{"id":1081296,"date":"2026-04-20T09:23:43","date_gmt":"2026-04-20T09:23:43","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/?p=1081296"},"modified":"2026-03-17T19:02:04","modified_gmt":"2026-03-17T19:02:04","slug":"200-pourquoi-la-connexion-se-perd-dans-le-couple-et-comment-la-retrouver","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/200-pourquoi-la-connexion-se-perd-dans-le-couple-et-comment-la-retrouver\/","title":{"rendered":"200. Pourquoi la connexion se perd dans le couple et comment la retrouver ?"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"1081296\" class=\"elementor elementor-1081296\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-7ed86594 elementor-section-content-top elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-min-height elementor-section-items-bottom elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"7ed86594\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-6ea7bd98\" data-id=\"6ea7bd98\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3d639127 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"3d639127\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-xl\">Pourquoi la connexion se perd dans le couple et comment la retrouver ?<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-c616a8a elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"c616a8a\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-6995962\" data-id=\"6995962\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-376509b elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"376509b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Tu es en couple depuis un certain temps et tu as l&rsquo;impression que ce n&rsquo;est plus comme avant moins de gestes tendres, moins d&rsquo;attention,\u00a0 tu te sens de plus en plus en colocation et \u00e7a commence \u00e0 t&rsquo;inqui\u00e9ter.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p>Ou alors tu sens d\u00e9j\u00e0 que le foss\u00e9 est creus\u00e9 et tu ne sais pas ce que tu dois faire :\u00a0 organiser des rendez-vous en amoureux, rallumer la flamme au lit ou m\u00eame tu h\u00e9sites \u00e0 te s\u00e9parer car tu as l\u2019impression que c\u2019est trop tard.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p>Dans cet \u00e9pisode je vais t&rsquo;expliquer ce qui cr\u00e9e la d\u00e9connexion pour pouvoir enfin faire marche arri\u00e8re.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p>Dans l\u2019\u00e9pisode 201 je parlerai des conversations qui tournent en rond et d\u00e9t\u00e9riorent la relation.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p class=\"has-background\" style=\"background-color: #eeeeee;\">\u2764\ufe0f Regarde <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/inscriptionblessurepasse\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">mon w\u00e9binaire <\/a><\/strong>sur comment \u00eatre enfin heureux\/se en Amour<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-62d37295 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"62d37295\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-4e162bd6\" data-id=\"4e162bd6\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b8d8830 elementor-widget elementor-widget-video\" data-id=\"b8d8830\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;youtube_url&quot;:&quot;https:\\\/\\\/youtu.be\\\/uBTgiRwL9cA&quot;,&quot;video_type&quot;:&quot;youtube&quot;,&quot;controls&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"video.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-wrapper elementor-open-inline\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-video\"><\/div>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4dc2b12 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"4dc2b12\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Ce_qui_vous_deconnecte\"><\/span>Ce qui vous d\u00e9connecte\n\n<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3574bfe elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"3574bfe\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Allons voir du c\u00f4t\u00e9 des cas o\u00f9 la d\u00e9connexion \u00e9tait si grande que les personnes d\u00e9cident de se s\u00e9parer : une \u00e9tude men\u00e9e par le cabinet ind\u00e9pendant Kor\u00e9is pour <a href=\"https:\/\/coopleo.care\/communique-de-presse-separation-couples\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Coopleo.care<\/a> \u00a0apporte un \u00e9clairage pr\u00e9cis sur les causes r\u00e9elles des s\u00e9parations en France. Elle r\u00e9v\u00e8le que :<\/p><ul><li><strong>60\u202f%<\/strong> des s\u00e9parations sont li\u00e9es \u00e0 des difficult\u00e9s dans la vie intime, incluant conflits, probl\u00e8mes sexuels ou infid\u00e9lit\u00e9s ;<\/li><li><strong>41\u202f%<\/strong> concernent la gestion du quotidien ;<\/li><li><strong>26\u202f%<\/strong> touchent aux questions de parentalit\u00e9 ;<\/li><li><strong>15\u202f%<\/strong> d\u00e9coulent de difficult\u00e9s professionnelles.