{"id":28013,"date":"2020-07-29T12:13:59","date_gmt":"2020-07-29T12:13:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/why-do-men-run-away-from-me\/"},"modified":"2023-10-25T19:15:34","modified_gmt":"2023-10-25T19:15:34","slug":"why-do-men-run-away-from-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/en\/why-do-men-run-away-from-me\/","title":{"rendered":"Why do men run away from me?"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"28013\" class=\"elementor elementor-28013 elementor-7527\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-inner\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-section-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-722366fb elementor-section-content-top elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-min-height elementor-section-items-bottom elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"722366fb\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-row\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-627b6d4b\" data-id=\"627b6d4b\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-91d64fa elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"91d64fa\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t<h1 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-xl\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Why_do_men_run_away_from_me\"><\/span>Why do men run away from me?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h1>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4ec44e9f elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4ec44e9f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-text-editor elementor-clearfix\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-658f97ed elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"658f97ed\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-row\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-25eda69a\" data-id=\"25eda69a\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4109f4f elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4109f4f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-text-editor elementor-clearfix\">\n\t\t\t\t<div><style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;<br \/>font-size: 34px;}<br \/>  <\/style><\/div>\nYou just met a new partner. At first, he is super attentive, on a regular basis and suddenly he becomes less available, or even disappears completely.\n\nAnd since it&#8217;s not the first time this happens to you, you might start wondering why are you scaring men away?\n\n<img decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-9312\" src=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/10\/hommes-me-fuient.jpg\" alt=\"pourquoi les hommes me fuient\" width=\"300\" height=\"204\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6d3dd80 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"6d3dd80\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-text-editor elementor-clearfix\">\n\t\t\t\t<div><style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;<br \/>font-size: 34px;}<br \/>  <\/style><\/div>\n<p><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Several_possible_cases_to_explain_why_men_run_away_from_me\"><\/span>Several possible cases to explain why men run away from me<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>A man running away from you isn&#8217;t necessarily a bad sign:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Maybe he just wanted a fling, and since he didn&#8217;t get what he wanted with you, he&#8217;s looking for someone else.<\/li>\n<li>He realised that you were not compatible in terms of lifestyle or personality and he also has the right to change his mind.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>In either cases you don&#8217;t need to question yourself. This is a normal process, at the beginning of a relationship each partner evaluates what he wants from the relationship and whether he wants to deepen it and take it to the next stage.<\/p>\n<p>But these cases often represent the minority of situations.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_most_common_explanation\"><\/span>The most common explanation<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>The main issue with the clients I receive in coaching is that they scare men away because they don&#8217;t take their role as the builder of the couple and give the man no clear framework for him to feel that he knows how to make her happy.<\/p>\n<p>And without a clear framework, men run away.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Become_the_architect_of_your_future_couple\"><\/span>Become the architect of your future couple<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><strong>A man doesn&#8217;t like failure. It&#8217;s the worst thing that can happen to him.<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p>And in love it&#8217;s sometimes hard for him to know what success is. That&#8217;s why he needs to know what the woman needs, so he can define his couple as a success.\u00a0<strong>The woman must learn to express her needs clearly<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Because men sincerely want to make their wives happy and fulfill their demands. (There are also physiological reasons for this and I explain this in my <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/en\/individualcoaching\/\">individual coaching<\/a>).<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Same_cause\"><\/span>Same cause<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>If you have some difficulties in fulfilling this role, it&#8217;s often because you have a past wound related to a female role in your life.<\/p>\n<p>You may be rejecting your first female role model, your mother, or you may be repeating her role model in spite of yourself.<\/p>\n<p>To help you think about this, ask yourself the following questions:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><em>How was my mom in her relationships? <\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>Were her needs heard?<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>Did my mother come close to my ideal woman?<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>It may also be because of a bad experience in your past where being a woman was a disadvantage compared to being a man, for example:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>As a teenager, 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