{"id":1070477,"date":"2024-03-25T07:00:44","date_gmt":"2024-03-25T07:00:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/?p=1070477"},"modified":"2025-10-14T13:30:26","modified_gmt":"2025-10-14T13:30:26","slug":"109-rencontrer-quelquun-pourquoi-c-est-si-difficile","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/109-rencontrer-quelquun-pourquoi-c-est-si-difficile\/","title":{"rendered":"109.  Rencontrer quelqu\u2019un : pourquoi c\u2019est si difficile ?"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"1070477\" class=\"elementor elementor-1070477\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-7ed86594 elementor-section-content-top elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-min-height elementor-section-items-bottom elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"7ed86594\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-6ea7bd98\" data-id=\"6ea7bd98\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3d639127 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"3d639127\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-xl\">Rencontrer quelqu\u2019un : pourquoi c\u2019est si difficile ?<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-62d37295 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"62d37295\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-4e162bd6\" data-id=\"4e162bd6\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-376509b elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"376509b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tu as l\u2019impression de ne rencontrer personne qui te plait.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ou pour toi rencontrer quelqu\u2019un te parait une montagne<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ou enfin malgr\u00e9 tous tes efforts personne ne te montre un r\u00e9el int\u00e9r\u00eat<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dans cet \u00e9pisode je vais te lister les comportements qui peuvent te bloquer dans la rencontre amoureuse.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-693bb58 elementor-hidden-desktop elementor-hidden-tablet elementor-hidden-mobile elementor-widget elementor-widget-html\" data-id=\"693bb58\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"html.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<iframe name=\"Ausha Podcast Player\" frameborder=\"0\" loading=\"lazy\" id=\"ausha-Nypq\" height=\"220\" style=\"border: none; width:100%; height:220px\" src=\"https:\/\/player.ausha.co\/?showId=bjPkYiPMPlqo&color=%23d13523&podcastId=bW49dhjqaJ0J&v=3&playerId=ausha-Nypq\"><\/iframe><script src=\"https:\/\/player.ausha.co\/ausha-player.js\"><\/script>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b8d8830 elementor-widget elementor-widget-video\" data-id=\"b8d8830\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;youtube_url&quot;:&quot;https:\\\/\\\/youtu.be\\\/_3wgHmTKLgg&quot;,&quot;video_type&quot;:&quot;youtube&quot;,&quot;controls&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"video.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-wrapper elementor-open-inline\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-video\"><\/div>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6a49aba elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"6a49aba\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Lillusion_de_la_rarete\"><\/span>L\u2019illusion de la raret\u00e9<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3574bfe elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"3574bfe\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><b>Tu es persuad\u00e9e que rencontrer la bonne personne est rare<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0parce qu\u2019il faut trouver quelqu\u2019un qui te correspond, qui t\u2019attire physiquement et en plus il faut que vous soyez libres au m\u00eame moment tous les deux et ayez les m\u00eames projets de vie.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Et tu as m\u00eame des \u00ab\u00a0preuves\u00a0\u00bb \u00e0 l\u2019appui\u00a0:<\/span><\/p><ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Le nombre de belles rencontres que tu as faites dans ton pass\u00e9<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ton entourage de copines qui gal\u00e8rent elles aussi<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tu lis sur @martineveutpecho des accroches certes sympas mais qui elles te font penser que c\u2019est plut\u00f4t dur de rencontrer quelqu\u2019un.<\/span><\/li><\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">La raret\u00e9 n\u2019est que le reflet du biais de n\u00e9gativit\u00e9 de ton cerveau.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Voici un calcul statistique simple pour te le montrer\u00a0:<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Admettons, tu es une femme de 40 ans et habites Lausanne en Suisse dans le canton de Vaud et tu cherches un homme entre 40-49 ans max.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Si tu regardes les statistiques du canton de vaud il y a 17&rsquo;239 hommes de statut c\u00e9lib et 5&rsquo;669 hommes de statut divorc\u00e9s dans ce canton soit un total de 22&rsquo;908 hommes.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Admettons que tu es compatible avec seulement 5-10% d\u2019entre eux, tu as potentiellement entre 1&rsquo;145 et 2&rsquo;290 hommes qui peuvent te plaire.\u00a0 C\u2019est environ le nombre de places de l\u2019op\u00e9ra Garnier \u00e0 Paris. C\u2019est \u00e9norme\u00a0!<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ce qui te sabote le plus ce n\u2019est pas la raret\u00e9 mais la pens\u00e9e que c\u2019est rare de rencontrer quelqu\u2019un qui te correspond.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p><b>Car si tu penses que la rencontre est rare, tes actes vont s\u2019accorder \u00e0 cette pens\u00e9e et tu vas te dire \u00e0 quoi bon se donner la peine, \u00eatre r\u00e9guli\u00e8re sur les applis, sortir pour \u00e9largir mon cercle d\u2019amis si de toute fa\u00e7on je pense rencontrer personne\u00a0?<\/b><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-4b747fae elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"4b747fae\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-1478e3b2\" data-id=\"1478e3b2\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-4fa4c09b elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"4fa4c09b\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-418898d7\" data-id=\"418898d7\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4dc2b12 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"4dc2b12\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Et_si_ce_sont_tes_criteres_de_selection_qui_tauto-sabotent\"><\/span>Et si ce sont tes crit\u00e8res de s\u00e9lection qui t\u2019auto-sabotent ?