame de comprendre ce qu&rsquo;il vous faut pour vous \u00e9panouir. Je trouve personnellement beau de voir que le couple devienne le plus grand outil de d\u00e9veloppement personnel et une mani\u00e8re d\u2019exp\u00e9rimenter l&rsquo;amour inconditionnel.<\/p>\n<p>Crois-moi, cela en vaut la peine.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-26c331f3 elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"26c331f3\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-no\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-34e410dc\" data-id=\"34e410dc\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-31889ded elementor-section-content-bottom elementor-hidden-mobile elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"31889ded\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-1252cd77\" data-id=\"1252cd77\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5c847a7b elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"5c847a7b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-ea619fe elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"ea619fe\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-798d254c\" data-id=\"798d254c\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4b9a2275 elementor-invisible elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"4b9a2275\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;_animation&quot;:&quot;fadeInLeft&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\">Pour toi<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4d7331ce elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"4d7331ce\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"quizz_offert\"><\/span><span>quizz offert<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6c4eb163 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"6c4eb163\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Couple_Partir_ou_rester\"><\/span><span><strong><em>Couple: Partir ou rester ? <\/em><\/strong><span> <\/span><\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-658eb78a elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"658eb78a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"color: #000000; font-size: 18px; letter-spacing: 1.1px;\">Enregistre-toi d\u00e8s maintenant \u00e0 ma newsletter et re\u00e7ois mon questionnaire gratuit.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-55625c50\" data-id=\"55625c50\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-30d62bba elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"30d62bba\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-1f0a4b44\" data-id=\"1f0a4b44\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-29fff34f elementor-widget elementor-widget-shortcode\" data-id=\"29fff34f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"shortcode.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-shortcode\"><script src=https:\/\/sandy-kaufmann.mykajabi.com\/forms\/2149274863\/embed.js><\/script><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-841c483 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"841c483\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>* Champs obligatoires<\/p><p>Si tu t&rsquo;abonnes \u00e0 ma newsletter, tu recevras \u00e9galement des offres. Tu peux te d\u00e9sabonner \u00e0 tout moment. Merci de lire ma <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/politique-de-confidentialite\/\"> Politique de confidentialit\u00e9 <\/a> pour voir comment je traite les donn\u00e9es.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-6287af78 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"6287af78\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-44d8edff\" data-id=\"44d8edff\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5e92e392 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"5e92e392\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Pour_aller_plus_loin\"><\/span>Pour aller plus loin<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1e2d28eb elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"1e2d28eb\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Votre couple demande du soin.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pour maintenir la connexion, passer de bons moments ensemble ne suffit pas. Il est important de r\u00e9gler les conflits sous-jacents pour \u00e9viter d\u2019accumuler trop de poussi\u00e8re sous le tapis qui fait que le couple se d\u00e9connecte et que chaque partenaire se sent incompris de l\u2019autre.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">C\u2019est ce que tu apprends dans mon programme <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/cultiver-lamour\/\">Cultiver l&rsquo;amour<\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7d3ed8b7 elementor-align-center elementor-mobile-align-center elementor-widget elementor-widget-button\" data-id=\"7d3ed8b7\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"button.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-button-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-button elementor-button-link elementor-size-md\" href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/cultiver-lamour\/\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-content-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-text\">cultiver l'amour<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-bc0606c elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"bc0606c\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-7a18728\" data-id=\"7a18728\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5ef88840 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"5ef88840\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Une_premiere_etape_mon_livre\"><\/span>Une premi\u00e8re \u00e9tape: mon livre<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1dbcab6a elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"1dbcab6a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Si tu as envie d\u2019approfondir le sujet et de comprendre comment construire une belle dynamique, tu as mon livre <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/livre-les-couples-heureux-osent-aborder-les-sujets-qui-fachent\/\">Les couples heureux&#8230;osent aborder les sujets qui f\u00e2chent<\/a> disponible dans toutes les librairies.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-5cfe6c50 elementor-section-height-min-height elementor-section-content-middle elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-items-middle\" data-id=\"5cfe6c50\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-no\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-7999a06\" data-id=\"7999a06\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-6ee1d50d elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"6ee1d50d\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-2fa8970e\" data-id=\"2fa8970e\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-33a652f6 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"33a652f6\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1771\" height=\"1535\" src=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Mockup_livre-1.png\" class=\"attachment-2048x2048 size-2048x2048 wp-image-1081511\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Mockup_livre-1.png 1771w, https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Mockup_livre-1-300x260.png 300w, https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Mockup_livre-1-1024x888.png 1024w, https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Mockup_livre-1-768x666.png 768w, https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Mockup_livre-1-1536x1331.png 1536w, https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Mockup_livre-1-600x520.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1771px) 100vw, 1771px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-32e2464d\" data-id=\"32e2464d\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8550ff0 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"8550ff0\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\">Contrairement aux id\u00e9es re\u00e7ues, les couples qui durent ne sont pas ceux qui \u00e9vitent les conflits mais qui savent les traverser.\nLe livre <i><b>Les couples heureux..osent aborder les sujets qui f\u00e2chent<\/b><\/i> t'explique comment transformer vos tensions en connexion en 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Y a-t-il un secret qui fait que ces couples durent? 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