<\/li><\/ul><p>Ces chiffres mettent en \u00e9vidence une v\u00e9rit\u00e9 essentielle : ce n\u2019est pas seulement le manque de moments romantiques ou de gestes attentionn\u00e9s qui fragilise un couple, mais <strong>l\u2019accumulation de tensions non r\u00e9solues et de conversations difficiles \u00e9vit\u00e9es<\/strong>.<\/p><p>Dans un monde qui valorise l\u2019harmonie, le conflit fait peur. Et pourtant, il est in\u00e9vitable. <strong>Le<\/strong><strong>s couples qui durent ne sont pas ceux qui fuient les tensions, mais ceux qui apprennent \u00e0 les traverser<\/strong>.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-4fb934a elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"4fb934a\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-no\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-15ac8c5b\" data-id=\"15ac8c5b\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-1672a939 elementor-section-content-bottom elementor-hidden-mobile elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"1672a939\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-324c3bac\" data-id=\"324c3bac\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5a17902f elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"5a17902f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-29ef787c elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"29ef787c\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-34793ace\" data-id=\"34793ace\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-64519a75 elementor-invisible elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"64519a75\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;_animation&quot;:&quot;fadeInLeft&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\">Pour toi<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5745efbf elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"5745efbf\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"quizz_offert\"><\/span><span data-elementor-setting-key=\"title\" data-pen-placeholder=\"\u00c9crivez ici...\" style=\"font-style: normal\">quizz offert<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-117e2f64 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"117e2f64\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Couple_Partir_ou_rester\"><\/span><span data-elementor-setting-key=\"title\" data-pen-placeholder=\"\u00c9crivez ici...\" style=\"font-style: normal\"><strong><em>Couple: Partir ou rester ? <\/em><\/strong><span data-elementor-setting-key=\"title\" data-pen-placeholder=\"\u00c9crivez ici...\" style=\"font-style: normal\"> <\/span><\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5f91a5b7 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"5f91a5b7\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"color: #000000; font-size: 18px; letter-spacing: 1.1px;\">Enregistre-toi d\u00e8s maintenant \u00e0 ma newsletter et re\u00e7ois mon questionnaire gratuit.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-78773496\" data-id=\"78773496\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-577618f2 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"577618f2\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-4d241208\" data-id=\"4d241208\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-57476a3 elementor-widget elementor-widget-shortcode\" data-id=\"57476a3\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"shortcode.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-shortcode\"><script src=https:\/\/sandy-kaufmann.mykajabi.com\/forms\/2149274863\/embed.js><\/script><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-574472b4 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"574472b4\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>* Champs obligatoires<\/p><p>Si tu t&rsquo;abonnes \u00e0 ma newsletter, tu recevras \u00e9galement des offres. Tu peux te d\u00e9sabonner \u00e0 tout moment. Merci de lire ma <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/politique-de-confidentialite\/\"> Politique de confidentialit\u00e9 <\/a> pour voir comment je traite les donn\u00e9es.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-dc80399 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"dc80399\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Le_mythe_du_%E2%80%9Ctemps_de_qualite%E2%80%9D_et_si_se_reconnecter_cetait_dabord_oser_se_dire_les_choses\"><\/span>Le mythe du \u201ctemps de qualit\u00e9\u201d : et si se reconnecter, c\u2019\u00e9tait d\u2019abord oser se dire les choses ?\n\n<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-442fc70 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"442fc70\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Pourquoi certains couples qui sortent en date night n\u2019ont rien \u00e0 se dire ?<br \/>Pourquoi d\u2019autres font l\u2019amour pour sauver leur couple mais n\u2019\u00e9prouvent plus aucun plaisir ?<br \/>Pourquoi, malgr\u00e9 leurs efforts, certains partenaires ont l\u2019impression d\u2019\u00eatre en colocation ?