{"id":1075083,"date":"2025-04-01T01:00:10","date_gmt":"2025-04-01T01:00:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/?p=1075083"},"modified":"2025-10-14T11:54:45","modified_gmt":"2025-10-14T11:54:45","slug":"158-faut-il-pardonner-ses-parents","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/158-faut-il-pardonner-ses-parents\/","title":{"rendered":"158. Faut-il pardonner ses parents ?"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"1075083\" class=\"elementor elementor-1075083\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-7ed86594 elementor-section-content-top elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-min-height elementor-section-items-bottom elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"7ed86594\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-6ea7bd98\" data-id=\"6ea7bd98\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3d639127 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"3d639127\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-xl\">Faut-il pardonner ses parents ?<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-c616a8a elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"c616a8a\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-6995962\" data-id=\"6995962\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-376509b elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"376509b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tu as eu <\/span><b>une enfance difficile ou une relation compliqu\u00e9e avec tes parents <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">et tu as du mal \u00e0 tourner la page.<\/span>\n\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">On t\u2019a dit plusieurs fois que le pardon est ce qui te lib\u00e8re de ton pass\u00e9 mais <\/span><b>tu as encore trop de ressentiment pour pardonner.<\/b>\n\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tu voudrais <\/span><b>\u00eatre en paix avec ton pass\u00e9<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> sans pour autant valider ou accepter ce qui a \u00e9t\u00e9 fait.<\/span>\n\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dans cet \u00e9pisode je vais te parler des 4 \u00e9tapes dans le processus de faire la paix avec ton pass\u00e9 et de mon cheminement personnel dans ce processus.<\/span>\n\n<a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/25-comment-travailler-sur-la-relation-avec-tes-parents-peut-taider-dans-ton-couple\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dans l\u2019\u00e9pisode 25<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> je t\u2019explique comment travailler sur la relation avec tes parents t\u2019aide dans tes amours.<\/span>\n\n&nbsp;\n\n<p class=\"has-background\" style=\"background-color: #eeeeee;\">\u2764\ufe0f Regarde <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/inscriptionblessurepasse\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">mon w\u00e9binaire <\/a><\/strong>sur comment \u00eatre enfin heureux\/se en Amour!<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-62d37295 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"62d37295\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-4e162bd6\" data-id=\"4e162bd6\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a620e1c elementor-hidden-desktop elementor-hidden-tablet elementor-hidden-mobile elementor-widget elementor-widget-shortcode\" data-id=\"a620e1c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"shortcode.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-shortcode\"><iframe name=\"Ausha Podcast Player\" frameborder=\"0\" loading=\"lazy\" id=\"ausha-bxIy\" height=\"220\" style=\"border: none; width:100%; height:220px\" src=\"https:\/\/player.ausha.co\/?showId=bjPkYiPMPlqo&color=%23d13523&podcastId=B44OPhORWjJk&v=3&playerId=ausha-bxIy\"><\/iframe><script src=\"https:\/\/player.ausha.co\/ausha-player.js\"><\/script>\n<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b8d8830 elementor-widget elementor-widget-video\" data-id=\"b8d8830\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;youtube_url&quot;:&quot;https:\\\/\\\/youtu.be\\\/mlOk2QDUenQ&quot;,&quot;video_type&quot;:&quot;youtube&quot;,&quot;controls&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"video.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-wrapper elementor-open-inline\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-video\"><\/div>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4dc2b12 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"4dc2b12\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Mon_cheminement_personnel_avec_le_pardon\"><\/span>Mon cheminement personnel avec le pardon<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3574bfe elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"3574bfe\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Je pense que c\u2019est important que je te partage mon cheminement personnel car sans cela tu peux te dire qui est cette fille qui donne des le\u00e7ons sur le pardon, \u00e7a se trouve elle a rien v\u00e9cu de difficile alors c\u2019est facile pour elle de pardonner.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Je vais te donner l\u2019exemple de ma relation avec mon p\u00e8re. Quand j\u2019\u00e9tais petite, mon p\u00e8re \u00e9tait tr\u00e8s col\u00e9rique, il avait tendance \u00e0 me rabaisser et j\u2019avais peur de lui.\u00a0 Il y avait beaucoup de conflits avec ma m\u00e8re et pendant longtemps mon p\u00e8re a \u00e9t\u00e9 le m\u00e9chant parent pour.