{"id":1211108,"date":"2026-09-30T13:45:38","date_gmt":"2026-09-30T13:45:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/?p=1211108"},"modified":"2026-09-30T14:03:59","modified_gmt":"2026-09-30T14:03:59","slug":"124-how-to-seduce-and-approach-a-guy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/en\/124-how-to-seduce-and-approach-a-guy\/","title":{"rendered":"124. How to Seduce and Approach a Guy?"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"1211108\" class=\"elementor elementor-1211108 elementor-31164\" data-elementor-post-type=\"post\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-425c4126 elementor-section-content-top elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-min-height elementor-section-items-bottom elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"425c4126\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-78efbdf6\" data-id=\"78efbdf6\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4a0604d8 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"4a0604d8\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-xl\">How to seduce a man and approach him?&lt;<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-3121797e elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"3121797e\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-7360bdfb\" data-id=\"7360bdfb\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-779e9c38 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"779e9c38\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n<p>You feel awkward in your approach to flirting.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;d like to learn how to seduce a man, get past your shyness and have the courage to approach him.<\/p>\n<p>You&#8217;ve heard a lot of seduction advice from other love coaches and you feel like you need to know the codes of seduction for it to work.<\/p>\n<p>You wonder if it&#8217;s better to let men approach you as a woman?<\/p>\n<p>Here I give you a few tips to invite you to put things into perspective. And from the feedback of the 600 people I&#8217;ve accompanied, it works!<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8ad7fa4 elementor-hidden-desktop elementor-hidden-tablet elementor-hidden-mobile elementor-widget elementor-widget-html\" data-id=\"8ad7fa4\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"html.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<iframe name=\"Ausha Podcast Player\" frameborder=\"0\" loading=\"lazy\" id=\"ausha-cnoq\" height=\"220\" style=\"border: none; width:100%; height:220px\" src=\"https:\/\/player.ausha.co\/?showId=bjPkYiPMPlqo&color=%23d13523&podcastId=B1O8PflMMJlA&v=3&playerId=ausha-cnoq\"><\/iframe><script src=\"https:\/\/player.ausha.co\/ausha-player.js\"><\/script>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6f6f0a7 elementor-widget elementor-widget-video\" data-id=\"6f6f0a7\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;youtube_url&quot;:&quot;https:\\\/\\\/youtu.be\\\/_5Z5IVQlwHw&quot;,&quot;video_type&quot;:&quot;youtube&quot;,&quot;controls&quot;:&quot;yes&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"video.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-wrapper elementor-open-inline\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-video\"><\/div>\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-425e003 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"425e003\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Why_You_Shouldnt_Play_a_Role_in_Seduction\"><\/span>Why You Shouldn&#8217;t Play a Role in Seduction<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><p>When I read the recommendations of some love coaches who advise their female clients, in order to seduce their potential partners, to show how exciting and unconventional their life is, encouraging them to surprise their man at every new date, I just want to explode.<\/p><p>Firstly, <strong>why is it up to the woman to prove to the man that she&#8217;s worthy of his attention, worthy of his love, by playing a role that isn&#8217;t who she is?<br \/>Why this pressure to have to make an effort to be loved?<br \/>Why this implication that ultimately just being yourself in love isn&#8217;t enough?<\/strong><br \/>Would you follow this advice to make friends?<\/p><p>No, right?<\/p><p>Well, it&#8217;s the same thing in love.<\/p><p>Not only is this behavior unsustainable over time, but it&#8217;s the best way to enter a relationship with someone who isn&#8217;t right for you, eventually leading to a breakup and suffering.<\/p><p><strong>Because yes, this man may be charmed by these unconventional gestures, these surprises, but he&#8217;ll have no idea who you really are.<\/strong><\/p><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Let_Go_of_Your_Preconceptions_About_Seduction\"><\/span>Let Go of Your Preconceptions About Seduction<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"We_All_Have_a_Preconceived_Image_of_What_a_Woman_Should_Do_to_Seduce\"><\/span>We All Have a Preconceived Image of What a Woman Should Do to Seduce:<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><ul><li>Is it <strong>transactional<\/strong>: if the man shows his interest, do I have to give him something in return?<\/li><li>Are you afraid of <strong>coming across as a flirt<\/strong>?<\/li><li>Do you think <strong>you need a certain attitude,<\/strong> a certain way of dressing, a certain look?<\/li><li>Is it <strong>the possibility of being rejected<\/strong> that&#8217;s holding you back?<\/li><li><strong>What are your negative experiences with seduction<\/strong>: for example I saw my mother, who knew how to seduce, but who ended up with men who didn&#8217;t respect her, so I didn&#8217;t want to seduce because of that. One client had always heard her brothers have purely physical criteria for finding women attractive, so she unconsciously thought she had to play by those rules.<\/li><\/ul><p><strong>By becoming aware of these preconceptions, you&#8217;ll be able to be at peace with your own version of a seductress<\/strong>.<\/p><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Be_Yourself_in_Seduction_You_Have_EVERYTHING_Going_for_You\"><\/span>Be Yourself in Seduction: You Have EVERYTHING Going for You<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><p>No need to change yourself, no need to imagine unconventional and surprising situations, <strong>there&#8217;s nothing more seductive than a woman who fully owns who she is, even if it means having an opinion, a view different from her potential partner&#8217;s.<\/strong><\/p><p>The mistakes we often make are that when we&#8217;ve just met someone, we often try to fit into a mold, to show ourselves in a light by becoming the person we think the other will like.<\/p><p>Because being yourself is your best seduction asset, with your qualities and especially with your flaws, because let&#8217;s admit it, <strong>someone perfect is also deadly boring.