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-633dc5e6 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"633dc5e6\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><b>Si tes crit\u00e8res ou attentes en relation sont<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> irr\u00e9alistes (tu peux \u00e9couter <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/51-ai-je-des-attentes-realistes\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">l\u2019\u00e9pisode 51<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> sur les crit\u00e8res qui font que tu peux avoir des attentes irr\u00e9alistes), <\/span><b>une personne qui remplit tous ces crit\u00e8res peut te sembler impossible et te donner cette impression de raret\u00e9<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. J\u2019appelle ce ph\u00e9nom\u00e8ne chercher une licorne.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Dans S\u2019ouvrir \u00e0 l\u2019amour je challenge les crit\u00e8res de choix de chaque participante pour les aider \u00e0 identifier leurs contradictions, ce qui n\u2019est pas clair dans leurs choix et aussi prioriser ce qui est le plus important en les coachant.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b20c7cd elementor-align-center elementor-widget elementor-widget-button\" data-id=\"b20c7cd\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"button.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-button-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-button elementor-button-link elementor-size-sm\" href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/souvrir-a-lamour\/\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-content-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-text\">S'ouvrir \u00e0 l'amour<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-63fd0d5 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"63fd0d5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Pour cet \u00e9pisode je t\u2019invite \u00e0 te poser les questions suivantes\u00a0:<\/span><\/p><ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Quel est le crit\u00e8re qui selon toi r\u00e9duit le plus ton choix\u00a0(taille, revenu, physique, \u00e2ge..)\u00a0?<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Demande-toi pourquoi ce crit\u00e8re est important pour toi et quelle serait ta marge de man\u0153uvre\u00a0?<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Challenge avec curiosit\u00e9 tes crit\u00e8res en cherchant des exemples en dehors de ta marge de man\u0153uvre et regarde si certaines personnes en dehors de cette marge de man\u0153uvre te plaisent quand m\u00eame et si oui pourquoi\u00a0? Par exemple pour les crit\u00e8res physiques semblent souvent inchangeables surtout le crit\u00e8re de la taille (ps j\u2019invite toujours les participantes \u00e0 ne pas mettre des crit\u00e8res physiques pr\u00e9cis car apr\u00e8s plusieurs ann\u00e9es de relation ces crit\u00e8res disparaissent et c\u2019est plus le charisme de la personne et comment elle te fait sentir qui compte)\u00a0: si tu te dis cet homme il doit \u00eatre plus grand que moi avec des talons et faire plus de 1m75 absolument, regarde si tu voies des hommes qui te plaisent qui font moins que cette taille, si oui qu\u2019ont-ils d\u2019autres\u00a0?\u00a0<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">En te faisant cette r\u00e9flexion tu vas voir quels sont les crit\u00e8res plus importants que toi et cela t\u2019aidera \u00e0 prendre la bonne d\u00e9cision pour ton partenaire car tu choisis au final toujours un package.<\/span><\/li><\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b3e7f26 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"b3e7f26\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Est-ce_que_tu_te_donnes_vraiment_les_moyens\"><\/span>Est-ce que tu te donnes vraiment les moyens ?\n\n<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-257e850 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"257e850\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<b>Si ton motto est \u00ab\u00a0cela arrivera quand cela arrivera\u00a0\u00bb c\u2019est normal qu\u2019une rencontre soit difficile.<\/b>\n\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Une fois rentr\u00e9e dans la vie active, \u00e9largir son cercle social demande un effort conscient de ta part\u00a0:<\/span>\n<ul>\n \t<li aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><b>Est-ce que tu sors\u00a0?<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Si tu sors, es-tu toujours avec le m\u00eame cercle d\u2019ami et \u00eates-vous dans une dynamique pour parler\/\u00e9changer avec d\u2019autres personnes\u00a0? Est-ce que toi tu es dans une dynamique pour aller vers les autres ou tu attends que cela te tombe dessus\u00a0?\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n \t<li aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Est- ce que tu es inscrit(e) sur des sites de rencontre et <\/span><b>investis r\u00e9guli\u00e8rement du temps avec le bon \u00e9tat d\u2019esprit\u00a0?<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n \t<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><b>Est- ce que tu adresses les peurs que tu as sur l\u2019amour<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> ou tu attends que cela passe d\u2019elle-m\u00eame ?<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p class=\"has-background\" style=\"background-color: #eeeeee;\">\u2764\ufe0f Regarde <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/inscriptionblessurepasse\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">mon w\u00e9binaire <\/a><\/strong>sur comment \u00eatre enfin heureux\/se en Amour!<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6af9e0a elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"6af9e0a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Change_dattitude_et_ton_experience_des_rencontres_changera\"><\/span>Change d\u2019attitude et ton exp\u00e9rience des rencontres changera\n<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-1d0dd41f elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"1d0dd41f\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-51936026\" data-id=\"51936026\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f6098dc elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"f6098dc\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><b>Plus tu vas arr\u00eater de croire au sc\u00e9nario que ton cerveau te raconte au sujet de la rencontre, plus tu vas \u00eatre ok de challenger tes crit\u00e8res <\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">pour mieux conna\u00eetre ceux qui sont importants et plus tu vas te motiver \u00e0 te cr\u00e9er des opportunit\u00e9s plus la rencontre sera facile.