{"id":1074439,"date":"2024-11-18T12:58:16","date_gmt":"2024-11-18T12:58:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/?p=1074439"},"modified":"2025-10-14T12:48:40","modified_gmt":"2025-10-14T12:48:40","slug":"141-retrouver-lamour-apres-40-ans","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/141-retrouver-lamour-apres-40-ans\/","title":{"rendered":"141. (Re)trouver l\u2019amour apr\u00e8s 40 ans"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"1074439\" class=\"elementor elementor-1074439\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-7ed86594 elementor-section-content-top elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-min-height elementor-section-items-bottom elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"7ed86594\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-6ea7bd98\" data-id=\"6ea7bd98\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3d639127 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"3d639127\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-xl\">(Re)trouver l\u2019amour apr\u00e8s 40 ans<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-62d37295 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"62d37295\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-4e162bd6\" data-id=\"4e162bd6\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-376509b elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"376509b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tu as plus de 40 ans et tu voudrais \u00eatre en couple mais tu as le sentiment que <\/span><b>c&rsquo;est plus compliqu\u00e9 de rencontrer quelqu&rsquo;un \u00e0 cet \u00e2ge<\/b><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tu as l&rsquo;impression que <\/span><b>ton \u00e2ge te p\u00e9nalise dans la rencontre <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ou bien que les personnes que tu rencontres sortent souvent d&rsquo;une rupture importante, ont des obligations familiales et sont <\/span><b>moins enclin \u00e0 investir dans une nouvelle relation<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ou bien tu as un d\u00e9sir d&rsquo;enfant et tu ne sais pas comment <\/span><b>g\u00e9rer le challenge de l&rsquo;horloge biologique tout en te donnant le temps de faire des rencontres.<\/b><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ou enfin <\/span><b>tu as l&rsquo;impression que les appli sont plus pour les plus jeunes <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">ou ceux qui sont l\u00e0 sont un peu trop \u201cpapie mamie\u201dpour toi.<\/span><\/p><p>\u00a0<\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dans cet \u00e9pisode je vais me concentrer sur les challenges sp\u00e9cifiques \u00e0 la rencontre apr\u00e8s 40 ans.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Si tu sors d&rsquo;un divorce tu peux aussi \u00e9couter <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/140-anouck-du-podcast-feminitea-rebondir-apres-un-divorce\/\">l&rsquo;\u00e9pisode 140 sur comment rebondir apr\u00e8s un divorce<\/a> . Si tu es parent solo<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> je t&rsquo;invite \u00e0 \u00e9couter l&rsquo;<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/100-maman-solo-et-dating\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00e9pisode 100 sur les challenges des parents solo dans le Dating<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Et si tu es c\u00e9libataire depuis un certain temps tu as \u00e9galement l&rsquo;<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/99-sortir-du-celibat-de-longue-duree\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00e9pisode 99 Sortir du c\u00e9libat longue dur\u00e9e<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> que tu peux consulter.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c68fe67 elementor-hidden-desktop elementor-hidden-tablet elementor-hidden-mobile elementor-widget elementor-widget-shortcode\" data-id=\"c68fe67\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"shortcode.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-shortcode\"><iframe name=\"Ausha Podcast Player\" frameborder=\"0\" loading=\"lazy\" id=\"ausha-Xv81\" height=\"220\" style=\"border: none; width:100%; height:220px\" src=\"https:\/\/player.ausha.co\/?showId=bjPkYiPMPlqo&color=%23d13523&podcastId=BxjV5SqqwRAM&v=3&playerId=ausha-Xv81\"><\/iframe><script src=\"https:\/\/player.ausha.co\/ausha-player.js\"><\/script>\n<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b8d8830 elementor-widget elementor-widget-video\" data-id=\"b8d8830\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;youtube_url&quot;:&quot;https:\\\/\\\/youtu.be\\\/J7pK3_N0XLg&quot;,&quot;video_type&quot;:&quot;youtube&quot;,&quot;controls&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"video.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-wrapper elementor-open-inline\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-video\"><\/div>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4dc2b12 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"4dc2b12\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Vieillir_un_frein_a_la_rencontre\"><\/span>Vieillir : un frein \u00e0 la rencontre ?