{"id":13583,"date":"2020-07-09T17:13:29","date_gmt":"2020-07-09T17:13:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/?p=13583"},"modified":"2025-10-15T04:48:07","modified_gmt":"2025-10-15T04:48:07","slug":"pourquoi-les-hommes-ont-peur-de-sengager","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/pourquoi-les-hommes-ont-peur-de-sengager\/","title":{"rendered":"Pourquoi les hommes ont peur de s&rsquo;engager?"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"13583\" class=\"elementor elementor-13583\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-525528d6 elementor-section-content-top elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-min-height elementor-section-items-bottom elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"525528d6\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-3dd73755\" data-id=\"3dd73755\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2cf677de elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"2cf677de\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-xl\">Pourquoi les hommes ont peur de s'engager?<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-35bdebd7 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"35bdebd7\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-29baab3d\" data-id=\"29baab3d\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-35eb504d elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"35eb504d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div><style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;\nfont-size: 34px;}\n    h3 {color: #7A7A7A;\nfont-size: 34px;}\n  <\/style><\/div>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>Tu as l&rsquo;impression de toujours \u00eatre le moteur du couple quand il s&rsquo;agit de s&rsquo;engager,\u00a0que ton partenaire repousse ou fuit le moment o\u00f9 il s\u2019engage avec toi sur le long terme et tu voudrais comprendre pourquoi les hommes ont peur de l&rsquo;engagement et, surtout, ce que tu dois faire pour que ton partenaire n&rsquo;ait plus peur de s&rsquo;engager.<\/p>\n<p>Alors cet article est pour toi.<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9f2de8d elementor-widget elementor-widget-video\" data-id=\"9f2de8d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;youtube_url&quot;:&quot;https:\\\/\\\/youtu.be\\\/l9U6qBzN-io&quot;,&quot;video_type&quot;:&quot;youtube&quot;,&quot;controls&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"video.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-wrapper elementor-open-inline\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-video\"><\/div>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7310bd9 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"7310bd9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div><style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;\nfont-size: 34px;}\n    h3 {color: #7A7A7A;\nfont-size: 34px;}\n  <\/style><\/div>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Pourquoi_les_hommes_ont_peur_de_sengager_le_besoin_detre_avec_une_femme\"><\/span>Pourquoi les hommes ont peur de s&rsquo;engager : le besoin d&rsquo;\u00eatre avec une femme<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Il y a bien une diff\u00e9rence dans les besoins d&rsquo;engagement entre les hommes et les femmes et ce n&rsquo;est pas ce que tu crois:<\/p>\n<p>Les hommes ont besoin d&rsquo;\u00eatre en couple avec une femme.<\/p>\n<p>Ils sont plus d\u00e9pendants des femmes que les femmes le sont des hommes.\u00a0\u00a0<\/p>\n<p>Cela vient principalement de nos diff\u00e9rences physiologiques.Lis cet <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/comment-un-homme-tombe-amoureux\/\">article<\/a> si tu veux en savoir plus \u00e0 ce sujet.<\/p>\n<p>Tu l&rsquo;as peut-\u00eatre d&rsquo;ailleurs constat\u00e9 toi-m\u00eame: les hommes ont tendance \u00e0 rester c\u00e9libataire moins longtemps que les femmes, ils se remettent assez rapidement en couple apr\u00e8s une s\u00e9paration. Ou s&rsquo;ils ne le font pas, ils peuvent se cr\u00e9er un r\u00e9seau de copines ou de relation flirts, ou encore se retrouver plus souvent chez leurs m\u00e8res.