{"id":1180550,"date":"2026-09-10T06:15:25","date_gmt":"2026-09-10T06:15:25","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/?p=1180550"},"modified":"2026-09-10T06:34:23","modified_gmt":"2026-09-10T06:34:23","slug":"170-the-baby-clash-or-the-impact-of-the-arrival-of-a-child-in-the-couple","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/en\/170-the-baby-clash-or-the-impact-of-the-arrival-of-a-child-in-the-couple\/","title":{"rendered":"170. The Baby Clash or the Impact of the Arrival of a Child in the Couple"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t
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\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tYou have just had a child and you have the impression that conflicts are becoming more and more frequent in your couple<\/strong>?<\/span>\nYou have the impression that your relationship has taken a hit since the arrival of baby and<\/strong> you would like to know if it is more than just the effect of fatigue.<\/span>\nYou have already heard of the baby clash<\/strong> and you would like, as Anna Roy says, “to learn to become parents without killing each other”<\/strong>.<\/span>\nYou want to have the keys to understand and put an end to tensions in the couple to fully enjoy your parenthood<\/strong>.<\/span>\nThis episode will help you understand why the baby clash happens, why it is almost normal and that it concerns almost all parents (and I think even more so in our current society) and how to put an end to tensions and overcome this crisis. Having accompanied numerous couples, the tensions around the arrival of a child are among the strongest couple crises, which often lead to divorce.<\/span>\n

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\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\tThe first 3 years of a child’s life are particularly challenging on many levels: a birth and a postpartum that can go more or less well, lack of sleep<\/strong>, the child being sick, breastfeeding, mental load, juggling between childcare arrangements and work, lack of support from close family<\/strong> and also quite simply a little being who needs time, presence and who in the space of 3 years will evolve enormously.<\/span>\nFor the woman, there is the added impact of having experienced a pregnancy, a birth and its postpartum<\/strong> which depending on circumstances can bring major changes in bodily terms (scarring for caesareans, episiotomy\u2026), in hormonal terms, have impacts on her mental health (depression) and physical health (mini burnout linked to exhaustion of her reserves). Personally, I had to reclaim my body which was never the same after my birth and I also felt for a long time the consequences of the caesarean and hormonal disruption on my body, my sleep and my libido.<\/span>\nFor the man, the challenge is also there in the sense that it is not always easy to understand the changes in the woman and what she is experiencing internally, to find his place as a father and husband<\/strong> and everything that this can awaken from his past.<\/span>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t
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