{"id":1067691,"date":"2023-05-07T07:31:32","date_gmt":"2023-05-07T07:31:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/?p=1067691"},"modified":"2025-10-14T15:13:40","modified_gmt":"2025-10-14T15:13:40","slug":"66-les-actes-versus-les-paroles","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/66-les-actes-versus-les-paroles\/","title":{"rendered":"66. Les actes versus les paroles"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"1067691\" class=\"elementor elementor-1067691\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-7ed86594 elementor-section-content-top elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-min-height elementor-section-items-bottom elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"7ed86594\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-6ea7bd98\" data-id=\"6ea7bd98\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3d639127 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"3d639127\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-xl\">Les actes versus les paroles<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-62d37295 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"62d37295\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-4e162bd6\" data-id=\"4e162bd6\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-376509b elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"376509b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tu \u00e9coutes l&rsquo;\u00e9pisode 66, les actes versus les paroles. Je commence une s\u00e9rie de trois \u00e9pisodes pour t&rsquo;aider \u00e0 distinguer quelle est ta part de responsabilit\u00e9 dans les r\u00e9sultats que tu as, dans ton interaction avec ton partenaire et quelle est la part de l&rsquo;autre ? Pourquoi c&rsquo;est important en fait de distinguer \u00e7a ?\u00a0<\/span>\n<p class=\"has-background\" style=\"background-color: #eeeeee;\">\u2764\ufe0f Regarde <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/inscriptionblessurepasse\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">mon w\u00e9binaire <\/a><\/strong>sur comment \u00eatre enfin heureux\/se en Amour!<\/p>\n \n\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Je vois trois grandes raisons\u00a0:<\/span>\n<ul>\n \t<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">La premi\u00e8re, c&rsquo;est que dans l&rsquo;interaction avec quelqu&rsquo;un, c&rsquo;est pas facile d&rsquo;arriver \u00e0 distinguer les deux. Quelle est la cons\u00e9quence finalement de mes comportements dans l&rsquo;interaction avec l&rsquo;autre et quelle est la partie qui revient vraiment \u00e0 l&rsquo;autre ?<\/span><\/li>\n \t<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Le deuxi\u00e8me, c&rsquo;est qu&rsquo;on a chacun une tendance, donc on peut avoir la tendance \u00e0 mettre tous les torts sur nous ou on peut avoir la tendance de mettre tous les torts sur l&rsquo;autre. Et dans les deux cas, ben ce n\u2019est pas quelque chose qui aide parce que souvent c\u2019est du 50\/50.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n \t<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">La troisi\u00e8me c\u2019est qu\u2019\u00eatre capable d&rsquo;assumer sa part de responsabilit\u00e9, \u00eatre capable d&rsquo;avoir cette capacit\u00e9 de r\u00e9flexion et de correction de ses propres erreurs cela instaure un climat de collaboration dans la relation, un climat o\u00f9 on pense plus en \u00e9quipe tout en acceptant les difficult\u00e9s, l&rsquo;imperfection de l&rsquo;autre. Parce qu\u2019on n&rsquo;est jamais parfait en relation, on apprend beaucoup par le biais de la relation. Et cet \u00e9tat d&rsquo;esprit de dire oui, je vois bien que tu n&rsquo;es pas que le responsable il y a aussi une partie de moi qui influence la dynamique de la relation permet de trouver beaucoup plus de solutions gagnant gagnant.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Donc voil\u00e0, c&rsquo;est pour \u00e7a que j&rsquo;ai voulu faire cette s\u00e9rie. Alors pour ce premier \u00e9pisode, j&rsquo;avais envie de parler des actes versus les paroles. L&rsquo;\u00e9pisode suivant, <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/67-securite-inte\u2026securite-externe\/\">le <\/a><\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/67-securite-inte\u2026securite-externe\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">67<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> va parler de la s\u00e9curit\u00e9 interne et externe et le dernier \u00e9pisode, <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/68-empathie-et-engagement\/\">le <\/a><\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/68-empathie-et-engagement\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">68<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> va parler de l&#8217;empathie et de l&rsquo;engagement. <\/span>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-38912f3 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"38912f3\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3f37f1c elementor-widget elementor-widget-video\" data-id=\"3f37f1c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;youtube_url&quot;:&quot;https:\\\/\\\/youtu.be\\\/m7uKR1_wjKQ?si=YLe5dBH_KFdYUzmz&quot;,&quot;video_type&quot;:&quot;youtube&quot;,&quot;controls&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"video.