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Je peux dire que j\u2019ai m\u00e9tamorphos\u00e9 la relation avec mon p\u00e8re en ayant pendant les 30 premi\u00e8res ann\u00e9es de ma vie un rapport difficile et conflictuel avec lui, on s\u2019est m\u00eame pas parl\u00e9 pendant quelques ann\u00e9es et les 15 derni\u00e8res ann\u00e9es de vivre une belle relation avec lui car j\u2019ai pu faire la paix \u00e0 l\u2019int\u00e9rieur de mon coeur et recommencer une nouvelle relation avec lui. Pas un pardon de surface mais une vraie paix dans mon coeur. Maintenant que cela fait un an et demi qu\u2019il est d\u00e9c\u00e9d\u00e9 ,je suis heureuse d\u2019avoir fait ce pas car je n\u2019ai pas de regret vis \u00e0 vis de la relation avec mon p\u00e8re.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Je suis pass\u00e9e par les 4 phases que je vais te d\u00e9crire dans cet \u00e9pisode :<\/span><\/p><ol><li style=\"list-style-type: none;\"><ol><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Reconna\u00eetre ma souffrance. <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">J\u2019ai tr\u00e8s longtemps excus\u00e9 les actes de mes parents avec leur pass\u00e9 difficile et j\u2019ai eu beaucoup de mal \u00e0 admettre qu\u2019ils n\u2019avaient pas tout fait correctement. Je me rappelle d\u2019un jour en th\u00e9rapie mon th\u00e9rapeute me dit que je n\u2019ai pas eu une enfance facile, au d\u00e9but je me suis dit \u201cCa y est, il me met dans le r\u00f4le de la pauvre victime alors que c\u2019\u00e9tait pas si terrible que \u00e7a\u201d et au fur et \u00e0 mesure de mon cheminement, je me suis permise de reconna\u00eetre que non, certains agissements n\u2019\u00e9taient pas ok, m\u00eame si c\u2019\u00e9tait mes parents et ceux m\u00eame si eux-m\u00eames avaient eu un pass\u00e9 difficile. Cela ne minimisait en rien ce que j\u2019avais v\u00e9cu moi.\u00a0<\/span><\/li><\/ol><\/li><\/ol><ul><li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Faire le deuil du parent id\u00e9al. <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Je suis pass\u00e9e ensuite par une phase de col\u00e8re en me disant que je n\u2019avais pas choisi de vivre cela et que en plus cela impactait ma vie, ma mani\u00e8re de relationner, ma confiance et l\u2019estime de moi. J\u2019ai aussi d\u00fb faire le deuil des parents que je n\u2019aurai jamais, des limites qu\u2019ils avaient, je les voyais tels qu\u2019ils \u00e9taient avec les forces et leurs faiblesses. J\u2019ai aussi r\u00e9alis\u00e9 que tous les torts n\u2019\u00e9taient pas du c\u00f4t\u00e9 de mon p\u00e8re et qu\u2019il n\u2019\u00e9tait pas que le mauvais parent (j\u2019en parle dans <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/156-limpact-du-couple-de-tes-parents-dans-tes-amours\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">l\u2019\u00e9pisode 156<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">).<\/span><\/li><\/ul><ul><li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Panser ma souffrance. <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Je me suis ensuite focalis\u00e9e \u00e0 travailler d\u2019abord sur l\u2019impact de mon pass\u00e9 dans ma vie. Plus cet impact se r\u00e9duisait et moins j\u2019avais de ressentiment et de col\u00e8re envers mes parents.\u00a0<\/span><\/li><li aria-level=\"1\"><b>Pardonner ou faire la paix. <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Une fois que j\u2019avais d\u00e9pass\u00e9 cet impact, j\u2019avais l\u2019espace pour comprendre vraiment pourquoi mon p\u00e8re avait agi comme cela. J\u2019avais l\u2019espace de permettre la r\u00e9paration de mon c\u00f4t\u00e9 c\u2019est \u00e0 dire que oui mon p\u00e8re ne s\u2019est pas bien comport\u00e9, oui je comprends pourquoi il a fait cela et je d\u00e9cide ne plus vouloir porter le poids de mon pass\u00e9, dans mon pr\u00e9sent et dans ton futur. En faisant cette r\u00e9paration et en revenant vers mon p\u00e8re sur de nouvelles bases, j\u2019ai pu vivre une belle relation avec lui et je pense que cela a r\u00e9par\u00e9 beaucoup de choses en moi.<\/span><\/li><\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-56093bf6 elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"56093bf6\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-no\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-71c95e37\" data-id=\"71c95e37\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-771fdc02 elementor-section-content-bottom elementor-hidden-mobile elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"771fdc02\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-57aa4dcc\" data-id=\"57aa4dcc\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7a14a5a9 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"7a14a5a9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-59a8e97b elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"59a8e97b\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-56016f14\" data-id=\"56016f14\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3c83ea9f elementor-invisible elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"3c83ea9f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;_animation&quot;:&quot;fadeInLeft&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\">Pour toi<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-53a3b362 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"53a3b362\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"quizz_offert\"><\/span><span>quizz offert<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5b7d8fce elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"5b7d8fce\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"%22Celibataires_Pourquoi_tu_ne_trouves_pas_lamour\"><\/span><span><strong><em>\"C\u00e9libataires : Pourquoi tu ne trouves pas l'amour?