{"id":27366,"date":"2024-12-09T12:00:53","date_gmt":"2024-12-09T12:00:53","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/celibacy-is-not-a-state-of-want\/"},"modified":"2026-09-24T14:41:29","modified_gmt":"2026-09-24T14:41:29","slug":"144-being-single-is-not-a-state-of-lack","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/en\/144-being-single-is-not-a-state-of-lack\/","title":{"rendered":"144. Being single Is Not a State of Lack"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"27366\" class=\"elementor elementor-27366 elementor-9407\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-525528d6 elementor-section-content-top elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-min-height elementor-section-items-bottom elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"525528d6\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-3dd73755\" data-id=\"3dd73755\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2cf677de elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"2cf677de\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-xl\">Being single Is Not <br>a State of Lack<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-35bdebd7 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"35bdebd7\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-29baab3d\" data-id=\"29baab3d\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-094106a elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"094106a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You have the impression that <strong>society classifies being single as a temporary &#8220;incomplete&#8221; state<\/strong> while waiting for you to be in a relationship, and this weighs on you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Or perhaps <strong>you suffer from being single<\/strong> and would like to <strong>live your celibacy better<\/strong>. Or finally, you love your celibacy and at the same time miss being in a relationship. In eight years of coaching I can reassure you that this is a completely normal feeling.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This episode aims to <strong>break down this sense of lack that you may feel in your celibacy<\/strong> and show you how to live it better.<\/span><\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3c77aeb elementor-hidden-desktop elementor-hidden-tablet elementor-hidden-mobile elementor-widget elementor-widget-shortcode\" data-id=\"3c77aeb\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"shortcode.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-shortcode\"><iframe name=\"Ausha Podcast Player\" frameborder=\"0\" loading=\"lazy\" id=\"ausha-frDl\" height=\"220\" style=\"border: none; width:100%; height:220px\" src=\"https:\/\/player.ausha.co\/?showId=bjPkYiPMPlqo&color=%23d13523&podcastId=y84lzhGrY7Zm&v=3&playerId=ausha-frDl\"><\/iframe><script src=\"https:\/\/player.ausha.co\/ausha-player.js\"><\/script>\n<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-632a95c elementor-widget elementor-widget-video\" data-id=\"632a95c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;youtube_url&quot;:&quot;https:\\\/\\\/youtu.be\\\/66WsMJj30B0&quot;,&quot;video_type&quot;:&quot;youtube&quot;,&quot;controls&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"video.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-wrapper elementor-open-inline\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-video\"><\/div>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-35eb504d elementor-widget__width-initial elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"35eb504d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Free_Yourself_from_the_injonction_to_Be_in_a_Couple\"><\/span>Free Yourself from the injonction to Be in a Couple<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The first source of the lack you may feel can come from <strong>the societal influence that still doesn&#8217;t place couples and single people on equal footing<\/strong>. It&#8217;s as if being single were not a chosen state but an endured, temporary one while waiting to enter a relationship.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>If you are single and wish to be in a relationship, there is also a whole series of injunctions that make you feel the problem comes from you<\/strong> \u2014 that you are too demanding, too complicated, too much of this, too much of that&#8230; I go into more detail on this with the real single woman in <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/43-la-celibataire-la-vraie-les-injonctions-faites-aux-celibataires\/\">episode 43<\/a>. Remember here that your self-questioning only concerns the 50% you bring to a relationship, and the other person is always co-responsible for the success or failure of a relationship.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And finally there is <strong>family pressure<\/strong>, or pressure from those close to you to settle down and be in a couple while you&#8217;re already suffering from your celibacy. <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/46-bien-gerer-la-pression-des-fetes-en-tant-que-celibataire\/\">I share my advice on managing this pressure in episode 46<\/a>.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The common thread in all of this is that these are injunctions \u2014 labels that dictate what you must be or do to conform to others&#8217; expectations.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The problem here isn&#8217;t whether you wish to be single or in a couple, but the <strong>effect of these injunctions on your well-being and the feeling that something is &#8220;missing&#8221;.<\/strong><\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">To become aware of this influence, you can note the moments when you suffer from being single and ask yourself what happened just before: what you read, what you saw, what was said to you. You&#8217;d be surprised how much of a sponge you are for what you expose yourself to!<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">My advice in this case: <strong>limit your exposure time to these injunctions<\/strong>; this can mean consciously choosing the accounts you read and follow on social media, avoiding women&#8217;s magazines for a while, choosing your friends carefully, and choosing which conversations on the subject you agree to tolerate.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Even if you work on your mindset and learn to detach yourself from others&#8217; opinions, there is a limit to the detachment you can achieve given your level of exposure to these injunctions.<\/span><\/p><p class=\"has-background\" style=\"background-color: #eeeeee;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"emoji\" role=\"img\" draggable=\"false\" src=\"https:\/\/s.w.org\/images\/core\/emoji\/17.0.2\/svg\/2764.svg\" alt=\"\u2764\ufe0f\" \/> Watch <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/en\/registrationpastwounds\/\">my webinar<\/a><\/strong> on how to finally be happy in Love!