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-wrapper elementor-open-inline\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-video\"><\/div>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-693bb58 elementor-hidden-desktop elementor-hidden-tablet elementor-hidden-mobile elementor-widget elementor-widget-html\" data-id=\"693bb58\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"html.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<iframe name=\"Ausha Podcast Player\" frameborder=\"0\" loading=\"lazy\" id=\"ausha-K3hj\" height=\"220\" style=\"border: none; width:100%; height:220px\" src=\"https:\/\/player.ausha.co\/index.html?showId=bjPkYiPMPlqo&color=%23d13523&podcastId=BD4l3hwW4Y34&v=3&playerId=ausha-K3hj\"><\/iframe><script src=\"https:\/\/player.ausha.co\/ausha-player.js\"><\/script>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-29bd2bd elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"29bd2bd\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Donc le premier conseil que je donne toujours dans l&rsquo;\u00e9valuation d&rsquo;un partenaire, c&rsquo;est de se baser sur les actes de cette personne plut\u00f4t que sur ce qu&rsquo;elle dit. Et pourquoi je conseille \u00e7a ?\u00a0<\/span><\/p><ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Parce que d\u00e9j\u00e0 dans un premier temps, une personne dans les premiers rendez-vous, elle peut vouloir montrer une certaine image d&rsquo;elle et donc dire des choses qui ne sont pas raccord avec ce qu&rsquo;elle fait. \u00c7a peut \u00eatre quelqu&rsquo;un qui a vraiment de la facilit\u00e9 en termes de s\u00e9duction, qui conna\u00eet les codes de la s\u00e9duction, qui a envie de s\u00e9duire mais qui n&rsquo;a pas forc\u00e9ment envie d&rsquo;une vraie relation. \u00c7a peut \u00eatre quelqu&rsquo;un qui dit vouloir une histoire s\u00e9rieuse, mais au final ne cherche qu&rsquo;une aventure etc.\u00a0<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Le deuxi\u00e8me avantage en fait de se baser sur les faits, c&rsquo;est que tu peux tomber sur le cas d&rsquo;une personne qui est en contradiction int\u00e9rieure, c&rsquo;est \u00e0 dire qu&rsquo;elle peut vraiment honn\u00eatement vouloir quelque chose ou te dire qu&rsquo;elle veut par exemple une relation s\u00e9rieuse, mais ses actes montrent le contraire. Donc si je prends l&rsquo;exemple, une personne peut te dire moi j&rsquo;ai vraiment envie d&rsquo;une relation s\u00e9rieuse, mais en fait elle sort d&rsquo;une rupture et elle n&rsquo;est pas disponible, ni \u00e9motionnellement, ni en termes de temps. Ce deuxi\u00e8me cas de figure, il n\u2019est pas forc\u00e9ment conscient et intentionnel de la part de cette personne, mais c&rsquo;est aussi un frein pour commencer une relation avec une personne pr\u00eate \u00e0 s\u2019investir et \u00e0 s&rsquo;engager dans la relation.\u00a0<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Le troisi\u00e8me cas de figure, pourquoi c&rsquo;est aussi int\u00e9ressant de se baser sur les actes, c&rsquo;est que la personne en fait, elle peut \u00eatre non-align\u00e9e, elle peut se mentir \u00e0 elle-m\u00eame dans le sens o\u00f9 elle peut se penser \u00eatre respectueuse, elle peut se penser avoir cette valeur l\u00e0, mais en fait, la mani\u00e8re dont cette personne se comporte, et bien \u00e7a ne refl\u00e8te pas cette valeur de respect. Ce n\u2019est pas encore une fois conscient ou intentionnel, mais toi en fait, tu cherches \u00e0 choisir un partenaire qui vit ces valeurs et pas seulement un partenaire qui se dit avoir ces valeurs. Le fait de se baser sur les actes plut\u00f4t que sur ce que la personne dit va te permettre de d\u00e9m\u00ealer le vrai du faux et d&rsquo;\u00e9valuer les valeurs v\u00e9cues de l&rsquo;autre.\u00a0<\/span><\/li><\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Et en fait, ce conseil-l\u00e0, j&rsquo;aimerais que tu le retournes envers toi-m\u00eame, c&rsquo;est \u00e0 dire que tu te poses la question si ce que tu fais, ce que tu dis envers ton partenaire, c&rsquo;est vraiment en alignement avec ce que tu veux avec lui. Alors je vais te d\u00e9cliner plusieurs cas de figures\u00a0:\u00a0<\/span><\/p><ul><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Le premier si tu es int\u00e9ress\u00e9 par cette personne, si tu as envie de commencer une relation avec cette personne, est ce que tu le montres ? Est-ce que la personne comprend clairement que tu es int\u00e9ress\u00e9 ou est-ce que tu attends en fait que la personne se bouge elle seulement ?\u00a0<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Deuxi\u00e8me cas de figure si tu es d\u00e9j\u00e0 en relation avec quelqu\u2019un, est ce que tu as plut\u00f4t tendance \u00e0 cultiver l&rsquo;amour ou la peur dans ton couple ? J&rsquo;ai un \u00e9pisode plus d\u00e9taill\u00e9 <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/7-cultives-tu-lamour-ou-la-peur-dans-ton-couple\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">l&rsquo;\u00e9pisode sept<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u00e0 ce sujet, mais en gros est-ce que tu s\u00e8mes le doute dans ta relation, est-ce que tu cr\u00e9es de l&rsquo;ins\u00e9curit\u00e9 ou est-ce que tu le rassures sur le fait qu&rsquo;il est parfaitement adapt\u00e9 \u00e0 ce que tu recherches en amour ?