{"id":1334,"date":"2019-02-10T15:21:33","date_gmt":"2019-02-10T15:21:33","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/about-me\/"},"modified":"2025-11-12T15:58:23","modified_gmt":"2025-11-12T15:58:23","slug":"about-me","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/en\/about-me\/","title":{"rendered":"Sandy Kaufmann, love coach &#8211; For a deep love coaching"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"1334\" class=\"elementor elementor-1334 elementor-12\" data-elementor-post-type=\"page\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-14134260 elementor-section-height-min-height elementor-section-content-middle elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-items-middle\" data-id=\"14134260\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-background-overlay\"><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-no\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-1cc83415\" data-id=\"1cc83415\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-background-overlay\"><\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-73b4c99a elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"73b4c99a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Do_you_recognize_yourself\"><\/span><span>Do you recognize yourself<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-210c26ec elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"210c26ec\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"in_these\"><\/span>in these<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-10bbc85f elementor-invisible elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"10bbc85f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;_animation&quot;:&quot;fadeInLeft&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h1 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"patterns\"><\/span>patterns?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h1>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-7caa0c5d\" data-id=\"7caa0c5d\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-35aba981 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"35aba981\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul><li><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #333333;\">Are you <strong>single for a long time<\/strong> or do you have a series of romantic failures?<\/span><\/li><li><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #333333;\">Do you have <strong>trouble trusting the men<\/strong> you meet because of your past experiences?<\/span><\/li><li><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #333333;\">Are you tired of not finding the \u00ab right \u00bb person?<\/span><\/li><li><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #333333;\">Would you like to understand why your love stories always end badly?<br \/><\/span><\/li><li><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #333333;\">Do you feel like you&#8217;re always <strong>repeating the same love patterns<\/strong>?<br \/><\/span><\/li><li><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #333333;\">You are in a relationship but your <strong>partner does not commit<\/strong> or treat you the way you want?<br \/><\/span><\/li><li><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #333333;\">Are you afraid to open yourself to love or to risk suffering again, after some disappointments in love?<br \/><\/span><\/li><li><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #333333;\">You are <strong>fed up with dating sites<\/strong>, dates organized by friends, and feel marginalized when seeing others build their lives?<\/span><\/li><\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-6cdccfea elementor-section-content-top elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-min-height elementor-section-items-bottom elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"6cdccfea\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-2dfece93\" data-id=\"2dfece93\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-273930b6 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"273930b6\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-xl\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"You_have_already_tried_everything_to_be_less_demanding_to_be_more_demanding_the_%C2%AB_I_run_away_from_you_catch_me_%C2%BB_read_books_on_personal_development_done_numerous_psychotherapy_sessions%E2%80%A6_but_you_have_not_obtained_concrete_or_lasting_results\"><\/span>You have already tried everything: <br>to be less demanding, to be more demanding, <br>the \u00ab I run away from you, catch me \u00bb, <br>read books on personal development, <br>done numerous psychotherapy sessions\u2026<br>but you have not obtained concrete or lasting results.<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-0790ed7 elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"0790ed7\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-no\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-f515f64\" data-id=\"f515f64\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-2f6bb75 elementor-section-content-bottom elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"2f6bb75\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-a0c000e\" data-id=\"a0c000e\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-826388f elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"826388f\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-7591a8a elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"7591a8a\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-aac2dfd\" data-id=\"aac2dfd\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-eb32a91 elementor-invisible elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"eb32a91\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;_animation&quot;:&quot;fadeInLeft&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\">Love <br>affairs,<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1056198 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"1056198\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"I_know_them_very_well\"><\/span>I know them very well:<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b9a443e elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"b9a443e\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>I was accumulating sentimental failures with men who didn&#8217;t want to commit and were cheating on me.<\/p><p>I tried to change my behaviour, I tried several methods including psychotherapy, read lots of self-help books, I kept repeating the same patterns.