<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p>La r\u00e9ponse est simple : les moments de qualit\u00e9 ne suffisent pas quand vous avez accumul\u00e9 trop de conflits non r\u00e9solus (la fameuse<em> poussi\u00e8re sous le tapis<\/em>) :<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><ul><li><em>Comment avoir envie d\u2019\u00e9changer dans un moment \u00e0 deux si tu as l\u2019impression que l\u2019autre ne te comprend pas vraiment ?<\/em><\/li><li><em>Comment vous reconnecter quand vous \u00e9vitez les sujets qui f\u00e2chent par peur d\u2019envenimer les choses ?<\/em><\/li><li><em>Comment avoir envie de faire l\u2019amour avec quelqu\u2019un qui n\u2019a aucune id\u00e9e de comment tu te sens ?<\/em><\/li><li><em>Comment avoir envie de connecter avec ton partenaire alors qu\u2019il te laisse toute la charge (mentale) du quotidien ?<\/em><\/li><\/ul><p>\u00a0<\/p><p>Ce qui vous manque vraiment, ce n\u2019est pas plus de date night\u2026<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p>C\u2019est la capacit\u00e9 \u00e0 discuter de ce qui d\u00e9range sans vous blesser ou vous \u00e9loigner.<\/p><p>C\u2019est apprendre \u00e0 mieux vous comprendre, \u00e0 mieux communiquer\u2026 et m\u00eame \u00e0 mieux vous disputer.<\/p><p>C\u2019est apprendre \u00e0 \u00e9viter d\u2019accumuler <em>la poussi\u00e8re sous le tapis,<\/em> c\u2019est-\u00e0-dire tout ces petits conflits non r\u00e9solus qui, \u00e0 force de s\u2019ajouter les uns aux autres, nourrissent le ressentiment et finissent par cr\u00e9er une v\u00e9ritable d\u00e9connexion dans le couple.<\/p><p>Car quand chaque partenaire se sent compris et entendu, tout change :<\/p><ul><li>La connexion revient.<\/li><li>L\u2019envie de passer du temps ensemble revient.<\/li><li>L\u2019intimit\u00e9 revient.<\/li><\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-4b747fae elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"4b747fae\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-1478e3b2\" data-id=\"1478e3b2\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-328f1d5d elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"328f1d5d\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-no\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-4e3e3550\" data-id=\"4e3e3550\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-2fa7b56 elementor-section-content-bottom elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"2fa7b56\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-548030b\" data-id=\"548030b\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4402c171 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"4402c171\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-788e9c14 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"788e9c14\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-2cf5c45c\" data-id=\"2cf5c45c\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-39cc3e58 elementor-invisible elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"39cc3e58\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;_animation&quot;:&quot;fadeInLeft&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\">Pour toi<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1daa8358 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"1daa8358\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"LE_WEBINAIRE_gratuit\"><\/span><span>LE W\u00c9BINAIRE gratuit<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-56363067 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"56363067\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"%22Comment_se_liberer_des_schemas_qui_nous_empechent_detre_heureuses_en_amour_%22\"><\/span><span><strong><em>\"Comment se lib\u00e9rer des sch\u00e9mas qui nous emp\u00eachent d'\u00eatre heureuses en amour ?\"<\/em><\/strong><span> <\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6f9b2b9c elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"6f9b2b9c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"color: #000000; font-size: 18px; letter-spacing: 1.1px;\">Enregistre-toi d\u00e8s maintenant \u00e0 ma newsletter et re\u00e7ois le replay du w\u00e9binaire.<span lang=\"FR-CH\">\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-29379f9\" data-id=\"29379f9\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-5e3f7eb1 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"5e3f7eb1\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div 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Tu peux te d\u00e9sabonner \u00e0 tout moment. Merci de lire ma <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/politique-de-confidentialite\/\"> Politique de confidentialit\u00e9 <\/a> pour voir comment je traite les donn\u00e9es.