{"id":14552,"date":"2024-01-29T07:30:27","date_gmt":"2024-01-29T07:30:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/?p=14552"},"modified":"2025-10-14T13:24:33","modified_gmt":"2025-10-14T13:24:33","slug":"101-limpact-dun-viol-ou-dattouchements-sur-les-relations-amoureuses","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/101-limpact-dun-viol-ou-dattouchements-sur-les-relations-amoureuses\/","title":{"rendered":"101. L&rsquo;impact d&rsquo;un viol ou d&rsquo;attouchements sur les relations amoureuses"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"14552\" class=\"elementor elementor-14552\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-525528d6 elementor-section-content-top elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-min-height elementor-section-items-bottom elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"525528d6\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-3dd73755\" data-id=\"3dd73755\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2cf677de elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"2cf677de\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-xl\">L'impact d'un viol ou d'attouchements sur les relations amoureuses<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-35bdebd7 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"35bdebd7\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-29baab3d\" data-id=\"29baab3d\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-35eb504d elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"35eb504d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div><style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;<br \/>font-size: 34px;}<br \/>    h3 {color: #7A7A7A;<br \/>font-size: 34px;}<br \/>  <\/style><\/div><p>Quand je suis devenue coach, je ne m&rsquo;attendais pas \u00e0 avoir encore \u00e0 notre \u00e9poque autant de femmes victimes de viols, d&rsquo;attouchement ou qui ont eu des exp\u00e9riences o\u00f9 elles ont \u00e9t\u00e9 consid\u00e9r\u00e9es comme des objets sexuels.<\/p><p>Ce sujet reste encore tabou et souvent celles qui subissent se taisent, soit pour pr\u00e9server \u201cl&rsquo;harmonie familiale\u201d, soit pour oublier, soit parce qu&rsquo;elles se sentent partiellement responsables (elles avaient apr\u00e8s tout pas \u00e0 \u00ab\u00a0aguicher\u00a0\u00bb) ou encore parce qu&rsquo;elles n&rsquo;ont pas vraiment conscientis\u00e9 que ce qui s&rsquo;est pass\u00e9 n&rsquo;\u00e9tait pas normal.<\/p><p>Dans cet article j&rsquo;ai essay\u00e9 de lister les diff\u00e9rents impacts que ces agressions peuvent avoir dans la vie amoureuse sur la base de mes observations lors des accompagnements.\u00a0Si tu veux en savoir plus sur les sch\u00e9mas amoureux en g\u00e9n\u00e9ral, tu peux aller vers l&rsquo;<a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/3-quest-ce-quun-schema-amoureux\/\">EP 3<\/a>.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-38222d6 elementor-hidden-desktop elementor-hidden-tablet elementor-hidden-mobile elementor-widget elementor-widget-html\" data-id=\"38222d6\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"html.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<iframe name=\"Ausha Podcast Player\" frameborder=\"0\" loading=\"lazy\" id=\"ausha-h0pG\" height=\"220\" style=\"border: none; width:100%; height:220px\" src=\"https:\/\/player.ausha.co\/?showId=bjPkYiPMPlqo&color=%23d13523&podcastId=brMRjtg6pA2P&v=3&playerId=ausha-h0pG\"><\/iframe><script src=\"https:\/\/player.ausha.co\/ausha-player.js\"><\/script>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6a54cdb elementor-widget elementor-widget-video\" data-id=\"6a54cdb\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;youtube_url&quot;:&quot;https:\\\/\\\/youtu.be\\\/N8o2_q9hFyk&quot;,&quot;video_type&quot;:&quot;youtube&quot;,&quot;controls&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"video.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-wrapper elementor-open-inline\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-video\"><\/div>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d190a2f elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"d190a2f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div><style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;<br \/>\nfont-size: 34px;}<br \/>\n    h3 {color: #7A7A7A;<br \/>\nfont-size: 34px;}<br \/>\n  <\/style><\/div><p>\u00a0<\/p><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Limpact_dun_viol_sur_les_relations_amoureuses_et_le_manque_de_confiance_envers_les_hommes\"><\/span>L&rsquo;impact d&rsquo;un viol sur les relations amoureuses et le manque de confiance envers les hommes\u00a0<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><p>C&rsquo;est l&rsquo;impact le plus \u00e9vident, pourtant ce n&rsquo;est pas forc\u00e9ment celui que j\u2019ai observ\u00e9 le plus.<\/p><p>Si le viol ou les attouchements se passent avec des membres de la famille, il y a aussi un manque fondamental de s\u00e9curit\u00e9, car la personne, qui est cens\u00e9e te prot\u00e9ger, abuse de toi.