<\/p><p>Until one day, I found the approach that transformed my love life.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-75a331f\" data-id=\"75a331f\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-326933c elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"326933c\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-no\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-71696e5\" data-id=\"71696e5\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-63221d6 elementor-section-content-bottom elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"63221d6\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-ff3c6f4\" data-id=\"ff3c6f4\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-e11e661 elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"e11e661\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-a96220e elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"a96220e\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-dea7c6e\" data-id=\"dea7c6e\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-bf6b8dc elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"bf6b8dc\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\">I help you<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-710ba63 elementor-invisible elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"710ba63\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;_animation&quot;:&quot;fadeInLeft&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\">to be happy <br>in Love<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-109fa37\" data-id=\"109fa37\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-5ec5f51 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"5ec5f51\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-fef5293 elementor-section-height-min-height elementor-section-content-middle elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-items-middle\" data-id=\"fef5293\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-no\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-31f92039\" data-id=\"31f92039\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-51aeceee elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"51aeceee\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Imagine\"><\/span>Imagine<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-2e3ebb22 elementor-invisible elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"2e3ebb22\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;_animation&quot;:&quot;fadeInLeft&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h1 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"you_too\"><\/span>you too<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h1>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-5ac55372\" data-id=\"5ac55372\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-1cdb9910 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"1cdb9910\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul><li><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #333333;\">You <strong>love yourself deeply as you are<\/strong> with your strengths, your weaknesses, and your vulnerabilities in your current life situation.<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-size: 18px;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #333333; letter-spacing: -0.3px;\">You regain <strong>confidence in yourself<\/strong>, you become aware of your value, reconcile yourself with your feminine and the power to be a woman.<\/span><\/li><li><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #333333;\">You let <strong>Love<\/strong> into your life again.<\/span><\/li><li><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #333333;\">You have more <strong>emotional serenity<\/strong>, whatever the external circumstances may be.<\/span><\/li><li><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #333333;\">You stop reproducing the same <strong>love patterns<\/strong> over and over again.<\/span><\/li><li><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #333333;\">You finally meet the right person who wants to get involved with you to <strong>build the life you&#8217;ve been dreaming of for a long time<\/strong>.<br \/><\/span><\/li><li><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #333333;\">You have a fulfilled, balanced relationship based on respect and <strong>mutual commitment<\/strong>.<br \/><\/span><\/li><li><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #333333;\">You come out of a <strong>difficult phase<\/strong>: long-term celibacy, crisis in the couple, separation, divorce.<br \/><\/span><\/li><\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-3083d44b elementor-section-height-min-height elementor-section-content-middle elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-items-middle\" data-id=\"3083d44b\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-no\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-4dd673ab\" data-id=\"4dd673ab\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4b7522ae elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"4b7522ae\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Thats_where\"><\/span>That's where<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-3fdf3c58 elementor-invisible elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"3fdf3c58\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;_animation&quot;:&quot;fadeInLeft&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h1 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"I_can_help_you\"><\/span>I can help you<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h1>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-3608b2d9\" data-id=\"3608b2d9\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-5faed06a elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"5faed06a\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #333333;\"><b>And, that goes through the physical body first.<\/b><\/span><br \/><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #333333;\"><br \/>The first step is to heal from your past by deprogramming the wounds of your past at the body level. <\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #333333;\">This work is extremely important because it will change your automatisms in Love and avoid you from being always attracted to the wrong person (PS. there is no &#8220;wrong&#8221; person from my personal point of view) and repeat the same love patterns that make you suffer.