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3574bfe elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"3574bfe\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">La croyance que je rencontre encore trop souvent chez les femmes que j&rsquo;accompagne c&rsquo;est le sentiment qu&rsquo;<\/span><b>\u00e0 partir d&rsquo;un certain \u00e2ge tes chances diminuent en dating<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> parce que tu penses que tu es moins s\u00e9duisante qu&rsquo;une plus jeune, parce que tu as pris du poids avec l&rsquo;\u00e2ge, parce que tu as plus de bobos qu&rsquo;avant.<\/span>\n\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Alors on va pas se mentir oui il y a encore une pression du \u201cjeunisme\u201d chez les femmes quand tu consultes la presse f\u00e9minine ou les r\u00e9seaux sociaux \u00e7a d\u00e9borde et il y a aussi des in\u00e9galit\u00e9s en termes de diff\u00e9rence d&rsquo;\u00e2ge entre les hommes et les femmes en relation.<\/span>\n\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mon invitation est plut\u00f4t de voir cette contrainte comme une opportunit\u00e9 de faire un meilleur tri pour ton choix de partenaire:<\/span>\n<ul>\n \t<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Est-ce que tu as envie de te sentir sur la sellette \u00e0 cause de ton \u00e2ge ou parce que tu vieillis en relation?<\/span><\/li>\n \t<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Est-ce que tu as envie d&rsquo;\u00eatre choisi(e) que sur l&rsquo;aspect physique ?<\/span><\/li>\n \t<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Est-ce que tu as envie d&rsquo;un partenaire qui te l\u00e2che \u00e0 la moindre d\u00e9faillance ou au moindre bobo ?<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dans ce cas, cet \u00e9cr\u00e9mage est plut\u00f4t b\u00e9n\u00e9fique pour toi aussi.<\/span>\n\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Rencontrer quelqu&rsquo;un \u00e0 40 ans \u00e7a peut \u00eatre vraiment une belle opportunit\u00e9 de voir si vous avez la m\u00eame vision de ce que \u00e7a veut dire vieillir en termes de sant\u00e9, en terme de s&rsquo;entretenir avec l&rsquo;alimentation, avec le sport et ce n&rsquo;est pas n\u00e9gligeable parce que cet aspect l\u00e0 va prendre de plus en plus de place dans vos vies respectives et dans votre couple.<\/span>\n<p class=\"has-background\" style=\"background-color: #eeeeee;\">\u2764\ufe0f Regarde <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/inscriptionblessurepasse\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">mon w\u00e9binaire <\/a><\/strong>sur comment \u00eatre enfin heureux\/se en Amour!<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-4fa4c09b elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"4fa4c09b\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-418898d7\" data-id=\"418898d7\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ba04d3b elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"ba04d3b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"La_quarantaine_le_deuxieme_boom_du_celibat\"><\/span>La quarantaine : le deuxi\u00e8me boom du c\u00e9libat<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-633dc5e6 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"633dc5e6\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Avec un taux de divorce de pr\u00e8s de 50 % la fin de la trentaine et le d\u00e9but de la quarantaine c&rsquo;est souvent la tranche d&rsquo;\u00e2ge ou les couples se s\u00e9parent ou divorce et beaucoup de personnes redeviennent c\u00e9libataires.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ces c\u00e9libataires ont d\u00e9j\u00e0 de la bouteille c&rsquo;est-\u00e0-dire qu&rsquo;ils <\/span><b>ont fait une premi\u00e8re exp\u00e9rience d&rsquo;une relation longue dans le positif comme dans le n\u00e9gatif et souvent ils prennent le temps de la r\u00e9flexion<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> : comprendre pourquoi la relation n&rsquo;a pas march\u00e9, qu&rsquo;est-ce qu&rsquo;ils feraient de diff\u00e9rent \u00e9ventuellement red\u00e9finir leur vision du couple, identifier leur part de tort et les changer. Et donc potentiellement cela augmente les chances d\u2019avoir des relations plus saines et \u00e9panouissantes.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Donc contrairement \u00e0 ce que pense beaucoup de mes coach\u00e9es, <strong>r<\/strong><\/span><b>encontrer quelqu&rsquo;un \u00e0 40 ans c&rsquo;est une vraie opportunit\u00e9 <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">de rencontrer quelqu&rsquo;un qui a vraiment envie de construire une relation saine et qui est aussi pr\u00eat \u00e0 se remettre en question.