<\/strong><\/p><p><strong>If you show yourself as you are<\/strong>, if you show your future partner your world and your passions, <strong>you let him discover a world that&#8217;s totally new to him<\/strong>, since it&#8217;s yours, and it won&#8217;t be hard for you to keep offering him that over time, because these are your personal passions, you&#8217;re not playing a role.<\/p><p>That also means daring to have a different opinion, daring to contradict him, to challenge him, and daring to displease him. And even less <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/pourquoi-les-jeux-de-pouvoir-en-couple-tel-que-le-je-fuis-tu-me-suis-ne-marchent-pas-dans-la-duree\/\">running away so he follows you<\/a>. I assure you men love a woman who has her own opinion, it&#8217;s very sexy.<\/p><p>Let me give you my own example:<\/p><p>When I met my husband, I talked to him about my passion for complementary medicine and personal development. I gave him Feng Shui advice and talked about energy and spirituality. He studied medicine for 2 years, then became a physiotherapist and he&#8217;s totally the opposite of all that, in fact he&#8217;s even an atheist, so spirituality is really not his thing. Hearing me talk about this world makes him laugh and still charms him now, because it&#8217;s the opposite of his world.<\/p><p>So if you&#8217;re girly, a Disney fan and you love stuffed animals, show him your world.<\/p><p>If you&#8217;re a fan of sports, music, travel, show him your world.<\/p><p>Because after all, if he doesn&#8217;t like your world, he&#8217;s simply not right for you.<\/p><p>So for example if humor is one of your qualities, use it, but if it&#8217;s not your strong suit, don&#8217;t try to make a joke to seem interesting, because firstly it might not work, and secondly, it will show.<\/p><h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Get_Him_to_Approach_You\"><\/span>Get Him <strong>to Approach You<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><p>The simplest way is to encourage the man to come approach you rather than you approaching him. And it&#8217;s even better for making him fall in love (I explain why in <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/29-le-processus-de-tomber-amoureux\/\">episode 29 The process of falling in love<\/a>).<\/p><p>And for him to dare approach you, he needs to know that you won&#8217;t reject him, so he needs a very clear green light showing that you want him to come over, for example by looking at him and smiling for long enough.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-2c07c35a elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"2c07c35a\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-no\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-1ce64282\" data-id=\"1ce64282\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-20f3ba76 elementor-section-content-bottom elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"20f3ba76\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-35a5d2ba\" data-id=\"35a5d2ba\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3e508810 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"3e508810\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-5f1ceee8 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"5f1ceee8\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-73e89cb8\" data-id=\"73e89cb8\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1a691ee0 elementor-widget elementor-widget-shortcode\" data-id=\"1a691ee0\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"shortcode.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-shortcode\"><script src=https:\/\/sandy-kaufmann.mykajabi.com\/forms\/2149274867\/embed.js><\/script><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5d370431 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"5d370431\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>* Mandatory fields<\/p><p>If you register for this webinar, you will be subscribed to my newsletter and you will be able to receive offers from me. You can unsubscribe at any time. Please read my<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/datenschutzbestimmungen\/\">privacy policy (german only)<\/a>, to see how I process the data.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-ef2b81e elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"ef2b81e\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-1f26480\" data-id=\"1f26480\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4ebf817 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"4ebf817\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Replace_the_Word_Seduce_with_Share\"><\/span>Replace the Word Seduce with Share<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Approaching a guy concretely comes down to <strong>having a conversation with a man.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If you replace the word seduce with share, you realize that all you need to do is start the conversation with something ordinary and let the conversation evolve naturally.<\/p>\n<p>Here are a few ideas to start the conversation that are an alternative to &#8220;do you come here often&#8221;:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>What are you drinking\/eating? I need some inspiration<\/li>\n<li>Can you pass me the\/a\u2026. (salt\/pen\/napkin\/tissue\u2026)?<\/li>\n<li>Do you know what time this place closes?<\/li>\n<li>What do you like about this place?<\/li>\n<li>Make a comment about something weird\/different and ask his opinion: what do you think of this old-school decor?<\/li>\n<li>I can&#8217;t manage to do this, can you help me?<\/li>\n<li>What do you recommend doing here (for example if you&#8217;re hiking\/skiing or traveling)?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>And when you do it, <strong>don&#8217;t do it with the goal of seducing but simply with the goal of getting an answer to your question and starting the conversation<\/strong>. You have nothing to lose.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-a156198 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"a156198\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-d8353e2\" data-id=\"d8353e2\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c316e37 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c316e37\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div>\n<style>\n    h2 {color: #d13523;<br \/>font-size: 34px;}<br \/>  <\/style>\n<\/div>\n<p><span style=\"color: #d13523;\"><span style=\"font-size: 34px;\"><b>If you feel like the block in seduction is bigger than that<\/b><\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>In my group coaching program <a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/en\/opening-up-to-love\/\">Opening up to love<\/a> you address your difficulties in the dating process and also the underlying causes that block you in seduction: self-esteem, acceptance of your body (<a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/77-esther-taillifet-aimer-son-corps\/\">EP 77<\/a>), the image of the seductress, past abuse (<a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/fr\/101-limpact-dun-viol-ou-dattouchements-sur-les-relations-amoureuses\/\">EP 101<\/a>)\u2026. 