{"id":1073551,"date":"2024-09-17T04:03:19","date_gmt":"2024-09-17T04:03:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/?p=1073551"},"modified":"2025-10-14T12:45:51","modified_gmt":"2025-10-14T12:45:51","slug":"132-est-ce-le-bon-ou-la-bonne-partenaire-pour-moi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/132-est-ce-le-bon-ou-la-bonne-partenaire-pour-moi\/","title":{"rendered":"132 .Est-ce le bon ou la bonne partenaire pour moi?"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"1073551\" class=\"elementor elementor-1073551\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-7ed86594 elementor-section-content-top elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-min-height elementor-section-items-bottom elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"7ed86594\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-6ea7bd98\" data-id=\"6ea7bd98\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3d639127 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"3d639127\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-xl\">Est-ce le bon ou la bonne partenaire pour moi?\n<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-62d37295 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"62d37295\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-4e162bd6\" data-id=\"4e162bd6\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-376509b elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"376509b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tu commences \u00e0 dater quelqu&rsquo;un et <\/span><b>tu te demandes si c&rsquo;est le bon match pour to<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">i ou s&rsquo; il vaut mieux continuer de dater d&rsquo;autres personnes?<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ou tu es d\u00e9j\u00e0 en relation avec quelqu&rsquo;un <\/span><b>tu ressens beaucoup d&rsquo;ins\u00e9curit\u00e9 et tu te demandes si tu es dans la bonne relation<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">?<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dans cet \u00e9pisode je parle des diff\u00e9rents aspects qui peuvent te faire douter et les premi\u00e8res cl\u00e9s pour sortir de cette ind\u00e9cision.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Je ne parle pas dans cet \u00e9pisode des doutes que l&rsquo;on peut avoir dans une relation \u00e9tablie et engag\u00e9e.\u00a0 \u00c0 cet effet,tu peux voir <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/smartlink.ausha.co\/s-ouvrir-a-l-amour\/47-les-3-etapes-pour-depasser-une-crise-de-couple\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">l&rsquo;\u00e9pisode 47 sur comment d\u00e9passer les crises de couple.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-693bb58 elementor-hidden-desktop elementor-hidden-tablet elementor-hidden-mobile elementor-widget elementor-widget-html\" data-id=\"693bb58\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"html.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<iframe name=\"Ausha Podcast Player\" frameborder=\"0\" loading=\"lazy\" id=\"ausha-doEF\" height=\"220\" style=\"border: none; width:100%; height:220px\" src=\"https:\/\/player.ausha.co\/?showId=bjPkYiPMPlqo&color=%23d13523&podcastId=Bq5X9I4JnjZx&v=3&playerId=ausha-doEF\"><\/iframe><script src=\"https:\/\/player.ausha.co\/ausha-player.js\"><\/script>\n\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b8d8830 elementor-widget elementor-widget-video\" data-id=\"b8d8830\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;youtube_url&quot;:&quot;https:\\\/\\\/youtu.be\\\/ccZgRafdoiQ&quot;,&quot;video_type&quot;:&quot;youtube&quot;,&quot;controls&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"video.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-wrapper elementor-open-inline\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-video\"><\/div>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4dc2b12 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"4dc2b12\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Tu_nas_pas_pris_le_temps_de_te_demander_quel_partenaire_te_correspond\"><\/span>Tu n'as pas pris le temps de te demander quel partenaire te correspond\n<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3574bfe elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"3574bfe\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Si tu ne prends pas le soin <\/span><b>de d\u00e9finir en amont ce que tu recherches chez un partenaire<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> (les valeurs essentielles pour toi) c&rsquo;est en effet difficile d&rsquo;\u00e9valuer si la personne en face de toi est la bonne personne pour toi.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">C&rsquo;est comme si tu trouves un job mais que tu ne t&rsquo;ai jamais pos\u00e9 la question de ce qui est essentiel pour que tu puisses t\u2019\u00e9panouir dans ce job.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pour sortir de cette ind\u00e9cision il suffit de prendre ce temps de r\u00e9flexion pour d\u00e9finir ce que tu recherches. C&rsquo;est un module entier du programme <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/souvrir-a-lamour\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">S&rsquo;ouvrir \u00e0 l&rsquo;amour<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> car souvent il y a des contradictions, des attentes irr\u00e9alistes, trop de crit\u00e8res ou au contraire pas assez et \u00e7a vaut la peine de faire le m\u00e9nage l\u00e0-dedans.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-4c01fe86 elementor-section-content-bottom elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"4c01fe86\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-10bddf7a\" data-id=\"10bddf7a\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3c232e33 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"3c232e33\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-32a211bd elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"32a211bd\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-628ce9d7\" data-id=\"628ce9d7\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3cfd537b elementor-invisible elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"3cfd537b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;_animation&quot;:&quot;fadeInLeft&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\">Pour toi<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4a2bdf81 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"4a2bdf81\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"QUIZZ_OFFERT\"><\/span><span>QUIZZ OFFERT<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1a86ebba elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"1a86ebba\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"%22CELIBATAIRES_POURQUOI_TU_NE_TROUVES_PAS_LAMOUR%22\"><\/span><span><strong><em>\"C\u00c9LIBATAIRES : POURQUOI TU NE TROUVES PAS L'AMOUR?