{"id":28035,"date":"2020-07-29T12:56:56","date_gmt":"2020-07-29T12:56:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/where-can-i-find-the-right-partner\/"},"modified":"2023-01-25T19:31:59","modified_gmt":"2023-01-25T19:31:59","slug":"where-can-i-find-the-right-partner","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/en\/where-can-i-find-the-right-partner\/","title":{"rendered":"Where can I find the right partner?"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"28035\" class=\"elementor elementor-28035 elementor-7423\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-5e202982 elementor-section-content-top elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-min-height elementor-section-items-bottom elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"5e202982\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-7a205d46\" data-id=\"7a205d46\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2ff07eaa elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"2ff07eaa\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h1 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-xl\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Where_can_I_find_the_right_partner\"><\/span>Where can I find the right partner?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h1>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-1a912808 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"1a912808\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-749528a7\" data-id=\"749528a7\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4a3319f5 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4a3319f5\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div><style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;<br \/>\nfont-size: 34px;}<br \/>\n  <\/style><\/div>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>You have been single for quite some time now and are reluctant to signing up on dating sites because you often hear negative results; it&#8217;s just for sex and nothing really serious?<\/p>\n<p>Then I&#8217;m inviting you to read this article, because finding the right partner is a question of inner positioning, and moreover a question of statistics.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"A_question_of_inner_positioning\"><\/span>A question of inner positioning<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>In order to meet the right partner you need to be clear about the essential qualities he or she must have so that your two lives can fit together easily.<\/p>\n<p>Often you figure out what you don&#8217;t want anymore, but this does not clearly define what you do want.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ll give you an example: if you no longer want someone who is introverted, and you&#8217;d prefer someone who is sociable and sees his friends once a week, or would you see yourself with someone socially busy that never has time for you?<\/p>\n<p>Taking the time to define not only the partner you want, but also the relationship you want, is key to finding the right partner.<\/p>\n<p>You can question yourself on how you particularly see life together, if you want to live with him, what kind of activities you want to do alone or in his company for example.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>If you like activities, would you like to play sports or exercise with your partner or would you prefer to play alone because you&#8217;re member of a sports association and prefer to train at a high level?<\/li>\n<li>If you have a large family, do you need to see your family often or are you willing to eat at your in-laws&#8217; house every week?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Take the time to clearly define the type of partner you are looking for, the values they need to have and what they should like to be compatible with your way of life WITHOUT having to change them, because trying to fundamentally change the other person is delusional.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"But_its_mainly_a_question_of_statistics\"><\/span>But it&#8217;s mainly a question of statistics<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>When you have a clear vision of what you are looking for in a partner and as a relationship, you will easily understand that there is only a small percentage of men who can really match with you.<\/p>\n<p>This is where dating sites can give you an easier access to that percentage of ideal men, simply because you have access to a greater number of single men.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Be_careful_however_when_using_the_Internet\"><\/span>Be careful, however, when using the Internet<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Of course, dating sites can offer you possibilities in finding your partner more easily in just a few clicks, but also give you the option to eliminate certain people on the basis of objective criteria (for example if you absolutely want someone who has never been married or has no children) or on the basis of subjective criteria such as I didn&#8217;t like his photo or profile description.<\/p>\n<p>However, their profile will not speak truly about the qualities you are looking for.<\/p>\n<p>What&#8217;s that all about?<\/p>\n<p>Because you will only know if this person has the qualities you are looking for once you meet them in person and observe their behaviour, especially with their relatives.<\/p>\n<p>Avoid judging a person only by the way they behave with you, because they could be in a seduction phase and therefore try to show themselves in their best light with you, whereas with their relatives they&#8217;d act more naturally.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_solution_for_finding_the_right_partner\"><\/span>The solution for finding the right partner<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>The solution is simple: meet the profiles you like whenever you can without necessarily committing to more.<\/p>\n<p>You can get to know them by watching how they behave in real life with people they will be interacting with, for example the waiter or waitress in a restaurant and, if you get the chance, with his or her friends.<\/p>\n<p>If you carefully pay attention you&#8217;d be surprised on how much you can learn about someone just by observing their behaviour.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"And_its_not_a_waste_of_time\"><\/span>And it&#8217;s not a waste of time.<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Meeting several potential partners will help you have an even clearer vision of the partner you are looking for, as you meet more and more potential partners you could realise there are other standards that could also be important to you and that would show you it&#8217;s not a waste of time.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"If_you_want_to_go_further\"><\/span>If you want to go further<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Of course, it&#8217;s not only the definition of your ideal partner that is important to be able to open yourself up to love again and meet the right partner. It is also important to understand what love patterns you may be repeating, the wounds you have in love from past relationships, to avoid repeating them.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-fdad45d elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"fdad45d\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-no\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-58d36a5\" data-id=\"58d36a5\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-b0d31f3 elementor-section-content-bottom elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"b0d31f3\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-3e1aa75\" data-id=\"3e1aa75\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ee3179d elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"ee3179d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-e36e00a elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"e36e00a\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-02468df\" data-id=\"02468df\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c772a12 elementor-invisible elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"c772a12\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;_animation&quot;:&quot;fadeInLeft&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\">For you\u200b<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c0015a1 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"c0015a1\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Webinar_How_a_wound_from_the_past_is_created\"><\/span><span class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large elementor-inline-editing pen\" data-elementor-setting-key=\"title\" data-pen-placeholder=\"\u00c9crivez ici...\" style=\"font-variant-caps: normal; font-style: normal;\">Webinar How a wound from the past is created? 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