<\/p>\n<p>Donc en soi, les hommes n&rsquo;ont pas plus peur de s&rsquo;engager que les femmes, bien au contraire.<\/p>\n<p>Qu&rsquo;est-ce qui fait que l&rsquo;on peut quand m\u00eame avoir cette impression que les hommes ne veulent pas s&rsquo;engager?<\/p>\n<p>Je te propose ici quelques pistes de r\u00e9flexion:<\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Tu_rencontres_les_hommes_qui_sont_le_reflet_de_ta_propre_peur\"><\/span>Tu rencontres les hommes qui sont le reflet de ta propre peur<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Si tu as tendance \u00e0 accumuler les partenaires qui ne veulent pas ou ne peuvent pas s&rsquo;engager (car ils sont d\u00e9j\u00e0 pris ou parce qu&rsquo;ils vivent tr\u00e8s loin de toi), c&rsquo;est bien souvent que tu as inconsciemment cette peur de t\u2019engager, car:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Tu as v\u00e9cu des histoires d&rsquo;amour qui t&rsquo;ont fait souffrir<\/li>\n<li>Le mod\u00e8le de tes parents n&rsquo;\u00e9tait pas un mod\u00e8le heureux d&rsquo;engagement<\/li>\n<li>Tu voyais que ta m\u00e8re ne se r\u00e9alisait pas en tant que femme, ce qui fait que tu as inconsciemment enregistr\u00e9 un choix impossible entre \u00eatre heureuse en tant que femme ou \u00eatre dans l&rsquo;engagement<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Cette peur est inconsciente, ce qui veut dire que consciemment tu peux vouloir t&rsquo;engager, mais que dans les faits cela ne marche pas.<\/p>\n<p>Inscris-toi \u00e0 mon w\u00e9binaire gratuit pour comprendre pourquoi cette peur est devenue un automatisme et qu&rsquo;elle est enregistr\u00e9e dans ton corps.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-6db522b 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data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>* Champs obligatoires<\/p><p>Si tu t&rsquo;abonnes \u00e0 ma newsletter, tu recevras \u00e9galement des offres. Tu peux te d\u00e9sabonner \u00e0 tout moment. Merci de lire ma <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/politique-de-confidentialite\/\"> Politique de confidentialit\u00e9 <\/a> pour voir comment je traite les donn\u00e9es.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-59c6b1a1 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"59c6b1a1\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-7a3ae49\" data-id=\"7a3ae49\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-220e8b90 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"220e8b90\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div><style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;<br \/>\nfont-size: 34px;}<br \/>\n    h3 {color: #7A7A7A;<br \/>\nfont-size: 34px;}<br \/>\n  <\/style><\/div><p>Si c&rsquo;est ton cas, le seul moyen consiste \u00e0 identifier toutes les peurs que tu as, qui sont li\u00e9es \u00e0 l&rsquo;engagement, comprendre d\u2019o\u00f9 elles viennent dans ton pass\u00e9, puis de les d\u00e9programmer. Mon <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/quest-ce-quun-schema-amoureux\/\">article sur les sch\u00e9mas amoureux<\/a> explique en d\u00e9tail comment tu peux d\u00e9programmer ce sch\u00e9ma.<\/p><p>C&rsquo;est ce que je propose dans mon programme <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/souvriralamour\/\">S&rsquo;ouvrir \u00e0 l&rsquo;Amour:<\/a> faire le bilan de ce qui t&#8217;emp\u00eache de t&rsquo;ouvrir \u00e0 l&rsquo;amour,\u00a0changer\/d\u00e9programmer ces sch\u00e9mas et apprendre les bases pour \u00eatre heureuse dans son couple.<\/p><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Lhomme_doit_avoir_lassurance_quil_peut_te_rendre_heureuse\"><\/span>L&rsquo;homme doit avoir l&rsquo;assurance qu&rsquo;il peut te rendre heureuse\u00a0<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><p>Pour un homme il n\u2019y a rien de plus bloquant pour l&rsquo;engagement que les reproches. Bien souvent les hommes h\u00e9sitent \u00e0 s&rsquo;engager parce que leurs conjointes sont castratrices et manquent de reconnaissance envers ce qu&rsquo;ils font.