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c0 cet effet je t\u2019invite \u00e0 \u00e9largir la rencontre \u00e0 de l\u2019\u00e9change entre \u00eatres humains.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Cela va <\/span><b>t\u2019enlever de la pression<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> pour faire une rencontre qui marche, plus tu vas rencontrer de personnes diff\u00e9rentes pour cela te donnera des exemples concrets pour challenger tes crit\u00e8res plus tu rencontres de personnes plus tu augmentes tes chances de rencontrer le bon. Aussi simple que \u00e7a. Ce qui est important pour ce test c\u2019est que ton intention reste l\u2019\u00e9change entre \u00eatres humains et pas de rencontrer le bon.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-54de8b7 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"54de8b7\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Si_malgre_tout_cela_tu_ne_rencontres_personne_dinteressant\"><\/span>Si malgr\u00e9 tout cela tu ne rencontres personne d\u2019int\u00e9ressant<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-bdfdfe6 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"bdfdfe6\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><b>Cela peut \u00eatre un sch\u00e9ma amoureux qui tient l\u2019amour \u00e0 distance<\/b><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">. J\u2019en parle plus dans ce w\u00e9binaire gratuit \u00ab Comment se lib\u00e9rer des sch\u00e9mas qui nous emp\u00eachent d\u2019\u00eatre heureuses en amour ? \u00bb.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-79be4662 elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"79be4662\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-no\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-1278ae19\" data-id=\"1278ae19\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-7f59b091 elementor-section-content-bottom elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"7f59b091\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-41088ce8\" data-id=\"41088ce8\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-45a67f13 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"45a67f13\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-319c04cf elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"319c04cf\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-6f99e27a\" data-id=\"6f99e27a\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6c48c3f3 elementor-invisible elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"6c48c3f3\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;_animation&quot;:&quot;fadeInLeft&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\">Pour toi<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-77614747 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"77614747\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"LE_WEBINAIRE_gratuit\"><\/span><span>LE W\u00c9BINAIRE gratuit<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4a24e03d elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"4a24e03d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"%22Comment_se_liberer_des_schemas_qui_nous_empechent_detre_heureuses_en_amour_%22\"><\/span><span><strong><em>\"Comment se lib\u00e9rer des sch\u00e9mas qui nous emp\u00eachent d'\u00eatre heureuses en amour ?\"<\/em><\/strong><span> <\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-840ccb0 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"840ccb0\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"color: #000000; 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Tu peux te d\u00e9sabonner \u00e0 tout moment. Merci de lire ma <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/politique-de-confidentialite\/\"> Politique de confidentialit\u00e9 <\/a> pour voir comment je traite les donn\u00e9es.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-740d6664 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"740d6664\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-60fd4f3f\" data-id=\"60fd4f3f\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1e81d415 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"1e81d415\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Pour_aller_plus_loin\"><\/span>Pour aller plus loin<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-39e2e2cb elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"39e2e2cb\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Si tu as envie d\u2019approfondir le sujet et d\u2019identifier tes propres sch\u00e9mas amoureux tu as <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/livre-souvrir-a-lamour-et-si-la-solution-se-trouvait-du-cote-du-nerf-vague\/\">mon livre <\/a><\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/livre-souvrir-a-lamour-et-si-la-solution-se-trouvait-du-cote-du-nerf-vague\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">S\u2019ouvrir \u00e0 l\u2019amour<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> disponible dans toutes les librairies.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-74755444 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"74755444\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-4034e831\" data-id=\"4034e831\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6c3d17d3 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"6c3d17d3\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Et si tu souhaites faire le travail de tes sch\u00e9mas amoureux par le corps et transformer ta vie amoureuse tu as le programme <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/souvrir-a-lamour\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">S\u2019ouvrir \u00e0 l\u2019amour.<\/span><\/a><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5fe94fab elementor-align-center elementor-mobile-align-center elementor-widget elementor-widget-global elementor-global-38034 elementor-widget-button\" data-id=\"5fe94fab\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"button.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-button-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-button elementor-button-link elementor-size-md\" href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/souvrir-a-lamour\/\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-content-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-text\">S'ouvrir \u00e0 l'amour<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ae12b49 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"ae12b49\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element 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