<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #333333;\">The second step consists in learning new tools that will allow you to improve your relationship with yourself and with others in total autonomy: learning to make your demands, setting your limits, learning to be in a relationship without forgetting yourself, managing conflicts and crises, learning emotional independence, making your partner engage in the relationship\u2026<\/span><\/p><p><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #333333;\">Because if we cannot control the actions or statements of our partner, we can keep control of our happiness in Love by deciding how they affect us and how we decide to react.<\/span><\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-ced789b elementor-section-full_width elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"ced789b\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-no\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-65168df\" data-id=\"65168df\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-ec02a67 elementor-section-content-bottom elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"ec02a67\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-835b9a1\" data-id=\"835b9a1\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-54f6aac elementor-widget elementor-widget-spacer\" data-id=\"54f6aac\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"spacer.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-spacer-inner\"><\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-inner-section elementor-element elementor-element-c40391f elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default\" data-id=\"c40391f\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-default\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-inner-column elementor-element elementor-element-040c5cd\" data-id=\"040c5cd\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4ae472d elementor-invisible elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"4ae472d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;_animation&quot;:&quot;fadeInLeft&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<p class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\">For you<\/p>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-b95e279 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"b95e279\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h2 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Webinar_How_a_wound_from_the_past_is_created\"><\/span><span>Webinar How a wound from the past is created? <\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-0161870 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"0161870\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<p>Subscribe now to my newsletter and receive the replay of the webinar how a wound 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You can unsubscribe at any time. Please read my<br \/><a href=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/datenschutzbestimmungen\/\">privacy policy (german only)<\/a>, to see how I process the data.<\/p>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-60c4c16b elementor-section-height-min-height elementor-section-content-middle elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-items-middle\" data-id=\"60c4c16b\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-no\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-205735c5\" data-id=\"205735c5\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-22914594 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"22914594\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"My\"><\/span>My <span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-4c3d16c7 elementor-invisible elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"4c3d16c7\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;_animation&quot;:&quot;fadeInLeft&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h1 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Journey\"><\/span>Journey<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h1>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-6b62f57d\" data-id=\"6b62f57d\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-158faa46 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"158faa46\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul>\n<li style=\"\"><font color=\"#333333\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px;\">Introduction to the integration of archaic reflexes, Lucas Bourguignon (2 days)<\/span><\/font><\/li><li style=\"font-size: 15px;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #333333;\">Introduction Somatic Experiencing (2 days)<\/span><\/li><li style=\"font-size: 15px;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #333333;\">Certificate in traumatic stress from the Trauma Research Foundation de Bessel Van der Kolk ( 7 months)&nbsp;<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-size: 15px;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #333333;\">Certified Breathwork coach ( Breath Masters training of Brian Kelly, 3 months)<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #333333;\">Certification as a mental coach at the IPC Academy and the Life Coach School ( 6 months).<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #333333;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px;\">Training in Etiopsychologie ( 3 years, 550 hours+100h certified practice),&nbsp;Anatomy-Pathology (150 hours),&nbsp;<\/span><\/span><a style=\"color: #333333; font-size: 20px;\" href=\"https:\/\/www.hypnobirthing-schweiz.ch\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Hypnobirthing<\/a><span style=\"color: #333333;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px;\"> and <\/span><\/span><a style=\"color: #333333; font-size: 20px;\" href=\"http:\/\/www.watpomassage.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">traditionnal Thai-Massage<\/a><span style=\"color: #333333;\"><span style=\"font-size: 20px;\">.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #333333;\">Other education: <a href=\"https:\/\/siyli.org\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">SIY<\/a> Mindfulness Training<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #333333;\"><span style=\"caret-color: #333333; font-size: 20px;\">I learned the Thai belly massage that allows me to bring out the surplus of emotions accumulated in the body since we were born.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #333333;\"><span style=\"caret-color: #333333; font-size: 20px;\">I discovered kundalini yoga in 2018 and I am amazed by its impact on hormones and energy. I am currently training to become a kundalini yoga teacher.