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mon conseil ici est de v\u00e9rifier si la personne que tu rencontres a vraiment fini son deuil, a tir\u00e9 les le\u00e7ons de sa derni\u00e8re relation et si cette personne met en place des changements au niveau de son comportement ou de sa mani\u00e8re de faire en relation.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-052acf8 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"052acf8\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Challenge_ton_choix_de_partenaires\"><\/span>Challenge ton choix de partenaires\n<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e73cc0b elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"e73cc0b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Il y a deux cas de figure que je rencontre assez souvent chez mes coach\u00e9es de plus de 40 ans qui, \u00e0 mon sens, peuvent te faire diminuer tes chances de rencontrer la bonne personne pour toi.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Le premier cas de figure c&rsquo;est une personne qui approche la quarantaine, qui n\u2019a pas encore eu de relation longue, <\/span><b>qui a envie de fonder une famille et qui exclut par d\u00e9faut des personnes qui sont divorc\u00e9s ou qui ont des enfants,<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> soit par peur des contraintes d&rsquo;une famille recompos\u00e9e,\u00a0 ou que la personne n&rsquo;est pas fait le deuil de sa relation,\u00a0 ou que cette personne n&rsquo;a plus envie d&rsquo;enfants.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Plut\u00f4t que de juger la personne sur son statut, mon invitation est de t<\/span><b>e faire une opinion plus fine sur la situation de cette personne<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> en regardant par exemple:<\/span><\/p><ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Si cette personne a fait le deuil de sa relation?<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Comment se passe le co-parenting avec la m\u00e8re de son enfant?<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Est-ce que cette personne est capable de donner\/donne une vraie place \u00e0 votre relation ( en termes de temps, priorit\u00e9\u2026)?<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Si cette personne est ouverte \u00e0 avoir d&rsquo;autres enfants?<\/span><\/li><\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0Et ensuite challenge ton a priori avec les avantages potentiels d\u2019une telle relation:<\/span><\/p><ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tu exp\u00e9rimentes la vie avec un enfant sans forc\u00e9ment en avoir la pleine responsabilit\u00e9.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Si tu as un d\u00e9sir d&rsquo;enfant,\u00a0 il y aura peut-\u00eatre moins d&rsquo;obstacles \u00e0 commencer le projet b\u00e9b\u00e9 rapidement car il y a d\u00e9j\u00e0 une forme de vie de famille.<\/span><\/li><\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">J&rsquo;ai eu l&rsquo;exemple d&rsquo;une coach\u00e9e qui n&rsquo;avait pas forc\u00e9ment envie d&rsquo;avoir d&rsquo;enfant mais avait connu un partenaire avec enfants et par ce biais elle \u00e9tait tr\u00e8s heureuse d&rsquo;exp\u00e9rimenter la vie avec un enfant sans la responsabilit\u00e9 qui lui avait fait renoncer \u00e0 la base d\u2019avoir des enfants \u00e0 elle. En challengeant cet apriori, elle s\u2019est ouverte la porte \u00e0 une tr\u00e8s belle relation avec son partenaire et son enfant.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Le deuxi\u00e8me cas de figure que je rencontre souvent ce sont <\/span><b>des femmes qui s&rsquo;interdisent de choisir des partenaires plus jeunes qu&rsquo;elles<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u00e0 cause de leur \u00e2ge et de leur d\u00e9sir de fonder une famille. Ici je t&rsquo;invite \u00e0 faire le m\u00eame raisonnement qu&rsquo;auparavant c&rsquo;est-\u00e0-dire \u00e0 te faire une opinion de la personne plut\u00f4t que de l&rsquo;exclure sur le seul crit\u00e8re de l&rsquo;\u00e2ge:<\/span><\/p><ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Que recherche cette personne en termes de relation<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Comment la personne se projette-t-elle sur le fait d\u2019avoir des enfants ?\u00a0 Quel est son horizon de temps?<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quelle est son exp\u00e9rience de vie ?\u00a0 quelle est sa maturit\u00e9 de vie ?\u00a0 car si finalement pas l&rsquo;\u00e2ge mais plut\u00f4t le v\u00e9cu qui donne la maturit\u00e9?<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quelle est sa vision au niveau de la diff\u00e9rence d&rsquo;\u00e2ge,\u00a0 sur le fait de vieillir ?<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quelle importance accorde cette personne au physique de son partenaire?\u00a0 Est-ce que cette personne est capable d&rsquo;accepter que son partenaire vieillisse plus vite qu&rsquo;elle?