<\/span><\/p><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"You_Can_Love_Your_Celibacy_and_Still_Need_Affection\"><\/span>You Can Love Your Celibacy and Still Need Affection<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The second source of this lack is <strong>the natural need to receive affection and relate to others<\/strong>. You are a social animal, and feeling loved is an essential need for the survival of every human being.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The lack is often created <strong>when you think the ONLY way to meet this need is through a romantic relationship<\/strong>, when this need can also be met by taking time to deepen your existing relationships.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This doesn&#8217;t mean it&#8217;s &#8220;bad&#8221; to want to be in a couple, or that your other relationships can fully meet this need \u2014 simply that you have other options to meet this lack, so it weighs less on you.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Finally, I invite you to see <strong>&#8220;the lack that remains&#8221; as an emotion conveying the message of what matters to you in life<\/strong>.<\/span><\/p><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"A_Couple_Will_Not_Make_You_Happier\"><\/span>A Couple Will Not Make You Happier<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The last source of lack often comes from the feeling that <strong>your happiness will only start once you reach the goal, that is, when you are in a couple<\/strong>.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&#8220;If I were in a couple, I could finally start a family, or buy my dream apartment, or travel around the world.&#8221; Unfortunately, I hear this sentence far too often.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&#8217;s not because you haven&#8217;t found your &#8220;other half&#8221; that you are incomplete, or that you must put your life on hold.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&#8217;s dangerous to think that once you&#8217;ve met the love of your life, your life will be complete.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Why?<\/span><\/p><ul><li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Because you delegate your happiness outside of yourself \u2014 to the relationship \u2014 instead of trying to be happy with yourself and in your life.<\/span><\/li><li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Because if you don&#8217;t know what makes you happy outside the relationship, you&#8217;ll tend to forget it within the relationship, which guarantees this relationship&#8217;s failure in the long run.<\/span><\/li><li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Because <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/la-dette-relationnelle-ou-comment-avoir-des-relations-equilibrees-avec-les-autres\/\">this unconsciously puts a certain pressure on your future encounter<\/a>.<\/span><\/li><\/ul><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For me, a happy couple is two independent people, happy in their own lives, who have decided to enjoy a cherry on top called couple life. Couple life isn&#8217;t the cake, just the cherry.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>So how can you savor your celibacy more<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-1e6628e elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"1e6628e\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-beec5a6\" data-id=\"beec5a6\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-dd793ef elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"dd793ef\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div><style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;<br \/>font-size: 34px;}<br \/>    h3 {color: #7A7A7A;<br \/>font-size: 34px;}<br \/>  <\/style><\/div>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Build_the_Life_of_Your_Dreams_Starting_Now\"><\/span><span class=\"\" lang=\"FR-CH\">Build the Life of Your Dreams Starting Now<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">No need to wait for THE One to build the life of your dreams \u2014 on the contrary, build the life of your dreams and your dream man or woman will come and fit into it:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you were waiting to be in a couple to visit certain countries, go there \u2014 you might meet them there.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you want to become a homeowner, buy something within your budget \u2014 you can always resell it later.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you want children, it&#8217;s your right to wait for the right person to have them with, but you can already exercise your mothering talents by babysitting your friends&#8217; children, becoming a godmother, or supporting children through sponsorship.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">To this end, ask yourself: if you were to meet the love of your life in only 3 years, what would you change in your life starting now?<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Become_the_Man_or_Woman_of_Your_Life\"><\/span>Become the Man or Woman of Your Life<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As <a href=\"https:\/\/www.cestdecidejemepouse.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Nathalie Lefebvre<\/a> puts it so well in her book &#8220;I decided to marry myself,&#8221; take advantage of this celibacy to learn to know yourself, appreciate yourself, and set off on a journey of self-discovery.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We often define ourselves based on what others think of us, particularly what our family and parents think. Being single is the best time to discover yourself and explore what you&#8217;re passionate about by experimenting with what you like or dislike, because you are completely free of constraints.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It&#8217;s a way of showing that you are committed to yourself, to your own happiness.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"See_the_Good_Side_of_being_single\"><\/span>See the Good Side of being single<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There are plenty of good sides to celibacy. I am a mother, but personally happy to have started my family at only 37, because I was able to do many things beforehand that would be difficult for me now \u2014 such as traveling for a long time, living in an <a href=\"https:\/\/fr.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Mata_Amritanandamayi\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">ashram<\/a>, training for a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sierre-zinal.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">mountain race<\/a>, moving abroad, and resuming certain studies. If you doubt the good side of being single, ask your friends who have been in couples for a long time, and I&#8217;m sure they&#8217;ll find plenty of advantages to be single for you.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Celibacy_Is_the_Stage_That_Allows_You_to_Be_Happy_in_a_Couple\"><\/span>Celibacy Is the Stage That Allows You to Be Happy in a Couple<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Here are some reasons why living your celibacy well matters so much for being happy in your couple afterward:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The more you appreciate your single life, the clearer you&#8217;ll be about what you like, what you don&#8217;t like, what you want, what you don&#8217;t want.