<\/em><\/strong><span> <\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-627e06a2 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"627e06a2\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"color: #000000; 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Tu peux te d\u00e9sabonner \u00e0 tout moment. Merci de lire ma <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/politique-de-confidentialite\/\"> Politique de confidentialit\u00e9 <\/a> pour voir comment je traite les donn\u00e9es.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-dc80399 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"dc80399\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"4_etapes_pour_faire_la_paix_avec_ton_passe\"><\/span>4 \u00e9tapes pour faire la paix avec ton pass\u00e9<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-442fc70 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"442fc70\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"1_Reconnaitre_ta_souffrance\"><\/span><strong>1. Reconna\u00eetre ta souffrance<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">J\u2019ai pu remarquer avec mes clientes (et moi aussi) que plus leur pass\u00e9 avait \u00e9t\u00e9 difficile plus elle avait tendance \u00e0 minimiser ce qui s&rsquo;est pass\u00e9 voire avec une id\u00e9alisation de leurs parents.\u00a0 C&rsquo;est un m\u00e9canisme naturel de survie qui permet de continuer \u00e0 vivre.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pourtant reconna\u00eetre pleinement ce qui s&rsquo;est pass\u00e9 est essentiel pour pouvoir s\u2019en lib\u00e9rer.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Reconna\u00eetre c&rsquo;est accept\u00e9 et voir toute la peine, tout le mal, que ce pass\u00e9 t\u2019a impos\u00e9 et de pleinement prendre conscience des cons\u00e9quences que cela a eu dans ta vie en redonnant la responsabilit\u00e9 de l&rsquo;autre \u00e0 l&rsquo;autre. Cette \u00e9tape est particuli\u00e8rement importante si tu as subi des violences physiques ou psychiques de la part d\u2019un parent car ce dernier a manqu\u00e9 dans son r\u00f4le de protection.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p><b>Reconna\u00eetre que ce qu&rsquo;il a fait n&rsquo;\u00e9tait pas normal permet de r\u00e9ajuster ton juge int\u00e9rieur qui d\u00e9finit ce qui est normal ou pas afin de ne plus accepter de situations abusives par la suite dans ta vie.\u00a0<\/b><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tant que le r\u00e9ajustement de ton juge int\u00e9rieur n&rsquo;est pas fait, tu peux avoir tendance \u00e0 te mettre dans des situations de violence similaire ou bien dans des situations d&rsquo;abus ou d\u2019irrespect.<\/span><\/p><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"2_Faire_le_deuil_du_parent_ideal\"><\/span><strong>2. Faire le deuil du parent id\u00e9al<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">C\u2019est souvent une phase de col\u00e8re ou un sentiment d\u2019injustice de voir que ce que tu as v\u00e9cu avec tes parents t\u2019impacte encore maintenant. C\u2019est aussi faire le deuil de ce que tu ne recevras jamais et d\u2019avoir des parents imparfaits qui ont eu ou ont encore des manquements envers toi. Cette phase arrive naturellement plus tu vas comprendre et reconnaitre ta souffrance dans l\u2019\u00e9tape1.<\/span><\/p><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"3_Panser_ta_souffrance\"><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>3.<\/strong> <\/span>Panser ta souffrance :<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><p>Travailler sur l\u2019impact que cela a sur toi<\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">L\u2019\u00e9tape c\u2019est de travailler sur l\u2019impact que cela a encore sur toi, panser ce qui a \u00e9t\u00e9 bless\u00e9. Tu ne peux pas changer l\u2019impact de ce que tu as v\u00e9cu mais tu peux changer l\u2019impact que cela a sur toi.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">En termes de syst\u00e8me nerveux, cela prend tout son sens que l\u2019empreinte de la situation est encore l\u00e0 dans ton corps, tes automatismes de r\u00e9actions qui impactent ta vie sont encore activ\u00e9s donc tant que tout cela est l\u00e0 et que ces m\u00e9canismes ne sont pas d\u00e9pass\u00e9s, c\u2019est comme si tu souffres encore de l\u2019impact de la relation avec tes parents dans ta vie.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cela me parait difficile d\u2019\u00eatre en paix ou de pardonner tant que tu ressens l\u2019impact que cela a dans ta vie.\u00a0<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u00a0<\/span><\/p><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"4Pardonner_ou_faire_la_paix\"><\/span>4.Pardonner ou faire la paix\u00a0<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pardonner ce n\u2019est pas accepter ce qui a \u00e9t\u00e9 fait, c&rsquo;est de d\u00e9cider de ne plus vouloir porter le poids de ton pass\u00e9, dans ton pr\u00e9sent et dans ton futur.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pour d\u00e9cider si pardonner te serait utile demande-toi \u201c Qu\u2019est-ce que j\u2019ai \u00e0 gagner si je pardonne ou r\u00e9pare cette relation ?\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Et de le faire \u00e9go\u00efstement pour toi si tu cela t\u2019apporte quelquechose.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Si tu souhaites pardonner 3 pistes de r\u00e9flexions peuvent t\u2019aider pour y arriver :<\/span><\/p><ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Comprendre pourquoi ton parent a agi comme cela. Si cela est possible car il n&rsquo;y a pas toujours d\u2019explications logiques.\u00a0 Tu peux te demander ce qu\u2019il a v\u00e9cu dans son enfance, pourquoi agit-il comme cela selon toi.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Renouer avec ton pouvoir int\u00e9rieur en prenant conscience que tu n\u2019es plus dans cette position de victime et que tu peux prendre un autre r\u00f4le dans tes relations futures.