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-d37da43 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"d37da43\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-4550e5e\" data-id=\"4550e5e\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-865f677 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"865f677\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Limportance_dapprendre_a_avoir_des_conversations_difficiles\"><\/span>L\u2019importance d\u2019apprendre \u00e0 avoir des conversations difficiles<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a35cf04 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"a35cf04\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Je parlais d\u00e9j\u00e0 dans l\u2019\u00e9pisode 131 qu\u2019<a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/131-bien-se-disputer-comment-transformer-les-conflits-en-connexion\/\">apprendre \u00e0 bien se disputer<\/a> est ce qui fait qu\u2019un couple dure selon l\u2019institut Gottmann:<\/p><p>Dans leur livre <em>Fight Right<sup>1<\/sup><\/em>, ils expliquent qu\u2019ils peuvent pr\u00e9dire avec <strong>90 % de pr\u00e9cision si un couple va rester ensemble <\/strong>et<strong> heureux dans la dur\u00e9e<\/strong>, ou s\u2019il risque de divorcer, se s\u00e9parer ou rester dans une relation insatisfaisante et frustrante.<\/p><p>Ils appellent ces couples heureux les <em>Ma\u00eetres de l\u2019Amour <\/em>\u2014 ceux qui savent rester unis malgr\u00e9 les conflits, gr\u00e2ce \u00e0 ces quatre comp\u00e9tences cl\u00e9s qui font toute la diff\u00e9rence:<\/p><ul><li>La capacit\u00e9 <strong>d\u2019\u00e9couter activement<\/strong> son partenaire, sans se couper ni se d\u00e9fendre,<\/li><li>La capacit\u00e9 <strong>d\u2019oser entrer dans le conflit<\/strong> (et donc de ne pas l\u2019\u00e9viter),<\/li><li>La capacit\u00e9 <strong>de traverser le conflit de fa\u00e7on constructive<\/strong>, en restant connect\u00e9 \u00e0 l\u2019autre,<\/li><li>Et surtout, la capacit\u00e9 <strong>de r\u00e9parer<\/strong> <strong>apr\u00e8s une dispute<\/strong>, de s\u2019excuser sinc\u00e8rement, de prendre soin de la relation apr\u00e8s un moment difficile..<\/li><\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-d4fcad9 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"d4fcad9\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-a41f86b\" data-id=\"a41f86b\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-fa5a431 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"fa5a431\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Alors_comment_faire_machine_inverse\"><\/span>Alors comment faire machine inverse ?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4b53e02 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4b53e02\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>La r\u00e9ponse ne va pas te plaire : en allant nettoyer toute la poussi\u00e8re que vous avez accumul\u00e9e sur votre tapis, pas en mode je red\u00e9balle les vieux dossiers et reste dans le reproche mais pour \u00eatre \u00e0 nouveau en paix<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-6d5d1ec elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"6d5d1ec\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-7fe4842\" data-id=\"7fe4842\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1d26e21 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"1d26e21\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Un_exercice_pour_evaluer_votre_niveau_de_deconnexion_lexercice_de_la_montagne\"><\/span>Un exercice pour \u00e9valuer votre niveau de d\u00e9connexion: l\u2019exercice de la montagne\n<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1ea08cf elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"1ea08cf\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Faites cet exercice de mani\u00e8re s\u00e9par\u00e9e et partagez vos r\u00e9sultats ensuite ensemble.<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p>Si tu devais dessiner une montagne qui repr\u00e9sente votre vie \u00e0 deux, la base \u00e9tant le d\u00e9but de votre relation et le sommet o\u00f9 vous situez maintenant, demande-toi les diff\u00e9rents moments de votre vie \u00e0 deux o\u00f9 tu as \u00e9vit\u00e9 une conversation difficile :<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><ul><li>\u00a0Note l&rsquo;\u00e2ge<\/li><li>\u00a0Note le sujet que tu as \u00e9vit\u00e9 \u00e0 l\u2019\u00e9poque<\/li><li>\u00a0Note la cons\u00e9quence que \u00e7a a eu sur ton couple \u00e0 l\u2019\u00e9poque<\/li><li>\u00a0Note si cela impacte encore ton couple maintenant ne serait-ce qu\u2019en terme de ressentiment<\/li><\/ul><p>\u00a0<\/p><p>Regarde maintenant ta montagne et \u00e9value sa solidit\u00e9 ou sa fragilit\u00e9 (ou la quantit\u00e9 de poussi\u00e8re accumul\u00e9e sous le tapis si tu pr\u00e9f\u00e8res)<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><strong>Le but n&rsquo;est pas de te faire culpabiliser mais plus de te faire r\u00e9aliser pourquoi ton couple en est l\u00e0 au jour d&rsquo;aujourd&rsquo;hui.