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Labsence_dorgasme\"><\/span>L&rsquo;absence d&rsquo;orgasme<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><p>Suite \u00e0 un viol ou un attouchement, la sexualit\u00e9 peut \u00eatre vue comme sale\u00a0et prendre du plaisir comme mauvais. La femme peut avoir du mal \u00e0 l\u00e2cher prise pour atteindre l\u2019orgasme.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Utiliser_la_sexualite_comme_moyen_de_controler_les_hommes\"><\/span>Utiliser la sexualit\u00e9 comme moyen de contr\u00f4ler les hommes<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><p>La sexualit\u00e9 devient moyen de contr\u00f4ler les hommes, voire de \u201cmonnayer\u201d son attention. Il peut avoir un besoin que l\u2019amour soit transactionnel, c\u2019est-\u00e0-dire qu\u2019il y ait un \u00e9change d\u2019amour contre des cadeaux ou de l\u2019argent.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Etre_coupee_de_son_ressentide_son_corps\"><\/span>\u00catre coup\u00e9e de son ressenti\/de son corps<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><p>Pour survivre \u00e0 cette situation, la personne s&rsquo;est comme coup\u00e9e de son corps pour ne plus \u00ab\u00a0ressentir\u00a0\u00bb l\u2019\u00e9v\u00e9nement.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Alternance_de_relations_amicales_ou_passionnees_dans_les_relations\"><\/span>Alternance de relations amicales ou passionn\u00e9es dans les relations<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><p>Une personne qui a subi ce genre de traumatismes peut alterner entre des relations \u00e9panouissantes, mais qui restent amicales, et des relations passionn\u00e9es et sexuellement \u00e9panouissantes mais sans avenir.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Femme_forte_qui_a_du_mal_a_montrer_sa_vulnerabilite\"><\/span>Femme forte qui a du mal \u00e0 montrer sa vuln\u00e9rabilit\u00e9<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><p>Parfois la contre-r\u00e9action est de devenir une femme forte qui cache sa vuln\u00e9rabilit\u00e9, qui a presque un c\u00f4t\u00e9 plut\u00f4t masculin, plut\u00f4t dominant, un peu comme pour prendre le dessus sur ce qui vient de se passer.\u00a0<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Femme_ultra-seductrice\"><\/span>Femme ultra-s\u00e9ductrice<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><p>Ce genre de traumatismes peut faire que la femme a enregistr\u00e9 que l&rsquo;amour est forc\u00e9ment li\u00e9 \u00e0 la sexualit\u00e9 et que donc elle devienne ultra s\u00e9ductrice pour recevoir de l&rsquo;amour.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Difficulte_a_seduire\"><\/span>Difficult\u00e9 \u00e0 s\u00e9duire<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><p>L&rsquo;effet inverse se produit aussi. La femme a enregistr\u00e9 dans ce cas que s\u00e9duire peut \u00eatre dangereux pour elle.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Auto-sabotage\"><\/span>Auto-sabotage<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><p>Si la femme a pens\u00e9 que c&rsquo;\u00e9tait de sa faute, qu&rsquo;elle \u00e9tait coupable, elle peut totalement s\u2019auto-saboter en amour, car elle croit qu&rsquo;elle n&rsquo;est pas digne d&rsquo;\u00eatre aim\u00e9e.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Somatisation\"><\/span>Somatisation<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><p>Il arrive tr\u00e8s fr\u00e9quemment que les personnes qui ont subi ce genre de traumatisme contractent des maladies au niveau des organes f\u00e9minins\u00a0comme l&rsquo;ut\u00e9rus, les ovaires ou les seins.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Le_corps_est_encore_plus_marque\"><\/span>Le corps est encore plus marqu\u00e9\u00a0<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><p>Si tu ne le sais pas encore, je d\u00e9programme les sch\u00e9mas amoureux au niveau du corps.<\/p><p>Regarde ce w\u00e9binaire gratuit pour comprendre pourquoi les sch\u00e9mas amoureux sont enregistr\u00e9s au niveau du corps.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-a181f86 elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"a181f86\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-no\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-f6b531a\" data-id=\"f6b531a\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-a0bf31e elementor-section-content-bottom elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"a0bf31e\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-048e66a\" data-id=\"048e66a\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3315432 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"3315432\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-bbd9cf1 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"bbd9cf1\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-1a3bd92\" data-id=\"1a3bd92\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-0a82af5 elementor-invisible elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"0a82af5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;_animation&quot;:&quot;fadeInLeft&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\">Pour toi<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-369f984 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"369f984\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"LE_WEBINAIRE_comment_se_cree-t-on_une_blessure_du_passe\"><\/span><span>LE W\u00c9BINAIRE comment se cr\u00e9e-t-on une blessure du pass\u00e9? <\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-fd55d38 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"fd55d38\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"color: #000000; font-size: 18px; letter-spacing: 1.1px;\">Enregistre-toi d\u00e8s maintenant \u00e0 ma newsletter et re\u00e7ois le replay du w\u00e9binaire <span lang=\"FR-CH\">comment se cr\u00e9e-t-on une blessure du pass\u00e9\u00a0?