{"id":27653,"date":"2020-07-28T14:25:01","date_gmt":"2020-07-28T14:25:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/i-left-my-partner-and-i-want-my-ex-back\/"},"modified":"2025-10-05T03:05:33","modified_gmt":"2025-10-05T03:05:33","slug":"i-left-my-partner-and-i-want-my-ex-back","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/en\/i-left-my-partner-and-i-want-my-ex-back\/","title":{"rendered":"I left my partner and I want my ex back."},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"27653\" class=\"elementor elementor-27653 elementor-7567\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-308c884b elementor-section-content-top elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-min-height elementor-section-items-bottom elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"308c884b\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-177b916c\" data-id=\"177b916c\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1b213767 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"1b213767\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h1 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-xl\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"I_left_my_partner_and_I_want_my_ex_back\"><\/span>I left my partner and I want my ex back.<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h1>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-31a753f1 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"31a753f1\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-5064bac1\" data-id=\"5064bac1\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5b7e0ba9 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"5b7e0ba9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div><style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;<br \/>font-size: 34px;}<br \/>  <\/style><\/div>\n<p><\/p>\n<p>You made a decision to part with your partner and you regret your decision.<\/p>\n<p>So before you do anything, read this article.<\/p>\n<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-9298\" src=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/comment-r\u00e9cup\u00e9rer-mon-ex-300x214.jpg\" alt=\"comment r\u00e9cup\u00e9rer mon ex\" width=\"300\" height=\"214\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/comment-r\u00e9cup\u00e9rer-mon-ex-300x214.jpg 300w, https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/06\/comment-r\u00e9cup\u00e9rer-mon-ex.jpg 500w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Understand_my_real_motivations_before_I_get_my_ex_back\"><\/span>Understand my real motivations before I get my ex back.<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>When you separate from someone, whether you want to or not, you find yourself alone and don&#8217;t know if you&#8217;re going to meet someone new soon.<\/p>\n<p>If you fear being alone or not meeting someone else, it can completely obscure your mind from the &#8220;right reasons&#8221; why you left that person and you could regret your decision.<\/p>\n<p>This is a normal reaction of your reptilian brain towards the unknown, as it will prefer what it knows, even if it is less good for you.<\/p>\n<p>To counteract this, you can do the 2 following things:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Re-list all the reasons why you left that person.<\/strong> and read that list again whenever you doubt your decision.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Reassuring your reptilian brain<\/strong> about how you&#8217;re not going to end up alone:\n<ul>\n<li>If you&#8217;re more <strong>rational<\/strong>, you can, for example, look at the statistics of single men in your age category within your city.<\/li>\n<li>If you&#8217;re more<strong> emotional<\/strong>, look at girls your age, who look like you and settled down happily married now. Here, it is important to find a case in which you believe, and you don&#8217;t see any other girl as being &#8220;superior&#8221; to you and that you think her boyfriend is good, so that your reptilian brain believes that and thanks to this example you may also have your chances.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Take_some_time_to_think_about_it\"><\/span>Take some time to think about it<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>If, despite everything, you find that you really want to get back together with your ex because you still love him or her, and not out of fear of being alone, the first thing to do is to understand your reaction mechanisms:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><em>Did you leave your partner because you were afraid of getting hurt?<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>Are you leaving your partner because it&#8217;s too difficult for you to face conflict?<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>Did you leave your partner because being in a couple means sacrificing your needs for the other one?<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Because going back to your ex WITHOUT understanding and changing your partner&#8217;s reaction mechanisms will make you repeat the same scenarios.<\/p>\n<p>Check out my free webinar to understand how a past trauma can create a reaction pattern.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-f427a86 elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"f427a86\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-no\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-76fab01\" data-id=\"76fab01\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-3bf859e elementor-section-content-bottom elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"3bf859e\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-0f33163\" data-id=\"0f33163\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ded7808 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"ded7808\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-f0c074b elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"f0c074b\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-45daeb0\" data-id=\"45daeb0\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-ad8111e elementor-invisible elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"ad8111e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;_animation&quot;:&quot;fadeInLeft&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\">For you\u200b<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e9e3841 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"e9e3841\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Webinar_How_a_wound_from_the_past_is_created\"><\/span><span>Webinar How a wound from the past is created? <\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3309e07 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"3309e07\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Subscribe now to my newsletter and receive the replay of the webinar how a wound from the past is created ?\u00a0<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-612409b\" data-id=\"612409b\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-794df91c elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"794df91c\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-41d24238\" data-id=\"41d24238\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3954ace3 elementor-widget elementor-widget-shortcode\" data-id=\"3954ace3\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"shortcode.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-shortcode\"><script src=https:\/\/sandy-kaufmann.mykajabi.com\/forms\/2149274867\/embed.js><\/script><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-4b8e3edd elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"4b8e3edd\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-3e399669\" data-id=\"3e399669\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-17637db7 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"17637db7\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>* Mandatory fields<\/p><p>If you register for this webinar, you will be subscribed to my newsletter and you will be able to receive offers from me. You can unsubscribe at any time. Please read my<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/datenschutzbestimmungen\/\">privacy policy (german only)<\/a>, to see how I process the data.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-7a8f2c73 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"7a8f2c73\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-46ed1841\" data-id=\"46ed1841\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-56506abf elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"56506abf\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>If you want to take this to the next stage, you can follow my online program <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/en\/opening-up-to-love\/\">Open to Love<\/a> designed to help you do this work of reflection by identifying in 4 weeks your love patterns and their origins from your past.<\/p>\n<p>After this deep reflection, ask yourself if you still want to go back to your ex-partner and if yes, you can go to the next step.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Returning_to_a_previous_partner_sincerely_and_accepting_the_necessary_time_for_healing\"><\/span>Returning to a previous partner sincerely and accepting the necessary time for healing<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>The next step is to sincerely communicate your inner reflection to your ex-partner and tell him or her that you still love him or her and that you want to start a relationship with him or her again.<\/p>\n<p>Your ex-partner may be hurt and may need time to make up their mind or forgive you.<\/p>\n<p>Giving them this time without any rush is the best thing you can do.<\/p>\n<p>Try to meet more people, as if you&#8217;ve just met a new person, without waiting for it to start all over again.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Think_of_this_return_as_a_new_relationship\"><\/span>Think of this return as a new relationship<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>The key to making it really work is to have understood the mistakes you have made and consciously decide to act differently. (And have your partner do the same, because mistakes are rarely 100% one-sided).<\/p>\n<p>This is more difficult when you&#8217;ve already formed habits with someone.<\/p>\n<p>To help you in this process, I suggest that you write down every day\/week all the actions you have done that shows this change.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-6e8d7351 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"6e8d7351\" data-element_type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-7f607ef7\" data-id=\"7f607ef7\" data-element_type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap 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