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The more you appreciate your single life, the less ready you&#8217;ll be to accept just anyone, under any conditions, to be in a couple.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The more you appreciate your single life, the more you&#8217;ll be able to be in a couple without losing yourself.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The more you appreciate your single life, the more you&#8217;ll increase your chances of meeting someone \u2014 because there is nothing sexier than someone flourishing in their life.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The more you appreciate your single life, the less you&#8217;ll hand over the responsibility for your happiness to the relationship.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Which_Doesnt_Mean_You_Do_Nothing_for_Your_Future_Couple\"><\/span>Which Doesn&#8217;t Mean You Do Nothing for Your Future Couple<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can appreciate your single life and, at the same time, invest in your future couple.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you don&#8217;t experience celibacy as a state of lack, you&#8217;ll simply feel relaxed about how long it takes.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This doesn&#8217;t mean you should do nothing:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can start relationship coaching to identify, understand and change the <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/quest-ce-quun-schema-amoureux\/\">love patterns<\/a> that keep you from meeting the right person<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can take time to get to know people without putting pressure on yourself<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">You can dedicate enough time to meeting someone, because your partner isn&#8217;t going to come looking for you at home.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element 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elementor-element elementor-element-4d1d5b52 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"4d1d5b52\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-5c6d1385\" data-id=\"5c6d1385\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-339e3bce elementor-invisible elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"339e3bce\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;_animation&quot;:&quot;fadeInLeft&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\">For you<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-31accd0a elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"31accd0a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"FREE_Webinar_%22HOW_TO_FREE_OURSELVES_FROM_THE_PATTERNS_THAT_PREVENT_US_FROM_BEING_HAPPY_IN_LOVE%22\"><\/span><span>FREE Webinar \n\"HOW TO FREE OURSELVES FROM THE PATTERNS THAT PREVENT US FROM BEING HAPPY IN LOVE?\"<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-456c25d elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"456c25d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" 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You can unsubscribe at any time. Please read my<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/datenschutzbestimmungen\/\">privacy policy (german only)<\/a>, to see how I process the data.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-44c67b08 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"44c67b08\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-1a4a948\" data-id=\"1a4a948\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-bff33ac elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"bff33ac\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Going_Further\"><\/span>Going Further<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5a49ecd9 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"5a49ecd9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If you want to deepen the subject and identify your own love patterns, you have <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/livre-souvrir-a-lamour-et-si-la-solution-se-trouvait-du-cote-du-nerf-vague\/\">my book<\/a> <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/livre-souvrir-a-lamour-et-si-la-solution-se-trouvait-du-cote-du-nerf-vague\/\">Opening up to love<\/a>, available in all bookstores.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">And if you want to do the work on your love patterns through the body and transform your love life, there&#8217;s the <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/en\/opening-up-to-love\/\">Opening up to love<\/a> program. You can take the <strong>Day of the Past<\/strong> option, a day of <strong>Somatic Deprogramming<\/strong>: a psycho-corporal work to deprogram nervous system automatisms and establish new relational reflexes.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f819a2b elementor-align-center elementor-mobile-align-center elementor-widget elementor-widget-button\" data-id=\"f819a2b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"button.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-button-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-button elementor-button-link elementor-size-md\" href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/en\/opening-up-to-love\/\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-content-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span class=\"elementor-button-text\">Opening up to 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elementor-element elementor-element-5efcedbe elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"5efcedbe\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-1fb2ab0f\" data-id=\"1fb2ab0f\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-33f9f0ea elementor-invisible elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"33f9f0ea\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;_animation&quot;:&quot;fadeInLeft&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\">Sandy Kaufmann\n<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9a21610 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"9a21610\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"color: #000000; font-size: large;\"><span style=\"caret-color: #000000;\">is a somatic therapist and coach, based in Switzerland. She is the author of two books published by \u00c9ditions Eyrolles and has accompanied more than 600 people. She is the creator of the Somatic Deprogramming method and hosts the podcast &#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/en\/blog\/\">S&#8217;ouvrir \u00e0 l&#8217;amour<\/a>&#8220;, ranked in the French top 50 in the relationships category.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-3828a11\" data-id=\"3828a11\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-a54074e elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-min-height elementor-section-items-stretch elementor-section-content-middle elementor-section-height-default\" 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