{"id":27017,"date":"2020-07-24T13:59:33","date_gmt":"2020-07-24T13:59:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/how-a-man-falls-in-love\/"},"modified":"2025-10-05T03:24:28","modified_gmt":"2025-10-05T03:24:28","slug":"how-a-man-falls-in-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/en\/how-a-man-falls-in-love\/","title":{"rendered":"How a man falls in love"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t
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You may have asked yourself what makes a man feel attracted to a woman and fall in love. You would like to know how to really seduce a man, be a real femme fatale and feel irresistible to him, so that your partner commits.<\/p>\n

And you may think that the phenomenon of falling in love is the same for a man or a woman.<\/p>\n

Well, it’s not.<\/p>\n

There’s a chemistry of attraction. Biologist Dawn Maslar<\/a> studied how the brain falls in love and found big differences between men and women. She calls it the neuroscience of dating.<\/p>\n

This article summarizes the main points of her research. I interviewed Dawn Maslar for my coaching<\/a>.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t

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The only reason you are attracted to a particular man or he’s attracted to you is because your reptilian brain releases a neurotransmitter called norepinephrine, which reduces your fear or anxiety and encourages you to approach the other person. Physically, you feel the effect of this neurotransmitter when your heart beats faster, you may sweat more, your hands may get moist, and you may feel a kind of inner excitement.<\/p>\n

Your rational brain is shut down during this phase.<\/p>\n

What determines who you’re attracted to?<\/p>\n

Your reptilian brain uses the following principles to select your partner:<\/p>\n

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      • The principle of similarities. You will unconsciously look for a person who is similar to your relatives, father or mother, or other important people in your life, to calm the fear and insecurity that are inevitable in this phase of seduction. So you are attracted to the person who can bring you the love you think you need, the love you think you deserve, and the love you give to yourself. These beliefs about love, you have not imagined them alone, they have arisen in your childhood, with your parents or in your relationship with other people.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

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