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Voir en quoi cette exp\u00e9rience t\u2019a permis d\u2019\u00eatre la personne que tu es avec les nouvelles ressources que tu as d\u00e9velopp\u00e9 face \u00e0 cette \u00e9preuve.<\/span><\/li><\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Si tu d\u00e9cides de ne pas faire ce travail de r\u00e9paration en vrai avec ton parent, tu as un outil magnifique pour faire ce travail pour toi c\u2019est le dialogue parent-enfant IMAGO.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Le dernier avantage de faire la paix c\u2019est d\u2019exp\u00e9rimenter la r\u00e9paration et de voir que des blessures m\u00eames profondes peuvent se r\u00e9parer.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-d37da43 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"d37da43\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-4550e5e\" data-id=\"4550e5e\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-865f677 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"865f677\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Pour_aller_plus_loin\"><\/span>Pour aller plus loin<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a35cf04 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"a35cf04\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Si tu as envie d\u2019approfondir le sujet et d\u2019identifier tes propres sch\u00e9mas amoureux tu as mon livre <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">S\u2019ouvrir \u00e0 l\u2019amour<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> disponible dans toutes les librairies.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-4b747fae elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"4b747fae\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-1478e3b2\" data-id=\"1478e3b2\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-6449cf18 elementor-section-height-min-height elementor-section-content-middle elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-items-middle\" data-id=\"6449cf18\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-no\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-12b2583e\" data-id=\"12b2583e\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-452d6dbc elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"452d6dbc\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-55396839\" data-id=\"55396839\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d63afb5 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"d63afb5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1771\" height=\"1535\" src=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/Untitled-design-1.png\" class=\"attachment-2048x2048 size-2048x2048 wp-image-1075257\" alt=\"\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/Untitled-design-1.png 1771w, https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/Untitled-design-1-300x260.png 300w, https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/Untitled-design-1-1024x888.png 1024w, https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/Untitled-design-1-768x666.png 768w, https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/Untitled-design-1-1536x1331.png 1536w, https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/12\/Untitled-design-1-600x520.png 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1771px) 100vw, 1771px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-35dc89f1\" data-id=\"35dc89f1\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-14a643bd elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"14a643bd\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-medium\">S'ouvrir \u00e0 l'Amour<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-452a4b27 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"452a4b27\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\">Le livre qui va te permettre d'identifier tes sch\u00e9mas amoureux et te permettre d'apprendre les clefs pour construire une relation saine<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-0a959f4 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"0a959f4\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-df657a3\" data-id=\"df657a3\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4e55add elementor-align-center elementor-mobile-align-center elementor-widget elementor-widget-button\" data-id=\"4e55add\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"button.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-button-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-button elementor-button-link elementor-size-md\" href=\"https:\/\/www.payot.ch\/Detail\/souvrir_a_lamour-sandy_kaufmann-9782416018374?cId=0\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-content-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-text\">j'ach\u00e8te le livre en suisse<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a8001ab elementor-align-center elementor-mobile-align-center elementor-widget elementor-widget-button\" data-id=\"a8001ab\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"button.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-button-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-button elementor-button-link elementor-size-md\" href=\"https:\/\/www.fr.fnac.be\/a20905116\/Sandy-Kaufmann-S-ouvrir-a-l-amour\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-content-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-text\">j'ach\u00e8te le livre en belgique<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4f95955 elementor-align-center elementor-mobile-align-center elementor-widget elementor-widget-button\" data-id=\"4f95955\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"button.