<\/span><\/li><\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-4b747fae elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"4b747fae\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-1478e3b2\" data-id=\"1478e3b2\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-49027bcc elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"49027bcc\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-51c1dfc0\" data-id=\"51c1dfc0\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6af9e0a elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"6af9e0a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Verifie_ton_degre_dexigence\"><\/span>V\u00e9rifie ton degr\u00e9 d'exigence\n<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f6098dc elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"f6098dc\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">J&rsquo;en parlais d\u00e9j\u00e0 dans l&rsquo;<\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/126-comment-se-faire-des-amis-a-lage-adulte\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00e9pisode 126 sur comment se faire des amis \u00e0 l&rsquo;\u00e2ge adulte<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. <\/span><b>avec l&rsquo;\u00e2ge tu peux avoir ce sentiment d&rsquo;\u00eatre compatible avec moins de personnes<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> parce que tes valeurs sont plus d\u00e9finies, tes go\u00fbts et tes habitudes sont plus d\u00e9finis, ce que tu veux, ce que tu ne veux pas et en amour comme en amiti\u00e9 \u00e7a te demande d&rsquo;appr\u00e9cier la diff\u00e9rence de l&rsquo;autre de la\u00a0 voir plus comme un enrichissement qu&rsquo;une contrainte et \u00e0 apprendre \u00e0 te focaliser sur ce qui vous unis.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pour te donner un exemple, j&rsquo;ai une coach\u00e9e qui a retrouv\u00e9 l&rsquo;amour \u00e0 65 ans. Son partenaire avait choisi de vivre dans un camping-car pour explorer l&rsquo;Europe.\u00a0 Au d\u00e9part, elle a vu \u00e7a comme une grosse diff\u00e9rence en termes de niveau de vie, elle avait plus l&rsquo;habitude de vacances plus luxueuses. Elle avait aussi envie de sortir de son train train maintenant qu\u2019elle \u00e9tait \u00e0 la retraite. Quand elle est all\u00e9e au-del\u00e0 de \u00e7a, elle a vu en fait que cette mani\u00e8re de voyager r\u00e9pondait aussi \u00e0 son besoin de d&rsquo;avoir une vie plus riche, plus vari\u00e9e, plus \u00e0 la d\u00e9couverte, plus fun si bien que finalement la diff\u00e9rence dans le c\u00f4t\u00e9 luxe du voyage \u00e9tait moins importante que ce qui les unissait \u00e0 savoir la d\u00e9couverte et la vari\u00e9t\u00e9. Et qu\u2019elle pouvait toujours se faire ses escapades luxueuses si elle le voulait.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8c41767 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"8c41767\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"La_condition_necessaire_faire_le_menage_dans_tes_vieilles_casseroles\"><\/span>La condition n\u00e9cessaire : faire le m\u00e9nage dans tes vieilles casseroles<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-494c350d elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"494c350d\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-34cd103b\" data-id=\"34cd103b\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1e26abe elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"1e26abe\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Que tu sois encore c\u00e9libataire \u00e0 40 ans ou que tu sortes d&rsquo;une relation longue \u00e0 tes 40 ans, <\/span><b>c&rsquo;est le moment id\u00e9al de faire un travail de fond sur ta mani\u00e8re de relationner et sur l&rsquo;influence de tes exp\u00e9riences pass\u00e9es dans tes amours avant de te remettre en relation<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> et notamment de faire le point sur :<\/span><\/p><ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">La cause du c\u00e9libat de longue dur\u00e9e ou bien les raisons de ta derni\u00e8re rupture<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">L&rsquo;influence de ton pass\u00e9 dans ta mani\u00e8re de relationner<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quelles comp\u00e9tences relationnelles ont \u00e9t\u00e9 le plus difficile \u00e0 mettre en place pour toi Et comment les apprendre.<\/span><\/li><\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pour comprendre en quoi ton pass\u00e9 influence tes relations amoureuses et pourquoi c\u2019est sauv\u00e9 dans le corps tu peux \u00e0 cet effet regarder mon w\u00e9binaire gratuit qui explique \u201c<strong>Comment te lib\u00e9rer de tes sch\u00e9mas amoureux et \u00eatre enfin heureux en amour?