\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-174d4db\" data-id=\"174d4db\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-9716c0f elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"9716c0f\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-7ad62859\" data-id=\"7ad62859\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-699d65c5 elementor-widget elementor-widget-shortcode\" data-id=\"699d65c5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"shortcode.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-shortcode\"><script src=https:\/\/sandy-kaufmann.mykajabi.com\/forms\/2149274795\/embed.js><\/script><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6dd4e076 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"6dd4e076\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>* Champs obligatoires<\/p><p>Si tu t&rsquo;abonnes \u00e0 ma newsletter, tu recevras \u00e9galement des offres. Tu peux te d\u00e9sabonner \u00e0 tout moment. Merci de lire ma <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/politique-de-confidentialite\/\"> Politique de confidentialit\u00e9 <\/a> pour voir comment je traite les donn\u00e9es.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-59c6b1a1 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"59c6b1a1\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-7a3ae49\" data-id=\"7a3ae49\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5e239ab elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"5e239ab\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-220e8b90 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"220e8b90\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div>\n<style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;<br \/>font-size: 34px;}<br \/>    h3 {color: #7A7A7A;<br \/>font-size: 34px;}<br \/>  <\/style>\n<\/div>\n<p>Quand il y a eu atteinte \u00e0 l&rsquo;int\u00e9grit\u00e9 physique d&rsquo;une personne, j&rsquo;ai pu observer une esp\u00e8ce de \u201cbarri\u00e8re\u201d dans le bas-ventre, comme si le corps aurait voulu se d\u00e9connecter pour se prot\u00e9ger. La peau peut parfois devenir insensible. Les organes sont \u00e9galement plus en compression que \u00e0 l&rsquo;habitude.&nbsp;Le deuxi\u00e8me massage que je pratique pour faire sortir le trop-plein \u00e9motionnel aide \u00e0 faire sortir ces traumatismes de la m\u00e9moire corporelle.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Letape_du_pardon\"><\/span>L&rsquo;\u00e9tape du pardon&nbsp;<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Pardonner l&rsquo;agresseur et \u00e9ventuellement les complices, c&rsquo;est-\u00e0-dire les personnes qui \u00e9taient au courant et qui n&rsquo;ont pas pris la d\u00e9fense, ce n&rsquo;est pas excuser leurs agissements mais de ne plus subir l&rsquo;impact \u00e9motionnel sur toi.<\/p>\n<p>De mon exp\u00e9rience en cabinet, se pardonner \u00e0 soi-m\u00eame est celle qui reste la plus difficile.&nbsp;Combien de personnes qui ont v\u00e9cu ces traumatismes se sentent partiellement responsables de ce qui est arriv\u00e9, en pensant avoir aguich\u00e9 ou provoqu\u00e9, culpabilisent d&rsquo;avoir pu prendre du plaisir dans l&rsquo;acte ou s\u2019en veulent de ne pas s&rsquo;\u00eatre suffisamment d\u00e9fendue ou de ne pas en avoir parl\u00e9 plus t\u00f4t. Tu n&rsquo;es pas responsable, il y a aucune raison qui fait que tu as subi ce traumatisme.<\/p>\n<p>La derni\u00e8re \u00e9tape consister \u00e0 pardonner \u00e0 l\u2019univers, \u00e0 la vie ou \u00e0 Dieu (selon les croyances personnelles en mati\u00e8re de de spiritualit\u00e9) pour les injustices subies.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Retrouver_son_moi_sacre\"><\/span>Retrouver son moi sacr\u00e9<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>C&rsquo;est une \u00e9tape qui est souvent oubli\u00e9e mais qui est extr\u00eamement importante.&nbsp;Ces traumatismes peuvent casser l&rsquo;int\u00e9grit\u00e9 corporelle d&rsquo;une personne et elle a besoin de retrouver l\u2019aspect sacr\u00e9 de son corps. Ce qui va bien au-del\u00e0 de l&rsquo;estime de soi.<\/p>\n<p>En kundalini yoga tu peux travailler sur ce point en r\u00e9citant le mantra Happy am i, Healthy am I, Holy am I ou en faisant la m\u00e9ditation pour les <a href=\"https:\/\/www.3ho.org\/3ho-lifestyle\/health-and-healing\/meditation-remove-haunting-thoughts\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">pens\u00e9es envahissantes<\/a>.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-43faf76 elementor-widget elementor-widget-video\" data-id=\"43faf76\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;youtube_url&quot;:&quot;https:\\\/\\\/www.youtube.com\\\/embed\\\/VnDg3F80WAc&quot;,&quot;video_type&quot;:&quot;youtube&quot;,&quot;controls&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"video.