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-button-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-button elementor-button-link elementor-size-md\" href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.fr\/Souvrir-lamour-solution-trouvait-vague\/dp\/241601837X\/ref=sr_1_1?__mk_fr_FR=%C3%85M%C3%85%C5%BD%C3%95%C3%91&#038;crid=34X1WHY4F6R6M&#038;dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.P4fazNelf0Y7l5P-HwksxYB_HgxSzDkpdR-VBfQ4UgqWCf1MmoNsqYJeTp_u-aqgaQ1HvDh0iUVWxP1Vgjz-SRlpEONGz0jUsSQ8pNN7dlmcvrAJy99RkQt_lBV3PiDXVjrULzVYSBoOjMX5UOeRlPhTONtPPoIZb0kjw8FdLhA.MsZ1YqqGMK9exw4XUlICPV1qKS3NeiEjEzvog0HYqHE&#038;dib_tag=se&#038;keywords=sandy+kaufmann&#038;nsdOptOutParam=true&#038;qid=1734445940&#038;sprefix=sandy+kaufmann%2Caps%2C138&#038;sr=8-1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-content-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-text\">j'ach\u00e8te le livre en france<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-1b26c9c elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"1b26c9c\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-83be98d\" data-id=\"83be98d\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b40909c elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"b40909c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Et si tu souhaites faire le travail de tes sch\u00e9mas amoureux par le corps et transformer ta vie amoureuse tu as le programme <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/souvrir-a-lamour\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">S\u2019ouvrir \u00e0 l\u2019amour.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ee96686 elementor-align-center elementor-mobile-align-center elementor-widget elementor-widget-global elementor-global-38034 elementor-widget-button\" data-id=\"ee96686\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"button.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-button-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-button elementor-button-link elementor-size-md\" href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/souvrir-a-lamour\/\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-content-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-text\">S'ouvrir \u00e0 l'amour<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-2b0c4aa2 elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-min-height elementor-section-items-stretch elementor-section-content-middle elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"2b0c4aa2\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-4777e6d3\" data-id=\"4777e6d3\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-5bccdb0c elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"5bccdb0c\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-20 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-102cf14 elementor-sm-33\" data-id=\"102cf14\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1cc36f72 elementor-view-default elementor-widget elementor-widget-icon\" data-id=\"1cc36f72\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"icon.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-icon-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t<a 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href=\"http:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/fr\/podcast\/souvrir-%C3%A0-lamour\/id1594692189?l=en\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Apple<\/a><\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-20 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-4b90d6c elementor-sm-33\" data-id=\"4b90d6c\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3675119 elementor-view-default elementor-widget elementor-widget-icon\" data-id=\"3675119\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"icon.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-icon-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-icon\" href=\"\">\n\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fab 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class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/158-faut-il-pardonner-ses-parents\/#quizz_offert\" >quizz offert<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/158-faut-il-pardonner-ses-parents\/#%22Celibataires_Pourquoi_tu_ne_trouves_pas_lamour\" >\"C\u00e9libataires : Pourquoi tu ne trouves pas l'amour?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/158-faut-il-pardonner-ses-parents\/#4_etapes_pour_faire_la_paix_avec_ton_passe\" >4 \u00e9tapes pour faire la paix avec ton pass\u00e9<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/158-faut-il-pardonner-ses-parents\/#1_Reconnaitre_ta_souffrance\" >1. Reconna\u00eetre ta souffrance<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/158-faut-il-pardonner-ses-parents\/#2_Faire_le_deuil_du_parent_ideal\" >2. Faire le deuil du parent id\u00e9al<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-7\" href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/158-faut-il-pardonner-ses-parents\/#3_Panser_ta_souffrance\" >3. Panser ta souffrance :<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-8\" href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/158-faut-il-pardonner-ses-parents\/#4Pardonner_ou_faire_la_paix\" >4.Pardonner ou faire la paix\u00a0<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-9\" href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/158-faut-il-pardonner-ses-parents\/#Pour_aller_plus_loin\" >Pour aller plus loin<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Faut-il pardonner ses parents ? Tu as eu une enfance difficile ou une relation compliqu\u00e9e avec tes parents et tu as du mal \u00e0 tourner la page. On t\u2019a dit plusieurs fois que le pardon est ce qui te lib\u00e8re de ton pass\u00e9 mais tu as encore trop de ressentiment pour pardonner. 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