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class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-30b83a22 elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"30b83a22\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-no\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-7187bf33\" data-id=\"7187bf33\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-58ef55cd elementor-section-content-bottom elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"58ef55cd\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-79d168b6\" data-id=\"79d168b6\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-a2659b3 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"a2659b3\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-2c94fb94 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"2c94fb94\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-4334f505\" data-id=\"4334f505\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-316283c elementor-invisible elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"316283c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;_animation&quot;:&quot;fadeInLeft&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\">Sandy Kaufmann\n<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-331165a8 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"331165a8\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<span style=\"color: #000000; font-size: large;\"><span style=\"caret-color: #000000;\">is a somatic therapist and coach, based in Switzerland. She is the author of two books published by \u00c9ditions Eyrolles and has accompanied more than 600 people. She is the creator of the Somatic Deprogramming method and hosts the podcast &#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/en\/blog\/\">S&#8217;ouvrir \u00e0 l&#8217;amour<\/a>&#8220;, ranked in the French top 50 in the relationships category.<\/span><\/span>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-124323d9\" data-id=\"124323d9\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-075f88d elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-min-height elementor-section-items-stretch elementor-section-content-middle elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"075f88d\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-3172edc\" data-id=\"3172edc\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-9a85155 elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"9a85155\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-20 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-a3c3ba1 elementor-sm-33\" data-id=\"a3c3ba1\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-29e4482 elementor-view-default elementor-widget elementor-widget-icon\" data-id=\"29e4482\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"icon.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-icon-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-icon\" href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sandykaufmanncoaching\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\n\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fab fa-facebook-f\"><\/i>\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-d6d558b elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"d6d558b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/sandykaufmanncoaching\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Facebook<\/a><\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-20 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-637d9d3 elementor-sm-33\" data-id=\"637d9d3\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b360e20 elementor-view-default elementor-widget elementor-widget-icon\" data-id=\"b360e20\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"icon.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-icon-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-icon\" href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/sandykaufmann_lovecoach\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\n\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fab fa-instagram\"><\/i>\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-369f41c elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"369f41c\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/sandykaufmann_lovecoach\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Instagram<\/a><\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-20 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-953cee2 elementor-sm-33\" data-id=\"953cee2\" data-element_type=\"column\" 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class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/channel\/UCK-hi3HapAMgqRQ268Ode-A?\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Youtube<\/a><\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-20 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-18ed8e2 elementor-sm-33\" data-id=\"18ed8e2\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-f71ada9 elementor-view-default elementor-widget elementor-widget-icon\" data-id=\"f71ada9\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"icon.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-icon-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-icon\" href=\"http:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/fr\/podcast\/souvrir-%C3%A0-lamour\/id1594692189?l=en\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\n\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fas fa-podcast\"><\/i>\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-9906d8e elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"9906d8e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><a href=\"http:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/fr\/podcast\/souvrir-%C3%A0-lamour\/id1594692189?l=en\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Apple<\/a><\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-20 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-30c67ab elementor-sm-33\" data-id=\"30c67ab\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e6ada29 elementor-view-default elementor-widget elementor-widget-icon\" data-id=\"e6ada29\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"icon.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-icon-wrapper\">\n\t\t\t<a class=\"elementor-icon\" href=\"http:\/\/open.spotify.com\/show\/5Wz6EFR37F8Yqmzhmy0RMP\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">\n\t\t\t<i aria-hidden=\"true\" class=\"fab fa-spotify\"><\/i>\t\t\t<\/a>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-6e40177 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"6e40177\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p 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