\u00a0<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Le troisi\u00e8me point, c&rsquo;est plut\u00f4t dans tes actes. Si tu ne veux pas d&rsquo;une aventure et que l&rsquo;autre propose en fait que \u00e7a, est-ce que tes actions refl\u00e8tent ce que tu dis ou est-ce que tu continues l&rsquo;histoire malgr\u00e9 tout ? Tu peux approfondir ce sujet en \u00e9coutant <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/5-pourquoi-tu-nobtiens-pas-ce-que-tu-veux-en-amour\/\">l&rsquo;\u00e9pisode <\/a><\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/5-pourquoi-tu-nobtiens-pas-ce-que-tu-veux-en-amour\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">cinq<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> qui parle de justement pourquoi tu n\u2019obtiens pas de r\u00e9sultats en amour ?\u00a0<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Et le dernier point c&rsquo;est si tu t&rsquo;engages envers ton partenaire \u00e0 faire quelque chose, \u00e0 aller dans son sens, \u00e0 respecter un de ses besoins, une de ses limites, est-ce que tu le fais vraiment ? Est-ce que tu vas jusqu&rsquo;au bout de ta promesse. Ou si tu ne peux pas tenir ta promesse, comment tu agis envers ton partenaire ? Est-ce que tu l&rsquo;informes ? Est-ce que tu r\u00e9engages et tu tiens ton engagement ou pas ? Je t&rsquo;invite vraiment \u00e0 faire une \u00e9valuation r\u00e9elle de tes actes par rapport \u00e0 ce que tu dis que tu vas faire.\u00a0<\/span><\/li><\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Un bon moyen de voir comment l&rsquo;autre per\u00e7oit ce que tu fais, ce que tu dis par rapport \u00e0 ce que tu veux vraiment est de lui demander un feedback, de lui poser justement cette question est-ce que tu as l&rsquo;impression que quand je te dis quelque chose, je le fais ou est-ce que tu vois que des fois j&rsquo;ai des contradictions ? Comment est-ce que tu me vois toi ? Ce n&rsquo;est pas toujours facile de demander un feedback, mais \u00e7a te permettra vraiment de grandir beaucoup dans ta mani\u00e8re d&rsquo;\u00eatre en relation.\u00a0<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Personnellement, je pars toujours du principe qu&rsquo;avant d&rsquo;exiger quelque chose de l&rsquo;autre, et bien c&rsquo;est important de le pratiquer soi-m\u00eame vis \u00e0 vis de son partenaire.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Et finalement cet alignement, c&rsquo;est \u00e0 dire que ce qu&rsquo;on dit soit raccord avec ce qu&rsquo;on fait, c&rsquo;est une base fondamentale pour qu&rsquo;un couple s&rsquo;\u00e9panouisse, se construise, car cela cr\u00e9e un environnement de s\u00e9curit\u00e9, de confiance. Ainsi tu ad confiance que l&rsquo;autre est l\u00e0 pour toi. Tu crois la parole de l&rsquo;autre. Quand la personne dit oui, tu sais que c&rsquo;est un vrai oui. Quand la personne dit non, c&rsquo;est un vrai non. Et ce cadre l\u00e0, en fait, \u00e7a permet \u00e0 chacun des partenaires de de pouvoir s&rsquo;ouvrir avec plus d&rsquo;authenticit\u00e9 et de vuln\u00e9rabilit\u00e9 parce que chaque partenaire se sent en s\u00e9curit\u00e9. Alors j&rsquo;esp\u00e8re que cet \u00e9pisode t&rsquo;a plu et dans <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/67-securite-interne-versus-securite-externe\/\">le <\/a><\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/67-securite-interne-versus-securite-externe\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">prochain \u00e9pisode<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, on va parler de la s\u00e9curit\u00e9 interne et externe.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Bonne semaine.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9b339f7 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"9b339f7\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-4b747fae elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"4b747fae\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-1478e3b2\" data-id=\"1478e3b2\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-1b0a890b elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"1b0a890b\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-no\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-3b00f576\" data-id=\"3b00f576\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-44b1fa99 elementor-section-content-bottom elementor-hidden-mobile elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"44b1fa99\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-10d470f2\" data-id=\"10d470f2\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1c0ef47a elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"1c0ef47a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-4f972eac elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"4f972eac\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-301acc30\" data-id=\"301acc30\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5cba66bc elementor-invisible elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"5cba66bc\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;_animation&quot;:&quot;fadeInLeft&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\">Pour toi<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4aa03657 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"4aa03657\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><span>quizz offert<\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4c65634b elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"4c65634b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><span><strong><em>\"C\u00e9libataires : Pourquoi tu ne trouves pas l'amour?