\"<\/em><\/strong><span> <\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2897eba5 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"2897eba5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Enregistre-toi et re\u00e7ois mon questionnaire gratuit pour comprendre pourquoi c\u2019est difficile.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-227e288e\" data-id=\"227e288e\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-1eeb64ba elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"1eeb64ba\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-bcd6fe7\" data-id=\"bcd6fe7\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-283891d3 elementor-widget elementor-widget-shortcode\" data-id=\"283891d3\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"shortcode.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-shortcode\"><script src=https:\/\/sandy-kaufmann.mykajabi.com\/forms\/2149274806\/embed.js><\/script><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3af25d9e elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"3af25d9e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>* Champs obligatoires<\/p><p>Si tu t&rsquo;abonnes \u00e0 ma newsletter, tu recevras \u00e9galement des offres. Tu peux te d\u00e9sabonner \u00e0 tout moment. Merci de lire ma <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/politique-de-confidentialite\/\"> Politique de confidentialit\u00e9 <\/a> pour voir comment je traite les donn\u00e9es.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-ec5270f elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"ec5270f\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-f6ee4fc\" data-id=\"f6ee4fc\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c4adc66 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"c4adc66\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Tu_nas_pas_verifie_si_cest_une_personne_sur_qui_tu_peux_compter\"><\/span>Tu n'as pas v\u00e9rifi\u00e9 si c'est une personne sur qui tu peux compter<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c0b9616 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c0b9616\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><b>Si ton partenaire n&rsquo;est pas s\u00fbr c&rsquo;est normal que tu doutes<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> car cela t&rsquo;indique qu&rsquo;il faut partir.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Je vais d\u00e9tailler dans le prochain <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/133-les-green-flags\/\">\u00e9pisode 133 les Green flags<\/a><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> qu&rsquo;est-ce que c&rsquo;est qu&rsquo;une personne secure dans le d\u00e9tail mais grosso modo <\/span><b>c&rsquo;est de v\u00e9rifier s&rsquo;il le partenaire en face de toi c&rsquo;est une personne respectueuse, stable, qui tient sa parole et qui est digne de confiance.<\/b><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pour sortir de cette ind\u00e9cision il te suffit de v\u00e9rifier la capacit\u00e9 du partenaire que tu as en face \u00e0 \u00eatre une personne sur qui tu peux compter ou pas. Dans <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/souvrir-a-lamour\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">S&rsquo;ouvrir \u00e0 l&rsquo;amour<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> les participantes utilisent l\u2019outil du journal du dating notamment pour v\u00e9rifier \u00e7a.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p><b>Tu n&rsquo;as pas v\u00e9rifi\u00e9 si vous avez une bonne dynamique relationnelle<\/b><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Je parle de cette dynamique en d\u00e9tail dans l&rsquo;\u00e9pisode pr\u00e9c\u00e9dent <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/130-bien-gerer-les-debuts-dune-relation\/\">130 Bien g\u00e9rer les d\u00e9buts d&rsquo;une relation.<\/a><\/span><\/p><p><b>Si vous avez mis en place une dynamique qui n&rsquo;est pas saine soit par manque de comp\u00e9tences soit \u00e0 cause des sch\u00e9mas amoureux que vous r\u00e9p\u00e9tez<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, vous pouvez avoir le sentiment que cette relation est comme les montagnes russes \u00e0 savoir des moments magnifiques et des moments o\u00f9 vous vous blessez l&rsquo;un l&rsquo;autre.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dans ce cas-l\u00e0 le doute est aussi sain et te demande de <\/span><b>revoir votre dynamique.<\/b><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-4f61f46 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"4f61f46\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-47afc96\" data-id=\"47afc96\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d0fb1a8 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"d0fb1a8\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Trop_de_choix_tue_le_choix\"><\/span>Trop de choix tue le choix. <span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3475fec elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"3475fec\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tLes applications de rencontre sont de belles opportunit\u00e9s pour rencontrer quelqu\u2019un (\u00e9coute <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/23-mes-conseils-pour-rencontrer-quelquun-sur-internet\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">l&rsquo;\u00e9pisode 23 Comment rencontrer quelqu&rsquo;un sur Internet<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">)\u00a0 mais la quantit\u00e9 de profil peut te donner l&rsquo;illusion qu&rsquo;il peut y avoir toujours mieux.<\/span>\n\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Un bon match<\/span>\n\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">C\u2019est une personne s\u00e9cure, qui t\u2019attire ET qui partage le m\u00eame projet de vie que toi ET tes valeurs essentielles<\/span>\n\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">C\u2019est une personne qui s\u2019investit et montre son int\u00e9r\u00eat dans la r\u00e9ciprocit\u00e9<\/span>\n\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">C\u2019est quelqu\u2019un qui t\u2019accepte tel (e) que tu es sans essayer de te changer<\/span>\n\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ce n\u2019est pas quelqu\u2019un qui ne va jamais appuyer sur tes blessures.