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-wrapper elementor-open-inline\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-video\"><\/div>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-4617ef4b elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"4617ef4b\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-1430a5\" data-id=\"1430a5\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7bca2d17 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"7bca2d17\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Pour_aller_plus_loin\"><\/span>Pour aller plus loin<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-40a0e924 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"40a0e924\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Si tu as envie d\u2019approfondir le sujet et d\u2019identifier tes propres sch\u00e9mas amoureux tu as <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/livre-souvrir-a-lamour-et-si-la-solution-se-trouvait-du-cote-du-nerf-vague\/\">mon livre <\/a><\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/livre-souvrir-a-lamour-et-si-la-solution-se-trouvait-du-cote-du-nerf-vague\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">S\u2019ouvrir \u00e0 l\u2019amour<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> disponible dans toutes les librairies.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-75e925a9 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"75e925a9\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-4fa32802\" data-id=\"4fa32802\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-141429e7 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"141429e7\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Et si tu souhaites faire le travail de tes sch\u00e9mas amoureux par le corps et transformer ta vie amoureuse tu as le programme <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/souvrir-a-lamour\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">S\u2019ouvrir \u00e0 l\u2019amour.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d690a3e elementor-align-center elementor-mobile-align-center elementor-widget elementor-widget-global elementor-global-38034 elementor-widget-button\" data-id=\"d690a3e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"button.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-button-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-button elementor-button-link elementor-size-md\" href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/souvrir-a-lamour\/\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-content-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-text\">S'ouvrir \u00e0 l'amour<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1cd4be74 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"1cd4be74\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-36979aa8 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"36979aa8\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-203279c1\" data-id=\"203279c1\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-75119a6c elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"75119a6c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>\n<div id=\"sb_instagram\"  class=\"sbi sbi_mob_col_1 sbi_tab_col_2 sbi_col_6\" style=\"padding-bottom: 10px; background-color: rgb(255,255,255); width: 100%;\"\t data-feedid=\"sbi_17841411036917986#6\"  data-res=\"thumb\" data-cols=\"6\" data-colsmobile=\"1\" data-colstablet=\"2\" data-num=\"6\" data-nummobile=\"\" data-item-padding=\"5\"\t data-shortcode-atts=\"{}\"  data-postid=\"14552\" data-locatornonce=\"ec7c3030dd\" data-imageaspectratio=\"1:1\" data-sbi-flags=\"favorLocal,ajaxPostLoad,gdpr\">\n\t\n\t<div id=\"sbi_images\"  style=\"gap: 10px;\">\n\t\t\t<\/div>\n\n\t<div id=\"sbi_load\" >\n\n\t\n\t\n<\/div>\n\t\t<span class=\"sbi_resized_image_data\" data-feed-id=\"sbi_17841411036917986#6\"\n\t\t  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class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-a1cab72 elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-min-height elementor-section-items-stretch elementor-section-content-middle elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"a1cab72\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-3c52643\" data-id=\"3c52643\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-06dc8b3 elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"06dc8b3\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-20 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-7f1c6c8 elementor-sm-33\" data-id=\"7f1c6c8\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-44854e7 elementor-view-default elementor-widget elementor-widget-icon\" data-id=\"44854e7\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"icon.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-icon-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-icon\" href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sandykaufmanncoaching\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\n\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fab 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