<\/strong><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p>Et que, pour le r\u00e9parer, il va falloir adresser tout ce qui n&rsquo;a pas \u00e9t\u00e9 adress\u00e9 jusqu&rsquo;\u00e0 maintenant<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-ed9fe79 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"ed9fe79\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-905e0c8\" data-id=\"905e0c8\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-90a65bd elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"90a65bd\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Les_5_etapes_pour_avoir_des_conversations_difficiles\"><\/span>Les 5 \u00e9tapes pour avoir des conversations difficiles\n\n<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-defd4db elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"defd4db\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Il y a pour moi 5 \u00e9tapes pour avoir des conversations constructives qui renforcent votre connexion :<\/p><ol><li><strong>Fixer le cadre de la discussion<\/strong> pour vous permettre de ne pas d\u00e9border sur des sujets annexes et \u00e9viter que vos syst\u00e8mes nerveux s\u2019activent en mode survie<\/li><li><strong>Se pr\u00e9parer individuellement pour comprendre son enjeu sous-jacent.<\/strong> Vos tensions ne viennent pas tant du sujet qui f\u00e2che que de ce qu\u2019il r\u00e9veille : l\u2019enfant bless\u00e9 en vous. Se comprendre c\u2019est la premi\u00e8re \u00e9tape vers la connexion.<\/li><li><strong>Comprendre ce que vit l\u2019autre. <\/strong>Le but d\u2019une conversation difficile n\u2019est pas de r\u00e9soudre le conflit mais de vous comprendre. Car quand vous vous comprenez les solutions \u00e9mergeront naturellement.<\/li><li><strong>Entrer dans le dialogue.<\/strong> Vous avez tous entendu des bases de la communication bienveillante pour apprendre \u00e0 mieux parler. C\u2019est l\u00e0 o\u00f9 notre syst\u00e8me nerveux rend le processus plus complexe et explique pourquoi m\u00eame sans se parler on ressent une tension dans le couple. J\u2019en parle dans l\u2019\u00e9pisode 201.<\/li><li><strong>Int\u00e9grer et consolider le lien. <\/strong>C\u2019est la phase qui est le plus souvent oubli\u00e9e. D\u00e9briefer sur votre conversation sur le fond et la forme pour que les prochaines soient plus faciles et r\u00e9parer ce qui a \u00e9t\u00e9 ab\u00eem\u00e9. Car une relation s&rsquo;entretient.<\/li><\/ol><p>Ces \u00e9tapes paraissent simples mais quand vous avez besoin de parler d\u2019un sujet sensible pour vous deux c\u2019est challenge.<\/p><p>Quand j\u2019ai v\u00e9cu ma premi\u00e8re crise de couple \u00e0 l\u2019arriv\u00e9e de notre fils ( je te parle du cas particulier des crises dans l\u2019\u00e9pisode 47 et je te parle de ma crise et de comment je m\u2019en suis sortie dans mon <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/livre-les-couples-heureux-osent-aborder-les-sujets-qui-fachent\/\">livre<\/a>), j\u2019ai cru que notre couple n\u2019allait pas tenir et je me suis sentie perdue et impuissante de voir mon couple petit \u00e0 petit se d\u00e9truire.<\/p><p>C\u2019est l\u00e0 o\u00f9 j\u2019ai cherch\u00e9 \u00e0 comprendre ce qui se passait pour finalement que les crises sont un bon signe, qu\u2019elles sont saines et in\u00e9vitables et qu\u2019elles sont une invitation \u00e0 gu\u00e9rir des blessures d\u2019enfance non r\u00e9solues cette fois-ci \u00e0 deux. Avec la bonne compr\u00e9hension et les bons outils c\u2019est possible de s\u2019en sortir.<\/p><p><strong>La raison de mon deuxi\u00e8me livre Les couples heureux\u2026 osent aborder les sujets qui f\u00e2chent : <\/strong><strong>aider les couples \u00e0 traverser les tensions et renforcer leur lien avant qu\u2019il ne se fragilise.<\/strong><\/p><p>Le livre donne aussi des conseils sp\u00e9cifiques pour les sujets qui f\u00e2chent les plus courants : t\u00e2ches m\u00e9nag\u00e8res, routine qui s\u2019installe, arriv\u00e9e d\u2019un enfant, la belle-famille, la sexualit\u00e9\u2026.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-ceb7e7c elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"ceb7e7c\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-78658635\" data-id=\"78658635\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1e1b3c82 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"1e1b3c82\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Pour_aller_plus_loin\"><\/span>Pour aller plus loin<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-31f188d4 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"31f188d4\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Si tu as envie d\u2019approfondir le sujet et retrouver plus de connexion, tu as mon livre <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/livre-les-couples-heureux-osent-aborder-les-sujets-qui-fachent\/\">Les couples heureux&#8230;osent aborder les sujets qui f\u00e2chent<\/a> disponible dans toutes les librairies.