<\/p><p>En effet, pourquoi aurait-il envie de s&rsquo;engager sur le long terme avec quelqu&rsquo;un qui ne reconna\u00eet pas ce qu&rsquo;il fait et qui lui fait tout le temps des reproches?<\/p><p>D\u2019ailleurs une femme, elle aussi, ne serait pas tr\u00e8s motiv\u00e9e \u00e0 s&rsquo;engager dans ces conditions \ud83d\ude09<\/p><p>Un homme a donc besoin d&rsquo;\u00eatre rassur\u00e9:<\/p><ul><li>Sur ce qu&rsquo;il doit faire pour rendre sa femme heureuse.\u00a0Et plut\u00f4t que de deviner, d&rsquo;interpr\u00e9ter, il pr\u00e9f\u00e8re que sa femme le lui communique clairement.<\/li><li>Sur le fait qu&rsquo;il peut d\u00e9cider et qu&rsquo;il n&rsquo;est pas forc\u00e9.\u00a0C&rsquo;est-\u00e0-dire qu&rsquo;il n&rsquo;est pas face \u00e0 un ultimatum.<\/li><li>Sur le fait que sa partenaire reconna\u00eet ce qu&rsquo;il fait de bien, plut\u00f4t que de se focaliser sur ce qu&rsquo;il fait de mal.<\/li><\/ul><p>C&rsquo;est le r\u00f4le de la femme de rassurer son homme dans sa capacit\u00e9 \u00e0 la rendre heureuse.\u00a0Cette comp\u00e9tence je l&rsquo;appelle \u00eatre l&rsquo;architecte du couple, et cela consiste \u00e0 arr\u00eater de voir l&rsquo;homme comme un ennemi qui fuit l&rsquo;amour et apprendre \u00e0 lui communiquer clairement, avec bienveillance et sans castrer ses besoins et ses limites.<\/p><p>Cela n\u00e9cessite de comprendre plus en d\u00e9tail les diff\u00e9rences physiologiques entre les hommes et les femmes, d&rsquo;identifier concr\u00e8tement quelles sont ses propres besoins et ce que l\u2019on veut dans un couple,\u00a0apprendre des outils de communication pour faire ses demandes et g\u00e9rer les d\u00e9saccords.<\/p><p>Tous ces aspects sont abord\u00e9s dans mon programme <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/souvriralamour\/\">S\u2019ouvrir \u00e0 l\u2019Amour<\/a>.<\/p><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Lhomme_a_besoin_de_savoir_quil_peut_garder_sa_liberte\"><\/span>L&rsquo;homme a besoin de savoir qu&rsquo;il peut garder sa libert\u00e9<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><p>Tout comme toi tu n\u2019aimerais pas te mettre en couple si ton partenaire contr\u00f4lait chacun de tes faits et gestes, eh bien ton partenaire a besoin de savoir qu&rsquo;il peut, lui aussi, continuer de faire ce qui lui tient \u00e0 c\u0153ur, tout en \u00e9tant avec toi: son sport, ses hobbies, voir ses amis.<\/p><p>Encore, ici, \u00eatre l&rsquo;architecte de ton couple est la clef pour une femme, parce que tu lui dis clairement tes besoins de le voir en termes de fr\u00e9quence et de dur\u00e9e d\u00e8s le d\u00e9but de la relation.<\/p><p>Il sera ainsi fix\u00e9 d\u00e8s le d\u00e9but si tes besoins de le voir sont compatibles avec les siens et il n\u2019aura pas de mauvaises surprises s\u2019il te propose de s&rsquo;engager plus en habitant ensemble ou en se mariant par exemple.<\/p><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Il_peut_avoir_peur_de_sengager_ou_il_ne_veut_pas_sengager\"><\/span>Il peut avoir peur de s&rsquo;engager ou il ne veut pas s&rsquo;engager<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><p>En fonction de ses exp\u00e9riences pass\u00e9es, il peut avoir une r\u00e9elle peur de s&rsquo;engager \u00e0 nouveau ou il peut d\u00e9cider d&rsquo;avoir une phase sans engagement.<\/p><p>C&rsquo;est son droit et son timing.<\/p><p>S\u2019il te le dit ou si tu en prends conscience, accepte-le et pars.<\/p><p>L&rsquo;attendre ou essayer de le convaincre de changer son timing ne sera que source de souffrance pour toi, car c&rsquo;est hors de ton contr\u00f4le. C&rsquo;est une d\u00e9marche personnelle qu&rsquo;il doit entreprendre s\u2019il le veut et tu ne peux pas le faire pour lui.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-36979aa8 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"36979aa8\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-203279c1\" data-id=\"203279c1\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-75119a6c elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" 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