<\/strong>\u201d<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-16733167 elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"16733167\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-no\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-88b29cd\" data-id=\"88b29cd\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap 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data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-32a211bd elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"32a211bd\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-628ce9d7\" data-id=\"628ce9d7\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3cfd537b elementor-invisible elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"3cfd537b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;_animation&quot;:&quot;fadeInLeft&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\">Pour toi<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4a2bdf81 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"4a2bdf81\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"LE_WEBINAIRE_gratuit\"><\/span><span>LE W\u00c9BINAIRE gratuit<\/span><span 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data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"color: #000000; font-size: 18px; letter-spacing: 1.1px;\">Enregistre-toi d\u00e8s maintenant \u00e0 ma newsletter et re\u00e7ois le replay du w\u00e9binaire.<span lang=\"FR-CH\">\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-227e288e\" data-id=\"227e288e\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-1eeb64ba elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" 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elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"3af25d9e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>* Champs obligatoires<\/p><p>Si tu t&rsquo;abonnes \u00e0 ma newsletter, tu recevras \u00e9galement des offres. Tu peux te d\u00e9sabonner \u00e0 tout moment. Merci de lire ma <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/politique-de-confidentialite\/\"> Politique de confidentialit\u00e9 <\/a> pour voir comment je traite les donn\u00e9es.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-24621dd elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"24621dd\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><b>L\u2019amour n&rsquo;a pas d&rsquo;\u00e2ge \u00e0 40 ans tu peux encore vivre une belle relation de 60 ans.<\/b><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Je voudrais terminer cet \u00e9pisode sur un message d&rsquo;une ancienne coach\u00e9e, celle de 65 ans, qui m&rsquo;a dit \u00e0 la fin du coaching que \u201c<\/span><b>la seule chose que je regrette c\u2019est que je n\u2019ai pas fait ce travail de fond plus t\u00f4t. <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Si je l&rsquo;avais fait \u00e0 40 ans j&rsquo;aurais d\u00e9j\u00e0 eu 25 ans de relation heureuse. \u00c7a change une vie ! \u201c<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-48ac7e1c elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"48ac7e1c\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-132182a0\" data-id=\"132182a0\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-351c3618 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"351c3618\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Pour_aller_plus_loin\"><\/span>Pour aller plus loin<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-60cf1310 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"60cf1310\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Si tu as envie d\u2019approfondir le sujet et d\u2019identifier tes propres sch\u00e9mas amoureux tu as <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/livre-souvrir-a-lamour-et-si-la-solution-se-trouvait-du-cote-du-nerf-vague\/\">mon livre <\/a><\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/livre-souvrir-a-lamour-et-si-la-solution-se-trouvait-du-cote-du-nerf-vague\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">S\u2019ouvrir \u00e0 l\u2019amour<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> disponible dans toutes les librairies.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f460778 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"f460778\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ce travail de fond, tu le fais bien s\u00fbr dans le programme S\u2019ouvrir \u00e0 l\u2019amour.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-159f9366 elementor-align-center elementor-mobile-align-center elementor-widget elementor-widget-global elementor-global-38034 elementor-widget-button\" data-id=\"159f9366\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"button.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-button-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-button elementor-button-link elementor-size-md\" href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/souvrir-a-lamour\/\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-content-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-text\">S'ouvrir \u00e0 l'amour<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-2b0c4aa2 elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-min-height elementor-section-items-stretch elementor-section-content-middle elementor-section-height-default\" 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