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-745ba079 elementor-section-height-min-height elementor-section-content-middle elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-items-middle\" data-id=\"745ba079\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-no\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-ec884cc\" data-id=\"ec884cc\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-7244fb05 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"7244fb05\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-696c9590\" data-id=\"696c9590\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3f8e0018 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"3f8e0018\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1771\" height=\"1535\" src=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Mockup_livre-1.png\" class=\"attachment-2048x2048 size-2048x2048 wp-image-1081511\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Mockup_livre-1.png 1771w, https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Mockup_livre-1-300x260.png 300w, https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Mockup_livre-1-1024x888.png 1024w, https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Mockup_livre-1-768x666.png 768w, https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Mockup_livre-1-1536x1331.png 1536w, https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/03\/Mockup_livre-1-600x520.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1771px) 100vw, 1771px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-7fd04d86\" data-id=\"7fd04d86\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-769d4a08 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"769d4a08\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\">Contrairement aux id\u00e9es re\u00e7ues, les couples qui durent ne sont pas ceux qui \u00e9vitent les conflits mais qui savent les traverser.\nLe livre <i><b>Les couples heureux..osent aborder les sujets qui f\u00e2chent<\/b><\/i> t'explique comment transformer vos tensions en connexion en 5 \u00e9tapes!<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-2514069e elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"2514069e\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-2f6eab31\" data-id=\"2f6eab31\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-789c801b elementor-align-center elementor-mobile-align-center elementor-widget elementor-widget-button\" data-id=\"789c801b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"button.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-button-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-button elementor-button-link elementor-size-md\" href=\"https:\/\/www.payot.ch\/Detail\/les_couples_heureux_osent_aborder_les_sujets_qui_fachent-sandy_kaufmann_-9782416025259\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-content-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-text\">j'ach\u00e8te le livre depuis la suisse<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-581c0d35 elementor-align-center elementor-mobile-align-center elementor-widget elementor-widget-button\" data-id=\"581c0d35\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"button.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-button-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-button elementor-button-link elementor-size-md\" href=\"https:\/\/www.fnac.com\/a22412708\/Sandy-Kaufmann-Les-couples-heureux-osent-aborder-les-sujets-qui-fachent\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-content-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-text\">j'ach\u00e8te le livre depuis la france<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4d78fcf elementor-align-center elementor-mobile-align-center elementor-widget elementor-widget-button\" data-id=\"4d78fcf\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"button.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-button-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-button elementor-button-link elementor-size-md\" href=\"https:\/\/www.fr.fnac.be\/a22412708\/Sandy-Kaufmann-Les-couples-heureux-osent-aborder-les-sujets-qui-fachent\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-content-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-text\">j'ach\u00e8te le livre depuis la belgique<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5b029921 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"5b029921\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>\ud83c\udf3f\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/cultiver-lamour\/\"><strong>CULTIVER L\u2019AMOUR<\/strong><\/a><strong>\u00a0\u2014 si tu es en couple<\/strong><\/p><p>Un\u00a0<strong>accompagnement de 5 mois<\/strong>\u00a0pour\u00a0<strong>transformer votre relation<\/strong>, retrouver la complicit\u00e9, la communication et\u00a0<strong>la joie d\u2019\u00eatre ensemble<\/strong> au quotidien.<\/p><p>Il inclut des modules \u00e0 faire \u00e0 votre rythme en duo ou en solo, la possibilit\u00e9 de te faire coacher par \u00e9mail en toute confidentialit\u00e9, la possibilit\u00e9 d&rsquo;ajouter des s\u00e9ances de coaching individuel ainsi que l\u2019option <em>Journ\u00e9e Pass\u00e9 <\/em>pour d\u00e9programmer les sch\u00e9mas amoureux par le corps si vous sentez que vos enfants bless\u00e9s prennent beaucoup de place dans vos conflits<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div 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