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #333333;\"><span style=\"caret-color: #333333; font-size: 20px;\">I am a French native speaker, speak German, English, Spanish and understand Swiss-German.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #333333;\"><span style=\"caret-color: #333333; font-size: 20px;\">My other passions are family, friends, travelling, sports and cooking.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"color: #333333;\"><span style=\"caret-color: #333333; font-size: 20px;\">My professional life before: Master&#8217;s degree in Business Administration at the University of HEC Lausanne and 18 years of experience as Product Manager&nbsp;<br><\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-8b5a8d1 elementor-widget elementor-widget-image\" data-id=\"8b5a8d1\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"image.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<img decoding=\"async\" width=\"150\" height=\"150\" src=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/LCS_Certified_Coach_Seal_640px-150x150.png\" class=\"attachment-thumbnail size-thumbnail wp-image-37528\" alt=\"Life Coach School Brooke Castillo\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/LCS_Certified_Coach_Seal_640px-150x150.png 150w, https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/LCS_Certified_Coach_Seal_640px-300x300.png 300w, https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/LCS_Certified_Coach_Seal_640px-600x600.png 600w, https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/LCS_Certified_Coach_Seal_640px-100x100.png 100w, https:\/\/sandykaufmann.ch\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/LCS_Certified_Coach_Seal_640px.png 640w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 150px) 100vw, 150px\" \/>\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-6223794c elementor-section-height-min-height elementor-section-content-middle elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-items-middle\" data-id=\"6223794c\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-no\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-10f2f22b\" data-id=\"10f2f22b\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\" data-settings=\"{&quot;background_background&quot;:&quot;classic&quot;}\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-58c1c197 elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"58c1c197\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"10_facts\"><\/span>10 facts <span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7995843b elementor-invisible elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"7995843b\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-settings=\"{&quot;_animation&quot;:&quot;fadeInLeft&quot;}\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h1 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-large\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"about_me\"><\/span>about me<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h1>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-50 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-4996033\" data-id=\"4996033\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-39ba6245 elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"39ba6245\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<ul><li><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #333333;\">I am a melting pot: \u00bc Armenian, \u00bc Italian and 1\/2 French.<\/span><\/li><li><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #333333;\">I have travelled in every continent, and during each trip I am moved by the kindness of people who have 300 times less than I and who share everything they have. When I travelled for a month in India, the Indian families were so concerned for me that they invited me to eat with them all the time. Some of them even took me to my next destination to make sure I was safe.<\/span><\/li><li><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #333333;\">I hate ironing my clothes yet love ironed clothes (thank goodness for my master&#8217;s degree in negotiation!)<\/span><\/li><li><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #333333;\">I am the queen of the dishwasher tetris (fill your dishwasher to the maximum) to my husband&#8217;s great despair.<\/span><\/li><li><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #333333;\">I managed to arrive in Berlin on a Gothic evening in a chick-yellow dress because I thought it was the entrance to a salsa evening.<\/span><\/li><li><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #333333;\">I used to have a lot of body complex\u2019s (my sporty legs that had made me remarks like you have Roberto Carlos&#8217; legs) and doubted my femininity and power until a Brazilian friend told me: &#8220;My darling, it&#8217;s normal if you don&#8217;t see that guys like you, they turn around behind you.\u201d Then I went to Brazil to my friend&#8217;s wedding where the women were closer to my figure and I understood thanks to my friend that there are several types of beauty, several femininities and you just have to fully embody yours.<\/span><\/li><li><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #333333;\">I met my husband on the ski slopes in Zermatt when I was the one who had organized the weekend and knew all the guests. A friend withdrew at the last minute and he filled the vacant spot. The craziest thing is that I had &#8220;planned&#8221; my vision board: I was preparing a mountain race at the time and I had put the picture of Viktor R\u00f6thling welcoming a runner to the finish line. 8 months after our meeting, my husband was indeed waiting for me at the finish line of my race.<\/span><\/li><li><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #333333;\">At 32 years old, I ran a 31 km race with 3000m of altitude difference to overcome my belief that I was not athletic. And there I discovered the power of mental training and the incredible power of the human body.<\/span><\/li><li><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #333333;\">I have moments when I feel anxious: am I a good mother? am I serving my clients well? will my relationship last? In those moments I know I&#8217;ve crossed my limit, that I have to slow down and take a break.<\/span><\/li><li><span style=\"font-size: 20px; color: #333333;\">I have a temperament, educational principles that are quite opposed to my husband. This requires a lot of dialogue, an understanding of the other&#8217;s perspective. 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