<\/span>\n\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">L\u2019espace du couple est par d\u00e9finition un lieu de gu\u00e9rison de tes blessures d\u2019attachement<\/span>\n\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">En r\u00e9sum\u00e9 un bon match c\u2019est quelqu\u2019un avec lequel tu as une bonne base commune et que tu peux accepter sans vouloir le changer.<\/span>\n\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">MAIS c\u2019est aussi dans l\u2019apprentissage de la vie \u00e0 deux que se construit le BON couple et que vous devenez les BONS partenaires l\u2019un pour l\u2019autre.<\/span>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2c8be0e elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"2c8be0e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Tes_propres_peurs_et_insecurites_ressortent_et_te_creent_cette_indecision\"><\/span>Tes propres peurs et ins\u00e9curit\u00e9s ressortent et te cr\u00e9ent cette ind\u00e9cision<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-38e6414 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"38e6414\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0Le sch\u00e9ma d&rsquo;ind\u00e9cision \u00e0 selon mon exp\u00e9rience plusieurs causes:<\/span><b><\/b><\/p><ul><li aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Si dans ton enfance tu as eu ce sentiment qu&rsquo;on n&rsquo;a pas respect\u00e9 tes limites ou au contraire qu&rsquo;on t&rsquo;a toujours demand\u00e9 d&rsquo;aller au-del\u00e0 de tes limites <\/span><b>tu peux avoir une difficult\u00e9 \u00e0 savoir ce qui est bon ou mauvais pour toi et donc rester dans l&rsquo;ind\u00e9cision du choix.<\/b><\/li><\/ul><ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">L&rsquo;ind\u00e9cision peut-\u00eatre <\/span><b>un m\u00e9canisme de protection pour t&rsquo;\u00e9viter la souffrance li\u00e9e \u00e0 l&rsquo;intimit\u00e9<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. Si tu changes toujours de partenaire c&rsquo;est le meilleur moyen d&rsquo;\u00e9viter l&rsquo;intimit\u00e9 et la connexion.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tu peux aussi avoir <\/span><b>exp\u00e9riment\u00e9 de faire des mauvais choix<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> et l&rsquo;id\u00e9e de faire un nouveau choix peut te faire <\/span><b>peur de prendre la mauvaise d\u00e9cision<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> et te demander constamment si tu es avec la bonne personne si c&rsquo;est le bon moment pour rentrer en relation si c&rsquo;est le bon moment pour passer un cap dans l&rsquo;engagement \u2026<\/span><\/li><\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pour sortir de cette ind\u00e9cision-l\u00e0, faire un travail sur tes sch\u00e9mas amoureux t&rsquo;aidera \u00e0 soulager l&rsquo;enjeu de prendre des d\u00e9cisions\u00a0 et le coaching peut te donner processus de te poser les bonnes questions pour d\u00e9cider en minimisant ta prise de risque.\u00a0 c&rsquo;est ce que tu fais dans <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/souvrir-a-lamour\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">S&rsquo;ouvrir \u00e0 l&rsquo;amour<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-4b747fae elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"4b747fae\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-1478e3b2\" data-id=\"1478e3b2\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-3c1565d9 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"3c1565d9\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-5ebe4294\" data-id=\"5ebe4294\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d364198 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"d364198\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Pour_aller_plus_loin\"><\/span>Pour aller plus loin<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-47e0f740 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"47e0f740\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Si tu as envie d\u2019approfondir le sujet et d\u2019identifier tes propres sch\u00e9mas amoureux tu as <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/livre-souvrir-a-lamour-et-si-la-solution-se-trouvait-du-cote-du-nerf-vague\/\">mon livre <\/a><\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/livre-souvrir-a-lamour-et-si-la-solution-se-trouvait-du-cote-du-nerf-vague\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">S\u2019ouvrir \u00e0 l\u2019amour<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> disponible dans toutes les librairies.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-18710503 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"18710503\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-48ec740d\" data-id=\"48ec740d\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-51d91e6c elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"51d91e6c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Et si tu souhaites faire le travail de tes sch\u00e9mas amoureux par le corps et transformer ta vie amoureuse tu as le programme <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/souvrir-a-lamour\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">S\u2019ouvrir \u00e0 l\u2019amour.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1790e1b9 elementor-align-center elementor-mobile-align-center elementor-widget elementor-widget-global elementor-global-38034 elementor-widget-button\" data-id=\"1790e1b9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"button.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-button-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-button elementor-button-link elementor-size-md\" href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/souvrir-a-lamour\/\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-content-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-text\">S'ouvrir \u00e0 l'amour<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5ce66afa elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"5ce66afa\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-4846673f elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"4846673f\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container 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class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-2b0c4aa2 elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-min-height elementor-section-items-stretch elementor-section-content-middle elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"2b0c4aa2\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-4777e6d3\" data-id=\"4777e6d3\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-5bccdb0c elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"5bccdb0c\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div 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