<\/em><\/strong><span> <\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3f9f06a1 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"3f9f06a1\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"color: #000000; font-size: 18px; letter-spacing: 1.1px;\">Enregistre-toi d\u00e8s maintenant \u00e0 ma newsletter et re\u00e7ois mon questionnaire gratuit.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-2500d558\" data-id=\"2500d558\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section 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Tu peux te d\u00e9sabonner \u00e0 tout moment. Merci de lire ma <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/politique-de-confidentialite\/\"> Politique de confidentialit\u00e9 <\/a> pour voir comment je traite les donn\u00e9es.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-43570ee elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"43570ee\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-4403e77a\" data-id=\"4403e77a\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-320b3895 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"320b3895\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">Pour aller plus loin<\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-39b5ced2 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"39b5ced2\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Si tu as envie d\u2019approfondir le sujet et d\u2019identifier tes propres sch\u00e9mas amoureux tu as <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/livre-souvrir-a-lamour-et-si-la-solution-se-trouvait-du-cote-du-nerf-vague\/\">mon livre <\/a><\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/livre-souvrir-a-lamour-et-si-la-solution-se-trouvait-du-cote-du-nerf-vague\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">S\u2019ouvrir \u00e0 l\u2019amour<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> disponible dans toutes les librairies.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-3aa08e02 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"3aa08e02\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-df49b91\" data-id=\"df49b91\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-24e0b9f0 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"24e0b9f0\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div><style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;<br \/>font-size: 34px;}<br \/>  <\/style><\/div><p><span style=\"font-size: 30px;\">Et enfin si tu es pr\u00eate \u00e0 t\u2019ouvrir \u00e0 l\u2019amour et \u00e0 transformer ta vie amoureuse je t\u2019invite \u00e0 rejoindre mon programme de coaching <\/span><a style=\"font-size: 30px; background-color: #ffffff;\" href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/souvrir-a-lamour\/\">S\u2019ouvrir \u00e0 l\u2019amour<\/a><span style=\"font-size: 30px;\">.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-20ad4 elementor-align-center elementor-mobile-align-center elementor-widget elementor-widget-global elementor-global-38034 elementor-widget-button\" data-id=\"20ad4\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"button.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-button-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-button elementor-button-link elementor-size-md\" href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/souvrir-a-lamour\/\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-content-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-text\">S'ouvrir \u00e0 l'amour<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-1efee2fa elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"1efee2fa\" 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data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-20 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-102cf14 elementor-sm-33\" data-id=\"102cf14\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1cc36f72 elementor-view-default elementor-widget elementor-widget-icon\" data-id=\"1cc36f72\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"icon.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-icon-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-icon\" href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sandykaufmanncoaching\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\n\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fab 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elementor-widget elementor-widget-icon\" data-id=\"7152f8aa\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"icon.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-icon-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-icon\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/sandykaufmann_lovecoach\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\n\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fab fa-instagram\"><\/i>\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2bf3ec34 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"2bf3ec34\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/sandykaufmann_lovecoach\/\" target=\"_blank\" 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